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"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow

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Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 15:27

Inspired by this completely sane and not at all unhinged post by Brianna Wu about UK terfs, I just wanted to say a massive thank you to all the "dreadful middle-aged women" who have pushed back on trans ideology and have continued to say "No" to middle-aged men like Brianna/John.

I'm a few years off being officially a middle-aged woman but I hope to be just as dreadful when I get there. You're all an inspiration. 🙂

"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow
"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow
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1984Now · 25/05/2026 19:05

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 18:59

You can filter live video these days.

Excuse my French, but Zut Alors!
You mean as I'm watching Bari and Batya talk to what appears to be a twenty-something that might need ID to be served at Wetherspoons, the truth is more like the angry older man ranting in the corner of the pub.
We really are in trouble...

lornad00m · 25/05/2026 19:09

John's/Brianna's aye been a prick. It's an awfy job when we say 'naw' tae men. 🙄 'Allegedly' it's literal genocide.

Thank god for British middle-aged women.

Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 19:13

1984Now · 25/05/2026 19:05

Excuse my French, but Zut Alors!
You mean as I'm watching Bari and Batya talk to what appears to be a twenty-something that might need ID to be served at Wetherspoons, the truth is more like the angry older man ranting in the corner of the pub.
We really are in trouble...

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He's also had a lot of surgery, including facial feminisation on his face/skull, so he's basically had a face lift which will mean he may appear to look younger at first glance in more recent videos compared to older videos/photos.

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DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 19:15

1984Now · 25/05/2026 19:05

Excuse my French, but Zut Alors!
You mean as I'm watching Bari and Batya talk to what appears to be a twenty-something that might need ID to be served at Wetherspoons, the truth is more like the angry older man ranting in the corner of the pub.
We really are in trouble...

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Yep, I’m afraid so. Some of the paid filters are really good too! The cheaper ones often fail and reveal a person’s real face but the better ones are pretty reliable.

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 19:16

1984Now · 25/05/2026 18:47

I'm completely confused by the images here.
In a fair number of photos, and including video on recent podcasts (with Bari Weiss and Batya Ungar-Sargon), Wu looks quite young.
But on stills from FB, stage photos, he looks literally 30 years older.
This surely can't all be filters, especially real time podcast video!

I've not seen many images and no videos at all, but at almost 49 he is definitely not quite young.

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 19:17

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 18:59

You can filter live video these days.

Gosh, I didn't know that. Explains a lot.

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 19:21

I must add that I don’t know if he uses live filters because I’ve never watched anything with him on, but it is possible.

Mcdhotchoc · 25/05/2026 19:27

Reporting for duty as a dreadful middle aged women from the UK.
Trans rights ain't the same as Womens rights. Trans rights are not more important than Womens rights.

NotMyRealAccount · 25/05/2026 19:28

The existence of us Dreadful Middle-Aged Women sends chaps like Brianna into a rage. We're old enough not to care, most of us have raised children through both the toddler stage and the teenager stage so we've seen the entire range of bad behaviour before and come through it, we're sharp enough to recognise bullshit from a long way off, and we're young enough to expect to live long enough to see gender ideology going down the pan and tell the tale.

1984Now · 25/05/2026 19:37

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 19:21

I must add that I don’t know if he uses live filters because I’ve never watched anything with him on, but it is possible.

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I genuinely can't reconcile I'm looking at the same person from the photo at the top of this thread compared with video off podcasts from within the last year.

DustyWindowsills · 25/05/2026 19:45

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 16:55

What's the crossover point from dreadful middle-aged woman to dreadful old woman? Just asking for a friend.

Somewhere between the Senior Rail Card and the state pension. I'm in that zone now. Some of the best people I know are dreadful old women in their 70s. I aspire to be like them.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 25/05/2026 19:53

1984Now · 25/05/2026 19:37

I genuinely can't reconcile I'm looking at the same person from the photo at the top of this thread compared with video off podcasts from within the last year.

It's why the Aunt Lydia's who visit to scold us are always saying "you can't tell" - it's because they're looking at heavily filtered photos and videos

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 25/05/2026 19:58

being a dreadful middle aged woman is great. I smile all the time in public now and men either don't assume I want to shag them or just straight up can't see me. I spent 25 years cultivating bitchy resting face and now I can smile again!

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 25/05/2026 20:02

Isn't he the one that got caught sitting on a comically low chair during an /argument/debate/ sorry can't remember but as it's mumsnet I'd bet my gargoyles someone will know? Nothing covering the table, he looked like a very silly tall man indeed..

Surely it can't be only dreadful middle aged women who Know About The Importance Of Tablecloths?

Cailleach1 · 25/05/2026 20:19

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 18:36

49?? and he thinks 'middle-aged' is an insult? What a silly man.

Harry Enfield and Paul Whitehouse had ‘The Old Gits’ sketches. When do men enter ‘old git’ territory, I wonder? I suppose that can now be called the dreadful old gits.

1984Now · 25/05/2026 20:25

Looks like it's actually significant cosmetic surgery/sculpting. As a technique based on its own merits, he really did find a seriously impressive surgeon.

Cailleach1 · 25/05/2026 20:27

Not that the old bit is anything to object to. Quite the opposite; we all hope to have the luck to get older, and with luck wiser.

He could probably suit the ‘git’ bit straightaway, though.

EdithStourton · 25/05/2026 21:02

I'm very proud to be a Dreadful Middle-Aged Woman.

Give my a few years and I'll be a Truly Terrifying Old Woman.

I'm so looking forward to it.

Freda69 · 25/05/2026 21:07

I’m very happy to be a dreadful old women who grew up reading Germaine Greer. I have a full house of State Pension, Senior Railcard and a Bus Pass and I don’t tolerate f*ckwits any more.

viques · 25/05/2026 21:08

GreyskySexRealistsky · 25/05/2026 15:45

Anyway, it all boils down to the fact that HE'LL NEVER BE ONE

Oh you are sooooo mean, rubbing it in like that. Typical grown up mean girl attitude which I applaud . ❤🎉👏

JuliettaCaeser · 25/05/2026 21:11

Hate to break it to them but the spice girls
now ARE middle aged women! I know because I saw one do a dj set and she is 4 months older than me and I am 51!!

viques · 25/05/2026 21:15

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 18:36

49?? and he thinks 'middle-aged' is an insult? What a silly man.

But it’s because he is a man that he thinks middle aged is an insult. Inside his male head he is stilla man , and in his male entitled confusion he is just coming into his prime, a silver fox, a Clooney, a Pitt, a Gere, a Redford.

Poor thing , imagine catching sight of yourself in a mirror, thinking you are a sex god but realising you have backed the wrong horse and are actually the thing you profess to despise!

MissFancyDay · 25/05/2026 21:28

Well, living on Terf Island and watching what so many of my fellow dreadful (late) middle aged women have achieved lately for our sex, really wonderful achievements, has made me feel so much better about being middle aged. I love being dreadful.

We are strong, we can achieve anything we put our minds to, and people listen.

We are a force to be reckoned with, and they know it.

MohavePenstemon · 25/05/2026 21:51

Ah, good to have the continued support of self-described "former gay man" Brianna Wu. In solidarity, I'll share his amazing, not-at-all-a-fetish art :)

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ElenOfTheWays · 26/05/2026 05:12

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:33

I've just turned 80. You have no idea how dreadful I am. There are no limits... 😁

Good to know 😊

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