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"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow

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Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 15:27

Inspired by this completely sane and not at all unhinged post by Brianna Wu about UK terfs, I just wanted to say a massive thank you to all the "dreadful middle-aged women" who have pushed back on trans ideology and have continued to say "No" to middle-aged men like Brianna/John.

I'm a few years off being officially a middle-aged woman but I hope to be just as dreadful when I get there. You're all an inspiration. 🙂

"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow
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Meadowfinch · 25/05/2026 18:03

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 16:53

Sorry to break it to him but it’s no longer just dreadful old women. I work with young people and they really aren’t buying the whole gender thing anymore on the whole.

When the trans topic comes up, my ds17 rolls his eyes and says "oh, pleeease".

He lost interest about three years ago, along with most of his mates.

Igneococcus · 25/05/2026 18:04

Igmum · 25/05/2026 17:54

Could you join us in being dreadful Iggy?

I happily join you being dreadful, thanks for inviting me, Ig.

Igneococcus · 25/05/2026 18:06

Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 18:01

I'm sure you'd be welcome onboard Boudicca's chariot, plenty of space for dreadfully enraged women. Much better than the Spice Girls' bus.

Oh yes, Boudicca's chariot is much better than the Spice Girl's bus although I'm still feeling a bit tender after spending a night stranded at an airport (thank you KLM), not easy while being middle-aged.

Davros · 25/05/2026 18:28

Am I a dreadful dinosaur now? Goodo

Waitingfordoggo · 25/05/2026 18:33

Another dreadful middle-aged woman checking in. I’m also mum to a dreadful very young woman who shares my dreadful views.

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:33

ElenOfTheWays · 25/05/2026 16:11

I'm twice as dreadful as I was yesterday but only half as dreadful as I'll be tomorrow. It's a process I can't wait to see how dreadful I'll be by my 70s.

I've just turned 80. You have no idea how dreadful I am. There are no limits... 😁

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/05/2026 18:34

So funny 🤣 cry harder John

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:35

Heggettypeg · 25/05/2026 16:47

He's young. He'll learn.

He's nearly 49 and a dreadful middle-aged man.

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 18:36

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:35

He's nearly 49 and a dreadful middle-aged man.

49?? and he thinks 'middle-aged' is an insult? What a silly man.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 25/05/2026 18:40

He’s not wrong, though. It is indeed, nothing to do with trans.

As a dreadful middle aged woman, I’m pleased to stand up for the rights of other women- including the sweet ones, the stroppy ones, the scared ones and the ones I don’t much like.

It’s bloody brilliant being no longer young. I’m happy to be mutton 😅

Magpiecomplex · 25/05/2026 18:41

Oh, am I dreadful? Excellent, that'll do nicely!

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:42

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 18:36

49?? and he thinks 'middle-aged' is an insult? What a silly man.

His profile picture on X is so ridiculously heavily filtered it makes him look like he's in his 20s. The image on his Wikipedia entry tells the truth. He's started to believe his own fiction.

Wearenotborg · 25/05/2026 18:42

Ooh I am awful!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 25/05/2026 18:43

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 18:36

49?? and he thinks 'middle-aged' is an insult? What a silly man.

Maybe he thinks he's still young and appealing? Must be hard to realise that those youngsters look at him and see just another irrelevant old person.

JacknDiane · 25/05/2026 18:43

Johnny gonny fuck off

Jaxhog · 25/05/2026 18:45

Middle aged and proud!!

AlexandraLeaving · 25/05/2026 18:45

Proud to be a “dreadful middle aged woman”. And proud also to be an 80s teenager. We had much better music than the Spice Girls (and arguably better social mobility too).

1984Now · 25/05/2026 18:47

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:42

His profile picture on X is so ridiculously heavily filtered it makes him look like he's in his 20s. The image on his Wikipedia entry tells the truth. He's started to believe his own fiction.

I'm completely confused by the images here.
In a fair number of photos, and including video on recent podcasts (with Bari Weiss and Batya Ungar-Sargon), Wu looks quite young.
But on stills from FB, stage photos, he looks literally 30 years older.
This surely can't all be filters, especially real time podcast video!

5MinuteArgument · 25/05/2026 18:48

Middle-aged is the biggest insult there is to these people. Worse than Nazi. Way worse.

ParmaVioletTea · 25/05/2026 18:50

Brianna Wu is awful. Arrogant, self-centred and egotistical. Very masculine-coded (the less nice bits of masculinity, that is).

I still remember the way that he tried to argue down and humiliate Nina Paley of the sometimes brilliant Heterodorx podcast.

They had invited Wu on, with a view to an open conversation, and Wu treated them with undeserved contempt. Such a huge case of autogynephilia with all the crankiness of a public sexual fetishist.

mrshoho · 25/05/2026 18:51

NotAtMyAge · 25/05/2026 18:35

He's nearly 49 and a dreadful middle-aged man.

Oh but in his head he identifies as a trendy young thing. Dreadfully Deluded bless!

ThreeWordHarpy · 25/05/2026 18:55

I bloody love being middle-aged. I genuinely don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me any more, I’m quite senior at work and also well paid, mortgage paid off, counting down to early retirement.

I am now the embarrassing older woman that had the younger me cringing inside out. Legs a bit fuzzy because I’ve not booked in a wax? No one cares. Stray chin hair grew an inch in one morning and is gleaming in the sun by the afternoon? No one cares. Never been introduced but happy to chat to strangers in the queue? No one cares. Comfy bras cos I just want my bust higher than my navel and under control, I don’t need them hoicked to under my chin any more. Comfy shoes cos, well comfy shoes. It’s great.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 18:57

ThreeWordHarpy · 25/05/2026 18:55

I bloody love being middle-aged. I genuinely don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me any more, I’m quite senior at work and also well paid, mortgage paid off, counting down to early retirement.

I am now the embarrassing older woman that had the younger me cringing inside out. Legs a bit fuzzy because I’ve not booked in a wax? No one cares. Stray chin hair grew an inch in one morning and is gleaming in the sun by the afternoon? No one cares. Never been introduced but happy to chat to strangers in the queue? No one cares. Comfy bras cos I just want my bust higher than my navel and under control, I don’t need them hoicked to under my chin any more. Comfy shoes cos, well comfy shoes. It’s great.

You're my kinda people!

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 18:59

1984Now · 25/05/2026 18:47

I'm completely confused by the images here.
In a fair number of photos, and including video on recent podcasts (with Bari Weiss and Batya Ungar-Sargon), Wu looks quite young.
But on stills from FB, stage photos, he looks literally 30 years older.
This surely can't all be filters, especially real time podcast video!

You can filter live video these days.

Davros · 25/05/2026 19:01

@ThreeWordHarpy let’s go boozer. 👍