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"Dreadful Middle-aged Women" Take a Bow

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Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 15:27

Inspired by this completely sane and not at all unhinged post by Brianna Wu about UK terfs, I just wanted to say a massive thank you to all the "dreadful middle-aged women" who have pushed back on trans ideology and have continued to say "No" to middle-aged men like Brianna/John.

I'm a few years off being officially a middle-aged woman but I hope to be just as dreadful when I get there. You're all an inspiration. 🙂

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/05/2026 16:43

Spice girls I know, this bloke? not so much. 😂

Oldish and proud, of being a TERF. 💚🤍💜🦕

Heggettypeg · 25/05/2026 16:47

He's young. He'll learn.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 16:49

1984Now · 25/05/2026 16:09

Do we file this along the wonderfully sisterhood-inspiring video of Alastair Campbell's dear daughter pontificating on all things "ugly old TERF bags"?

...aaand, there's my next name change!

DreadfulOldWoman · 25/05/2026 16:51

And dreadful old women!

DuaneBarry · 25/05/2026 16:53

Sorry to break it to him but it’s no longer just dreadful old women. I work with young people and they really aren’t buying the whole gender thing anymore on the whole.

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 16:55

What's the crossover point from dreadful middle-aged woman to dreadful old woman? Just asking for a friend.

BridasShieldWall · 25/05/2026 16:55

I still prefer being a whinging little fucker

Hopefulsalmon · 25/05/2026 16:59

Sexist, ageist and stupid all rolled together - keep going, mate you're doing our work for us 🤣

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 17:03

Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 15:27

Inspired by this completely sane and not at all unhinged post by Brianna Wu about UK terfs, I just wanted to say a massive thank you to all the "dreadful middle-aged women" who have pushed back on trans ideology and have continued to say "No" to middle-aged men like Brianna/John.

I'm a few years off being officially a middle-aged woman but I hope to be just as dreadful when I get there. You're all an inspiration. 🙂

We're doing something right then!

Women with life experience, less dependency on men and what men think of them, the confidence of a body getting older, and less patience with fuckwittery, are the biggest barrier there is to those who would love to see an end to safeguarding. Those women have seen relationships fall apart and know about the abusive kind of person at home and work, they've had the time in the workplace to experience the politics and the tedious fuckery, they've raised kids and know damned well when they're being lied to and manipulated, and they're damned if kids and other vulnerable people are going to be exploited, with an actual view to equality instead of a curated, shiny, marketed pile of crap with flags. And British women seem particularly good at this.

Cheers. 🍷

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 17:04

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 16:55

What's the crossover point from dreadful middle-aged woman to dreadful old woman? Just asking for a friend.

I think a purple hat is involved?

Cailleach1 · 25/05/2026 17:05

@1984Now ‘Damn those a Dreadful Middle-aged Women.’

I’m laughing at this. Very Scooby Doo. ‘And we (misogynists who promote a counter factual ideology which disrupts and harms the lives of women and children) would have gotten away with it too, if it wasn’t for you ‘dreadful middle-aged women.

MyDogClive · 25/05/2026 17:10

Isn’t it amazing that while men behaving badly sit around in their pants drinking beer, women behaving disgracefully get shit done?

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 17:11

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 16:55

What's the crossover point from dreadful middle-aged woman to dreadful old woman? Just asking for a friend.

I think it may be at the point when, at the end of a VERY long train journey from Cornwall to London, full of screaming babies, smelly burgers, screeching teenagers, and standing room only from Bristol to Reading, you speak up in your best "I don't f-ing care anymore, I used to run an entire division of fuckwits no older than you" voice and tell said teenagers to "TAKE YOUR RUBBISH WITH YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE, DON'T JUST LEAVE IT FOR THE CLEANERS, WERE YOU ALL BORN IN A BARN?" and everyone in the carriage (sans said teenagers) claps.

1984Now · 25/05/2026 17:11

Cailleach1 · 25/05/2026 17:05

@1984Now ‘Damn those a Dreadful Middle-aged Women.’

I’m laughing at this. Very Scooby Doo. ‘And we (misogynists who promote a counter factual ideology which disrupts and harms the lives of women and children) would have gotten away with it too, if it wasn’t for you ‘dreadful middle-aged women.

Brianna has some real issues in the left/Democrats echo chamber he comes from/inhabits.
Apparently he says he recently offered an olive branch to GCs and this went down terribly with his clan, and he recanted.
Ironically his criticism was for the GCs being inflexible, not his clan for the same.
He has bigger fish to fry with the Gaza/Omnicause implosion in the US.
He's tacking to the pro-Zionist position, which will bring him nothing other than a world of pain.
If anything is rivalling, and maybe going beyond the GI culture wars, it's fealty to anti-Zionism, especially in the US, Wu's home turf.

LazyFoxy · 25/05/2026 17:18

Pathetic
Small wonder he's a fan of heavy filtering. Looking rough JWF
Jealousy gets you nowhere mate

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 17:19

Thanks @BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth, that is an impressive achievement.

1984Now · 25/05/2026 17:28

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 17:11

I think it may be at the point when, at the end of a VERY long train journey from Cornwall to London, full of screaming babies, smelly burgers, screeching teenagers, and standing room only from Bristol to Reading, you speak up in your best "I don't f-ing care anymore, I used to run an entire division of fuckwits no older than you" voice and tell said teenagers to "TAKE YOUR RUBBISH WITH YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE, DON'T JUST LEAVE IT FOR THE CLEANERS, WERE YOU ALL BORN IN A BARN?" and everyone in the carriage (sans said teenagers) claps.

You may be my hero right now.
People really think there is a Litter Fairy that cleans this stuff up magically.
And they're the ones most likely to vote Polanski because they're so ecological minded?

FarriersGirl · 25/05/2026 17:33

Dreadful middle aged woman? That is me < proudly takes a bow > 😀

Igmum · 25/05/2026 17:34

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 16:55

What's the crossover point from dreadful middle-aged woman to dreadful old woman? Just asking for a friend.

I was wondering this too. Am I still middle aged? How far does it stretch?

No problem with the dreadful bit Grin

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 17:35

DontStopMe · 25/05/2026 17:19

Thanks @BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth, that is an impressive achievement.

I was on my last tether by that point, and my loud, "outraged American" voice tends to carry and often startles people into silence. It also probably means I get away with things more easily because people who would normally argue don't know what category to put me in, and their moment passes! 😆

ps. I'm very quiet by American standards, but I can "New York" anyone like the best of them.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/05/2026 17:36

1984Now · 25/05/2026 17:28

You may be my hero right now.
People really think there is a Litter Fairy that cleans this stuff up magically.
And they're the ones most likely to vote Polanski because they're so ecological minded?

Littering and/or general laziness about rubbish should be a hanging offence in my book. Good thing I am not in charge!

Igneococcus · 25/05/2026 17:46

I'm not actually British, not sure where this leaves me.

Igmum · 25/05/2026 17:54

Could you join us in being dreadful Iggy?

MaidMiriam · 25/05/2026 17:59

He's just bitter that he'll never get to enjoy being a dreadful middle aged woman.

Windyoutside · 25/05/2026 18:01

Igneococcus · 25/05/2026 17:46

I'm not actually British, not sure where this leaves me.

I'm sure you'd be welcome onboard Boudicca's chariot, plenty of space for dreadfully enraged women. Much better than the Spice Girls' bus.

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