Pandering to this is so dangerous for society. As illustrated by @Kinsters post highlighting a threat to BP upthread. Whilst I think she's useless at her job, no-one should be subject to such threats for following basic law.
Thinking all these things (e.g. that having to use public toilets that are clearly labelled mixed sex or in line with the reality of your sex is oppression) is delusional mental illness, and a type of delusional mental illness that if indulged places others at risk. The sooner this is recognised the better.
Not only that, far from being 'kind' it's actually very unkind to these men themselves (and the very occasional woman). It's grooming them into abusive behaviours 'give me this or else' 'if this minor inconvenience happens it's literal genocide which violence is a legitimate response to'. It's legitimising extreme violence for the mildest of things not going entirely their way. It's pretending reality doesn't exist. That doesn't work for most people.
The consequences for women are of course worse - as for the TIF who ended up raped within an hour of being 'affirmed' by being put on a male psychiatric ward. An obviously predictable consequence of the truth and reality of the situation.
Pandering to these delusions and demands is EASY not kind. And of course now it's backfiring.
I do think we need to keep threatening legal action and pushing insurance companies to be clear insurance will not cover any losses for organisations that ignore the law. Because unfortunately now the whole of society except for a few islands of sanity (such as FWR) has pretended the Emperor isn't stark bollock naked for fucking years they've made the situation worse.