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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

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impossibletoday · 11/05/2026 06:40

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SirChenjins · 22/05/2026 10:05

@Gretel346

You can answer the question because you know exactly what behaviours are exhibited by men as a sex category and why those behaviours must be kept out of women's spaces - but to name them would challenge your thinking and undermine your belief system, and so you're choosing not to. I would have been surprised if you had - this obfuscation is a familiar pattern of response from people who trample on the rights of women.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 10:08

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 09:49

But the point you are missing is that its contestable that trans women are a safety risk. It wouldn't be the first time a law was unjust because of erroneous public pressure panic campaigns. Of course you can defer to law but that doesn't make its premise true. Civil rights resistance was built on unjust laws.

In any case, this thread is about Australian not UK culture & law with no such broad resistance regarding safeguarding & consent concerns. So enough of the 'colonising'. You don't hold any cards here.

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It is not 'contestable' that male people with a transgender identity are a safety risk. Safety risks are also not the only reason for safeguarding to exclude all male people either.

It is not an acceptable act of civil rights resistance to negate the consent of female people using a female single sex provision. If you believe it is an act of righteousness for a male person to make a conscious choice to negate female people's consent in that way, it really is just another example of how you do not understand safeguarding and consent.

And I do hold 'cards' in the Australian discussion, being an Australian and all. So, no. I am not 'colonising' anything and it is rather offensive to suggest that I am.

The same safeguarding and consent concerns happen across the world, it is not UK centric. It could be said to be female centric. So, examples of how different countries deal with this same situation is important to understand and to work through.

Shedmistress · 22/05/2026 10:39

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 09:49

But the point you are missing is that its contestable that trans women are a safety risk. It wouldn't be the first time a law was unjust because of erroneous public pressure panic campaigns. Of course you can defer to law but that doesn't make its premise true. Civil rights resistance was built on unjust laws.

In any case, this thread is about Australian not UK culture & law with no such broad resistance regarding safeguarding & consent concerns. So enough of the 'colonising'. You don't hold any cards here.

Edited

Men who say they are women are just as much a risk as any other men.

For men who say they are women in prison, 60% of them are in there for sexual offences compared to 20% of men who do not say they are women.

So actually 3 times as much of a risk as other men.

SirChenjins · 22/05/2026 10:49

Shedmistress · 22/05/2026 10:39

Men who say they are women are just as much a risk as any other men.

For men who say they are women in prison, 60% of them are in there for sexual offences compared to 20% of men who do not say they are women.

So actually 3 times as much of a risk as other men.

Exactly this.

I get some people will find that difficult to accept but the stats demonstrate clearly why men as a sex class must kept up of women's spaces (in this respect - there are others obviously).

SinnerBoy · 22/05/2026 10:52

Any argument containing the lie, "Transw are a subset of women" can be discounted in its entirety, in my opinion.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 11:00

Shedmistress · 22/05/2026 10:39

Men who say they are women are just as much a risk as any other men.

For men who say they are women in prison, 60% of them are in there for sexual offences compared to 20% of men who do not say they are women.

So actually 3 times as much of a risk as other men.

I am waiting for these posters to provide us with a detailed logical premise as to why a group of male people, which the prisoner statistics show do not even come close to having the same or lower rate of being convicted for sex offences, will somehow have a lower rate or the same rate of sex offence 'offending' as female people.

There really seems to be something disconnected in how some people wish to try to undermine safeguarding principles. The statement that it is somehow 'contestable' that those male people as a group should be considered to have a risk of committing sex offences higher than that of female people is laughable.

Of course, physical harm is just one aspect taken into consideration for safeguarding decisions.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 11:03

So I see the argument has moved now from being 'far right influence' to trying to invoke colonial influence because the UK labour party has supported the biological definition of female and the need for female single sex provision to be kept segregated by sex.

Emilesgran · 22/05/2026 11:09

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:58

Because the law in your country says so. Not in mine.

What behaviour from men do you think makes it necessary to prevent them from entering women's spaces?

I don't think its necessary to exclude trans women because I don't believe they are a threat to women's safety.

Assuming that is true, what measures would it be reasonable to take to prevent would-be abusers from ordering fake breasts (such as we've seen a couple of alleged TW wearing to work!), putting on a dress and going into female changing rooms to get an eyeful, or worse?

IOW how would one test for the reality of the "transness" as opposed to the femaleness?

ThreeWordHarpy · 22/05/2026 11:32

The conversation has moved on but I thought this might adress some of the “sex recognition is based on gender stereotypes” nonsense.

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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 22/05/2026 13:44

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 22/05/2026 07:34

Quite.

This is about inclusion, access and equality for all - what exactly would you like to happen for the women who cannot use mixed sex spaces?

No answer to this?

Where do we put the women who need a single sex space? Where are their resources?

MassiveWordSalad · 22/05/2026 13:48

If all trans-identifying men had some innate goodness that magically prevented them from ever committing a crime, I would still not want them in the ladies.

Apart from the issues of privacy and dignity, there is no way we can tell the difference between an angelic trans-identifying man and a man who is a sexual predator that only pretends to be trans. Because they’re both men. This is what safeguarding is about.

ThatCyanCat · 22/05/2026 17:31

Just dropping in to express my admiration for everyone who's still got the will to live after dealing with Gretel's interminable shifting goalposts and imaginary predatory pregnant women. You'd think he'd be too busy eradicating poverty to waste our time for a week trying to get men in the ladies', but it seems, as always, he knows which class of humans should be off doing that before they get to do anything else.

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 00:35

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 10:08

It is not 'contestable' that male people with a transgender identity are a safety risk. Safety risks are also not the only reason for safeguarding to exclude all male people either.

It is not an acceptable act of civil rights resistance to negate the consent of female people using a female single sex provision. If you believe it is an act of righteousness for a male person to make a conscious choice to negate female people's consent in that way, it really is just another example of how you do not understand safeguarding and consent.

And I do hold 'cards' in the Australian discussion, being an Australian and all. So, no. I am not 'colonising' anything and it is rather offensive to suggest that I am.

The same safeguarding and consent concerns happen across the world, it is not UK centric. It could be said to be female centric. So, examples of how different countries deal with this same situation is important to understand and to work through.

It is not 'contestable' that male people with a transgender identity are a safety risk

Clearly it is given its legal for trans women to use female public restrooms in many countries & jurisdictions globally including in Europe, Scandinavia, Asia & North America so any tenuous speculation regarding prison data made is obviously not reflective of safety concerns in all of these countries. Again there are no broad movements in them to change laws which is the ultimate barometer of safety concerns.

And I do hold 'cards' in the Australian discussion, being an Australian and all. So, no. I am not 'colonising' anything and it is rather offensive to suggest that I am.

You aren't just advocating for a system to be imposed in Britain but for an imposition of a British system upon the rest of the world which in essence a form of colonisation. Of course this isn't anything new for British arrogance that always seems to end in tears.

Perhaps your time might be better spent on what forces have enabled Britain to be riddled with mismanagement, poverty & crime that have created their burgeoning prison system that's being exploited to push political pet projects home…and abroad rather than deal with the real underlying causes.

In other words, mind your own back yard first….it certainly needs tending.

Helleofabore · 23/05/2026 00:58

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 00:35

It is not 'contestable' that male people with a transgender identity are a safety risk

Clearly it is given its legal for trans women to use female public restrooms in many countries & jurisdictions globally including in Europe, Scandinavia, Asia & North America so any tenuous speculation regarding prison data made is obviously not reflective of safety concerns in all of these countries. Again there are no broad movements in them to change laws which is the ultimate barometer of safety concerns.

And I do hold 'cards' in the Australian discussion, being an Australian and all. So, no. I am not 'colonising' anything and it is rather offensive to suggest that I am.

You aren't just advocating for a system to be imposed in Britain but for an imposition of a British system upon the rest of the world which in essence a form of colonisation. Of course this isn't anything new for British arrogance that always seems to end in tears.

Perhaps your time might be better spent on what forces have enabled Britain to be riddled with mismanagement, poverty & crime that have created their burgeoning prison system that's being exploited to push political pet projects home…and abroad rather than deal with the real underlying causes.

In other words, mind your own back yard first….it certainly needs tending.

Nah mate.

I just want the sex discrimination act to be put back to prioritise sex where sex matters in Australia. And for single sex provisions to be made single sex through law if needed so that all male people are excluded from single sex provisions above the age of children.

Your accusations of my ‘colonisation’ really are irrelevant. As is the accusations of British arrogance in my case.

As to your attempt, yet again, to deflect women’s attention to your very own political priorities, well, that seems to fit that arrogance description well. As does this statement:

In other words, mind your own back yard first….it certainly needs tending.

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 01:05

Helleofabore · 23/05/2026 00:58

Nah mate.

I just want the sex discrimination act to be put back to prioritise sex where sex matters in Australia. And for single sex provisions to be made single sex through law if needed so that all male people are excluded from single sex provisions above the age of children.

Your accusations of my ‘colonisation’ really are irrelevant. As is the accusations of British arrogance in my case.

As to your attempt, yet again, to deflect women’s attention to your very own political priorities, well, that seems to fit that arrogance description well. As does this statement:

In other words, mind your own back yard first….it certainly needs tending.

This issue is clearly a culturally import that was manufactured top down in Britain that's being heavily pushed & funded abroad. That this isn't your personal intention is irrelevant to what's being attempted here which is a colonisation of the cultural & political space of other countries.

Heggettypeg · 23/05/2026 02:07

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 01:05

This issue is clearly a culturally import that was manufactured top down in Britain that's being heavily pushed & funded abroad. That this isn't your personal intention is irrelevant to what's being attempted here which is a colonisation of the cultural & political space of other countries.

It's not Britain you're up against. It's Mother Nature. Sorry.

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 02:31

Heggettypeg · 23/05/2026 02:07

It's not Britain you're up against. It's Mother Nature. Sorry.

Seems 'Mother Nature' doesn't apply globally. Sorry.

And it's exactly because of attitudes like this that Britain is in a shambles. The Tavistock fiasco being blamed on the 'gender bogeyman' rather than an underfunded mismanaged incompetent health system is one of many examples. And it's always the same sort of bigoted bias that obfuscates the underlying causes that prevents real progress. See immigrants being now blamed for Britain being a dysfunctional economic & social basket case.

And they place themselves on highest perch imposing their repeated failed judgements of how other countries should operate? They want to disturb the social cohesion & rights of otherwise peaceful contented countries with their long historical bigotries as some sort of grand model?

Seems somethings never change.

Heggettypeg · 23/05/2026 02:49

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 02:31

Seems 'Mother Nature' doesn't apply globally. Sorry.

And it's exactly because of attitudes like this that Britain is in a shambles. The Tavistock fiasco being blamed on the 'gender bogeyman' rather than an underfunded mismanaged incompetent health system is one of many examples. And it's always the same sort of bigoted bias that obfuscates the underlying causes that prevents real progress. See immigrants being now blamed for Britain being a dysfunctional economic & social basket case.

And they place themselves on highest perch imposing their repeated failed judgements of how other countries should operate? They want to disturb the social cohesion & rights of otherwise peaceful contented countries with their long historical bigotries as some sort of grand model?

Seems somethings never change.

Edited

None of your anti-British spite alters the fact that insisting trans women are women is an eccentric niche belief in the history of the world and is not and has not been shared by the vast majority.
Cultures that traditionally make place for a "third gender" stop short of the final folly and allow people to recognise the difference. The third gender lives "in the manner of a woman" but is a category in its own right, not force-teamed with women against self-evident reality.

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 03:06

Heggettypeg · 23/05/2026 02:49

None of your anti-British spite alters the fact that insisting trans women are women is an eccentric niche belief in the history of the world and is not and has not been shared by the vast majority.
Cultures that traditionally make place for a "third gender" stop short of the final folly and allow people to recognise the difference. The third gender lives "in the manner of a woman" but is a category in its own right, not force-teamed with women against self-evident reality.

It's uncontroversial that the gender critical movement was created in & is substantially strongest in Britain. And there's been a lot speculation of why this phenomena is so captivating there. Hierarchy & class social structures being a long lasting historical cultural feature is probably the culprit in my view.

Ben Elton once was asked why it was he married an Australian rather than a British woman & his reply was British women in his experience were obsessed by class structure so that was one of the reasons.

Interestingly JKRowling made some interesting admissions in her recent Witch Trial podcast where she talked about how much class impacted her at school & college because of the poverty she experienced in her life. And yet now she clings ever so tightly to a hierarchical structure.

It's a funny thing that sometimes the thing that we seek to escape from we perpetuate because of an unconscious learning. I notice this in some immigrants from baltic countries where they wanted to escape authoritarian landscape but their own political views have authoritarian consequences. Learned habits however fought die hard it seems.

ThatBlackCat · 23/05/2026 03:30

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:37

This is beyond silly.

No, it's fact. Male and female skeletal structure are different.

After all, it's how forensics and detectives sex a skeleton of the body of a murdered/missing person. Are you calling that 'beyond silly'? Or have you just realised you've been bested by science, technology and facts so are desperately flailing about?

One look at a body and the height, gait, limb length, hips (or lack of) male jawbone etc all give it away. That is.... SKELETAL STRUCTURE.

Heggettypeg · 23/05/2026 03:30

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 03:06

It's uncontroversial that the gender critical movement was created in & is substantially strongest in Britain. And there's been a lot speculation of why this phenomena is so captivating there. Hierarchy & class social structures being a long lasting historical cultural feature is probably the culprit in my view.

Ben Elton once was asked why it was he married an Australian rather than a British woman & his reply was British women in his experience were obsessed by class structure so that was one of the reasons.

Interestingly JKRowling made some interesting admissions in her recent Witch Trial podcast where she talked about how much class impacted her at school & college because of the poverty she experienced in her life. And yet now she clings ever so tightly to a hierarchical structure.

It's a funny thing that sometimes the thing that we seek to escape from we perpetuate because of an unconscious learning. I notice this in some immigrants from baltic countries where they wanted to escape authoritarian landscape but their own political views have authoritarian consequences. Learned habits however fought die hard it seems.

Edited

What's "hierarchical" about not wanting to share a prison cell with a man? Or not wanting a man doing your rape counselling? Or wanting to be in a lesbian space without a man trying to guilt-trip you into straight sex? Or just wanting a bit of privacy from the male gaze when you change out of scrubs at the end of a nursing shift? Or not wanting children fast-tracked into making life-changing decisions about their bodies before they understand the implications? Your anti-British prejudice is leading you into some very strange assumptions.

ThatBlackCat · 23/05/2026 03:32

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:38

Based on typical associations with cis people.

There is no such thing as 'cis people'. And I understand the word 'cis' can get your post deleted.

SexRealistic · 23/05/2026 03:38

Gretel346 · 23/05/2026 03:06

It's uncontroversial that the gender critical movement was created in & is substantially strongest in Britain. And there's been a lot speculation of why this phenomena is so captivating there. Hierarchy & class social structures being a long lasting historical cultural feature is probably the culprit in my view.

Ben Elton once was asked why it was he married an Australian rather than a British woman & his reply was British women in his experience were obsessed by class structure so that was one of the reasons.

Interestingly JKRowling made some interesting admissions in her recent Witch Trial podcast where she talked about how much class impacted her at school & college because of the poverty she experienced in her life. And yet now she clings ever so tightly to a hierarchical structure.

It's a funny thing that sometimes the thing that we seek to escape from we perpetuate because of an unconscious learning. I notice this in some immigrants from baltic countries where they wanted to escape authoritarian landscape but their own political views have authoritarian consequences. Learned habits however fought die hard it seems.

Edited

Poor Gretel. You argue like a three year old.

Why did you do X?

Oh but look at the wind, a frog, the class structure, Scandinavia.

It is really hard to keep a straight argument because it’s based on nonsense.

I would find it hard to argue with people who objected to trans-racial identities, or trans-age identities, or even trans-disability identities.

The reason for classification is that it matters for a whole host of reasons. Safety, dignity, respect but also part of being in a democratic society.

I have no skin in the game trying to defend Britian - but since for all of time bar a mad decade or so - the vast majority of nations have not enabled men with a gender identity to breach women’s boundaries. For an even shorter time period some gullible people have suggested that men can in fact become women.

It is well publicized that the 12 EU nations, Canada and Australia who have been at the vanguard of trans women are women and self-ID do have major issues but the censorship and the laws have quelled debate and silenced women’s voices.

The rest of the world isn’t living in censorship and control. People can say freely - the Emperor has no clothes on - his balls are hanging out.

TheKhakiQuail · 23/05/2026 03:40

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 09:52

Nor do women have to fear men……unless they are alone with them.

Permission structures don't tend to hold much power over abusers.

The risk is obviously greater for a woman if she is alone with a man, but having other people around isn't always enough. A man was charged with sexual intercourse without consent on a plane last month, the woman who reported it was seated next to him on a flight to Australia.

ThatBlackCat · 23/05/2026 03:41

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:49

How you deduced that from my comment is rather bizarre.

The comment was in reference to cis gender non conforming women being falsely accused of the wrong sex by enforcers of the new guidelines because they are 'guessing'.

In terms of trans identities using the ladies I imagine some will continue to do so because they sufficiently pass & as such can't be detected under 'sophisticated' gender stereotyping 'tracking' surveillance systems. This maybe illegal but to suggest it's 'predatory' is an irrational stretch.

In the extremely rare occasions a woman is questioned by a fellow woman, it takes less than 30 seconds for the woman to turn around, speak, and it becomes obvious they are indeed a woman. No biggie. This ridiculous catastrophising by those manipulatively pushing an agenda to destroy womens rights. We can all see it for what it is. Disingenuousness.

The absurdity of this position is that the vanishingly rare woman who might be accused of being trans and be questioned is reason to allow a legion of males into female spaces.