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Bluestocking Women’s Pub - it’s Maytime!

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ErrolTheDragon · 01/05/2026 08:48

Welcome to any women who want the company of women!

Thats it really….ok so this place is staffed by gerbils with the occasional quokka or capybara but it functions like a friendly pub where you don’t have to know what’s going on all the time.
The drinks don’t intoxicate and the food is delicious yet healthy so please do come in.

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WearyAuldWumman · 06/05/2026 19:22

MarieDeGournay · 06/05/2026 19:14

Very best of luck tomorrow, Magpie!

Have you chosen your interview outfit yet?Smile

I like it!

WearyAuldWumman · 06/05/2026 19:24

In other news, thanks to another thread, I've just discovered that I was married to a woman for 27 years.

Apparently reads notes men don't like flowers in the house.

It's okay, I've already been congratulated on my late discovered lesbian status, though I did try to object on the grounds that my gender was being assumed. Unfortunately, the thread has just closed.

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/05/2026 19:30

And good luck @Magpiecomplex!

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/05/2026 19:34

WearyAuldWumman · 06/05/2026 19:24

In other news, thanks to another thread, I've just discovered that I was married to a woman for 27 years.

Apparently reads notes men don't like flowers in the house.

It's okay, I've already been congratulated on my late discovered lesbian status, though I did try to object on the grounds that my gender was being assumed. Unfortunately, the thread has just closed.

Oh god. My widowed dad usually has flowers in his house. How am I going to break this to him she/her?

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 19:36

WearyAuldWumman · 06/05/2026 19:24

In other news, thanks to another thread, I've just discovered that I was married to a woman for 27 years.

Apparently reads notes men don't like flowers in the house.

It's okay, I've already been congratulated on my late discovered lesbian status, though I did try to object on the grounds that my gender was being assumed. Unfortunately, the thread has just closed.

Sad times...

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 06/05/2026 19:41

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 19:36

Sad times...

Good luck in your interview tomorrow @Magpiecomplex !

ErrolTheDragon · 06/05/2026 19:44

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 19:21

Alas, I have nothing that looks like that! I've gone for something a tad more restrained.

Killer shoes or sensible?

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MyrtleLion · 06/05/2026 19:50

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 18:56

Were the gerbils planning a more extended version of their recent "blink and you'll miss it" extravaganza at some point soon?

It's not quite ready, but they heard that it's the 25th anniversary of the film, Moulin Rouge! and thought this has legs. Tiny velvety gerbil legs in sequinned stockings.
The gerbils absolutely would stage Moulin Gerbil! with total sincerity, catastrophic overproduction, and a budget that somehow exceeds several small nations despite nobody ever seeing anyone pay for anything in the Bluey.
But yes — planning is essential, because without structure this becomes:
three hours of glitter,
an incident with the fog machine,
and Glenda attempting to tap-dance on a wine barrel while shouting “THE HILLS ARE ALIVE.”
So:
Initial Production Meeting Notes
Convened in the snug beneath Peak Woo
Minutes taken by a capybara wearing pince-nez
Tone
Not parody.
The gerbils are treating this as:

  • devastating romance,
  • revolutionary art,
  • and an excuse to install aerial rigging in the pub rafters.
Audience reaction expected to alternate between:
  • roaring applause,
  • emotional confusion,
  • and “HOW is that hamster-sized accordion on fire?”

Casting
Satine
Gwendolyn
Has:

  • tragic eyelashes,
  • enormous emotional range,
  • and a tendency to collapse elegantly onto chaise longues.
Already practising dramatic coughing into lace hankies despite being perfectly healthy.

Christian
Gideon
Earnest. Overcommitted. Keeps writing poetry on beer mats.
Has learned exactly four French phrases and deploys them constantly.

Harold Zidler
Maud
Nobody else had the authority.
Maud enters every scene by descending from somewhere unexpected while smoking a bubble pipe.

The Duke
Gustav
Chosen because he already owns a velvet cape and radiates “financially threatening.”

Orchestra
This is where things become unstable.

Gubbins — Triangle
Officially: Percussionist.
Operationally: An unpredictable metallic event generator.
She has missed every cue in rehearsal except one, which she hit with terrifying force during an emotional ballad, causing three guinea pigs to burst into tears.

Glenda — Gin & Interpretive Movement

Nobody entirely remembers appointing her.
She insists she is: “the spirit of bohemian truth.”
Current rehearsal notes:

  • too much jazz-hands,
  • attempted to seduce a spotlight,
  • has fallen off the windmill twice,
somehow improves every scene anyway.

Set Design
The capybaras have become alarmingly ambitious.
Planned features include:

  • a rotating windmill,
  • indoor moonlight,
  • confetti cannons,
  • a full elephant made of velvet cushions,
  • and a mechanism labelled only: “DO NOT ACTIVATE UNTIL FINALE.”

Nobody knows what it does.
Not even the gerbils.
Especially not the gerbils.

Problems Emerging
Rosie the Red Panda
Keeps hugging actors mid-tragedy.
Emotional continuity impossible.

Colin the Dachshund
Has joined rehearsals voluntarily.
Now refuses to leave the stage during “Lady Marmalade.”
Audience surveys indicate this improves the production by 40%.

The Giant Wombat
Has unexpectedly become invested in lighting design.
Whispers things like: “More shadow… more yearning…”
Honestly? Her instincts are excellent.

Most Important Development
Late last night, several gerbils were seen sneaking enormous quantities of red satin, clockwork parts, and what appeared to be fireworks into the cellar.
When challenged, they said only:
“The spectacular spectacular must spectacularise.”
Which, frankly, answers nothing.
But morale is high.

Stay tuned. Re-casting is in progress. For some reason the gerbils forgot Maud was away.

DeanElderberry · 06/05/2026 19:50

Gosh, that thread was quite something. If these young people would only read Ben Pentreath's Inspiration blog they'd know about men and flower arrangements.

ErrolTheDragon · 06/05/2026 19:53

DeanElderberry · 06/05/2026 19:50

Gosh, that thread was quite something. If these young people would only read Ben Pentreath's Inspiration blog they'd know about men and flower arrangements.

What thread?

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MyrtleLion · 06/05/2026 19:56

The casting committee has been spoken to sternly by a badger in pince-nez. Quite right. An appalling oversight.
Revised emergency production meeting:

Moulin Gerbil! — Revised Casting Crisis Edition
The pub falls into uproar after two simultaneous announcements:

  1. Maud is away attending an advanced supervisory symposium on “Strategic Cheese Futures.”. (At least that's what Grünhilde says...)
  2. Gideon has been quietly escorted to the Staunch Ally with a complimentary pork scratching and a leaflet entitled: Understanding Boundaries Through Interpretive Morris Dancing.
This leaves the production in chaos for approximately eleven minutes. The gerbils then declare: “THE SHOW MUST BECOME EVEN MORE WOMEN.” Thunderous applause.

Revised Casting
Satine
Still Gwendolyn.
She has intensified somehow.
Now wears fourteen tiny rhinestone gloves simultaneously.

Christian
Recast as Greta, an idealistic poet-gerbil from the north side of Peak Woo.
Carries:

  • notebooks,
  • existential longing,
  • and a travel mug labelled BOHEMIA OR DEATH.
Her chemistry with Gwendolyn is electric and slightly alarming.

Harold Zidler
Temporarily assumed by Gloria, who was absolutely not first choice but seized control during confusion.
Current directing style:

  • screams “MORE PASSION”
  • fires confetti pistols indoors
  • calls everyone “darling”
  • has rewritten three scenes to include can-can choreography and one monologue about freedom.
Honestly? Ticket sales have surged.

Gubbins’ Triangle Situation
Worsening.
She has now added:

  • a second triangle “for tonal depth,”
  • ankle bells,
  • and something she calls “percussive jazz energy.”
During rehearsal she struck the triangle so hard a ceiling gerbil descended prematurely from the rafters. The audience of guinea pigs gave a standing ovation.

Glenda
Glenda is indeed drunk on gin.
Not dangerously drunk.
Theatrically drunk.
Important distinction.
She now believes she is:

  • the spirit of Paris,
  • a misunderstood torch singer,
  • and possibly a chandelier.
Nobody has the heart to correct her because her rendition of One Day I’ll Fly Away caused even the capybaras to weep gently into their toolbelts.

New Problem
The giant velvet elephant now contains:

  • six gerbils,
  • one accordion,
  • two emergency éclairs,
  • and Colin, who refuses to leave because he believes it is “his little house.”

Final Rehearsal Incident
At the climax of Act II, the mysterious cellar mechanism was activated accidentally.
Nobody knows by whom.
The result:

  • the windmill rotated,
  • the stage filled with rose petals,
  • the ceiling opened briefly,
  • and hundreds of illuminated tiny paper hearts spiralled into the night sky over Peak Woo while the gerbils sang in perfect harmony.
Silence fell. Then from somewhere backstage came Gubbins: TING Absolute perfection.

Can't wait for Act III's rehearsal and then the performance!

Bluestocking Women’s Pub - it’s Maytime!
Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 19:58

ErrolTheDragon · 06/05/2026 19:44

Killer shoes or sensible?

Bit of both. Flat and will stay on, but navy patent with red heels!

DeanElderberry · 06/05/2026 19:59

ErrolTheDragon · 06/05/2026 19:53

What thread?

This one. Honestly, probably not worth wasting your time on.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5524131-watch-in-real-time-as-trans-reddit-turns-on-one-of-its-own-for-suggesting-that-maybe-they-are-biological-men-and-arguing-they-are-not-makes-them-look-unstable?page=1

Though it had its moments. Transphobic parrots 'n' stuff.

AsWithGlad · 06/05/2026 20:03

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 19:58

Bit of both. Flat and will stay on, but navy patent with red heels!

I’m a bit confused.
One flat shoe and one with red heels? Or flat shoes for the journey and change into killer heels as you arrive?
Or, take both pairs and match the mood when you see the other people in the building?

Very best of luck, anyway.

MyrtleLion · 06/05/2026 20:05

AsWithGlad · 06/05/2026 20:03

I’m a bit confused.
One flat shoe and one with red heels? Or flat shoes for the journey and change into killer heels as you arrive?
Or, take both pairs and match the mood when you see the other people in the building?

Very best of luck, anyway.

I think she means flat shoes with a low red heel.

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 20:08

No one let Glenda anywhere near the absinthe!

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 20:09

AsWithGlad · 06/05/2026 20:03

I’m a bit confused.
One flat shoe and one with red heels? Or flat shoes for the journey and change into killer heels as you arrive?
Or, take both pairs and match the mood when you see the other people in the building?

Very best of luck, anyway.

Myrtle's right.

Bluestocking Women’s Pub - it’s Maytime!
MyrtleLion · 06/05/2026 20:09

Just looked through the thread gallery.

Hilarious!

And Maud made an appearance in her Phobey McPhobeface t-shirt!

EdithStourton · 06/05/2026 20:51

I kept up with thread for a few pages when it started, and I've just looked at the thread gallery and read p40. It clearly went completely wild. Parrots should come with a public (mental) health warning, as they are little shits.

Major news: We have had some actual RAIN.
A brief drizzle this morning - probably as much as we had in the whole of April - and then over an hour of heavy drizzle/ light rain this evening. It was supposed to last much longer, but the weather forecast consistently overestimates how much we'll get.

AsWithGlad · 06/05/2026 21:01

Exciting shoes, Magpie, and thank you, Myrtle.

I’ve had “foot trouble” for many years, so for me flat shoes have no heels at all.

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 21:11

I have a tendency to flattened arches, so a bit of heel helps with that. Completely flat shoes hurt.

AngleofRepose · 06/05/2026 21:12

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 20:09

Myrtle's right.

Magpie, I love those shoes! I'm no longer a dressy shoes kind of person, but if I need dressy shoes, those are exactly what I would choose (flat shoes with low heel-makes perfect sense to me).

AngleofRepose · 06/05/2026 21:15

Really looking forward to the Moulin Gerbil extravaganza. I suppose Gubbins will be so excited that she will just triangle and triangle through the whole production !

AngleofRepose · 06/05/2026 21:18

Myrtle and Magpie, good luck with your interviews!

NotAtMyAge · 06/05/2026 21:26

Magpiecomplex · 06/05/2026 18:20

In other news, congratulations Myrtle! Mine is tomorrow...

Today was a hell of a day, so I'm afraid I'll be sitting in the corner muttering into the hot chocolate bowser.

Wishing you all the very best for tomorrow, Magpie!

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