So tell me how I call tell the difference between a completely ‘safe’ trans woman and a man who has malign intent when he comes into the Ladies, @Mumberjack?
The answer is that we cannot tell, just by looking, which male people are safe to be around and which are not - and this is why we have decided to exclude all male people (over the age of about 8), from spaces like Ladies loos, changing rooms etc.
Trans women are ALL male - human beings cannot change sex, and it doesn’t matter how many surgeries they have or hormones they take, nor how much they adopt uber-feminine styles of dress, hair, make up etc - they will always be male.
Trans women do not care how uncomfortable they make women - they thrive on it and enjoy it. Women deserve safety, privacy and dignity. Trans people could campaign for gender neutral provision - just as women had to campaign for decades to get public toilets ([the urinary leash - women couldn’t go far from their homes or the homes of friends because of the lack of public loos for them, which restricted their lives in a way men’s lives were not restricted) - but they don’t want to do that. They want to take what women fought so hard for.
Some trans women say “Oh, but no-one has ever said anything to me when I’ve used the Ladies” - they either don’t know or don’t care that most women will be too scared to confront a male person in the Ladies - for fear of direct violence or the threat of being outed as GC on social media, doxxing, threats of rape etc.