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Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:28

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:18

she is intersex and identifies as a women - we don’t have access to her full medical records

HE

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:28

Don’t have my own definition of intersex

how could I?

CassOle · 28/03/2026 18:29

Sex is defined by gametes. Perhaps this is where some posters have been going wrong?

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:32

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:27

No body is arguing it’s not binary - we are saying there is biological variation that renders some individuals intersex and not exclusively male or female

Huh? If it's binary, which you say you are not arguing, then how in the next breath can you can there's some people who aren't one sex or the other but a bit of both version? Surely by your second sentence you are claiming its not binary.

Make your mind up.

And nobody here is denying people with DSDs exist. but the term used in here is DSD not intersex.

You can use either term

because not everyone fits the binary - I can think beyond forcing DSD individuals into one sex or the other to make my world feel logical and accept it’s far more complicated for some individuals

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:32

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:28

HE

Shouting doesn’t make it any more real

midgetastic · 28/03/2026 18:33

humans have 2 legs - bipedal

some humans are born without 2 legs. This is a problem - a developmental disorder - but doesn’t make them a different species

SternJoyousBeev2 · 28/03/2026 18:33

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:27

Who are you to say when we don’t have her full medical records and probably couldn’t begin to understand it, let alone define it - she is intersex - exclusive males don’t have vaginas

He doesn’t have a vagina either!

At birth he probably had ambiguous genitalia which is not the same as having a vagina. The DSD he has is absolutely confirmed via court records.

What the fuck is an “exclusive male”?

midgetastic · 28/03/2026 18:34

It’s either binary or not. In this case it is

everybody even those with DSD fit the binary

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:35

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:32

Shouting doesn’t make it any more real

😱

Nooooo.

Tell me it's not so!

SternJoyousBeev2 · 28/03/2026 18:37

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:28

Don’t have my own definition of intersex

how could I?

Well you are very certain in your views. How are you defining it? What do you think it means?

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:37

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:32

You can use either term

because not everyone fits the binary - I can think beyond forcing DSD individuals into one sex or the other to make my world feel logical and accept it’s far more complicated for some individuals

Edited

and on here you'll get pushback every time you use intersex rather than DSD.

Language matters.

No one is being "forced" into one sex or the other. it's just a fact. No forcing involved. He is a man.

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:37

SternJoyousBeev2 · 28/03/2026 18:33

He doesn’t have a vagina either!

At birth he probably had ambiguous genitalia which is not the same as having a vagina. The DSD he has is absolutely confirmed via court records.

What the fuck is an “exclusive male”?

I’m sure I read he said he had a vagina

exclusive male would be not intersex - so usual pattern of male development - all male traits no mix

heathspeedwell · 28/03/2026 18:38

@Uglydumpling

Semenya definitely doesn't have a vagina. Do you understand what a vagina is?

Men born with 46 XY 5ARD can be mistaken for having a vulva, due to having a small penis and undescended testicles. But of course this changes when they go through puberty.

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:38

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2026 18:37

and on here you'll get pushback every time you use intersex rather than DSD.

Language matters.

No one is being "forced" into one sex or the other. it's just a fact. No forcing involved. He is a man.

You are forcing her right there

I don’t have to comply with the language - intersex is chosen by many

ZoeCM · 28/03/2026 18:39

"If we have to say women must stop taking part in Olympics, so be it," the South African said in an exclusive interview with Sky News.

I wouldn't hold your breath, Castor. The BBC anonymously surveyed elite female athletes a couple of years ago and found that the vast majority believed sport should be divided by sex, not gender identity, but felt uncomfortable about saying so publicly. Safe to say most female athletes are relieved by the new policy and will see a cheek swab as a small price to pay for not having to compete against males.

viques · 28/03/2026 18:39

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:24

You’ve just argued the point we have been trying to make

Edited

No, I have just tried to make it as simple as I can for people who are hard of understanding.

All human beings are binary. This is how we have evolved . Male or Female.

Some human beings are born with DSD. But on further examination it becomes clear that despite the confusion that the DSD might have produced ,for example ambiguous external genitalia, the configurations of X and Y chromosomes will confirm that genetically a person with a DSD is either male or female.

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:39

midgetastic · 28/03/2026 18:33

humans have 2 legs - bipedal

some humans are born without 2 legs. This is a problem - a developmental disorder - but doesn’t make them a different species

And doesn’t make us say they must deny they have no legs

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:40

CassOle · 28/03/2026 18:29

Sex is defined by gametes. Perhaps this is where some posters have been going wrong?

Yes usually defined by gametes on the whole but there are variations

midgetastic · 28/03/2026 18:40

No

it means they mustn’t deny that humans are bipedal

in Just the same way as a male shouldn’t deny being a male

SternJoyousBeev2 · 28/03/2026 18:41

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:37

I’m sure I read he said he had a vagina

exclusive male would be not intersex - so usual pattern of male development - all male traits no mix

😂😂😂😂😂😂

and you believe what he is saying? He is a gaslighting grifter. At one time he may well have been vulnerable and even devastated to discover (probably at puberty) that he wasn’t female. But he is now just a lying cheating grifter who has got to keep the lie going.

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:41

viques · 28/03/2026 18:39

No, I have just tried to make it as simple as I can for people who are hard of understanding.

All human beings are binary. This is how we have evolved . Male or Female.

Some human beings are born with DSD. But on further examination it becomes clear that despite the confusion that the DSD might have produced ,for example ambiguous external genitalia, the configurations of X and Y chromosomes will confirm that genetically a person with a DSD is either male or female.

no it doesn’t

being make isn’t just about having XY - much more complex and over time

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 28/03/2026 18:42

ScaryFaces · 28/03/2026 16:20

Whatever you think of Castor Semenya, it is a myth and a conspiracy theory to claim she is the biological father of her children - this is highly unlikely to be medically possible, apart from anything else. If you can't make your case against her without lying, perhaps your case isn't as strong as you thought.

She is a "he" because he's a father.

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:42

SternJoyousBeev2 · 28/03/2026 18:41

😂😂😂😂😂😂

and you believe what he is saying? He is a gaslighting grifter. At one time he may well have been vulnerable and even devastated to discover (probably at puberty) that he wasn’t female. But he is now just a lying cheating grifter who has got to keep the lie going.

I don’t know how you would know any of that - there is no evidence of that

what we know is What happened is assigned female at birth - lived as a women - she underwent testing and was found to have a DSD and we don’t have her full medical records

DamsonGoldfinch · 28/03/2026 18:43

Uglydumpling · 28/03/2026 18:37

I’m sure I read he said he had a vagina

exclusive male would be not intersex - so usual pattern of male development - all male traits no mix

Where did you read that?

He doesn’t have a vagina becuase there is no such thing as intersex. Read up on 5ARD. It means his genitals didn't develop properly.

It’s very sad for him but it doesn’t make him a woman or somewhere between the two or anything else.

midgetastic · 28/03/2026 18:43

We are not forcing semenya to be a man

we are not insisting that semenya does anything other than remember they are male and respect that they are not female

nothing else

now singing the remember your a womble

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