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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A UK forum is encouraging a desperate parent of a trans identified male to seek out DIY hormones, without consulting health care professionals, how is this dangerous advice legal?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/03/2026 09:52

OP "If anyone could help me to understand, I would be extremely grateful. I just want my daughter to be alive and happy in her own skin as much as possible ."

Responses: "diy is reliable and safe, there are communities that will be able to help, and really all it is getting a blood test every now and then to check how low or high a couple numbers are and adjusting accordingly."

Full details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rw0bac/please_help_parent_to_a_16_year_old/

How is this even slightly legal? The pro anorexia sites were shut down right? The pro suicide?

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TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:35

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 20:28

You really can't see it? Shouting over women and demanding stuff of them?

Shouting? Really? That’s a tad dramatic when it’s an online forum. Who has demanded anything? Disagreement and debate is not demanding anything

ArabellaScott · 19/03/2026 20:35

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 20:34

I've just caught up on the last few pages, and my goodness it's so obvious which two posters are the men!

They really don't like being told NO by women. So fucking predictable.

No you are not welcome in women's single sex spaces and the UK law confirms this.

Continuing to enter is predatory behaviour. Women don't want you there. You have no legal or moral right to be there. Throwing mantrums and calling women names doesn't change the fact.

Edited

Scotland too!

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 20:36

ArabellaScott · 19/03/2026 20:35

Scotland too!

Ah thanks for clarifying. I should have known that : )

ArabellaScott · 19/03/2026 20:37

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 20:36

Ah thanks for clarifying. I should have known that : )

It wis us that feckin sorted it for yees aw!

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 20:37

ArabellaScott · 19/03/2026 20:37

It wis us that feckin sorted it for yees aw!

I know, sorry I've amended the original post! x

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 20:38

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:35

Shouting? Really? That’s a tad dramatic when it’s an online forum. Who has demanded anything? Disagreement and debate is not demanding anything

Who has demanded anything?
Are you for real?
You and your friend are demanding access to women's stuff and the word woman itself.
We say no.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:43

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 17:38

Yes, in different countries different men are the oppressor class.

I, and I assume most people here, live in the UK where it is cis white men.

You are a man, you are part of the oppressor class.

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:46

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 20:38

Who has demanded anything?
Are you for real?
You and your friend are demanding access to women's stuff and the word woman itself.
We say no.

And as I have already said, you’re completely free to your opinion and I respect that. I’ve never demanded or told anyone how they should describe or refer to me.

You’re entitled to call me a man and I’m entitled to say I’m not one.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:47

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:06

I, as a woman, get an opinion on what is feminism. You can disagree all you like as can every other woman who also gets an opinion.

But you cannot change that I categorically do not believe you are feminists and in fact believe you are incredibly harmful to women's rights.

Bollocks. You are not a woman, you try and appropriate the reality of being female. How dare you tell a feminist on this board that they are the ones causing harm to women’s rights.

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 20:47

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:46

And as I have already said, you’re completely free to your opinion and I respect that. I’ve never demanded or told anyone how they should describe or refer to me.

You’re entitled to call me a man and I’m entitled to say I’m not one.

And your new friend's behaviour? Do you recognise that description in them?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:49

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:11

Trans women belong in women's spaces, same as any other woman.

For the cis men who pretend to be trans? Well once again that's cis mens fault and they are the people to blame.

Wrong answer. No adult male belongs in female spaces. You are NOT a woman.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:50

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:15

I use the ladies because I'm a woman. Just like any other woman would.

Stay out of women’s spaces. You are a male and don’t belong. Stop

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 20:51

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:47

Bollocks. You are not a woman, you try and appropriate the reality of being female. How dare you tell a feminist on this board that they are the ones causing harm to women’s rights.

In a typical male narcissist way he doesn't think women's rights exist other than to centre men like him.

The fucking cheek of it.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:52

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:16

Not a man sooooo

Yes you are, you know that very well in the core of your being that you are male in every single cell of your DNA. Keep out of female spaces.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:56

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:22

Yeah cus a poll commissioned by an anti-trans pressure group is definitely an unbiased report that couldn't possible have been designed to favour their point of view.

Right???

Yes cos a bloke who wants to appropriate the female experience couldn’t possibly be reasonable when it comes down to respecting women’s rights to SINGLE SEX SPACES. You know you have not changed sex as that is not possible so you know that you don’t belong in female single sex spaces.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:58

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:27

No, I will always be a woman. Till the day I die.

You have never been and never will be a woman. No operation can change your sex.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 20:59

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:29

Women using women's spaces aren't predators.

…but you are not a woman….

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:59

Just because we’re both trans, it doesn’t instantly make us friends lol. And yes I do see the way they carried themself in this conversation. I didn’t like how they came here and tried to tell you why you’re not feminists and that you’re assisting the far right.

I think there is room for respectful discussion and disagreement

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:59

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 20:47

And your new friend's behaviour? Do you recognise that description in them?

Just because we’re both trans, it doesn’t instantly make us friends lol. And yes I do see the way they carried themself in this conversation. I didn’t like how they came here and tried to tell you why you’re not feminists and that you’re assisting the far right.

I think there is room for respectful discussion and disagreement

RedToothBrush · 19/03/2026 21:00

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:46

And as I have already said, you’re completely free to your opinion and I respect that. I’ve never demanded or told anyone how they should describe or refer to me.

You’re entitled to call me a man and I’m entitled to say I’m not one.

This makes out there's equal entitlement here.

It's a nice trick but what you dont point out is it's not just about words. It's also about deeds.

You have said you will continue to use female only facilities - this pushing out some women and removing the privacy and dignity of others. Women don't have anywhere else to go en mass.

As a single male you can easily remove yourself from this conflict point, maintain your privacy and dignity in doing so and not shit on women.

The entitlement is entrenched in this point together with your insistence that the material reality of sex - which offers you your own protections as trans and can't be ignored by doctors - is irrelevant and that sex is the same as gender.

Women are not demanding anything. They just want to be free of men dominating them everywhere. Single sex spaces came from the desire to escape male dominance and dictatorship as well as from safety and privacy reasons.

Now that's been bulldozed as not important - by men.

There's no equality in this entitlement in the way you try and make out. You try and frame it as reasonable but the point you miss is the most important one of all - women being allowed to advocate for themselves by themselves.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 21:02

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:31

That's not what my birth certificate, sex characteristics, passport, friends, family, hormonal makeup, etc say.

😂😂😂

we don’t need altered documentation to be women. We don’t need any operations to be women. We don’t need to take cross sex hormones to be women.

ADULT. HUMAN. FEMALE.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 21:03

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:38

As transsexuals, we know if we pass or don't pass. And I know I do!

Sure, dude.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 21:06

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 18:42

It’s worth remember UK courts were against gender recognition and that was overturned in Goodwin. Just because a judge says it’s legal, that doesn’t make it so

😂😂😂😂
It’s not a judge that determines that you’re a bloke. That was determined at your conception and nothing you do to yourself will ever change that fact.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 21:06

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:43

I will continue to use women's spaces and if challenged, I would say I am a cis woman. There's no way for them to prove I'm not

Keep telling yourself that, mate.

Operation Let Them Speak in action. Every time you post you prove yourself to be untrustworthy and selfish.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 21:11

ATranssexualWoman · 19/03/2026 18:46

"It's absolutely chilling that this group is unhappy about being discriminated against. How dare they try to resist discrimination!!"

In what way are you being discriminated against? Are you being sacked from your job for being trans? Denied housing? Being told that you cannot using single sex spaces of the opposite sex is not illegal discrimination you silly sausage.

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