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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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DialSquare · 26/02/2026 22:58

If men who think they are women, were actual women, they wouldn’t need to spam thread after thread trying to convince everyone that they are women.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:59

Helleofabore · 26/02/2026 22:46

I've lived non trans life for over forty years

Your every single day since you started taking estrogen supplements has been lived as a male person with a transgender identity.

The cognitive twisting you seem to have to do to get through life is clearly an enormous everyday effort. Your account of your life is constantly full of contradictions and inconsistencies.

Other than friends from my childhood and school, family, and incidental medical persons, no one has any knowledge of my transition as a teen.

Woman and man are social constructs. They are based on sex, however they fail to accurately translate the relationship 100% of the time. Gender queer people, non binary people and trans people understand this at the cellular level. Life is full of messiness. I'm sorry this confuses you to no end.

The UK and US effort to legislate complete social adherence to sex will fail and it will harm more non trans women and men than trans women and men. The US Christian conservatives are already declaring victory against 'the trans' and are publicly focusing on reverting reproductive freedoms and promoting the repeal of laws granting rights to women. Everything is connected.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:01

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 22:58

If men who think they are women, were actual women, they wouldn’t need to spam thread after thread trying to convince everyone that they are women.

I'm sorry that you believe I am here to convince you that I am a woman.

#sadtimes

MyAmpleSheep · 26/02/2026 23:03

Woman and man are social constructs.

Who are you trying to convince? Hint: it's not us.

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 23:04

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:01

I'm sorry that you believe I am here to convince you that I am a woman.

#sadtimes

Who said I was taking about you? Glad to see that you finally admit that you are a man though.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:11

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 23:04

Who said I was taking about you? Glad to see that you finally admit that you are a man though.

I've been called a man here since I wrote about my transition. There's no admitting for your beliefs, just acknowledging that you are socially challeneged in that respect.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:12

MyAmpleSheep · 26/02/2026 23:03

Woman and man are social constructs.

Who are you trying to convince? Hint: it's not us.

Oh the rest of the world knows sex realists don't understand social constructs, only gametes.

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 23:13

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:11

I've been called a man here since I wrote about my transition. There's no admitting for your beliefs, just acknowledging that you are socially challeneged in that respect.

Nice try. Only someone who knows he is a man would think my original post was taking about him.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:14

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 23:13

Nice try. Only someone who knows he is a man would think my original post was taking about him.

You have to believe what you must believe. It affects my life exactly zilch.

Helleofabore · 26/02/2026 23:15

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:59

Other than friends from my childhood and school, family, and incidental medical persons, no one has any knowledge of my transition as a teen.

Woman and man are social constructs. They are based on sex, however they fail to accurately translate the relationship 100% of the time. Gender queer people, non binary people and trans people understand this at the cellular level. Life is full of messiness. I'm sorry this confuses you to no end.

The UK and US effort to legislate complete social adherence to sex will fail and it will harm more non trans women and men than trans women and men. The US Christian conservatives are already declaring victory against 'the trans' and are publicly focusing on reverting reproductive freedoms and promoting the repeal of laws granting rights to women. Everything is connected.

All language is a social construct.

However, whatever the word for a mature female human with a body formed around the production of large gametes, that word’s definition will exclude all male people. There is no messiness that makes you a female person. I am sorry that this confuses you to no end.

Just repeating meaningless trope doesn’t mean the point gains meaningfulness.

DialSquare · 26/02/2026 23:15

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:14

You have to believe what you must believe. It affects my life exactly zilch.

If you say so!

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:16

Helleofabore · 26/02/2026 23:15

All language is a social construct.

However, whatever the word for a mature female human with a body formed around the production of large gametes, that word’s definition will exclude all male people. There is no messiness that makes you a female person. I am sorry that this confuses you to no end.

Just repeating meaningless trope doesn’t mean the point gains meaningfulness.

That is the sex realist definition. The rest of the english speaking world shares several other definitions.

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:19

The hopping on one foot while reciting sex realist incantations thing is really what makes everyone else squint and spectate as though a Freeman on the Land was listing reasons why laws and legal fictions do not apply to them.

Helleofabore · 26/02/2026 23:20

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:16

That is the sex realist definition. The rest of the english speaking world shares several other definitions.

And yet, we now have two UK court judgements that provide clarity that when the EA2010 refers to women, it refers to the definition that I provided. That is what I and many others on these thread keep pointing out.

You can continue to repeat falsehoods all you like people will just continue to point them out.

Helleofabore · 26/02/2026 23:21

I see the hyperbole and existential crisis is just going to continue tonight.

JellySaurus · 26/02/2026 23:27

Yeah, he's the one who sounds like a Freeman on the Land.

He dismisses us with statements like 'That's your belief', while maintaining that his beliefs are universal and factual.

A bit like Reid.

Heggettypeg · 26/02/2026 23:45

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:16

That is the sex realist definition. The rest of the english speaking world shares several other definitions.

Any definition of womanhood that leads to male sex offenders being imprisoned with women - as this gender nonsense has done, and is still doing - is legally, morally and practically unfit for purpose.

Manxexile · 27/02/2026 00:38

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:14

You have to believe what you must believe. It affects my life exactly zilch.

If it doesn't affect you one "zilch", why are you pissing into the wind on here?

MyAmpleSheep · 27/02/2026 00:50

Manxexile · 27/02/2026 00:38

If it doesn't affect you one "zilch", why are you pissing into the wind on here?

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I was wondering the same thing.

ElenOfTheWays · 27/02/2026 01:26

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ElenOfTheWays · 27/02/2026 01:33

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:33

Sex realists do not speak on behalf of women, they speak on behalf of conservative groups who use sex realists in their quest to remove rights from all women.

This is your belief.
I mean I can hardly credit that is IS your belief, or anyone's belief, but apparently you DO believe this.
Unbelievable!

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 04:46

Manxexile · 27/02/2026 00:38

If it doesn't affect you one "zilch", why are you pissing into the wind on here?

Edited

Getting one over the horrible wims, innit?

It has been asked in different ways for the past month. It is like the inherent contradiction being told at almost the first post that being trans has little impact on a poster’s life, while every single day they are a male person making sure everyone treats them as if they are female and showing us all the mental twists and contortions they go through to justify using female language for themselves as a male. And how they must dismiss, disparage, demean, and demonise any female person who doesn’t believe those twists and contortions so the facts those female people point to can be dismissed.

But yeah, ‘zilch impact’.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 04:53

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You can't really believe this surely. It's such utter and complete nonsense.

Yep. And yet… some people will grasp at anything to comfort themselves. That it dismisses decades of discussion from feminists, some of whom are lesbians and socialists, is a feature to be embraced not a bug.

NumbersGuy · 27/02/2026 05:59

To the members of the TERF Island Council of transvestigators, actually do something called "research" before demonizing someone who never said JKR was evil, SINCE IT NEVER HAPPENED! These people are simply fearmongering, despite the fact that 2/3 of the viewership of Heated Rivalry were female when it ran through December. Closet cases obviously. Just like people refusing to admit they bought Spice World and making it go platinum 5x when it first came out in the UK.

A tweet from a user referencing Vulture mentions "The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don't want to let a single person down," but this is not identified as a direct quote from Rachel Reid about Rowling.

DialSquare · 27/02/2026 07:38
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