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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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ByHonestBee · 27/02/2026 07:42

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MyFootHasGoneToSleep · 27/02/2026 08:03

Rowling can be saintly or crabby as any other middle aged woman. Why would that make male people female, or not?

I don't much agree with CS Lewis but he was spot on with "Believe this, not because it is true, but for some other reason."

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 08:09

Actually, I am fine with JK Rowling having flaws. We all do.

The issue is whether the reasons exist or whether they are deliberate misinterpretations based on the need to demonise her like other women are being demonised on this thread.

nutmeg7 · 27/02/2026 08:18

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:16

That is the sex realist definition. The rest of the english speaking world shares several other definitions.

It’s not just in the English language that there are separate words for adult male and adult female people.

It is something that exists in all languages because it is such a central core part of being a human being.

We are just mammals, the two sexes are part of our fundamental existence.

You can play about with language games all you like, it doesn’t alter reality.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:27

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:05

The women here don't represent women. They are a conservative christian funded trans conspiracy-generating coterie. The majority of women and the rest of the planet support and respect trans people (with the exception of a handful of other countries with dodgy human rights records).

That's your belief.

But it's not true. Poll after poll show the overwhelming majority of women support female only single sex spaces. We, as left wing feminists, are the majority. You, as a male and man, have no idea about what women think, and have no right speaking for women.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:29

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:33

Sex realists do not speak on behalf of women, they speak on behalf of conservative groups who use sex realists in their quest to remove rights from all women.

We speak on behalf of left wing feminists. You, speak on behalf of conservative Mens Rights Movement supporters who want to remove sex-based rights from women and girls.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:31

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:40

I've lived non trans life for over forty years. I am just as qualified as you to determine how men and women live amongst each other. The sex realist need to ignore that doesn't make my experience or understanding untrue, it makes you seem unable to assimilate facts that do not align with your ideology.

The typical male gaslighting and DARVO. The one with the Ideology is Sex Denialists like yourself. That you think you can speak about or even on behalf of women, as a man, is a joke. But proof of your stubborn, truculent, pushy, forthright male entitlement.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:33

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:59

Other than friends from my childhood and school, family, and incidental medical persons, no one has any knowledge of my transition as a teen.

Woman and man are social constructs. They are based on sex, however they fail to accurately translate the relationship 100% of the time. Gender queer people, non binary people and trans people understand this at the cellular level. Life is full of messiness. I'm sorry this confuses you to no end.

The UK and US effort to legislate complete social adherence to sex will fail and it will harm more non trans women and men than trans women and men. The US Christian conservatives are already declaring victory against 'the trans' and are publicly focusing on reverting reproductive freedoms and promoting the repeal of laws granting rights to women. Everything is connected.

That's not reality, that's your belief and fantasy.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:35

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:12

Oh the rest of the world knows sex realists don't understand social constructs, only gametes.

Social constructs are man-made and misogynistic. They hold no place in society in 2026. That they all serve men, and not women, should be the hint.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:37

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 23:19

The hopping on one foot while reciting sex realist incantations thing is really what makes everyone else squint and spectate as though a Freeman on the Land was listing reasons why laws and legal fictions do not apply to them.

Yet it is the sex denialists who are saying UK law does not apply to them and they will invade spaces they legally not allowed in. Quite like the sovereign nutters.

ByHonestBee · 27/02/2026 08:39

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Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 08:41

I do wonder when the fuckwittery about ‘women are social constructs’ will disappear. That it has come so far is absurd.

As if we stripped away all the human social constructs female humans who have past puberty wouldn’t still exist and be recognisable. The only ‘social construct’ about women is when male people try to destabilise the category to force themselves to be included. Or male people wish to exploit us. Too often it is both.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:41

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ChatGPT word salad.

You are incorrect.

Edit: why do these trans activists all sound IDENTICAL? Like as if they put a thesis through AI or something. They don't sound human at all. They have the same disconnected and arrogant phraseology. One would think (and you have just joined all with 6 posts on trans issues, nothing else) you all share the same account as you are all absolutely identical in the way you speak.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 08:49

There does seem to be something about JK Rowling that really make male posters feel the need to come onto threads and tell us how evil she is. Her name is like catnip to some male people.

Datun · 27/02/2026 08:49

It really is bizarre that the person who calls us realists then defends their position by claiming ours is faith based.

I'm not sure he's read the nomenclature memo properly.

Datun · 27/02/2026 08:51

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 08:49

There does seem to be something about JK Rowling that really make male posters feel the need to come onto threads and tell us how evil she is. Her name is like catnip to some male people.

It's the fact she's untouchable. Unreachable. And rich, by her own hand. And doesn't give a fuck.

It makes them crazy

Greyskybluesky · 27/02/2026 08:53

Datun · 27/02/2026 08:49

It really is bizarre that the person who calls us realists then defends their position by claiming ours is faith based.

I'm not sure he's read the nomenclature memo properly.

I agree, no logic.

That poster uses "realist" as a slur, a sneer. Since when was being realistic about things a bad thing? Such an incoherent argument.

Greyskybluesky · 27/02/2026 08:56

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:41

ChatGPT word salad.

You are incorrect.

Edit: why do these trans activists all sound IDENTICAL? Like as if they put a thesis through AI or something. They don't sound human at all. They have the same disconnected and arrogant phraseology. One would think (and you have just joined all with 6 posts on trans issues, nothing else) you all share the same account as you are all absolutely identical in the way you speak.

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We've had a few "Bees" on FWR, all sounding the same. I'm not convinced this poster has just joined.

I do think there's a "style guide" they all adhere to.

Ariana12 · 27/02/2026 08:58

I love " heated rivalry" when one person is a world famous super successful author and the other person is who?

Greyskybluesky · 27/02/2026 08:58

Ha, good point @Ariana12

thirdfiddle · 27/02/2026 09:22

Ariana12 · 27/02/2026 08:58

I love " heated rivalry" when one person is a world famous super successful author and the other person is who?

Ha, I initially thought that related to the debate too. Had to look the other author up to realise that's the name of her series. Possibly a deliberate play for clicks on part of the journalist.
And to whoever pointed out the audience is mostly female, yeah, we know, it was pointed out early in the thread. It's women who write and read slash fanfiction, rarely a realistic representation of actual gay men.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 09:32

onepostwonder · 26/02/2026 22:33

Sex realists do not speak on behalf of women, they speak on behalf of conservative groups who use sex realists in their quest to remove rights from all women.

Whatever you say.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 09:38

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nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 09:39

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 09:32

Whatever you say.

The old 'women don't know their own minds' trope.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 09:42

The thing is that so many of the posts really are just that misogynistic, but the male people posting those sentiments really don't see that misogyny.

Or they have falsely believed that because they believe that they are female people that they can't be misogynistic, and yet... it is all there for everyone to see.