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Trans patient records medical team during cancer surgery

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junipery · 10/02/2026 14:28

www.nytimes.com/2025/12/01/nyregion/transgender-patient-records-during-cancer-surgery.html?smtyp=cur&utm_social_post_id=611783878&utm_social_handle_id=5281959998&smid=fb-nytimes

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Has this been shared? These pieces always reveal so much.

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SinnerBoy · 13/02/2026 06:53

onepostwonder · 12/02/2026 23:47

That's your opinion, of course. It is shared by all sex realists.

No, its an irrefutable medical fact.

PriOn1 · 13/02/2026 08:38

“Men are not fans of the affects of estrogen dominance in their bodies. Women are not fans of the affects of testosterone dominance in their bodies. Trans people seek and accept the changes.”

There are definitely some men who are fans of the effects of oestrogen dominance in their bodies. I think it was the Guardian that gave a whole season of articles to David who reported in the most male possible way about the lovey pert moobs he had grown and the way they breasted boobily down an escalator.

He did call himself trans, but he was undoubtedly a man who was a fan of taking female hormones and not any kind of woman and using the word trans was simply an excuse for exhibiting his delight in public.

Helleofabore · 13/02/2026 08:44

onepostwonder · 12/02/2026 18:15

I've always had estrogen in my body. The HRT I began more than 40 years ago increased the levels. My HRT has been prescribed by dozens of GPs over the years and adapted for my age as required. Without HRT, my hormone levels would be solely based on those produced by my adrenal glands and maybe pituitary? I'm not 100% on that.

Edited

All humans generally have both estrogen and testosterone naturally produced in their bodies.

The quantities you are taking are not naturally produced in your body. You are not ‘replacing’ estrogen at the levels your body ‘needs’. You have undertaken a decades long cosmetic procedure, it is not a replacement programme. And sure by now, your body might need that exogenous chemical, still doesn’t make your body female though.

Perhaps, it should be called a supplement programme? But that doesn’t fit with the whole narrative that male people have changed sex.

Just like it doesn’t fit with the behaviour of using words used to describe distinct female body processes for something that a male person or group of male people have decided they want to acquire. ‘Acquired’ meaning their bodies are not going anywhere through that process at all, but ‘near enough is good enough’ seems to be the key.

Just like a male person suppressing male puberty then goes through nothing like a ‘female puberty.’ A male person cannot have a female puberty. If they take puberty blockers from the start of puberty and then estrogen, they simply have a male estrogen driven puberty. Which is not a ‘female puberty.’ But near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Just like male people cycling hormones are not having anything like a ‘period’. They are not having a menstrual cycle, they are simply cycling hormones artificially in their body and calling it a ‘period’, because they want to use female language. Again near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Just like any male using the term ‘menopause’. Again near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Each of the terms I mention, female puberty, periods, menopause have specific meaning. They are not terms that a male person can claim to have some symptoms of (even completely artificially created through hormone control) so therefore they can just claim that is what they are going through. That is the point many of us have tried to point out over and over.

And even the claim that a male person undergoing a particular ‘protocol’ means that male person has then got the exact same breast physiology and the endocrine system to control the function of that body part to ‘feed’ an infant. No. The male breast will never ‘mature’ exactly like a female breast. It will mature only to the point the male breast can mature and no further.

But in this case, ‘near enough’ is putting an infant at risk of harm. Even a male medical specialist who transitioned himself declared this was wrong and he wouldn’t be making that decision knowing it could put his infant child at great risk for unknown future complications.

Of course, this is where that entire behaviour pattern of ‘near enough is good enough’ has given the group of male people who do make the decision, this false belief that they are ‘breastfeeding’ an infant. when no, they are merely feeding the secretions from their male breast to an infant. Hugely limited in quantity, and not producing staged milk or specifically tailored to that child. Because they lack the body parts for that refinement.

Yet … near enough is good enough, eh?

Everytime a male person claims to be experiencing a specific female body process when they cannot and are not, they are stating clearly that they have simply acquired medical terminology, formal or informal, for themselves and repurposed it.

Yes, your body is processing estrogen, some of it naturally produced. It does so because of your deliberate decision to remove the body part needed to produce testosterone, that estrogen is what your body is using to survive.

If a male person were going on ‘HRT’, that would be them taking testosterone because they chose to have their primary testosterone production body part removed. Or it is not working through disease or injury. Even for extreme body modification to support an identity. Yet male people claim the term ‘HRT’ for artificially supplementing estrogen at levels their body was never going to produce naturally if it was in good health. So, it is a false use of the term.

Of course, you need to be clear to any medical staff that you are a male person taking estrogen and any other chemicals, and that you don’t produce testosterone from testes and that you haven’t for decades. That is your medical history and it is vital information to have for making medical decisions for you and a medical team.

However, the medical record should indicate you are still male, not female. In surgery, your medical team should have made all the calculations based on someone being male but having no ability to produce male ranges of testosterone, taking exogenous estrogen in a dosage range greater than the male range for decades. No poster is denying this. It is fact. Of course all human bodies naturally produce some of both hormones. That is not being denied at all.

What posters are pointing out is that none of the medical processes any male person undertakes makes them female.

That male people acquiring female language to describe some symptoms, even completely artificially induced symptoms, does not mean that male person is materially experiencing what they have labelled the experience. Perhaps they are using those words to make themselves feel good, perhaps they don’t understand that they are behaving in a way that is misogynistic in doing so. Perhaps they have told themselves it is harmless to anyone else that they use these words and it means their mental health is so much better for it. Whatever the reason, the outcome is still the same.

Male people are not experiencing the processes they use the terms for. They might be experiencing some symptoms that are similar but this ‘near enough is good enough’ approach from those male people is harmful to female people collectively.

If a male person such as the one mentioned who recorded staff have their medical file changed to ‘F’ they are providing inaccurate information.

Helleofabore · 13/02/2026 08:47

PriOn1 · 13/02/2026 08:38

“Men are not fans of the affects of estrogen dominance in their bodies. Women are not fans of the affects of testosterone dominance in their bodies. Trans people seek and accept the changes.”

There are definitely some men who are fans of the effects of oestrogen dominance in their bodies. I think it was the Guardian that gave a whole season of articles to David who reported in the most male possible way about the lovey pert moobs he had grown and the way they breasted boobily down an escalator.

He did call himself trans, but he was undoubtedly a man who was a fan of taking female hormones and not any kind of woman and using the word trans was simply an excuse for exhibiting his delight in public.

He gender euphoria was a sight to be seen.

BiologicalRobot · 13/02/2026 11:42

onepostwonder · 12/02/2026 23:46

Based on the ways friends go shout from the rooftops about their own testosterone experiences, I'd agree that you'll probably be very happy.

*vomit

Why do men always have to bring it back to this? You really can't help yourselves can you.

mypinkdog · 13/02/2026 12:12

Helleofabore · 13/02/2026 08:44

All humans generally have both estrogen and testosterone naturally produced in their bodies.

The quantities you are taking are not naturally produced in your body. You are not ‘replacing’ estrogen at the levels your body ‘needs’. You have undertaken a decades long cosmetic procedure, it is not a replacement programme. And sure by now, your body might need that exogenous chemical, still doesn’t make your body female though.

Perhaps, it should be called a supplement programme? But that doesn’t fit with the whole narrative that male people have changed sex.

Just like it doesn’t fit with the behaviour of using words used to describe distinct female body processes for something that a male person or group of male people have decided they want to acquire. ‘Acquired’ meaning their bodies are not going anywhere through that process at all, but ‘near enough is good enough’ seems to be the key.

Just like a male person suppressing male puberty then goes through nothing like a ‘female puberty.’ A male person cannot have a female puberty. If they take puberty blockers from the start of puberty and then estrogen, they simply have a male estrogen driven puberty. Which is not a ‘female puberty.’ But near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Just like male people cycling hormones are not having anything like a ‘period’. They are not having a menstrual cycle, they are simply cycling hormones artificially in their body and calling it a ‘period’, because they want to use female language. Again near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Just like any male using the term ‘menopause’. Again near enough is apparently good enough for any male person who uses that language.

Each of the terms I mention, female puberty, periods, menopause have specific meaning. They are not terms that a male person can claim to have some symptoms of (even completely artificially created through hormone control) so therefore they can just claim that is what they are going through. That is the point many of us have tried to point out over and over.

And even the claim that a male person undergoing a particular ‘protocol’ means that male person has then got the exact same breast physiology and the endocrine system to control the function of that body part to ‘feed’ an infant. No. The male breast will never ‘mature’ exactly like a female breast. It will mature only to the point the male breast can mature and no further.

But in this case, ‘near enough’ is putting an infant at risk of harm. Even a male medical specialist who transitioned himself declared this was wrong and he wouldn’t be making that decision knowing it could put his infant child at great risk for unknown future complications.

Of course, this is where that entire behaviour pattern of ‘near enough is good enough’ has given the group of male people who do make the decision, this false belief that they are ‘breastfeeding’ an infant. when no, they are merely feeding the secretions from their male breast to an infant. Hugely limited in quantity, and not producing staged milk or specifically tailored to that child. Because they lack the body parts for that refinement.

Yet … near enough is good enough, eh?

Everytime a male person claims to be experiencing a specific female body process when they cannot and are not, they are stating clearly that they have simply acquired medical terminology, formal or informal, for themselves and repurposed it.

Yes, your body is processing estrogen, some of it naturally produced. It does so because of your deliberate decision to remove the body part needed to produce testosterone, that estrogen is what your body is using to survive.

If a male person were going on ‘HRT’, that would be them taking testosterone because they chose to have their primary testosterone production body part removed. Or it is not working through disease or injury. Even for extreme body modification to support an identity. Yet male people claim the term ‘HRT’ for artificially supplementing estrogen at levels their body was never going to produce naturally if it was in good health. So, it is a false use of the term.

Of course, you need to be clear to any medical staff that you are a male person taking estrogen and any other chemicals, and that you don’t produce testosterone from testes and that you haven’t for decades. That is your medical history and it is vital information to have for making medical decisions for you and a medical team.

However, the medical record should indicate you are still male, not female. In surgery, your medical team should have made all the calculations based on someone being male but having no ability to produce male ranges of testosterone, taking exogenous estrogen in a dosage range greater than the male range for decades. No poster is denying this. It is fact. Of course all human bodies naturally produce some of both hormones. That is not being denied at all.

What posters are pointing out is that none of the medical processes any male person undertakes makes them female.

That male people acquiring female language to describe some symptoms, even completely artificially induced symptoms, does not mean that male person is materially experiencing what they have labelled the experience. Perhaps they are using those words to make themselves feel good, perhaps they don’t understand that they are behaving in a way that is misogynistic in doing so. Perhaps they have told themselves it is harmless to anyone else that they use these words and it means their mental health is so much better for it. Whatever the reason, the outcome is still the same.

Male people are not experiencing the processes they use the terms for. They might be experiencing some symptoms that are similar but this ‘near enough is good enough’ approach from those male people is harmful to female people collectively.

If a male person such as the one mentioned who recorded staff have their medical file changed to ‘F’ they are providing inaccurate information.

I'm just bumping this because it is such a wonderful post. Thank you.

viques · 13/02/2026 18:09

mypinkdog · 13/02/2026 12:12

I'm just bumping this because it is such a wonderful post. Thank you.

Very true. And just to add, when the external features of a physical body have disintegrated to dust and only the bones remain not only is the sex of the body immediately obvious but examination of remaining DNA held within the bones will confirm the sex.

No hormone ingestion over decades, no surgical intervention, no lifestyle choices, no internet research, no fingers crossed wishing, no arguing the toss can change the truth. A man is a adult human male, a woman is an adult human female. And that is fixed from conception.

Helleofabore · 16/02/2026 23:34

I was reminded of this Ritchie H thread today. I think it is a good one to keep remembering

https://x.com/tullipr/status/1536422533230206976?s=46

It is horrific to read. The bit about the base of the penis still responding is almost as bad as the issues urinating.

what the base of the penis remaining does show though is again, even when male people say they are now female, they
simply are not.

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onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 05:30

Helleofabore · 16/02/2026 23:34

I was reminded of this Ritchie H thread today. I think it is a good one to keep remembering

https://x.com/tullipr/status/1536422533230206976?s=46

It is horrific to read. The bit about the base of the penis still responding is almost as bad as the issues urinating.

what the base of the penis remaining does show though is again, even when male people say they are now female, they
simply are not.

This is horrific. Absolutely no one should have this happen to them. I'm sad to read butchers are still out there destroying people's lives. I hope he is able to receive help.

Hoardasurass · 17/02/2026 08:02

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 05:30

This is horrific. Absolutely no one should have this happen to them. I'm sad to read butchers are still out there destroying people's lives. I hope he is able to receive help.

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There is no help out there for him or the other men.
However a particularly nasty women surgeon (dr yeet the teet) is now offering clitorecotomies (type 1 fmg) to detransitioning women to deal with the enlargement of the clitorus caused by testosterone use.
Just when you thought that the horrors of "trans health care" couldn't get any worse it reaches new lows

Additup · 17/02/2026 08:38

Capasso is clearly deluded if they think sex isn't important to medical treatment.

However, as an ex theatre nurse I just can't see how a recording could have been made. When you go to theatre you are naked apart from a hospital gown which doesn't have pockets. It's implausible a mobile phone could be sneaked in and not noticed. Even if you taped it to your back, once your under anaesthetic you are moved around, undressed etc for best surgical access.

I strongly suspect this never happened except in Capassos imagination.

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 09:39

Of course, any male who has their penis turned inside out also doesn’t have the cavity created in the same position as vagina. Same if it is intestines or any other artificial material used for that cavity.

I reckon that is yet another ‘near enough is good enough’ dismissal from male people who are desperate to use it to declare they are female. Little also realising they have reduced being female to being a hole while some of them mistakenly declare feminists saying only having a female body is ‘bio essentialism’.

Near enough is not good enough.

No male person can be a female person and it needs to be clearly noted that cavity seen into a groin is not a vagina. And even after decades, is not a vagina.

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 09:40

Additup · 17/02/2026 08:38

Capasso is clearly deluded if they think sex isn't important to medical treatment.

However, as an ex theatre nurse I just can't see how a recording could have been made. When you go to theatre you are naked apart from a hospital gown which doesn't have pockets. It's implausible a mobile phone could be sneaked in and not noticed. Even if you taped it to your back, once your under anaesthetic you are moved around, undressed etc for best surgical access.

I strongly suspect this never happened except in Capassos imagination.

If it did, it is likely to not be recording theatre staff but wherever his belongings went while he was in theatre.

Additup · 17/02/2026 10:19

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 09:40

If it did, it is likely to not be recording theatre staff but wherever his belongings went while he was in theatre.

Good point. If an in-patient belongings will stay on the ward. If an out patient they'll be on a day unit (similar to a ward, but only open during the day for maximum patient turnover).

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 16:48

Hoardasurass · 17/02/2026 08:02

There is no help out there for him or the other men.
However a particularly nasty women surgeon (dr yeet the teet) is now offering clitorecotomies (type 1 fmg) to detransitioning women to deal with the enlargement of the clitorus caused by testosterone use.
Just when you thought that the horrors of "trans health care" couldn't get any worse it reaches new lows

His post-surgical condition is neither aligned with the standard of care or allows intended function. He, like others who were cut up by butchers, did not consent to this. My sex reassignment surgery over thirty years ago was (and is) completely different to his description.

Clitorectomies sound like a bad idea to me. I'm not going to stop an adult from having a surgery they deeply seek and believe will make them whole.

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 16:55

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 09:39

Of course, any male who has their penis turned inside out also doesn’t have the cavity created in the same position as vagina. Same if it is intestines or any other artificial material used for that cavity.

I reckon that is yet another ‘near enough is good enough’ dismissal from male people who are desperate to use it to declare they are female. Little also realising they have reduced being female to being a hole while some of them mistakenly declare feminists saying only having a female body is ‘bio essentialism’.

Near enough is not good enough.

No male person can be a female person and it needs to be clearly noted that cavity seen into a groin is not a vagina. And even after decades, is not a vagina.

I think you're right that 'near enough is good enough' has been the goal of sex reassignment surgery through the ages. What this man received is nowhere near good, let alone near.

Sex realists appear to be the only people obsessed with everyone else's genitalia and how they come by it.

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 17:10

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 16:55

I think you're right that 'near enough is good enough' has been the goal of sex reassignment surgery through the ages. What this man received is nowhere near good, let alone near.

Sex realists appear to be the only people obsessed with everyone else's genitalia and how they come by it.

Mate, your passive aggressive "Sex realists appear to be the only people obsessed with everyone else's genitalia and how they come by it" that was meant to shame me, really just shows how you need to try to discredit any person who points out the material reality that no male person can ever be a female person.

No matter what surgeries, no matter what manipulation of language and no matter what drugs a person takes.

The point remains. Any male person who claims that their body is now a 'female' body is using the 'near enough is good enough' rule of thumb which is just another form of misogyny. Because female bodies are not male bodies that have undergone extreme modification to create a 'near enough is good enough' simulation.

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 17:19

What is interesting is seeing discussions such as this in action:

Interestingly Kane has repeated some of the trope we have seen on recent threads here lately about every cell in his body being 'feminised' (or whatever word he used). And that being so feminised there was no way to go into the male single sex toilet, all the while using a sex by deception example to justify his belief that 'people cannot tell' what sex he is.

Even his falsehood that he isn't even a 'transwoman', he is just a 'woman'.

Despite the very obvious cues on that interview that he is very much undeniably a male person. He did highlight the fallacies that some people use though.
The 'I have been a transsexual for decades' and 'I am not a transwoman' fallacies used to describe why a male person is unbelievably a female person.

It is remarkable to see the falsehoods in action on national TV.

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RedToothBrush · 17/02/2026 22:28

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 16:55

I think you're right that 'near enough is good enough' has been the goal of sex reassignment surgery through the ages. What this man received is nowhere near good, let alone near.

Sex realists appear to be the only people obsessed with everyone else's genitalia and how they come by it.

Says the man who was so obsessed by his own genitals he had extreme plastic surgery on them.

I think I'll take the unusual pass on your DARVOs.

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 22:36

RedToothBrush · 17/02/2026 22:28

Says the man who was so obsessed by his own genitals he had extreme plastic surgery on them.

I think I'll take the unusual pass on your DARVOs.

There were multiple reasons why I had genital surgery. One of them was to have a genital configuration 'near enough' to the sex I was living. Another relatively major one was the law of both the countries I was born in and living in required genital surgery for sex change recognition.

Not once have I regretted it. Although my surgeon was a misogynist and extremely patronising he was known for and performed excellent work. I would do it over without a second thought more than thirty years later though I am glad I do not have to.

CassOle · 17/02/2026 22:44

Have you posted your results on Reddit like all the popular trans folks do?

ETA- I should point out that this is a rhetorical question. I don't expect onepost to answer. I am just pointing out that posting post op gentital pics is common there, so it is a bit rich to accuse us of being obsessed with genitals.

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 22:44

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 22:36

There were multiple reasons why I had genital surgery. One of them was to have a genital configuration 'near enough' to the sex I was living. Another relatively major one was the law of both the countries I was born in and living in required genital surgery for sex change recognition.

Not once have I regretted it. Although my surgeon was a misogynist and extremely patronising he was known for and performed excellent work. I would do it over without a second thought more than thirty years later though I am glad I do not have to.

It is completely irrelevant why you decided to have your body parts removed. No surgery or hormone treatment made you female despite your claims.

If someone told you that it did make you a female person, please take it up with them. They were very wrong to do so.

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 23:30

CassOle · 17/02/2026 22:44

Have you posted your results on Reddit like all the popular trans folks do?

ETA- I should point out that this is a rhetorical question. I don't expect onepost to answer. I am just pointing out that posting post op gentital pics is common there, so it is a bit rich to accuse us of being obsessed with genitals.

Edited

After all that explanation, I feel I owe you an answer.

  1. No. I've never had a reddit account.
  2. Ew.
onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 23:32

Helleofabore · 17/02/2026 22:44

It is completely irrelevant why you decided to have your body parts removed. No surgery or hormone treatment made you female despite your claims.

If someone told you that it did make you a female person, please take it up with them. They were very wrong to do so.

I did. Decades ago. None of this has affected my life or those around me since then. I don't plan on changing anytime soon.

Helleofabore · 18/02/2026 12:43

onepostwonder · 17/02/2026 23:32

I did. Decades ago. None of this has affected my life or those around me since then. I don't plan on changing anytime soon.

Well, if you use female single sex provisions in the UK despite the clarification that was handed down on Friday, that is your personal decision.

And you do it knowing that not only can it cause female people* distress but it is not lawful in many instances. You cannot even claim now that 'no female people have complained', because we have. We have told you on these threads.

Not sure how many more times you need to hear it from court judgements or from female people.

*female people being those who were born with a body formed around the production of large gametes, regardless of the production status of those gametes.