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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Olivia Colman: “I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man.” 🙄

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NaysayerOrMeanie · 06/02/2026 23:29

Olivia Colman is currently on the press tour for her new film Jimpa and has come out with some absolute corkers in an interview with them "magazine" including:

"Throughout my whole life, I’ve had arguments with people where I've always felt sort of nonbinary. Don’t make that a big sort of title! But I’ve never felt massively feminine in my being female. I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man. And he goes, “Yeah, I get that.”"

Which I can only assume means he likes it when she pegs him.

And a dig at some undefined group of naysayers and haters and meanies:

"Most of the actors were from, particularly in the Dutch side of things, from the queer community there; I’ve never been part of a more welcoming group of people. For all those naysayers or haters or meanies, if [only] they could spend the time with the most welcoming, kind bunch of people. I kind of want everyone to just come and say hi and actually feel total love."

Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde) who go to Amsterdam to visit Hannah's gay HIV positive father (John Lithgow, currently simultaneously scorned by the queers for daring to be in the new Harry Potter series, any by the meanies for talking shit about JKR). I'm sure it will be a hoot.

Congratulations Olivia on your brave coming out as a queer, non-binary, gay man, spicy-straight woman. You're so late to the party all the cool kids will find your identity embarrassing now.

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savoycocktail · 07/02/2026 06:44

CaragianettE · 07/02/2026 00:15

Which I can only assume means he likes it when she pegs him.

Wow what a sick burn, you've really embarrassed yourself him there. 🙄Some of us female and male do enjoy that activity. If you don't enjoy it don't do it. It's not mandatory.

Oh keep it to yourself fgs

Sweetiedarling7 · 07/02/2026 06:49

That’s Olivia off my christmas card list then.
It’s getting really short due to widespread twattery but given the price of stamps I suppose it isn’t all bad.
Seriously though, what a let down.

Butchyrestingface · 07/02/2026 06:50

I think it was Rory Kinnear who remarked in an interview that whatever part of themselves actors access to generate their performances, in most cases, it sure ain't their brain.

Olivia Colman seems to be a case in point.

ThroughTheRedDoor · 07/02/2026 06:53

I have a friend thats a lighting technician for big tour type productions and goes on tour with bands and singers etc.

If they are working with hip young things, he comes home more like them. So the rappers? He is in box fresh trainers. The proper musicians, he carries his guitar everywhere with him. The grunge types, he let's his hair grow and so on.

Then he comes home like that, it lasts about 3 weeks and then he goes back to his old self.

This is just that isnt it? Hanging out with theys. Become a they for a bit. With the added bit of keep it up for the promo stuff.

The sad thing is that we can all see through it. An actor, acting.

ZenNudist · 07/02/2026 06:54

I know 2 people who claim they are queer whilst being straight. Both are women married to men. I don't see why they feel the need to fly the rainbow flag to feel special whilst being the same as the rest of us.

Irren · 07/02/2026 07:00

ZenNudist · 07/02/2026 06:54

I know 2 people who claim they are queer whilst being straight. Both are women married to men. I don't see why they feel the need to fly the rainbow flag to feel special whilst being the same as the rest of us.

Dunno about that, you can easily be a bisexual woman married to a man. My husband is a bisexual man married to me. People who meet him now would just think he's straight. Which is fine. But it doesn't change who he is.

savoycocktail · 07/02/2026 07:02

ZenNudist · 07/02/2026 06:54

I know 2 people who claim they are queer whilst being straight. Both are women married to men. I don't see why they feel the need to fly the rainbow flag to feel special whilst being the same as the rest of us.

My son’s piano teacher recently got married.
She mentioned her ‘partner’ and I said ‘ohh how exciting you can say husband now!’ To which she replied ‘well
his enby so we prefer ‘partner’.

So what was a nice little exchange acknowledging her exciting new marriage turned into the world’s most boring conversation.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 07/02/2026 07:05

“Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde”

When nepo babies try to make themselves interesting… and fail

Freysimo · 07/02/2026 07:06

Is the film a comedy? It might work then 🙂

ThatCyanCat · 07/02/2026 07:07

A fantastic actress and absolute berk of a person.

ThatCyanCat · 07/02/2026 07:08

savoycocktail · 07/02/2026 07:02

My son’s piano teacher recently got married.
She mentioned her ‘partner’ and I said ‘ohh how exciting you can say husband now!’ To which she replied ‘well
his enby so we prefer ‘partner’.

So what was a nice little exchange acknowledging her exciting new marriage turned into the world’s most boring conversation.

Did she say "he's enby"? Lol.

Dancingsquirrels · 07/02/2026 07:11

Iamnotalemming · 07/02/2026 00:53

It's quite late and I've had a long day ... but ... good grief what is she talking about?!

Back in the day, it was fine for girls to wear trousers and have short hair. Now, that must mean that you're non binary

Everyone knows that girls must have long hair, wear make up and dresses

I'm sick of it!

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 07/02/2026 07:15

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 06/02/2026 23:42

I love her work.

Of course is up to her how she feels.

Bleating on about being a bit non binary because she's way more cool than the rest of us old meanies, on the other hand is not cool. She's having a pop at everyone who doesn't agree. And being offensive to gay men.

Not cool.

Edited to add: she's latching into that awful trope of disagreement being 'unkindness' or 'mean' or 'bullying'. I thought she had more sense.

Edited

Just love the word 'meanies'.

As soon as someone spouts that you know their brains have fallen out.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 07/02/2026 07:18

Carla786 · 07/02/2026 05:52

No need to bash all actors though... Several I like seem pretty sensible. As a rule, character actors & ones who keep pretty low-key public image except when necessary are the most sensible.

Yes, fair enough,

Mapletree1985 · 07/02/2026 07:19

A TIM can be the nicest, kindest, most welcoming and trustworthy person in the world - it still doesn't make them a woman. It's not about saying, "Oh well, they're nice people, so we'll indulge their harmless pretence."

And frankly, if they really were good, nice, kind people they would't be seeking to violate women's boundaries.

Pricelessadvice · 07/02/2026 07:19

Insufferable woman. Or gay man. Whatever.

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 07/02/2026 07:20

ZenNudist · 07/02/2026 06:54

I know 2 people who claim they are queer whilst being straight. Both are women married to men. I don't see why they feel the need to fly the rainbow flag to feel special whilst being the same as the rest of us.

Yeah an aunt of mine (aged 75 and in the 70s was marching for women's rights) recently claimed she now identified as queer and non-binary and would prefer if we used 'they/them for her.

My father said 'For Christ's sake Maureen, you've given birth to two children. If you are confused look inside your pants'.

Honestly if i had known family dinners were going to be so funny i would go more often.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 07/02/2026 07:21

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 07/02/2026 07:05

“Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde”

When nepo babies try to make themselves interesting… and fail

Is this person intending to pay tax on all those extra adjectives?

There’s none left for the rest of us. I guess I’ll just have to go by plain old ‘woman’.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 07/02/2026 07:33

I love her work too.

It will be interesting to see if she gets more roles because of this. Although her "national treasure" status probably insulates her a bit, it's undoubtedly much harder for women aging in her industry.

So perhaps it was a good move. (Of course it's also mind numbingly thick and homophobic, but I've never understood why the public is so hungry for the opinions of actors on anything other than acting).

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 07/02/2026 07:36

I know. Usually when an actor opens their mouth to spout off on some shit I go off them. Particularly if they are jumping on the bandwagon du jour.

deadpan · 07/02/2026 07:41

HildegardP · 06/02/2026 23:33

I rolled my eyes so hard I may have self-inflicted bilateral retrobulbar hematomas.

😂😂

loislovesstewie · 07/02/2026 07:43

Irren · 07/02/2026 07:00

Dunno about that, you can easily be a bisexual woman married to a man. My husband is a bisexual man married to me. People who meet him now would just think he's straight. Which is fine. But it doesn't change who he is.

Most of us aren't particularly interested in a person's sexual orientation, particularly if a complete strsnger. Which is why it's so bloody boring when anyone feels the need to come up with some silly announcement.

TheBafflingIsGenerallyComplete · 07/02/2026 07:49

“I’ve always described myself … as a gay man”

what a stupid thing to say, did she hear herself and think “oh bollocks that’s out there in the universe now”. I used to like her a lot but she has gone right down in my estimation with this. Absolute cringe.

itsnotfairisit · 07/02/2026 07:50

SirChenjins · 06/02/2026 23:43

She's old enough to remember that back in the 80s when many of us had short hair and wore clothes that made us look like we were in the Workers Revolutionary Party, that look was just so mainstream it didn't need a name. Wise up Olivia, you're not a gay bloke ffs - you're a middle aged woman, and as you well know we come in all different shapes, sizes and colours. You don't become a gay bloke because you have short hair, you idiot.

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Ditto. Although in trying to explain the 'look' to my 27 year old daughter the other day I just described it as being just not giving a sh3t about how we looked. We didn't pander to any feminine ideals. I am far more guilty of doing that these days

TheBafflingIsGenerallyComplete · 07/02/2026 07:52

ThatCyanCat · 07/02/2026 07:07

A fantastic actress and absolute berk of a person.

Berk is absolutely the right word.

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