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Darlington nurses win their employment tribunal

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Lovelyview · 16/01/2026 11:43

https://christianconcern.com/ccpressreleases/victory-for-darlington-nurses-as-judge-rules-policy-that-allows-men-into-womens-changing-rooms-is-unlawful-harassment-and-discrimination/

Brilliant news!

Victory for Darlington nurses as Judge rules policy that allows men into women’s changing rooms is unlawful harassment and discrimination - Christian Concern

In a landmark judgment, an Employment Tribunal has ruled that County Durham and Darlington NHS Foundation Trust unlawfully discriminated against and harassed the female nurses by requiring them to share female-only changing rooms with a biological male...

https://christianconcern.com/ccpressreleases/victory-for-darlington-nurses-as-judge-rules-policy-that-allows-men-into-womens-changing-rooms-is-unlawful-harassment-and-discrimination/

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Chariothorses · 17/01/2026 11:21

Just a reminder that the nurses are apparently still £25k (!) short of the funds they need for their legal costs if anyone can do any gardening. We are all in their debt...

AllThisFuss · 17/01/2026 11:27

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/01/2026 00:06

According to the Grauniad, 77,000 transmaidens signed a petition or open letter in support of the "trans community", with a spokesperson (male or female, I wonder?) saying "it is crucial to note that not all women feel trans people should be excluded from gendered spaces". Archived version, to keep your IP address and referrer header data out of the mucky paws of the sysadmins. Observations:

  1. This is astroturfing by the Good Laugh Project, who have their logo all over it.
  2. There's a distinct lack of concrete demands and commitments. I wonder how many of the 77,000 would sign if the text actually said "we accept bepenised people in women's spaces and services". I think women have signed that letter to "be kind" without necessarily realising that their signature is being misused by this spokesperson to claim support for penises in women's changing rooms.

Returning to the statement in the Guardian:

  1. Radical feminists aren't demanding the exclusion of trans people, but of trans-identifying males, from women's spaces.
  2. 77,000 transmaidens don't get to override the law, nor do they get to override the refusal of other women and girls. Male access to female spaces isn't determined by a majority vote, but by a blackball vote with a quorum of all the women and girls using the space and an acceptance threshold of zero.
Edited

What irritates me most about that stupid NION letter is that, actually:

a) They have no way of knowing how many people have signed it
b) They have no way of knowing how many of those people are actual women

All they know is how many times it has been signed.

For instance, I could have signed it four times, with my four different email accounts. And I could be a man.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 17/01/2026 11:36

Those 77,000 people will have their needs perfectly well met in the mixed space/gender neutral provisions. As will the men involved.

They only need to accept that other women have their beliefs and feelings and needs too, and that not all women's experience and needs matches theirs.

And that however much some activists may really like the idea of non consenting, distressed women forced to submit themselves to prioritising men's needs whatever the cost to themselves, or to be excluded from resources and society in punishment, it isn't healthy thinking anyone should be proud of or supporting. Women are not lesser humans than men.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 17/01/2026 11:38

Incidentally - wtf is a 'gendered space' when it's at home?

This is about single sex spaces under law.

whatwouldafeministdo · 17/01/2026 11:43

TheAutumnCrow · 17/01/2026 09:33

Yet, perversely, it’s precisely the compulsion element of forcing women and girls to undress in front of them that gives many of them that special tingly feeling. 🤢

Yes, they don't want single, individual spaces or mixed sex spaces (where all the signatories could go to support them) they want to use unconsenting women. That's the point of trans identifying men wanting to get into single sex spaces. They're not interested in the space itself.

I note that not all trans identified men do this, some don't want to use unconsenting women or in other words aren't abusive males. They use mixed sex / gender neutral or the mens.

So anyone saying they're an 'inclusive ally' is basically saying 'yes, I agree men should be able to use unconsenting working class women' (because let's face it the class dynamic is undeniable) either as part of their fetish or as validation or simply as part of a thrill of abuse and power in forcing someone you see as lesser to do something they don't want to do.

These people don't care how scared, or upset or traumatised or hurt these working class women are. They don't care if the presence of a male excludes these women from the workplace. They're not seen as fully human.

Even after Karen Danson has revealed she was abused as a child and the man Rose's presence in an enclosed space labelled single sex made her retraumatised, these people will sign away her rights.

I suppose we should feel lucky that witch burning is no longer a thing.....

MarieDeGournay · 17/01/2026 11:47

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 17/01/2026 11:38

Incidentally - wtf is a 'gendered space' when it's at home?

This is about single sex spaces under law.

You got in first, OpheliaSmile
It's important to emphasise that single-sex spaces are single SEX spaces, not single gendered spaces, and the Supreme Court has clarified that sex means biological sex.

People can have any flavour of gender ID they like, but they can only have one sex, and that will be male, so use the men's, or female, so use the women's.

edited to add that the configuration of women's, men's and accessible toilets caters for 90-point-something% of the population. The demand to change that configuration, or add fourth spaces to it, comes from a very tiny minority of people.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:49

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 17/01/2026 10:09

And that's the elephant galloping around that the public really need to know about. The 'noticing headlines in passing' people are still being fed the line of sweet, innocent, vulnerable, tearful, you'd never know..... no, sexual arousal plays a huge part in all this for men on various levels, not least the requirement that women 'validate' by exposing their bodies. And submit to doing so even when they don't consent. The links with abusive relationships also need to be given way more publicity.

The incompetent being dragged along by their nose piercings by the unhinged - that nails it, it really does - are glazed eyed and drooling 'please sir can I have another' much of the time, they do know but have zero morals and plain don't care. Apparently about anything or anyone much, unless claiming to in the moment has some benefit to their self interest.

Absolutely, both of you.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:50

The reason I would have liked Rose to be deemed to have harassed the nurses is for this reason. I believe he did, like I believe Upton harassed Sandie Peggie.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:52

whatwouldafeministdo · 17/01/2026 11:43

Yes, they don't want single, individual spaces or mixed sex spaces (where all the signatories could go to support them) they want to use unconsenting women. That's the point of trans identifying men wanting to get into single sex spaces. They're not interested in the space itself.

I note that not all trans identified men do this, some don't want to use unconsenting women or in other words aren't abusive males. They use mixed sex / gender neutral or the mens.

So anyone saying they're an 'inclusive ally' is basically saying 'yes, I agree men should be able to use unconsenting working class women' (because let's face it the class dynamic is undeniable) either as part of their fetish or as validation or simply as part of a thrill of abuse and power in forcing someone you see as lesser to do something they don't want to do.

These people don't care how scared, or upset or traumatised or hurt these working class women are. They don't care if the presence of a male excludes these women from the workplace. They're not seen as fully human.

Even after Karen Danson has revealed she was abused as a child and the man Rose's presence in an enclosed space labelled single sex made her retraumatised, these people will sign away her rights.

I suppose we should feel lucky that witch burning is no longer a thing.....

There were many men impotently railing on Reddit this morning that “transphobes” should be made to pay for this.

NebulousSadTimes · 17/01/2026 12:00

Well some of us did Grin

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 12:05

ISWYDT 😂

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/01/2026 12:09

"...most people are inclusive, and cases like this are quite rare"....

They might be "rare" but they were bloody non-existent till a bunch of sexist nitwits decided a man who feels like "a woman", whatever that is, is welcome to get his kit off with female people rather than male!

Going from never to "rare" is not going in the right direction.

murasaki · 17/01/2026 12:11

Some people may be inclusive in theory, but I bet Rose in his holey pants in a confined space, asking them why they're not getting changed yet, would make them change their views pretty damn quickly.

Morecoffeewanted · 17/01/2026 12:12

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:50

The reason I would have liked Rose to be deemed to have harassed the nurses is for this reason. I believe he did, like I believe Upton harassed Sandie Peggie.

Would this type of result be more likely to succeed as a criminal or private prosecution? I can imagine that the nurses are too busy to concentrate on this though.

There is outraging public decency as an offence. Section 5 if the public order act. Also a civil case under the Equality act.

Just thinking out loud here. No idea if feasible.

Rose knew he was causing offence at some stage, his 'friends' knew this when they posted the sign on the door.

Binus · 17/01/2026 12:13

The standard of proof in criminal proceedings is much higher, has to be beyond reasonable doubt. That would be very difficult.

whatwouldafeministdo · 17/01/2026 12:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 11:52

There were many men impotently railing on Reddit this morning that “transphobes” should be made to pay for this.

Aaand these are the same men who want to be able to go into single sex spaces without us having advance warning (by it being labelled mixed sex) with us and our children. Men who want to 'make us pay'.

Places we know where assaults by men on women can and do happen and it's difficult to get away. From the indecent exposure / wanking of the transwoman in one other thread on here to the rape of the female locked up with men in a psychiatric ward on another.

No thanks. This is WHY we have single sex spaces. To keep safe from men who want to 'make us pay'

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/01/2026 12:22

Yes, how different are these men to the worst MRAs?

igelkott2026 · 17/01/2026 12:51

murasaki · 17/01/2026 12:11

Some people may be inclusive in theory, but I bet Rose in his holey pants in a confined space, asking them why they're not getting changed yet, would make them change their views pretty damn quickly.

Indeed.

Anyway it doesn't matter if some women don't mind. Some women DO mind, and that's all that matters. Although I realise I am getting uncomfortably close to Kemp's reasoning that it only matters if someone complains - but I actually mean that no woman can give up female spaces to male bodied people because other women don't like it, and that's the end of it.

RoyalCorgi · 17/01/2026 13:10

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WFTCHTJ · 17/01/2026 13:12

Chataigne · 17/01/2026 10:38

Did antibody else see Benedict Spence on Sky News' press preview last night? He was magnificent on this subject. Interestingly, the Sky catch up video of the press preview doesn't include it. How odd.

Sadly no. Are you able to give us a quick summary of what he said?

WandaSiri · 17/01/2026 14:09

I can't remember whether it was here or on the main thread that it was mentioned, but I also don't understand how/why the tribunal did not conclude that Henderson harassed the nurses simply by being there, even with permission, when he knew he was not wanted, and that the question about getting changed was harassment. Legal Feminist go into this question towards the end of this TwiX thread. I think LF also doesn't think that part of the judgement makes sense, I hope I'm not just misunderstanding the thread.

https://x.com/legalfeminist/status/2012271435100643525

Legal Feminist (@legalfeminist) on X

Apologies for the hiatus while X was down and other work had to be done. A third 🧵on the Darlington Nurses judgment, skipping now to the conclusions.

https://x.com/legalfeminist/status/2012271435100643525

rebax · 17/01/2026 14:16

rabbitwoman · 17/01/2026 09:33

Wouldn't it be great if the trust came back and said yes, we completely support the ruling. We were given incorrect advice by many organisations, including Stonewall and the BBC, that it was correct and legal to give men access to women's spaces if they claimed to identify as women. They were wrong. We will now rewrite all our policies regarding this.

But they won't......

I think they will, as it is not obvious what they could appeal.

The fix is simply changing the TIW policy, as IIUC Rose is already using alternate changing facilities.

The open items are:

  • disciplinary proceedings against the nurses, which I assume will be cancelled
  • Rose's discrimination claim, which I assume will be settled quietly
  • any actions by the remaining 300 users of the changing room who might also claim - I haven't checked time limits
Shortshriftandlethal · 17/01/2026 14:25

murasaki · 17/01/2026 12:11

Some people may be inclusive in theory, but I bet Rose in his holey pants in a confined space, asking them why they're not getting changed yet, would make them change their views pretty damn quickly.

Quite, how can you know what you would and wouldn't mind until you were in that sort of situation? I don't believe any woman who says she's happy to strip off in front of strange men, and especially when in a designated female only space.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 17/01/2026 14:38

I noticed Translucent being quoted in the BBC article linked just above:
"...most people are inclusive, and cases like this are quite rare"....

Reminder from another thread: Toby Young of FSU says they have had in the region of 1600 cases over 5 years where they have defended women who have been discriminated against for their views on sex and gender. He specifically mentions women having to share 'bathrooms' and changing rooms with men who say they are women. That averages out at 6 cases a week

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 17/01/2026 14:47

rebax · 17/01/2026 14:16

I think they will, as it is not obvious what they could appeal.

The fix is simply changing the TIW policy, as IIUC Rose is already using alternate changing facilities.

The open items are:

  • disciplinary proceedings against the nurses, which I assume will be cancelled
  • Rose's discrimination claim, which I assume will be settled quietly
  • any actions by the remaining 300 users of the changing room who might also claim - I haven't checked time limits

What is Rose’s discrimination claim?

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