Victim-blaming and point-scoring is pretty much what I'd expect, I suppose. Misgendering on this thread shows the total lack of respect for the poor victim.
I'm not going to click on this poster's 👆 post and give them the attention they clearly crave.
But this part of their post is so, so wrong.
Nobody is victim blaming on this thread apart from that poster last night who was quickly deleted. We are horrified and angry. We can clearly see it was not her fault, she was failed.
Nobody is point scoring. We feared long ago that something dreadful like this would happen and now it has. We gain no satisfaction from that. We are outraged and disgusted. Nobody with the power to do anything listened.
Misgendering shows the total lack of respect for the victim. No. So-called "misgendering" is what caused this mess in the first place. You cannot describe the facts of this case correctly without stating that the victim is female. Anything else shows a total lack of respect for her in this situation.