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spannasaurus · 14/01/2026 08:33

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 14/01/2026 08:31

Victim-blaming and point-scoring is pretty much what I'd expect, I suppose. Misgendering on this thread shows the total lack of respect for the poor victim.

Trans people aren't "TRAs". Dehumanising them in this way, denying their individuality, contributes to the very real violence they suffer.

Virtually every young trans person experiences MH crises as a result of that bullying. They're regularly sexually assaulted at school, told they deserve it.

Seen terfmen glorying in ideas of corrective rape online before today. I hope terfwomen will call them out. Some solidarity with another population repeatedly targeted for rape would be an idea.

Which ward would you have placed the victim on considering that the wards were single sex in this instance?

RedToothBrush · 14/01/2026 08:33

ErrolTheDragon · 14/01/2026 08:28

Well, in the actual court case the newspaper report covered, it was the two men who were literally on trial, for specific crimes. That’s one thing. That in no way exonerates the NHS for putting a female patient in with them. Secure psychiatric hospitals exist to treat and protect the patients but also for the protection of others from them.

The staff members should be up for assisting the rape.

heathspeedwell · 14/01/2026 08:35

A vulnerable women has been raped, precisely because she's a woman and some people are more worried about her being misgendered?

This really shows that trans ideology is rotten to the core.

Rightsraptor · 14/01/2026 08:37

Others may have said this but please be warned: this is a live case so there should be no speculation about what happened. It could cause the case to collapse.

RedToothBrush · 14/01/2026 08:38

heathspeedwell · 14/01/2026 08:35

A vulnerable women has been raped, precisely because she's a woman and some people are more worried about her being misgendered?

This really shows that trans ideology is rotten to the core.

Exactly.

They are blind to the reason why single sex facilities came about because they don't want to see it.

ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:38

Datun · 14/01/2026 08:09

I don't think anyone thinks it's less impactful. But it's a distinction that's important.

It's my understanding that the serious sexual assault you're describing is considered with the same gravity as rape. And I believe carries the same tariff as rape.

But it's become very clear exactly how important it is to distinguish rape from serious sexual assault, because it means only men can do it (apart from joint enterprise).

Both crimes are equally horrendous, of course.

And let's not forget, 98% of all sex crimes are committed by men.

Rape carries the additional risk of pregnancy.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 14/01/2026 08:41

heathspeedwell · 14/01/2026 08:35

A vulnerable women has been raped, precisely because she's a woman and some people are more worried about her being misgendered?

This really shows that trans ideology is rotten to the core.

I genuinely don't know how to talk to people who believe this nonsense

"misgendering is literal violence you bigots!!!"

no rape is literal violence

teawamutu · 14/01/2026 08:43

On Reddit there's been a thread with a TIF preparing for a psych in-patient stay and insisting on a male ward. I hope she sees this and thinks again.

Appalling beyond words. Whoever allowed this should be prosecuted as an accessory to rape.

borntobequiet · 14/01/2026 08:44

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 14/01/2026 08:31

Victim-blaming and point-scoring is pretty much what I'd expect, I suppose. Misgendering on this thread shows the total lack of respect for the poor victim.

Trans people aren't "TRAs". Dehumanising them in this way, denying their individuality, contributes to the very real violence they suffer.

Virtually every young trans person experiences MH crises as a result of that bullying. They're regularly sexually assaulted at school, told they deserve it.

Seen terfmen glorying in ideas of corrective rape online before today. I hope terfwomen will call them out. Some solidarity with another population repeatedly targeted for rape would be an idea.

The reason that things like this are happening is precisely because people like you don’t recognise the reality and immutability of biological sex.

SisterTeatime · 14/01/2026 08:44

RedToothBrush · 14/01/2026 08:33

The staff members should be up for assisting the rape.

The hospital should be called to account but per the article, at least one member of staff wasn’t aware of the victim’s sex.

If I was a member of staff on a psychiatric ward and I didn’t know a woman had been admitted to a male ward, I’d be considering what action I could take against the hospital. In this instance the poor victim was raped but she should never have been there in the first place and if the (insane) procedures say she should, then at the very very least the staff should have been able to do their best to keep her safe.

Even typing that out reinforces the insanity and cruelty of the situation that comes about when people are told it is ‘kind’ or ‘affirming’ to pretend people are the opposite sex.

How could this woman ever have been kept safe from a rapist on the ward? How can the staff on the floor possibly do their jobs with this madness being imposed on them?

NotBadConsidering · 14/01/2026 08:44

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ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:45

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I hope this post isn't deleted. It should remain as an instructive insight into trans rights rhetoric.

potpourree · 14/01/2026 08:48

We don't need to constantly quote the post that's not engaging with anything any of us have said.

Speaking generally, there are always posters who come into threads about rape to totally derail them.

My focus is the process that led to this happening, accountability and how policies could be put in place to prevent, or lower the risk of, rapes in future.

It would be great to discuss that, instead of another thread of what FWR is like.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 08:49

ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:45

I hope this post isn't deleted. It should remain as an instructive insight into trans rights rhetoric.

What Arabella said.

potpourree · 14/01/2026 08:49

Rightsraptor · 14/01/2026 08:37

Others may have said this but please be warned: this is a live case so there should be no speculation about what happened. It could cause the case to collapse.

Bearing in mind this, of course! Speculation re the perpetrators is likely to be unhelpful.

ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:50

A vulnerable woman who says she's a man gets placed in a locked ward with disturbed men.

The NHS claim that 'no rape happened' if a man on a ward ID'd as female.

Rapists are sent to women's jail.

Under the Scotgov's interpretation of the law, a pregnant woman would lose maternity protections if she identifies as a man.

Genderism is not only absurd, it has real, horrifying outcomes that destroy the lives of women, especially vulnerable women.

MeltedSunshine · 14/01/2026 08:50

Misgendering on this thread

’woman’, ‘she’, ‘her’ and ‘female’ refer to sex. Posters on here are using such language in accordance with their meaning in society. We are not believers in trans ideology so do not use faith-based language concerning ‘gender’. No one is ‘misgendering’ because no one is referring to ‘gender’.

potpourree · 14/01/2026 08:50

RedToothBrush · 14/01/2026 08:23

Also, loving the idea that naming sex is somehow dehumanising. Well no, it's kinda essential to the human experience and continued human existence.

And the trans experience. If sex=gender then no-one would be trans.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/01/2026 08:51

CremeCarmel · 14/01/2026 07:53

You know what the poster means, right? So I don’t understand the pedantry. Is it just to prove that only men can rape? That assault with an object is somehow less impactful? I don’t think a victim would think so.

I think it is important to recognise that there is a specific type of assault that is only possible to be done with a penis. An assault that can only ever be committed by one of the two human sexes, and one that is deeply bound up with aspects of male self image and male cultural history.

If we pretend none of that is relevant, we lose the ability to fully understand rape.

ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:52

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/01/2026 08:51

I think it is important to recognise that there is a specific type of assault that is only possible to be done with a penis. An assault that can only ever be committed by one of the two human sexes, and one that is deeply bound up with aspects of male self image and male cultural history.

If we pretend none of that is relevant, we lose the ability to fully understand rape.

In E&W. Scotland has dutifully changed rape laws to include surgically created pseudo penises attached to women.

Treylime · 14/01/2026 08:53

@ArabellaScott I agree it should be left up. It's the most bizarre twisted post I've ever seen.

Citrusbergamia · 14/01/2026 08:56

Iamnotalemming · 14/01/2026 08:10

What the actual f*ck is wrong with the people in charge of the NHS that they thought putting a biologically female patient in with a group of mentally unwell men, unsupervised, was a good idea? Raped twice, within hours of arrival, and the staff did nothing to help. And later put her in another facility with the man who raped her and she had to call 999! The state failing in its most basic functions.

I am so f*cking sad and angry about this.

It's absolutely sickening.

But. This is the risk (potential outcome) when TRA's ABSOLUTELY INSIST that a women who believes she is a man and a man who believes he is a woman are placed in the sex spaces of their ideology and not placed in sex spaces based on their biological sex.

And this will continue ad infinitum whilst all the TRA's and their supporters insist that a man can be a woman and woman can be a man. It won't ever change until this ideology is called out for what it is.

I feel so sorry for that poor woman who was raped. The safe guarding appears to have been non existent and the fact that whom ever it was who sanctioned her being placed with biological men, could be thinking one of three things:

a) clearly believes that a woman can be a man and a man can be a woman or was completely sucked into her belief. A TRA or a supporter of.

b) 'yep, place her with the men...this'll teach her to think she can change sex...'.

c) 'fine, [sigh] if you think you're a bloke,...put her in with the men'...

Whichever one it is, it's utterly appalling as safe guarding has completely gone out of the window in all 3 scenarios.

MeltedSunshine · 14/01/2026 08:58

I am reminded of an oil company that investigated an accident. It turns out loads of people saw it was an accident waiting to happen but no one raised it as everyone assumed someone else would or that it must have been approved higher up the chain or command. They changed the culture completely and now it is a disciplinary offence not to report a safety risk if you see one (including down to the level of someone walking up stairs carrying something such that they don’t have a hand free to put on the bannister). The NHS seems to have implemented the exact opposite.

nicepotoftea · 14/01/2026 09:02

SpiritAdder · 13/01/2026 23:48

It is in the US. I referred specifically to US prisons in my first post.
Our rape laws are more up to date than yours.

Edited

I would argue that it is more 'up to date' to have clear legislation that describes penile penetration without consent. It does not prevent the prosecution of other offences.

Even allowing for the fact that women are convicted for sex abuse, overwhelmingly, the perpetrators are men.

I learned yesterday that the age of consent doesn't apply in California as long as the parents have given permission for the abuser to marry the victim, but under 18 year olds can't get a divorce. Attempts to end child marriage are opposed by Planned Parenthood and the ACLU. My impression is that the US has quite a long way to catch up.

RedToothBrush · 14/01/2026 09:06

ArabellaScott · 14/01/2026 08:45

I hope this post isn't deleted. It should remain as an instructive insight into trans rights rhetoric.

Given it's the same people proposing teen girls should go into make facilities it absolutely is.