Trans woman gym goer caught masturbating in women’s changing room

[LesbianNana]

I’ve included the NY Post article, the original TikTok video and an American police officer YouTuber video (Officer Tatum). This was in California (naturally) at a Planet Fitness gym.

In the beginning of the YouTube video you can see him clearly masturbating (along with his huge gross feet all splayed out), and if you want to avoid YouTube commentary jump to 4:30 for the confrontation.

I’ll transcribe some of the confrontation. It’s a few gym employees, the woman and her boyfriend.

BF: Bro do you go to the Taco Bell restroom and jack off? (Probably.) What the fuck is wrong with you bro? (AGP.)

Woman: Minors walking through here…(Probably the point.)

Trans: You guys, I was IN the stall. (Tip of the hat for not jacking off while at the bench press.)

BF: It does NOT FUCKING MATTER bro.

Trans: I’m not harassing anyone in the stall…I’m allowed to be in here.

Woman: You’re IN THE WOMAN’S BATHROOM.

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re not allowed to jerk off in here! That is so fucking weird! We have video fucking proof!

Trans: Um are you allowed to video in here? (Attention women: Never video the actions of a man committing a lewd act in public lest it make a man look bad.)

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re in the women’s bathroom jerking your fucking penis bro!

Trans: I’m transgender! (Here we go! The magic word. All take the knee and beg for forgiveness for your blasphemous ways at the shrine of Transgender!) I was drying off…(HAHAHA.)

Woman: That was you in the shower, too. (Feck’s sake.)

Trans: Right…

At this rate, we’re probably a mere 5 years away from the normalization of public masturbation.

Masturbation Story Hour coming to a library near you! Bring the whole family!

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinebimbo_/video/7591708460211866910

All, or nothing at all.
Oh for the days of Paxman grilling Michael Joseph in prisons.
Asked the self-same Q over and over again. And over and over again came the non-answers.
It pretty much killed his career.
Nick Robinson should have done the same to Greer.

All, or nothing at all.

Exactly. The trans community knows if it says anything, they will contribute to the loss of their own access. So they say nothing out of pure selfishness.

I will acknowledge there are some trans people who use facilities as per their sex, but they are a tiny minority within a minority and have always held that view. They are vilified for doing so. No one else has changed their view or message as far as I can see.

Indeed.

I've never heard of/ heard/ seen a single one.

Its usually pivoted into a Darvo eg how dare you nasty women discuss how some trans identified men using women's spaces make you feel threatened - how do you think that makes the trans identified men feel, you bigots.

Michael Howard?

Ah yes, my bad. Him as well, lol.

There's something very wrong in Cali when its penal code outlaws capturing video footage of an act of public indecency.

who didn't realize he ordered food from Wendy's

How can you not realise that you've ordered food? It's a multiple stage process.

Rule Ten: "The worst thing about male violence is that it makes men look bad."

NAMALT and NATWALT is damage control PR done to make men not look as bad when some of their number are violent.

The only way to keep the serial wankers out is to keep them all out. The good ones recognise this. Anyone who undermines keeping them all out is granting a VIP access all areas pass to the serial wankers.

Your last paragraph is a straw man argument.

Door Dash doesn't always capture the drop-off instructions correctly, and yes, there are exhibitionists out there who like to summon a stranger.

• https://www.reddit.com/r/doordash_drivers/comments/ky89dr/comment/gjeommt/
• https://www.reddit.com/r/doordash/comments/l0ea0z/comment/gjt4o48/
• https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-drivers-sexual-harassment-uber-deliveroo-b2368667.html

I know a handful of female massage therapists.
The number of times they're asked for "extra devices" is crazy.
And the number of times when they reply they don't, and that's not accepted, is insane.

It's fairly obvious at this point that, at best, they don't care and, at worst, they think its perfectly fine and good
As a PP pointed out, they don't want to call this out and potentially disrupt their own access. I have no sympathy for them. They are benefitting from transactivism even if they aren't actively participating in it.

Maybe they aren't ALL "serial public masturbaters" but they all have the potential to be. They've already overstepped one boundary of public decency by intruding on women only spaces or advocating for other men to do this. These are, by definition, not good people.

It's so obvious he knows he's in the wrong here. If he says, "Bryson is a man," he's undermining self-ID, which he supports in the very next question; he's also going to antagonise most of the Scottish Greens. If he says, "Bryson is a woman," he's going to look even more like a complete fool.

Males, are the predator and oppressor ruling sex class. They are NOT a 'minority'. Even if they wear a dress. You're taking the piss calling the male sex a 'minority'.

Imagine arguing that foxes are a 'minority'. And saying those foxes should be allowed in the hen house.

I was talking about people who are trans. Trans women and trans men.

But you are not demonising them, are you? That's the problem. You're demonising the women and girls, the feminists instead. And when women get evidence, get the receipts, you attack them for getting that evidence, rather than attack the male predators. Attitudes like yours are the reason #MeToo came into existence but we have gone further backwards than before #MeToo. You don't believe women, despite the fact that you should know what the male sex is like. I mean, it's not like we don't have centuries of evidence of male behaviour, is it? You would not believe women without evidence, BUT when they do get that evidence, you attack them for going to the trouble of getting that evidence. You have purposely made it in your mind that women simply can't win with you no matter what we do.

Transwomen are male. That's the point. It doesn't matter how that male identifies, he is still a male with Male Privilege. Even when a dress.

You think this is about 'trans people'. It isn't.

It's about male vs female.

I couldn't even tell you the name of a single trans activist. As far as I know, I've encountered two trans people in my entire life, so it's not an issue I follow particularly closely.

I wouldn't expect an activist to change their views or message based on something like this though. I imagine an activist would contest that this person was a sick individual whose behavior is not representative of trans people, and ask that people don't judge them based on it.

But if males with a trans identity hadn’t demanded access to female spaces then this wouldn’t have happened would it? Women warned trans activists perverts would use men having access to female spaces to do stuff like this and we’d told it would never happen. No male with a trans identity would access females spaces for nefarious reasons, but it keeps happening doesn’t it? We were called bigots, threatened with rape, violence and death for saying this would happen. So every trauma caused to women and by girls in a female space by a male with a trans identity is on them.

Did @ShowMeTheSea say that the foxes should be allowed in the henhouse though? I haven't gone back through their posts but I don't think they did, just that they weren't willing to demonise all of them based on the actions of a few.

As someone who believes quite strongly that trans women are not women, that they shouldn't have access to single sex spaces or legal protections afforded to women (amongst other things), I've found that my refusal to 'demonise' them on MN often leads to wild assumptions/accusations about my views on this issue.

ShowMeTheSea effectively said just because one fox ate some chickens doesn’t mean all the foxes are chicken eaters or that it’s the fault of the foxes campaigning for foxes to be allowed into the henhouse.

Women warned trans activists perverts would use men having access to female spaces to do stuff like this and we’d told it would never happen. No male with a trans identity would access females spaces for nefarious reasons?

I ask this completely genuinely...but did anyone actually claim this so absolutely? And by 'anyone' I don't mean some divvy on Twitter, I mean a reasonable person attempting to make a good faith argument for trans people accessing single sex spaces.

I doubt they did, because it'd be an utterly ridiculous claim to make, and no sensible person would take anyone making it seriously.

We were called bigots, threatened with rape, violence and death for saying this would happen.

But did you consider the people making those threats as serious people? As representative of the entire trans community? Do you think the average trans person agrees that you should be raped (or threatened with rape) for disagreeing with them?

Anybody threatening violence, rape or death over any issue is clearly not acting in good faith. The same goes for people weaponizing terms against anyone they disagree with - like bigot in this case, or calling anyone who voices a concern about immigration racist.

If you choose to engage with people acting in bad faith, you're going to be accused of things that aren't true, insulted or worse. But doing so, then acting like those bad faith actors are representative of an entire movement is bad faith in itself.

So where are all the “reasonable trans people” saying “not in my name”? Why are all these people not condemning the actions taken in their name? Are they too busy also using the facilities of the opposite sex? And silently cheering on the extremists as they hope women will be too cowed by them to object any more?

So where are all the “reasonable trans people” saying “not in my name”?

Almost nowhere. In my country, I've found one (1) tiny collective of trans people against transitioning children. Every single other association is pro-transitioning children, pro-transwomen in women's spaces, and so on.

Why are all these people not condemning the actions taken in their name?

Fear, mostly. TRAs are agressive towards anyone disagreeing with them, including trans people who don't toe the party line.

Are they too busy also using the facilities of the opposite sex? And silently cheering on the extremists as they hope women will be too cowed by them to object any more?

Mostly, yes.

@Kimura

The "extremists" are not extremists at all, nor are they bad faith actors. They are absolutely representative of the trans community, because the trans community chucks out anyone who disagrees.