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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ofcom will now investigate Talk Tv re transphobia.

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Imnobody4 · 04/12/2025 21:33

Here we go again.

From Good Law Project:

We said we’d sue over Ofcom’s decision to dismiss 22,000 complaints about transphobia on TalkTV – now the regulator has caved.

But we had monitored its output for July 2025, a month in which it carried 11 discussions on trans people. And in every discussion, its hosts and guests consistently spouted transphobic views. TalkTV’s stance mirrors the broader editorial position of its sister newspaper The Times, whose toxic and intellectually dishonest campaign against trans people we believe to be a contributor to the rise in hate crime against them.

x.com/JuliaHB1/status/1996576537894703427?t=VgmnlP9LETiwrihlgEkCqA&s=09

Among my misdeeds, apparently, is that I said this on air: "By definition, if you’ve had to get a piece of paper to say that you are a woman, you must accept then that you are man."

I'm happy to be found guilty of defending women's rights and safety, knowing the actual law, understanding basic biology and knowing what a woman is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Namelessnelly · 07/12/2025 13:24

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:21

This is ballony.

I totally respect that poster on how she describes her own personal lived reality. I would not question / dispute that for a second.

I do not agree with her gender critical beliefs, or how she theorises "sex", "female", "male". Nor does she appear to have a lot of understanding of the science of brains. I'm perfectly entitled to challenge her on those aspects; and arrogance has nothing to do with it.

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Ummm…. Are we going to get sex is not dimorphic now?? So if our definitions of male female and sex are so wrong, I’m sure you can provide the right definitions. Go on. I’m rooting for you. You can do it.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:25

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:21

Also for the record- you introduced the word "neurological" for reasons only known to yourself. I spoke of the brain.

I'm speechless. What do you think is the medical adjective term relating to the brain?

What exists for one, that is lacking for the other?

I already answered that question.

I'm speechless.

Why? Psychological processes also relate to the brain.

I already answered that question

only with general assertions. I was interested in examples of the type of evidence you think exists in autism research that doesn't exist in gender identity research.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 07/12/2025 13:27

Was it Tandora who had the definitive research results but couldn't show us because it would be 'outing'?🤔

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:28

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:21

This is ballony.

I totally respect that poster on how she describes her own personal lived reality. I would not question / dispute that for a second.

I do not agree with her gender critical beliefs, or how she theorises "sex", "female", "male". Nor does she appear to have a lot of understanding of the science of brains. I'm perfectly entitled to challenge her on those aspects; and arrogance has nothing to do with it.

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Fucking hell 😂😂😂 "Nor does she appear to have a lot of understanding of the science of brains"
I'm sorry, I know you've said you're not a man, so if you are a woman, maybe you'd consider transitioning yourself. Your communication style and overt arrogance (that you seem completely unaware of) is so startling, I think you'd find some kinship on the 'other side.'

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:29

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:28

Fucking hell 😂😂😂 "Nor does she appear to have a lot of understanding of the science of brains"
I'm sorry, I know you've said you're not a man, so if you are a woman, maybe you'd consider transitioning yourself. Your communication style and overt arrogance (that you seem completely unaware of) is so startling, I think you'd find some kinship on the 'other side.'

Hiya.

Im not interesting in engaging with personal arguments, comments and insults.

Thanks in advance for respecting that boundary.

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:30

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:18

The arrogance on display here is staggering.
This poster going to great lengths to educate us all on the trans experience, despite not being trans themselves. And when an actual trans person joins the debate who has actual trans experience, they still know better.
Unbelievable.
Your patience and communication style is an absolute credit to you @Seethlaw

Oh and on the subject of being trans not having any benefits or however you phrased it:

A United Nations report indicated that as of March 30, 2024, more than
600 female athletes have lost opportunities, including nearly 900 medals across over 400 competitions in 29 different sports, due to competitors who were assigned male at birth participating in the female category. The exact number of individual girls and women affected beyond these specific medal and event statistics is difficult to quantify precisely across all levels of sport, as data is not always systematically tracked or publicly reported.

  • Medal and Competition Losses: The UN report, titled "Violence against women and girls in sports," highlighted that the inclusion of transgender women in the female category has resulted in female athletes losing podium finishes and competitive opportunities.
  • Multiplier Effect: Some reports suggest a "multiplier effect" where hundreds of transgender athletes participating in women's sports could be affecting "tens of thousands of women and girls" by influencing participation rates, rankings, records, and scholarship opportunities beyond just top-tier events.

So, quite a few benefits there for these cheating men. And countless women and girls denied opportunities they have trained hard for all their life for, and in the worst cases denied an education and the opportunity to be lifted out of poverty.
It's fucking shameful. Moral panic is an insult.
And as usual, the trans marker is overwhelmingly beneficial for transwomen, not transmen in this respect. I have no idea of your sporting prowess @Seethlaw but I'm guessing you're not about to be entering male competitions and smashing their world records any time soon.

And this is 'just' sport. We all know the wider consequences for women's safety and dignity by allowing men, however they identify, into female single sex spaces.

And when an actual trans person joins the debate who has actual trans experience, they still know better.

I don't fit the one and only approved trans narrative, so I have to be done away with.

Mind you, Puppy doesn't either, with her insistence on the existence of a trans brain. I wonder if she realises that she's already amply betrayed the cause she purports to be defending?

I have no idea of your sporting prowess but I'm guessing you're not about to be entering male competitions and smashing their world records any time soon.

Ha ha, no :D I

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:31

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:30

And when an actual trans person joins the debate who has actual trans experience, they still know better.

I don't fit the one and only approved trans narrative, so I have to be done away with.

Mind you, Puppy doesn't either, with her insistence on the existence of a trans brain. I wonder if she realises that she's already amply betrayed the cause she purports to be defending?

I have no idea of your sporting prowess but I'm guessing you're not about to be entering male competitions and smashing their world records any time soon.

Ha ha, no :D I

her insistence on the existence of a trans brain

would you please reference this? I have been clear that I don't believe there is such a thing as "the trans brain". As I also stated quite clearly upthread.

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:33

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:31

her insistence on the existence of a trans brain

would you please reference this? I have been clear that I don't believe there is such a thing as "the trans brain". As I also stated quite clearly upthread.

All right, I'll amend my statement:

with her insistence on the existence of differences in the brains of trans people.

Better?

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:34

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:33

All right, I'll amend my statement:

with her insistence on the existence of differences in the brains of trans people.

Better?

Differences with/ within the brain I would say.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 07/12/2025 13:35

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 12:23

Hiya.

As I said to a poster above. I'm not interested in engaging in personal arguments.

Thanks in advance for respecting that boundary.

Why are your boundaries worthy of respect (even when the "boundary" is smply drawing attention to the lack of evidence in what you claim, something you know to be true even if your preferred strategy is to make a flat denial and simply stop the conversation at the point where if you continued you would have to admit you know this) but the boundaries of female people who simply want recognition in law, culture, politics and society that we are the group to whom the word "woman" has always applied and the group for whose needs the rights of "women" exist, and the truth of trans women whatever that may be is something separate and unrelated to our continued existence and needs as female people, are not?

That would be a great question for you to answer to demonstrate, that unlike @Tandora on the thread where literally every point you have made has already been discussed but you inexplicably and frankly entitledly refuse to read, you truly do care about the self knowledge and reality of female people as well as trans women.

For anyone who wants to see how every single "argument" and assertion puppy has made or indeed will make on this thread has already been played out and debunked, and to understand just how Groundhog Day this new thread is, here is that link again:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5422838-what-is-trans-and-why-does-it-justify-undoing-sex-in-law-society-culture-and-history?page=1

What is "trans" and why does it justify undoing sex in law, society, culture and history? | Mumsnet

In the Trolls thread @Tandora and I discovered that in a recent thread she had thought she was very clear about what "trans" is while I thought she wa...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5422838-what-is-trans-and-why-does-it-justify-undoing-sex-in-law-society-culture-and-history?page=1

Namelessnelly · 07/12/2025 13:35

FallenSloppyDead2 · 07/12/2025 13:27

Was it Tandora who had the definitive research results but couldn't show us because it would be 'outing'?🤔

Oh yes. And also quibbled about definitions of words. And was very condescending and rude. Weren’t they the one minimising a rape survivors trauma or am I getting my TRAs mixed up. Either way they were an absolute dickhead.

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:36

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:29

Hiya.

Im not interesting in engaging with personal arguments, comments and insults.

Thanks in advance for respecting that boundary.

"I'm perfectly entitled to challenge her on those aspects"

As am I, with you.

Just worth noting that no one here has refused to engage with you, even @Seethlaw themselves, despite having their knowledge patronisingly derided.

It's been only you that have declared you're not engaging with people because you don't like what they're saying.

People with conviction in their thoughts will engage with anyone, regardless of the pushback.

And by the way, an opinion on someone's posting style is not an insult. Your threshold for dealing with other people's opinions and keeping a debate going is remarkably low 😬

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:37

Also @Seethlaw i have no interest in "doing away with you". I think it's really helpful to recognise the presence of gender critical trans people.

I really disagree with your gender critical beliefs. But I'm interested in engaging, not silencing.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:39

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:36

"I'm perfectly entitled to challenge her on those aspects"

As am I, with you.

Just worth noting that no one here has refused to engage with you, even @Seethlaw themselves, despite having their knowledge patronisingly derided.

It's been only you that have declared you're not engaging with people because you don't like what they're saying.

People with conviction in their thoughts will engage with anyone, regardless of the pushback.

And by the way, an opinion on someone's posting style is not an insult. Your threshold for dealing with other people's opinions and keeping a debate going is remarkably low 😬

It's been only you that have declared you're not engaging with people because you don't like what they're saying

the only thing I stated I would not like to engage with are personal arguments and personal insults. I think that's a reasonable boundary.

Im happy to engage with arguments I don't like as long as they are not about how dreadful my person is,

PrettyDamnCosmic · 07/12/2025 13:43

FallenSloppyDead2 · 07/12/2025 13:27

Was it Tandora who had the definitive research results but couldn't show us because it would be 'outing'?🤔

"She" also claimed to have a husband & children. Why have these special female persons been given the arcane knowledge denied to us Muggles?

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:45

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:39

It's been only you that have declared you're not engaging with people because you don't like what they're saying

the only thing I stated I would not like to engage with are personal arguments and personal insults. I think that's a reasonable boundary.

Im happy to engage with arguments I don't like as long as they are not about how dreadful my person is,

I didn't say your person was dreadful. I said that you have been patronising. I'm commenting on your behaviour, not your 'person'.

A little bit like when I'm teaching resilience to the children in my class, their behaviour was the issue, it's not a comment on their overall person.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:46

PrettyDamnCosmic · 07/12/2025 13:43

"She" also claimed to have a husband & children. Why have these special female persons been given the arcane knowledge denied to us Muggles?

Are you struggling with the idea that there could be people who are both female and also have a different opinion to you?

You know being female , straight, a mother, etc, doesn't dictate one opinions a person has.. ?

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:47

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:37

Also @Seethlaw i have no interest in "doing away with you". I think it's really helpful to recognise the presence of gender critical trans people.

I really disagree with your gender critical beliefs. But I'm interested in engaging, not silencing.

Belief: "the feeling of being certain that something exists or is true" - Cambridge dictionary.

Fact: "something that is known to have happened or to exist, especially something for which proof exists, or about which there is information".

I don't deal in beliefs. I care only about facts. That's the only thing I'm interested in: facts, the truth.

You, on the other hand, have beliefs indeed, such as the belief that there are differences with/within the brain of trans people.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 07/12/2025 13:47

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:21

This is ballony.

I totally respect that poster on how she describes her own personal lived reality. I would not question / dispute that for a second.

I do not agree with her gender critical beliefs, or how she theorises "sex", "female", "male". Nor does she appear to have a lot of understanding of the science of brains. I'm perfectly entitled to challenge her on those aspects; and arrogance has nothing to do with it.

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So, you claim to advocate for trans people, but you are offended to be "accused" of being trans. You object to being "misgendered". I'm aware that Seethlaw has expressed acceptance of the pronouns that other people choose to use, but you have referred here to Seethlaw as "she" and "her", which would appear to go right against your principles. Could we have some consistency please? Do you believe in the concept of misgendering or not? Is it offensive to see a transman as female and to use "she" and "her", or isn't it?

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:48

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 13:45

I didn't say your person was dreadful. I said that you have been patronising. I'm commenting on your behaviour, not your 'person'.

A little bit like when I'm teaching resilience to the children in my class, their behaviour was the issue, it's not a comment on their overall person.

You said I was arrogant to an astonishing degree or something to that effect.

Anyways, apologies if my tone has been patronising. I recognise that is not helpful .

PrettyDamnCosmic · 07/12/2025 13:51

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:31

her insistence on the existence of a trans brain

would you please reference this? I have been clear that I don't believe there is such a thing as "the trans brain". As I also stated quite clearly upthread.

would you please reference this? I have been clear that I don't believe there is such a thing as "the trans brain". As I also stated quite clearly upthread.

It was only when I called you out on the lie that there is scientific evidence to support the existence of differences in the brain for "trans people" that you switched to saying I agree, there's no single thing as "the trans brain" any more than this is a single thing such as "the autistic brain". Which is a smaller lie but still a lie as it still asserts that there is such a thing as a "trans brain" but it has several causes.

Namelessnelly · 07/12/2025 13:53

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:46

Are you struggling with the idea that there could be people who are both female and also have a different opinion to you?

You know being female , straight, a mother, etc, doesn't dictate one opinions a person has.. ?

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Tbh I don’t think you’re dreadful. Bonkers and obnoxious yes. Dreadful no. I think the fact that female people have so many different opinions, though, ideas and interests make it very hard to believe any male who claims he “feels female”. Unless he utilises outdated, offensive stereotypes, how can he claim to know what a female “feels like”? And wouldn’t it be great if there was a test that showed whether someone was trans or not? All we’d need to do is give anyone claiming a trans identity that test and we’d soon find out who the fakers were wouldn’t we. I mean, it wouldn’t change anything, they’d still be their birth sex abd have to use the appropriate facilities for that sex, but it’d deter all those claiming a trabs identity for nefarious reasons wouldn’t it?

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:54

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 07/12/2025 13:47

So, you claim to advocate for trans people, but you are offended to be "accused" of being trans. You object to being "misgendered". I'm aware that Seethlaw has expressed acceptance of the pronouns that other people choose to use, but you have referred here to Seethlaw as "she" and "her", which would appear to go right against your principles. Could we have some consistency please? Do you believe in the concept of misgendering or not? Is it offensive to see a transman as female and to use "she" and "her", or isn't it?

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So, you claim to advocate for trans people, but you are offended to be "accused" of being trans. You object to being "misgendered"

I am offended by being called trans and a man (he) in attempt to humiliate/ dismiss / patronise me (e.g. we all know you are trans take a walk outside). I don't think there's anything wrong with being a man, or trans, I just happen to be neither.

I'm aware that Seethlaw has expressed acceptance of the pronouns that other people choose to use, but you have referred here to Seethlaw as "she" and "her", which would appear to go right against your principles.

My principles are to refer to people using language that is acceptable to the person/ compatible with their dignity. I was using "they" for Seethlaw as I wasn't sure what she preferred. It was getting grammatically clumsy, so I asked her what she found respectful. She said that she is happy with either she or they pronouns, so I switched to she as it is easier linguistically.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:55

Namelessnelly · 07/12/2025 13:53

Tbh I don’t think you’re dreadful. Bonkers and obnoxious yes. Dreadful no. I think the fact that female people have so many different opinions, though, ideas and interests make it very hard to believe any male who claims he “feels female”. Unless he utilises outdated, offensive stereotypes, how can he claim to know what a female “feels like”? And wouldn’t it be great if there was a test that showed whether someone was trans or not? All we’d need to do is give anyone claiming a trans identity that test and we’d soon find out who the fakers were wouldn’t we. I mean, it wouldn’t change anything, they’d still be their birth sex abd have to use the appropriate facilities for that sex, but it’d deter all those claiming a trabs identity for nefarious reasons wouldn’t it?

Tbh I don’t think you’re dreadful. Bonkers and obnoxious yes. Dreadful no.

thank you. I'll take bonkers and obnoxious 😆.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 13:56

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 13:47

Belief: "the feeling of being certain that something exists or is true" - Cambridge dictionary.

Fact: "something that is known to have happened or to exist, especially something for which proof exists, or about which there is information".

I don't deal in beliefs. I care only about facts. That's the only thing I'm interested in: facts, the truth.

You, on the other hand, have beliefs indeed, such as the belief that there are differences with/within the brain of trans people.

I disagree with your understanding of the facts.

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