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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Times has seen a copy of EHRC's final guidance

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Igneococcus · 19/11/2025 21:53

and it looks like it's pretty rubbish:
"Under the new guidance, places such as hospital wards, gyms and leisure centres will be able to question transgender women over whether they should be using single-sex services based on how they look, their behaviour or concerns raised by others."

https://www.thetimes.com/article/82eecc43-711f-4c0a-b669-42d09d60d63e?shareToken=e5c7b92df4468caa07dbd71d66c660ab

Trans people could be banned from single-sex spaces based on how they look

The Times has seen the equalities watchdog’s final guidance, which Whitehall figures fear Bridget Phillipson is delaying to avoid a political backlash

https://www.thetimes.com/article/82eecc43-711f-4c0a-b669-42d09d60d63e?shareToken=e5c7b92df4468caa07dbd71d66c660ab

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ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 15:06

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Lots of empathy. Lots. Others people’s beliefs - not my problem.

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:06

NecessaryScene · 20/11/2025 15:05

Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

And note that no-one here is insisting that they share spaces with men. We're simply insisting they don't share spaces with women.

Individual cubicles for people who don't want to share with anyone are a good idea, and it would be great if they were supplied in places with enough room, for the benefit of trans-identifying men or any other men who don't like sharing with men.

Are we reading a different thread? There are plenty of problem here who insist that trans women have to share with men

MalagaNights · 20/11/2025 15:07

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Why does the desire of a male trans person to use women's spaces trump women's needs for a single sex space?

Why do you care about the feelings of 1 man over the rights of all the women who want single sex spaces?

The fact that it's so few men who want this makes it worse. Don't you see that? 1 man's feelings more important than women's rights?

Why can't the sad man use a gender neutral space? Wouldn't that be win win?
He'd not have to use the men's and the women's is only for women.

Why does he have to use the women's?

We know why.

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 15:08

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:04

Did you read the SC judgement?

They made allowances for male children. I believe they said ‘under 10 years old’. It was mentioned specifically.

And any male person that has a valid reason to be in there such as a cleaner or maintenance staff will have a sign out so female people can make a choice.

If a set of toilets breaks, again, signage can be used to warn people about it so they can make a choice.

Consent is key here

The scenarios you mention do not mean a law cannot be made. And sure, there will always be exceptions available for exceptional circumstances.

Edited

Yes I have. The SC judgement applies to organisations, employers and so forth, but not to individuals. It clarifies those organisations legal responsibilities to provide single sex spaces.

It does not criminalise individuals who, for whatever reason, go into the wrong space for their sex. The EA does not apply to individuals.

It remains true that a man in a woman's loo is not (absent any other activities) breaking any law.

Let me be clearer as perhaps I should have said this in the previous post - we are extremely unlikely to see a law which criminalises individuals for being in the wrong sex space.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2025 15:11

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:06

Are we reading a different thread? There are plenty of problem here who insist that trans women have to share with men

I don’t. And I’m fairly hardline. I just don’t want them in the women’s. If people want to set up third spaces, I have no issue. Not really anything to do with women needing single sex spaces as long as the red line is observed.

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 15:06

Lots of empathy. Lots. Others people’s beliefs - not my problem.

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 15:13

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 15:08

Yes I have. The SC judgement applies to organisations, employers and so forth, but not to individuals. It clarifies those organisations legal responsibilities to provide single sex spaces.

It does not criminalise individuals who, for whatever reason, go into the wrong space for their sex. The EA does not apply to individuals.

It remains true that a man in a woman's loo is not (absent any other activities) breaking any law.

Let me be clearer as perhaps I should have said this in the previous post - we are extremely unlikely to see a law which criminalises individuals for being in the wrong sex space.

Given that trespass is dealt with under civil, not criminal law, I agree that it seems very unlikely that it would ever be a criminal offence to use an opposite sex toilet.

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:13

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Could you now tell us which other beliefs society should fully support one group’s philosophical belief about themselves that doesn’t reflect material reality to the extent that the belief negatively impacts female people and female people’s needs are considered not important?

”Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

There are many groups of male people who have an ‘aversion’ to sharing spaces with other male people. Does that mean all those male people should be accessing female single sex provisions?

Since when did female people become therapeutic resources or security resources for groups of male people who are not children under about 8 years old?

But gosh… empathy huh?

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 20/11/2025 15:14

My understanding is that while there is no criminal law banning men from women's spaces there is law. Hence all.of the tribunals about sexual harassment / harassment / discrimination etc

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 15:15

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

I don’t care if you understand or empathize with my position. We have a law. If you want to campaign to change the law there’s a way to do so.

Until the law is changed this is what it says. Everyone needs to follow it. Everyone.

MalagaNights · 20/11/2025 15:15

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

Not in all circumstances no (not sure how you'd treat someone as a man or women in all circumstances?) but when sex discrimination is allowed for a legitimate aim.

If you agree they remain their biological sex how do you not recognsie this should apply when sex is relevant?

Presumably you don't belive in single sex spaces being a legitimate aim? It would be easier if you just said this so we could argue whether it is or not, instead of this obfuscation where you pretend we should have single sex spaces for women but also let some male people into them.

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 15:15

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

Yes you do. You are as GC as we are. You said:

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex.

Welcome to TERF Island!

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:16

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:06

Are we reading a different thread? There are plenty of problem here who insist that trans women have to share with men

Yes. If there is no mixed sex alternative.

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 15:16

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

It would be unlawful to discriminate against somebody because of their gender critical beliefs, but you are under no obligation to share them.

However, the law on single sex spaces relates to the protected characteristic of sex, not belief.

RedToothBrush · 20/11/2025 15:16

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 13:25

I’m not saying no one has abused it. Does the tiny percentage of people abusing the system mean we should remove it for the majority trying to quietly live their lives?

Yes.

Because that's what safeguarding is.

Did you miss that training session?

SinnerBoy · 20/11/2025 15:17

OneDeepLimeScroller

I’m not saying no one has abused it. Does the tiny percentage of people abusing the system mean we should remove it for the majority trying to quietly live their lives?

Surely you can see that if you let one in, you let all in? What about women who, for whatever reason, cannot be in a space with a man?

Tough on them, because some TW aren't behaving badly, though their presence is upsetting?

WandaSiri · 20/11/2025 15:17

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:16

Yes. If there is no mixed sex alternative.

I second this.

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 15:17

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 15:13

Given that trespass is dealt with under civil, not criminal law, I agree that it seems very unlikely that it would ever be a criminal offence to use an opposite sex toilet.

I am not sure it would fall into trespass either to be honest, but it's an interesting idea. Maybe it could?

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 15:18

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 15:17

I am not sure it would fall into trespass either to be honest, but it's an interesting idea. Maybe it could?

I don't think it would fall under trespass, but I think the reasoning is similar.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2025 15:19

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

So why are you attempting to emotionally blackmail other people about whether they have any empathy, given you don’t have any yourself? Hypocritical, no?

I doubt anyone here is too bothered what you think about them tbh.

RedToothBrush · 20/11/2025 15:20

I'm fed up of this.

Safeguarding training going to the wind and is ignored because identity training is somehow more important.

Except it's not. It's the other way round. It's just that safeguarding isn't trendy but identity is.

That's the difference.

And we are supposed to ignore safeguarding training when it doesn't suit identity issues. Which is literally the very thing you shouldnt do with safeguarding.

It is absolutely fucking bonkers.

MalagaNights · 20/11/2025 15:20

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 15:11

I don’t share your gender critical beliefs so I don’t understand or empathise with your position. You’re right, it’s not my problem

I do not belive men can become women or that we should pretend some men are women so I don't empathise with people who do think that or wish it was true.
I don't care which toilet they use as long as it's not the women's.
Not my problem.

And the law agrees.

If you have no empathy for women why were you imagining you could shame us into having empathy for male trans people?

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 15:20

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2025 15:19

So why are you attempting to emotionally blackmail other people about whether they have any empathy, given you don’t have any yourself? Hypocritical, no?

I doubt anyone here is too bothered what you think about them tbh.

Funnily enough, a page back on this thread, @OneDeepLimeScroller said:

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex.

Literal genocide!!

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:20

If a male person makes a deliberate choice to enter a female single sex space, knowing that they should not be in that space, and that it may distress female people in that space, what is their motivation that society must support?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 20/11/2025 15:21

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Are you so lacking in empathy that you cannot see the issues for women?

I hear you. You would really like for women not to have any issues with men in their spaces, or at least not ones that anyone mentions. And failing that, you would really like for those women not to matter and their voices not to be heard and for their needs to go unmet. And you would like men's rights to have primacy.

It's certainly a point of view.