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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Times has seen a copy of EHRC's final guidance

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Igneococcus · 19/11/2025 21:53

and it looks like it's pretty rubbish:
"Under the new guidance, places such as hospital wards, gyms and leisure centres will be able to question transgender women over whether they should be using single-sex services based on how they look, their behaviour or concerns raised by others."

https://www.thetimes.com/article/82eecc43-711f-4c0a-b669-42d09d60d63e?shareToken=e5c7b92df4468caa07dbd71d66c660ab

Trans people could be banned from single-sex spaces based on how they look

The Times has seen the equalities watchdog’s final guidance, which Whitehall figures fear Bridget Phillipson is delaying to avoid a political backlash

https://www.thetimes.com/article/82eecc43-711f-4c0a-b669-42d09d60d63e?shareToken=e5c7b92df4468caa07dbd71d66c660ab

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nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 14:40

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:21

It’s interesting that it stopped working when an increasingly hostile press started publishing thousands of negative articles about trans people

There would be fewer negative articles about trans people if Stonewall hadn't campaigned for the police to recognise the gender identity of any violent man deciding post arrest that he would get an easier time in prison if he were a woman, with the bonus of easy access to prey.

There would be fewer negative articles about trans people if Mermaids hadn't campaigned for children to be given unevidenced, harmful treatment.

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:41

MalagaNights · 20/11/2025 14:22

"men still use the mens and women still use the womens. Trans people generally try to use the space that causes the least amount of fuss."

@OneDeepLimeScroller You seem to think that trans people are no longer male and female? You are wrong, they have not changed sex.

The space that will create the least fuss following the SCJ will be the facilities for their biological sex.
So do you agree they should use those?

If they've had so much cosmetic surgery that causes them problems they'll need to ask their employer for a mixed sex space and campaign for more of these if they wish.

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 14:44

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:08

We’re talking about less than 1% of the population, so I’m trying to understand where it’s been such a large scale problem to require total exclusion

We’re actually talking about 50% of the population. Women are 50% of the population. Stop centreing the men involved here.

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 14:45

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:41

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

In most circumstances it's unlawful to discriminate.

In the situations where sex discrimination is lawful, it's a situation where sex is relevant.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/11/2025 14:46

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 10:33

Sex is, but secondary sex characteristics are not and are how we identify sex. Being able to change your driving license or passport makes life easier and reduces friction from having an ID that doesn’t reflect how people see you.

Do you think a trans man that has a beard and could be perceived as male will have an easier time with an ID that says male or female?

Oh er yeah... I don't care. We can't have laws based on whatever is easiest for people who want to lie about reality. Or how people feel.

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 14:46

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:41

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

How can it possibly be dehumanizing or cruel to be told to use a toilet designed for humans in a room shared with people of the same sex? You’re not making any sense.

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 14:48

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:21

It’s interesting that it stopped working when an increasingly hostile press started publishing thousands of negative articles about trans people

Men really don't like women saying "No", do they?

Who was "it" "working for" exactly? Certainly not women, who had not been consulted.

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 14:49

Waiting to hear the “most vulnerable” tropes any time right about now.

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 14:50

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 14:49

Waiting to hear the “most vulnerable” tropes any time right about now.

Indeed. Waiting for "The most vulnerable and marginalised sector of society, who just want to pee" to be invoked.

NecessaryScene · 20/11/2025 14:51

EmmyFr · 20/11/2025 09:56

Sorry, making my point clearer : there is such a thing as an ID to prove you're over 18. But unless I'm mistaken, you can have a genuine ID falsifying your sex. For people with GRC. It's not tractable is it?

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

But forcing women to share "female-only" spaces with men isn't dehumanising or cruel, because women aren't really human.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/11/2025 14:53

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 20/11/2025 10:54

What we need is a change in societal attitudes, so that it once again becomes unacceptable to most people for a man to enter women's spaces, and so that man claiming to be women (and vice versa) are not affirmed in their false claim. I do, however, have concerns that the pendulum may swing too far and society may become too unaccepting of eccentricity and we may get pushback not only against bad behaviour but against anyone who doesn't conform to stereotypes and norms.

In other words, we need some societal boundaries but they need to be in a sensible place, and some degree of pushing boundaries is possible without breaking the boundaries. Boundaries and norms protect people from harm, but can be over-restrictive. The law has a place in setting boundaries, but is a blunt instrument for enforcing them. Societal pressures are the usual way of doing this. We used to have a fairly consistent conservative set of expectations. In pointing out that some of them (the taboo against divorce, for example) had some bad consequences, we have opened ourselves up to a society with no consensus. How do we get to a society with consensus on boundaries, but not at the conservative (rigid and overly constraining) or liberal (absolutely anything goes) extremes?

I wouldn't worry just yet. The pendulum hasn't even swung back to the middle yet. Nor am I seeing many signs that it will do any time soon. Call me a pessimist if you like

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 20/11/2025 14:55

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:41

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

Lots and lots in the SCJ about the provision of additional gender neutral spaces, which meets the needs without harming women's needed single sex spaces.

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 14:56

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:21

It’s interesting that it stopped working when an increasingly hostile press started publishing thousands of negative articles about trans people

How bizarre? That you think it was ‘working’?

When in reality, it never ‘worked’. Women just felt they had no option. Everytime people post this kind of ignorant take, we have to remind them that firstly, there are people who are regulars on Mn who have reported being sexually abused by males with transgender identities in female toilets even three decades ago. Of course, as a teenager or a woman then, people just left and never reported it because why would you? If rapes even then were not investigated why would sexual abuse?

Then there has been the marked increase in numbers over the past decade. And yes, there have been problems. Women have reported to their employers or to organisations and been ignored or told they were the problem.

But apparently, it was never a problem before according to you. I guess if you ignore the anecdotes where women and girls were simply ignored and ignore the fact that women and girls were told that they must accept this, sure… no problem at all.

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 14:57

Greyskybluesky · 20/11/2025 13:29

Because there are some legitimate reasons why a male may be in a female single sex space or vice versa.

What are they?

Please don't come back with cleaners, doctors or other workers whose presence has been announced beforehand

You might roll your eyes at it, but yes that is kind of the point. The law has no interest in criminalising mothers taking male children into female loos, or opposite sex members of staff cleaning or doing checks, or even those who go into the wrong loo completely by accident. Making a blanket law rendering it illegal for a male to be in a female space is far too blunt a tool and would catch a lot of people it's simply not designed for.

Then there is the question of how the space is defined because if you were going to have such a law you will need to clearly and unequivocally define the boundaries of the single sex space for it to function. What if one set of toilets breaks and everyone has to use the other? How does that work in law if you've already defined two separate single sex spaces in your organisation and your employees have that expectation?

I'm not saying we shouldn't have single sex spaces nor that they're not important - they are. What I am saying is that we are extremely unlikely to ever see an actual law which makes it illegal for a male / female to be in a female / male space.

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 20/11/2025 14:46

How can it possibly be dehumanizing or cruel to be told to use a toilet designed for humans in a room shared with people of the same sex? You’re not making any sense.

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 14:59

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:41

No, I don’t think trans people have changed sex. I just think it isn’t helpful to treat them
as their birth sex in all circumstances.

I don’t think forcing trans people into spaces for their birth sex will cause the least fuss. It’s dehumanising and cruel.

So you think it's "dehumanising and cruel" for men to be expected to use the single sex spaces provided for men. But it's fine for women, and not dehumanising at all, to be expected to share with men in their spaces?

Make your mind up. And please make it make sense.

NecessaryScene · 20/11/2025 15:00

Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

1 man with that aversion in a male space = 1 person's suffering.
1 man in a female space = all women who want to use that space suffering.

You've just made the situation much worse.

Unless you think 1 man is more important than any number of women?

Oh, you do.

Carry on.

ProfRedLorryYellowLorry · 20/11/2025 15:00

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Basically translated (see what I did there) as: "Shut up women! You are only here to validate the mens who think they are womens! Do not give them hurty feels!"

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2025 15:01

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:21

It’s interesting that it stopped working when an increasingly hostile press started publishing thousands of negative articles about trans people

No, it never worked. Most women don’t want men in women’s spaces, thanks.

nicepotoftea · 20/11/2025 15:02

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

That would be an argument for making reasonable adjustment and providing unisex toilets. However, plenty of people hold beliefs that other people are not required to affirm.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2025 15:04

OneDeepLimeScroller · 20/11/2025 14:57

Are you so lacking in empathy that you can’t possibly see a problem with that situation? Trans people hold a strong belief that they were meant to be the opposite six and experience gender dysphoria because of that mismatch. Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

Are you lacking in empathy for women and girls who don’t want men in female spaces. They’re men. They don’t belong there, and it’s a violation of my rights to privacy and dignity as well as putting me at much greater risk of sexual assault and harassment than a genuinely women only space would do.

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 15:04

Bagsintheboot · 20/11/2025 14:57

You might roll your eyes at it, but yes that is kind of the point. The law has no interest in criminalising mothers taking male children into female loos, or opposite sex members of staff cleaning or doing checks, or even those who go into the wrong loo completely by accident. Making a blanket law rendering it illegal for a male to be in a female space is far too blunt a tool and would catch a lot of people it's simply not designed for.

Then there is the question of how the space is defined because if you were going to have such a law you will need to clearly and unequivocally define the boundaries of the single sex space for it to function. What if one set of toilets breaks and everyone has to use the other? How does that work in law if you've already defined two separate single sex spaces in your organisation and your employees have that expectation?

I'm not saying we shouldn't have single sex spaces nor that they're not important - they are. What I am saying is that we are extremely unlikely to ever see an actual law which makes it illegal for a male / female to be in a female / male space.

Did you read the SC judgement?

They made allowances for male children. I believe they said ‘under 10 years old’. It was mentioned specifically.

And any male person that has a valid reason to be in there such as a cleaner or maintenance staff will have a sign out so female people can make a choice.

If a set of toilets breaks, again, signage can be used to warn people about it so they can make a choice.

Consent is key here

The scenarios you mention do not mean a law cannot be made. And sure, there will always be exceptions available for exceptional circumstances.

NecessaryScene · 20/11/2025 15:05

Maybe it’s possible they share the same aversion to sharing spaces with men that you do?

And note that no-one here is insisting that they share spaces with men. We're simply insisting they don't share spaces with women.

Individual cubicles for people who don't want to share with anyone are a good idea, and it would be great if they were supplied in places with enough room, for the benefit of trans-identifying men or any other men who don't like sharing with men.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 20/11/2025 15:06

My apologies, if this has been posted up thread, a link to an interview with Helen Joyces and her interpretation of the guidance.

NecessaryScene · 20/11/2025 15:06

The scenarios you mention do not mean a law cannot be made.

Come on - "No X without authorisation from Y" is far too complex a thing to put in legislation. No-one would understand it.