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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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Misla · 07/11/2025 16:11

Good. Well done that parent!

Charity is accused of failing to follow Supreme Court ruling on gender, leaving girls ‘exposed to harassment’

Girlguiding is facing legal action from a parent over its transgender policy which she claims discriminates against her seven-year-old daughter.

The claimant, who has asked to remain anonymous to protect her daughter’s identity, has alleged in a pre-action letter to Girlguiding that the organisation’s policy “exposes girls to harassment”.

Under the policy, trans girls — boys who identify as girls — are allowed to join Girlguiding, and trans women — adult males who identify as female — are permitted to undertake volunteer roles previously reserved for women.

“It constitutes and encourages unwanted conduct which violates their [girls’] dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment,” the correspondence said.

“This includes, but is not limited to: sharing toilets, showers or changing facilities with boys, contact sports with boys, and sharing accommodation with boys, all without their prior knowledge or consent.”

The letter goes on to point out that Girlguiding operates “as a charity for the benefit of girls and young women”.

Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 17:06

Regarding Scouts, although they are a mixed sex organisation, I believe they're still allowing children who have been encouraged to believe they're the wrong sex to sleep, etc. with children of the sex they identify as. I hope I'm wrong, if anyone knows better?

TheignT · 08/11/2025 17:12

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 16:56

Those posters who want to support trans girls (male children) should go and set up their own mixed-sex activities group for anyone with a feminine presentation.

You could call it "glitter club" or something.
Unfortunately the name 'rainbows' is already taken.

You don't get to hijack the existing female-only organisation without a fight.
Go set up your own.
(Then wait to see how many female children actually want to join.)

Plenty join scouting.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 17:15

DustyWindowsills · 08/11/2025 14:32

You may be forgetting Ranger Guides.

I suspect that poster has only a vague knowledge of the sections of Girl Guidiing and has clung onto the one to two they've heard of. Anyone who has actually been involved in Guiding could name - Rainbows (4 -7), Brownies (7 - 10), Guides (10 - 14), Rangers (14 - 18).

Even a quick look at the GG website could have told them this.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 17:18

TheignT · 08/11/2025 17:12

Plenty join scouting.

Scouts is not specifically for children with a feminine presentation, i.e. those who want to do "girly" things.
Not that GG is just for girly things (far from it) but I assume that is what the trans girls are looking for.
If a trans girl (male child) was happy to join scouts instead of GG, he would have done that already.

MyAmpleSheep · 08/11/2025 17:25

Lowzi · 08/11/2025 14:15

To differentiate itself from the mixed sex scouts and precursors to it.

(I did scouts. I was never harmed by any one. Despite males both young and old being present).

Explain carefully which boys you're going to allow to join GG and which are excluded.

KatieAlcock · 08/11/2025 17:53

dynamiccactus · 08/11/2025 13:25

And are not the problem anyway.

The people who are the problem are the trans identifying Guide Leaders. There is no world in which a male bodied trans identifying Guide leader has a benign intent. A genuine trans identifying person would volunteer with the scouts instead. Or at parkrun. Or a chess club. Anything mixed-sex.

I've had two teenagers become romantically involved during my time as a Guide leader. They were both actual girls and all we had to do was say "if you want to gaze into each others' eyes save it for an actual date" but at camp with one of those "girls" being male? That IS a risk and not one GG is acknowledging.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 17:55

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:41

If your main priority is the inclusion of men and boys to the detriment of women and girls, you aren't a feminist. You are a male rights activist.

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I smell a trans parent here. As Helen Joyce has noted, they can't ever admit that trans kids are not a thing, because to do so, would be to admit to abusing their own children horribly. They're in it for life.

SockQueen · 08/11/2025 17:58

Missproportionate · 08/11/2025 16:10

Yes that’s great - but the very big difference is that girls are kept safe as they have separate sleeping arrangements and safeguarding in place and everyone knows who is who. Same with Air Cadets and other youth groups

Last I checked, while Scouts is mixed sex, they still allow self-ID, so there's nothing stopping trans-identifying children from using the bathrooms/sleeping facilities of their chosen gender rather than biological sex. I don't think this has changed since the SC judgement, but could be wrong.

So while I'm a Guide leader and share everyone's concerns about current policies, I think it's only fair that other organisations face similar scrutiny.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:03

TheAutumnalCrow · 08/11/2025 13:04

That’s legal garbage.

If this gross misunderstanding of the SCJ and the EA is common, then I might be on the way to understanding why so many companies etc. are having trouble implementing the law and are wailing for "guidance"

It's not an excuse mind you, legal advice is available. Lawyers exist.

But I had no idea that the above nonsense was what some people actually believe.
BTW "wailing" is not a typo lol.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:08

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

"I'd rather spend time with people who affirm my misogynistic bullshit and don't make reasonable arguments as to why I'm wrong"

Misla · 08/11/2025 18:18

Lowzi · 08/11/2025 14:13

So can 10 year old girls.

So why the focus on a small number of boys and not harmful behaviours and beliefs. Like hatred, bullying and harmful online content/violent content.

Yes, I'm sure the Guides and Brownies have never focussed on those things 🙄

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MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:20

RedToothBrush · 08/11/2025 14:16

There are plenty of incidents of sexual assault happening in primary schools unfortunately.

Perhaps you would like to keep in touch with reality on this. It's been extensively reported in the press just how young some kids who are behaving this way are.

These kids now have access to porn on their phones. Ten year olds! And younger. As well as a whole load of grooming sites and trans nonsense. They ARE a danger and they are IN danger themselves. None of it is good

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:23

dynamiccactus · 08/11/2025 13:25

And are not the problem anyway.

The people who are the problem are the trans identifying Guide Leaders. There is no world in which a male bodied trans identifying Guide leader has a benign intent. A genuine trans identifying person would volunteer with the scouts instead. Or at parkrun. Or a chess club. Anything mixed-sex.

Yes. You really have to wonder what kind of grown man wants to be a girl guide leader?
I mean, girl guides, like cheerleaders schoolgirls etc are a known fetish for some men. Horrendous as that is.

DuesToTheDirt · 08/11/2025 18:23

RedToothBrush · 08/11/2025 08:08

I expect safeguarding regardless of how children or adults identify. Safeguarding in various situations - overnight, changing facilities and contact sport definitely needs to be applied. Otherwise why do we have them at all? And we know we have these safeguards for good reason. We therefore don't abandon them the second someone identifies out of their gender because sex and gender are separate things and physically sex doesn't change regardless of how you identify. This is recognised legally.

In terms of how girls/ women have less confidence and different physical abilities and physical barriers I have come to appreciate some single sex only groups.

It is recognised by a number of outdoor adventure sports that the macho nature of boys puts off female participation. The official governing bodies have been putting these on, because they recognise this and they recognise that women want to talk about biological issues without men present. They have realised that different coaching styles work better for different sexes as a result. For example for kayaking women face certain challenges in terms of simply carrying equipment and physical strength in the water. They don't want men to patronise them and necessarily pick up boats for them. They prefer to work in pairs so they don't have to rely on the physical strength of the men. In coaching they tend take longer to build confidence to approach the same obstacle and this is largely because the men have more brute force and ignorance whereas the women - even the bigger ones - can't match them for strength and have to rely far more on strength. There's also a whole bunch of issues around periods etc. It's not that women can't do these activities - it's just that in practice they have to do them differently. It's about time we recognised this.

It's totally understandable for Guides too. In school from primary age the boys do dominate physical activity with a much more rough and tumble aspect. This is fine and great and some girls are happy with that. Others less so. That doesn't mean they don't want to do the same activities. It means they want to do them without being dominated by the boys.

Guiding and Scouting have completely different cultures and ways of doing things. Personally I think guiding isn't well run and needs a rocket up it's arse, but I also think there's a place for it, if it gets it act together.

Anyone who doesn't understand all this is following outdated bullshit and needs to get their head out of their arse before they find themselves legally up shit creek.

That's really interesting. Whatever the "trans girls are girls" idiots think, safeguarding is an obvious issue, and so is privacy, especially for teenagers going through puberty. But I hadn't thought at all about outdoor activities and how they are different for boys and girls.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 18:28

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:23

Yes. You really have to wonder what kind of grown man wants to be a girl guide leader?
I mean, girl guides, like cheerleaders schoolgirls etc are a known fetish for some men. Horrendous as that is.

I found it quite unsettling that currently on the GG shop, they are selling adult sized 90's style Brownie t-shirts. Not adult uniform for Brownie Guiders but the old style children's uniform in adult sizes.

Datun · 08/11/2025 18:31

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:23

Yes. You really have to wonder what kind of grown man wants to be a girl guide leader?
I mean, girl guides, like cheerleaders schoolgirls etc are a known fetish for some men. Horrendous as that is.

This kind

Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy
LostMySocks · 08/11/2025 18:35

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:16

Trans girls are not boys. Anyone who has ever worked with trans young people knows this. They are people trying to move through the world and be accepted for who they are, not who others think they should be. They are a very small number of children who identify and live as girls, often at great personal cost. Girlguiding’s approach doesn’t remove anything from other girls, it simply makes sure that those few young people aren’t excluded from the same friendship, confidence and safety that Guiding does such an excellent job of providing.

Girlguiding can still be a girl-only organisation and include trans girls, because the Equality Act protects both sex and gender reassignment. Inclusion doesn’t need to erase anyone - we can widen the circle of care without anyone losing our if we just let go of such damaging rhetoric and transphobic views.

If we accept this then we have to acknowledge that trans girls are male.
We cannot support stealthing.
We have to put safeguarding in place that we don't have mixed sex sleeping or toileting or washing.
Teenagers are going to teenage whatever their sex or however they identify.
If nothing else how would a trans girl feel about being put on a birth certificate as a father or being up on a charge of sexual assault by deception.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:36

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 18:28

I found it quite unsettling that currently on the GG shop, they are selling adult sized 90's style Brownie t-shirts. Not adult uniform for Brownie Guiders but the old style children's uniform in adult sizes.

Brrrrrrr ugh

MistyGreenAndBlue · 08/11/2025 18:40

Datun · 08/11/2025 18:31

This kind

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Yes him! Urrrrrgh. How GG didn't see the huge red flags all over this one is baffling

Another2Cats · 08/11/2025 18:57

Lowzi · 08/11/2025 14:27

This is true. But both the legal case and the article present that as not being the case.

The whole issue is "potential harassment" and or "discrimination". Which is presenting any none female in the program as a threat to their inclusion or safety.

Very different from it just being a different environment to scouts so girls can be themselves without feeling embarrassed or judged, wouldn't you agree?

Having an environment where girls can be themselves, free from judgment, is all about discrimination.

It is being able to lawfully discriminate that allows women to have spaces of their own. However, that discrimination does not mean that you can have a club which is "girls and some boys" as that would be direct discrimination against the particular group of boys that were not accepted. It may also be indirect discrimination for the girls as well.

"Which is presenting any none female in the program as a threat to their inclusion or safety."

Someone once said this, talking generally rather than specifically about the guides, but I think it is still appropriate in this situation:
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There are various rationales for the need for women-only spaces. These include:

Women have an interest in self-determination. The role of women in society has, historically, been disproportionately determined by others, that is, men. For this reason it is particularly important that women, without men - the ‘others’ who did all the previous determining - are able to decide matters of importance themselves. Women need spaces of their own in order to self-determine, but also, by the act of creating spaces in which to be inaccessible, women are also exercising self-determination.

Self determination particularly justifies exclusion in spaces where there is the chance for women to talk and raise consciousness. This allows women to talk openly about and debate issues of interest from a female view without the presence of men.

Women also have an interest in respite from men; a break from male attitudes, expectations and behaviours. Women and men are generally socialised very differently, and this leads to differences in the average behaviour of women and men, which colours their interactions. Women are required to deal with these male attitudes, expectations and behaviours in mixed-sex spaces. Women-only spaces can provide an important respite from this.

There is no reason to think that transitioning (which does not necessarily involve hormones or surgery) would switch someone from demonstrating male-typical behaviour patterns to female-typical patterns. If trans-identifying men will bring some or all of these male-typical attitudes, expectations and behaviours into these spaces then that is, on its face, reason to exclude trans-identifying men from those spaces.

This rationale does not depend on it being the case that a particular male person would in fact bring male-socialised behaviours into a space. It is enough that women have to manage this possibility when men are around. Women-only spaces provide respite not just from certain sorts of behaviours, but from having to make contingency plans about what to do in light of certain sorts of behaviours - from being on guard.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 18:58

Just spotted this slightly bizarre thread on Active.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/ami_beingunreasonable/5440998-girl-guide-thread?utmcampaign=thread&utmmedium=appshare

Edited to add, Ah, it's been deleted. OP was claiming that Scouts was set up by Lord Mountbatten.

GuidingSpirit · 08/11/2025 19:23

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 18:28

I found it quite unsettling that currently on the GG shop, they are selling adult sized 90's style Brownie t-shirts. Not adult uniform for Brownie Guiders but the old style children's uniform in adult sizes.

That was a limited edition retro range for leaders. GG are launching a new uniform in 2026 for all sections and one of the bits of feedback from current leaders was how much everyone loved the 90s uniform (probably as it was the time that many current leaders were guides and brownies themselves). It has been massively popular with the current leaders.

Namechanged999999 · 08/11/2025 19:33

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 18:58

Just spotted this slightly bizarre thread on Active.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/ami_beingunreasonable/5440998-girl-guide-thread?utmcampaign=thread&utmmedium=appshare

Edited to add, Ah, it's been deleted. OP was claiming that Scouts was set up by Lord Mountbatten.

Edited

Apologies, i did clarify on the thread that I’d got that wrong and it was baden Powell. It was then rightly deleted.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 19:36

GuidingSpirit · 08/11/2025 19:23

That was a limited edition retro range for leaders. GG are launching a new uniform in 2026 for all sections and one of the bits of feedback from current leaders was how much everyone loved the 90s uniform (probably as it was the time that many current leaders were guides and brownies themselves). It has been massively popular with the current leaders.

Really? I was a Brownie in the 90's, wore that uniform and have also been a Guider in a Brownie unit. It's not something I can imagine ever buying. Where on earth would you wear it? Are Leaders allowed to wear it at actual meetings or events?

SusannaSpiderHands · 08/11/2025 19:42

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 19:36

Really? I was a Brownie in the 90's, wore that uniform and have also been a Guider in a Brownie unit. It's not something I can imagine ever buying. Where on earth would you wear it? Are Leaders allowed to wear it at actual meetings or events?

The retro range was just sweatshirts, I think, or that was all I saw being worn? Fine for leaders and the girls to wear.