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Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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Misla · 07/11/2025 16:11

Good. Well done that parent!

Charity is accused of failing to follow Supreme Court ruling on gender, leaving girls ‘exposed to harassment’

Girlguiding is facing legal action from a parent over its transgender policy which she claims discriminates against her seven-year-old daughter.

The claimant, who has asked to remain anonymous to protect her daughter’s identity, has alleged in a pre-action letter to Girlguiding that the organisation’s policy “exposes girls to harassment”.

Under the policy, trans girls — boys who identify as girls — are allowed to join Girlguiding, and trans women — adult males who identify as female — are permitted to undertake volunteer roles previously reserved for women.

“It constitutes and encourages unwanted conduct which violates their [girls’] dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment,” the correspondence said.

“This includes, but is not limited to: sharing toilets, showers or changing facilities with boys, contact sports with boys, and sharing accommodation with boys, all without their prior knowledge or consent.”

The letter goes on to point out that Girlguiding operates “as a charity for the benefit of girls and young women”.

Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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Datun · 08/11/2025 12:22

Having the PC of GR does not give people the legal right to use single sex spaces of the opposite sex

This.

they have the protected characteristic of gender reassignment, Mammamumma, which means they cannot be discriminated against on the basis of it.

But the Supreme Court ruling clarified that they're not being discriminated against on that basis, (because girls who are trans can be included), but on the basis of their sex.

Hence the need to clarify that boys, however they identify, are still biologically male.

Witchlite · 08/11/2025 12:24

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

Absolutely, they can include boys ( which includes transgirls) but they cannot include transgirls, but not the rest of the boys. As soon as transgirls are included it becomes mixed sex - this goes against their stated aims.

They will still be trans inclusive. Transboys would and should be included - there was a time they GG started to say they weren’t welcome, with is totally transphobic and disgusting.

On the other hand, I find Misogyny pretty disgusting too.

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:25

sashh · 08/11/2025 10:56

They are not girls, abused or otherwise. No they do not need access to single sex spaces for women and girls. And you have not provided any evidence

Sexuality does not come in to this. Why would you even introduce this?

No one is hating 'trans girls' just that they should not be welcome in a female only space, it stops that space being female only.

That impacts every girl guide and the leaders.

It also makes it harder / impossible for girls from a strict religious / cultural background to join. Growing up in northern town when I went to guides it was all white girls even though the area has a significant Muslim population.

Muslim parents are not going to send their daughter to camp with a boy in the tent. And if that girl goes to camp and it is only then that she realises there is a boy that can be culturally very difficult and the ramifications will include Muslim (possibly Jewish) and other 'sheltered' girls being withdrawn.

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

And honestly, that suggestion is what’s inappropriate here. We’re talking about children and young people who just want to belong somewhere safe. To assume that a trans girl’s presence automatically carries a sexual threat is not only wrong, it’s deeply damaging.

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls. Turning inclusion into a conversation about sex says more about adults’ prejudices than it does about the young people involved.

And please don’t use Muslim families as a reason to exclude trans girls. Girlguiding already handles faith and cultural needs sensitively, parents discuss sleeping arrangements, and safeguarding applies to everyone.No one is suddenly “put in a tent with a boy.” Trans girls are treated as girls and their presence is supported carefully - an inclusive culture for all faiths, abilities and genders should be celebrated.

MyAmpleSheep · 08/11/2025 12:27

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one

Evidence for this quite extraordinary claim, please?

Talkinpeace · 08/11/2025 12:27

Trans means not
Trans girls are not girls
they are boys
from conception onwards they are male
and may not use female single sex spaces or facilities

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:28

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:17

No, the ruling said that if you are using the single sex exemptions to make your organisation female only, then that is only for biological females.

You can't say it's female only, and then make it mixed sex.

You could include boys, if you want to, but you cannot then use the single six exemption. It has to be advertised as a mixed sex organisation, like the Scouts.

Among other things, what this means is you cannot allow boys to join an organisation that is just for girls, in order to validate their self perception. If they want to join, they can, but then so can every other boy.

It is not the job of women and young girls to sit around validating males by undermining their own organisations.

Couldn't put it better. All this waffling about the Gender reassignment characteristic is completely irrelevant in relation to an single sex exemption being used..

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:28

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls

No it doesn't not when it treats men as if they were women. Not when their rule is not to inform parents that their daughter will be sharing a tent with a boy.

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:30

Datun · 08/11/2025 11:18

Good Lord. Who brought you up to believe that women and girls are nothing more than a resource for men and boys?

Support humans, denying their own name, space and feelings, just in order to validate the sex that you think is vastly more important.

Shocking, I know, but women and girls are human, and we operate independently. We're not just a service for males.

edited to add:

the only thing standing in the way is a broken ruling from the supreme court (which organisations have the freedom to interpret)

lol

Edited

That's an offensive, nasty and manipulative response and an inaccurate reading of my post. I’ve never suggested women or girls exist to serve anyone, quite the opposite.

I believe all girls, including trans girls, deserve safety, respect, and the freedom to be themselves without being treated as a threat. Supporting a marginalised minority of young people doesn’t diminish women; it’s part of what equality actually means.

You seem to have very little compassion - do you work with young people?

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:32

Transgirls are boys

SusannaSpiderHands · 08/11/2025 12:35

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:22

Don't forget that Girl Guides wouldn't allow girls who identified as boys to join although I believe they have now changed that policy. That was unlawful discrimination based on the PC of GR

At the time this blew my mind. We had a transboy then who had been with us since Brownies and we just fudged it. She was young, vulnerable and autistic - as seems to be the way. I deal mainly in practicalities and there was no practical reason not to include her. Over the years she's dropped the trans and she's still involved in guiding.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 08/11/2025 12:37

believe all girls, including trans girls boys, deserve safety, respect, and the freedom to be themselves without being treated as a threat

fixed it for you

trans girls are boys. On what planet do you live that you cannot understand that teenage boys can be a threat to girls?

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:40

Thinking men can be women is a threat to feminism

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 12:41

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:25

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

And honestly, that suggestion is what’s inappropriate here. We’re talking about children and young people who just want to belong somewhere safe. To assume that a trans girl’s presence automatically carries a sexual threat is not only wrong, it’s deeply damaging.

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls. Turning inclusion into a conversation about sex says more about adults’ prejudices than it does about the young people involved.

And please don’t use Muslim families as a reason to exclude trans girls. Girlguiding already handles faith and cultural needs sensitively, parents discuss sleeping arrangements, and safeguarding applies to everyone.No one is suddenly “put in a tent with a boy.” Trans girls are treated as girls and their presence is supported carefully - an inclusive culture for all faiths, abilities and genders should be celebrated.

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

Okay I can see where the confusion arose. Bringing lesbians into the argument did muddy the waters.

You do realise that teenage 'trans girls' are teenage males? You do realise how strong male pubescent sexuality is?
Many may be confused about their sexuality. Some will be gay males, some will be straight males. Some will be bisexual males.
It is daft and very naïve to think it is correct safeguarding to let male teenagers into female changing spaces and sleeping tents.
There absolutely is a risk, no matter how a male 'identifies'.
Even if a particular male child is "absolutely safe", policy is made by considering groups and classifications, not individuals. You can't run an organisation on a case-by-case basis.

And even if the poor male child is dosed up on hormones or puberty blockers, it is wrong as a matter of principle to let males into female spaces.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:41

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

If your main priority is the inclusion of men and boys to the detriment of women and girls, you aren't a feminist. You are a male rights activist.

TheignT · 08/11/2025 12:42

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:09

Safeguarding isn't about individual people, tho, is it.

You don't base your safeguarding policy on one leader who says oh I'm fine.

Edited

Funnily enough I worked with other leaders and we were a safe space for all our children.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 12:45

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

Where is your compassion and empathy for the female children who don't want male children in their spaces?
Compassion goes both ways, unless you are just prioritising males.

SinnerBoy · 08/11/2025 12:47

I'll stop you right there:

It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic...

That's a strawman, nobody, nobody at all has said that.

...nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

Another strawman, you're deploying a regular brigade of them!

The SC Judgment ruled that spaces and services described as single sex must be just that, in order to be legally compliant. Your ridiculous assertion that "transgirls" are not boys and should, therefore, be allowed access to female spaces / organisations, is scarcely worthy of contempt.

SusannaSpiderHands · 08/11/2025 12:54

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 12:41

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

Okay I can see where the confusion arose. Bringing lesbians into the argument did muddy the waters.

You do realise that teenage 'trans girls' are teenage males? You do realise how strong male pubescent sexuality is?
Many may be confused about their sexuality. Some will be gay males, some will be straight males. Some will be bisexual males.
It is daft and very naïve to think it is correct safeguarding to let male teenagers into female changing spaces and sleeping tents.
There absolutely is a risk, no matter how a male 'identifies'.
Even if a particular male child is "absolutely safe", policy is made by considering groups and classifications, not individuals. You can't run an organisation on a case-by-case basis.

And even if the poor male child is dosed up on hormones or puberty blockers, it is wrong as a matter of principle to let males into female spaces.

I was one of the leaders who brought sexuality into this and whilst I really, really wish it wasn't so, sex and sexuality has to be considered when safeguarding teenagers and increasingly pre-teens. Teenagers having sex isn't a recent phenomenon.
And whilst I am very GC and any grown man wanting to be in a female space can gtf, I am very conscious that young people I volunteer with are exactly that, young people who are often vulnerable. Young people who have been led down a path by bad faith actors. I don't want to demonise young girls or boys. But having said all that, I am also conscious of the horrifying amount of sexual assaults that happen at school.
It's a difficult safeguarding road to tread. But unfortunately sex and sexuality has to be a big consideration in safeguarding young people.

NothingTraLaLa · 08/11/2025 12:58

It doesn’t even have to be about the risk of sexual abuse. There is also the risk of “consensual” (noting that all Guides will be under the age of consent) sexual activity if you put male and female teens in the same sleeping area. And who will come back from Guide camp pregnant? Not the “trans girl”, that’s for sure.

TheAutumnalCrow · 08/11/2025 13:04

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

That’s legal garbage.

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 13:09

Are Girl Guides still allowing transwomen, adult men, to lead and to go on sleepover events with young girls?

Sorry, if this has already been addressed, I've nrtff. When my kids went to Guides there were often a couple of young girls from Rangers helping out, so older teenagers. Would the current rules permit young men, if they claimed to be trans, to take those positions? How does non-binary fit in all this? Are they excluded or do they get to pick?

plantcomplex · 08/11/2025 13:10

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:16

Trans girls are not boys. Anyone who has ever worked with trans young people knows this. They are people trying to move through the world and be accepted for who they are, not who others think they should be. They are a very small number of children who identify and live as girls, often at great personal cost. Girlguiding’s approach doesn’t remove anything from other girls, it simply makes sure that those few young people aren’t excluded from the same friendship, confidence and safety that Guiding does such an excellent job of providing.

Girlguiding can still be a girl-only organisation and include trans girls, because the Equality Act protects both sex and gender reassignment. Inclusion doesn’t need to erase anyone - we can widen the circle of care without anyone losing our if we just let go of such damaging rhetoric and transphobic views.

Lies.

Your posts are full of lies and that is not acceptable.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 08/11/2025 13:11

@Mammamumma
Trans girls are treated as girls and their presence is supported carefully...

...because you know they are actually boys.

plantcomplex · 08/11/2025 13:11

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

Any toxicity on this thread was within the posts you made.

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