What astonishes me reading these posts is the ongoing conflation of sexuality (and by that I don't mean genetic sex) and gender
No one is conflating sexuality and gender. Sexuality is irrelevant to this issue.
The truth is that most trans girls (and they are in a very small minority) have probably been through hell in their journey to express their gender identity and are desperately in need of a safe girl-only space in which they can be their true selves and find some solace away from the very same damaging patriarchal behaviour and mysogeny that the majority of posters on here are calling out.
They may be desperate to be in a girl-only space, but why should that mean that a girls-only organisation should welcome them in? Sometimes in life you can't have what you want.
Its simply is NOT the case that a boy would put on girls clothes and live his every day life as a GIRL just so that he could infiltrate female only spaces - that makes absolutely no sense!
Yet in your previous paragraph you said that trans girls (male children) are desperate to be in girl-only spaces.
Of course male children who are not "real" trans girls won't do it just to be in with the females for sexual kicks. I agree that argument (which no-one else here is making) makes no sense in prepubescent males. Adult males are another matter.
And what about lesbian leaders? Are we saying they shouldn't have access to female only spaces? No.
No one is saying that. Their sexuality is utterly irrelevant.
Because they've been through safeguarding checks - the same checks that a trans man or a cis man would go through.
Lesbians are welcome, not because they have been through checks, but because they are female, in a female-only organisation.
And queer girl-guides? What to do with them? Because that absolutely exists,
They can be whatever "gender" they like as long as they are biologically female.
but no-one seems to be worrying (quite rightly) about conduct in same sex spaces because there are standards that are upheld and safeguarding procedures in place to deal with issues and misconduct.
But these safeguarding standards are NOT being upheld if male teenagers are in sleeping tents, changing rooms, contact sports, etc. with females. Not only that, but it is being done in secret without informing all the parents.
We already have all of the tools, procedures and policies in place to welcome trans girls to girl-guiding
But we don't want males in a female only organisation.
, the only thing standing in the way is a broken ruling from the supreme court (which organisations have the freedom to interpret)
Factually incorrect
and, yes, I'm sorry to say it, but transphobia and utter ignorance surrounding trans-identity from the majority of people posting on this thread.
It is not transphobic to want female only organisations to remain female only. If you think that is transphobic, then it just shows you don't think females have the moral right to exclude males - utterly misogynistic of you.
Go ahead and shoot me down. I stand by the fact that trans-girls are amongst the bravest, most vulnerable and most maligned, abused girls in our society and they deserve our support, not our hate
It is irrelevant how vulnerable and maligned and abused the trans girls (male children) are. They still don't belong in female only organisations.
It is possible to feel desperately sad for these male children, horrified at how they have come to be in this situation, and still prioritise the female children's right to female spaces.