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"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 2

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ThreeWordHarpy · 23/10/2025 14:17

Link to Thread 1, 7-Oct to 23-Oct; pre-hearing discussion, evidence from KD (Day 1) and BH (Day 2).

Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital have filed a legal case suing their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses object to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The NHS trust’s HR department dismissed the nurses’ concerns, stating they should “broaden their mindset” and “be educated”. More details can be found at Sex Matters and at Christian Concern who are supporting the nurses via the CLC.

The hearing started on October 20th, with evidence starting on October 22nd and is scheduled to last 3 weeks. To view the hearing online, requests for access had to be made by October 17th. The hearing is being live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have background to this case on their substack. An alternative to X is to use Nitter: nitter.net/tribunaltweets or nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

The Judge made clear at the start of the public hearing on Day 1 that only TT or press have permission to tweet. If online observers see/hear something in the court that isn’t reported by TT, we don’t mention it until the next time there’s a break. This is a very cautious approach to avoid any accusations of “live reporting” on MN. Commentary on the content of TT tweets is fine as soon as they’re posted on X.

Key people:
C/Ns - Claimants, the Darlington nurses
R/T/Trust - Respondent, County Durham and Darlington NHS Foundation Trust
J/EJ – Judge/Employment Judge
NF - Niazi Fetto KC, barrister for claimants
SC - Simon Cheetham, KC, barrister for respondents
RH - Rose Henderson, trans identifying nurse
CG – Clare Gregory, ward manager
KD – Karen Danson, first claimant to give evidence.
BH – Bethany Hutchison, second claimant to give evidence
AH – Alistair Hutchison, husband of Bethany

Other abbreviations:
WFTCHTJ – Waiting For The Conference Host To Join
ET - Employment Tribunal
DMH/H – Hospital, Darlington Memorial Hospital
CR/CF - changing room or facilities
IX - internal investigation
XX – cross examination

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/10/2025 17:12

Londonmummy66 · 27/10/2025 17:09

The point is that as IW is not an actual woman he doesn't understand that centuries of being the weaker sex mean that we won't always comment - doesn't mean to say we don't notice.

Indeed. It's often advised on here that in the light of the extreme out of control aggression, threats and bullying publicly evident in the behaviour of so many male transactivists, women and girls really shouldn't challenge these men.

ickky · 27/10/2025 17:12

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/10/2025 17:08

Another great post 👏

It's also worth remembering that some men were given privileged access and wrote the dystopian guidance in the judiciary's Bench Book and no doubt provided the training of dubious quality and accuracy to the judiciary in order to promote their niche version of male control over women.
Although there's been an embarrassing reverse ferret after the abysmal anti women / anti safeguarding bias was publicly exposed, we'll never know which judges eagerly signed up to the delusion TWAW etc. And still believe it 😑

Well we know one woman who helped write the Bench Book and is also now a Judge! Michelle Brewer of Allison Bailey's case, that is where Bin-gate came from.

nauticant · 27/10/2025 17:23

Ahh, the infamous bincident.

I am absolutely determined to make "bincident" happen.

DuesToTheDirt · 27/10/2025 17:59

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/10/2025 14:26

It's also sounded so far as if the judge needs a clear bit of information feeding that women are equal humans with needs regarding privacy, dignity and not to have to undress in front of a man for the man's benefit. It should not have to be a case to prove to the last decimal place that risk is absolutely definitely involved (and then negotiated that it's ENOUGH risk and what's acceptable risk) when the bottom line is that non consenting women should not be forced as a condition of their employment to undress for the gratification/validation/whatever of a man. Or to participate in his belief system by providing their undressed body to him.

I don't honestly believe I've had to type those sentences. Wtf has happened to the UK.

Edited

And not just the UK. Many other places are worse, and this case wouldn't have seen the light of day

DuesToTheDirt · 27/10/2025 18:03

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/10/2025 17:12

Indeed. It's often advised on here that in the light of the extreme out of control aggression, threats and bullying publicly evident in the behaviour of so many male transactivists, women and girls really shouldn't challenge these men.

To me the Graham Linehan punch tweet was so obviously a joke, as many women will not challenge a male in the women's, and if the man refuses to leave they are vanishingly unlike to attack his balls, either by a kick or a punch. That would be a last resort for self-defence if you are under physical attack. The risk of a man getting the better of you in a fight is way too high.

Perhaps it's just men that don't understand that.

DuesToTheDirt · 27/10/2025 18:07

Coffeeandcataddict · 27/10/2025 15:17

Apparently India Willoughby was there today. Now saying that because no one noticed she was a transwoman it “ Says it all “
Also making various comments about the trial being unfair etc.

How would IW know? What would people do if they notice that IW is male rather than female? Shout, "Hey, you're a man!"?

DuesToTheDirt · 27/10/2025 18:09

anyolddinosaur · 27/10/2025 11:42

With regard to the "inclusive" poster

Discovered a FOI request where the Trust stated "The Trust does not know who designed or mounted the poster, it was not approved through any official trust communications processes."

Also "A paper has been prepared in draft for the Trust Board at the end of July and provide summary of the media coverage in relation to this case. The following are extracts from that draft paper reference the poster:

There have been two peaks to coverage, one when the story was initially shared with the Daily Mail and then when images of a poster which had been put up in the department were shared. After some initial interest, the topic faded away until Christian Concern shared a leaked image of an 'NHS inclusive workplace poster' in CDDFT changing rooms on Twitter. This brought back the debate and led to increased negative and hateful comments, as well as criticism of the Trust and its policy."

Not being on Twitter I dont know if the comments were "hateful" but I feel this is suggesting any adverse comment was "hateful".

Edited

"Hateful" needs to be on the bingo cards next to "inclusive" and "dog-whistle".

MyrtleLion · 27/10/2025 19:02

Thanks for the live pasting.

I saw the consultant today and he's very clear that it's a nasty infection I'm battling, with some very heavy duty antibiotics for the next three months. I may not feel well again until it's over.

I slept most of the day and hope to sleep more over the next few days. Unfortunately I'm not allowed any supplements, including iron and Vitamin D, despite mild anaemia, and I've had to come off my HRT as well, so I do feel very grotty.

RedNine · 27/10/2025 19:03

Myrtle I am so sorry, poor you.

SidewaysOtter · 27/10/2025 19:06

I'm sorry things aren't better for you yet, Myrtle, Flowers and [tunnocks] for you.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/10/2025 19:09

Sorry to hear that @MyrtleLion Flowers

ArabellaSaurus · 27/10/2025 19:44

Oh, Myrtle. You poor thing. Rest up and look after yourself. I hope you feel better very soon.

anyolddinosaur · 27/10/2025 21:40

Really sorry it was not better news Myrtle. Maybe ask if you are allowed prebiotics as antibiotics really mess up gut bacteria and they play quite a role in the immune system.

Enough4me · 28/10/2025 00:01

If Tyler is interviewed could he be asked if he made it public knowledge that he's trying to impregnate his wife, or is there no point as they're a heterosexual couple so it's not unusual if they are or aren't trying?

I'm wondering why it would be negative for people to assume married heterosexuals may be trying for a baby. Surely the odd part is him creeping around female only spaces and wanting to stare at women he isn't married to?

@MyrtleLion three months of antibiotics sounds serious. Hope you have plenty of support IRL sending virtual Wine Cake

Senso · 28/10/2025 00:37

Hi, I’m new to the thread and would like to join the conversation if that’s ok.

On the subject of hrt, and apologies if this has previously been discussed, what happens when a girl who transitioned in her teens reaches menopause?

Do they even know if they are menopausal and are they offered hrt?

It seems such a minefield to navigate the big change in a woman’s body after years of artificial hormones in the system to mimic a man’s natural biological state.

I fear there is a major shit show in the medical world just waiting to happen

thirdfiddle · 28/10/2025 01:55

Yessss, JP! Just the job.

And the delicious fact that if they do find a gender bletherer to stand up as expert for the other side, then they have to answer questions. And we all know they don't have any answers or they'd have given them years ago.

Even so, the wording in the EA says they have protection if they are thinking about transition so there are no requirements to change your presentation.

Which is fine and good, of course. If someone says at work 'I'm thinking about transitioning' and their boss says 'right, you're sacked' then they have been discriminated against in connection with trans-ness. Provided nobody attempts to claim that having the PC of Gender Reassignment gives them rights to access spaces for the opposite sex, at which point it would become ridiculous. So it's lucky that that SC confirmed that it didn't.

thirdfiddle · 28/10/2025 02:17

@senso maybe start a new thread if you want to talk about medical effects of transition. In case you're new to the forum as well as the topic, it's the button with a little logo of a pen and a piece of paper. For me it's in the top right hand corner. There are posters who know a lot but they probably won't see your question in the middle of this thread.

Senso · 28/10/2025 02:40

Thank you @thirdfiddle

WandaSiri · 28/10/2025 06:36

IANAL, but with respect to RH's counterclaim, I wonder if the "trying for a baby" bit isn't the issue (he's a married heterosexual) - rather, it's telling the media that he had "stopped taking hormones" which could be problematic. This might count as private medical information (whether true or false). So the nurses might be bang to rights on that.

Having said that, I can't see how a finding of harassment of RH on that particular ground would be fatal to the nurses' case.

Harassedevictee · 28/10/2025 06:47

WandaSiri · 28/10/2025 06:36

IANAL, but with respect to RH's counterclaim, I wonder if the "trying for a baby" bit isn't the issue (he's a married heterosexual) - rather, it's telling the media that he had "stopped taking hormones" which could be problematic. This might count as private medical information (whether true or false). So the nurses might be bang to rights on that.

Having said that, I can't see how a finding of harassment of RH on that particular ground would be fatal to the nurses' case.

It wouldn’t be fatal to the ET. It depends on the list of issues and how the Trust managed their complaint. It’s clear the Trust’s policy of allowing employees to use the changing room based on gender was unlawful.

RH isn’t making a counter claim. RH has raised a grievance. The problem is that the Trust could legitimately uphold the grievance and launch a disciplinary investigation for harassment of RH and find the nurses at fault. This could be gross misconduct and/or lead to a complaint to the NMC.

WandaSiri · 28/10/2025 06:57

Harassedevictee · 28/10/2025 06:47

It wouldn’t be fatal to the ET. It depends on the list of issues and how the Trust managed their complaint. It’s clear the Trust’s policy of allowing employees to use the changing room based on gender was unlawful.

RH isn’t making a counter claim. RH has raised a grievance. The problem is that the Trust could legitimately uphold the grievance and launch a disciplinary investigation for harassment of RH and find the nurses at fault. This could be gross misconduct and/or lead to a complaint to the NMC.

Ok, thanks - my main point was that the taking/not taking hormones bit is the problem, not the "man married to woman is rumoured to want a child" bit.

RoostingHens · 28/10/2025 07:48

WandaSiri · 28/10/2025 06:57

Ok, thanks - my main point was that the taking/not taking hormones bit is the problem, not the "man married to woman is rumoured to want a child" bit.

Didn’t the ‘not taking hormones’ just get extrapolated from ‘wanting a child’? There seems be no suggestion that these nurses had access to his private medical information.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 28/10/2025 07:52

thirdfiddle · 28/10/2025 01:55

Yessss, JP! Just the job.

And the delicious fact that if they do find a gender bletherer to stand up as expert for the other side, then they have to answer questions. And we all know they don't have any answers or they'd have given them years ago.

Even so, the wording in the EA says they have protection if they are thinking about transition so there are no requirements to change your presentation.

Which is fine and good, of course. If someone says at work 'I'm thinking about transitioning' and their boss says 'right, you're sacked' then they have been discriminated against in connection with trans-ness. Provided nobody attempts to claim that having the PC of Gender Reassignment gives them rights to access spaces for the opposite sex, at which point it would become ridiculous. So it's lucky that that SC confirmed that it didn't.

It’s the ‘thinking about it’ part that blows my mind.

WandaSiri · 28/10/2025 07:52

RoostingHens · 28/10/2025 07:48

Didn’t the ‘not taking hormones’ just get extrapolated from ‘wanting a child’? There seems be no suggestion that these nurses had access to his private medical information.

Maybe, but I thought what was published originally was "RH has stopped taking hormones because he wants to get his wife pregnant".

DoubleDuvet · 28/10/2025 07:56

It was all based on discussions staff were having about their issues they had with RH in the changing room I think. Earlier in the case one of the nurses said it was even RH's friends having these discussions.

It is not information that the nurses were aware of because RH was their patient or because they accessed his medical records so there is no confidentiality issue in thay sense.

The NMC Code of Conduct is a pretty broad brush that must nurses could be disciplined about at some point or other to be honest. So their employer could try it. But in the face of such obvious safeguarding and workplace regs failures they'd look pretty vindictive doing it.

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