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JK on Emma Watson

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Lowarnes · 29/09/2025 13:08

A stunningly perfect response to Watson’s recent comments. Haven’t seen a thread on this so thought I’d post below:

”I'm seeing quite a bit of comment about this, so I want to make a couple of points.

I'm not owed eternal agreement from any actor who once played a character I created. The idea is as ludicrous as me checking with the boss I had when I was twenty-one for what opinions I should hold these days.

Emma Watson and her co-stars have every right to embrace gender identity ideology. Such beliefs are legally protected, and I wouldn't want to see any of them threatened with loss of work, or violence, or death, because of them.

However, Emma and Dan in particular have both made it clear over the last few years that they think our former professional association gives them a particular right - nay, obligation - to critique me and my views in public. Years after they finished acting in Potter, they continue to assume the role of de facto spokespeople for the world I created.

When you've known people since they were ten years old it's hard to shake a certain protectiveness. Until quite recently, I hadn't managed to throw off the memory of children who needed to be gently coaxed through their dialogue in a big scary film studio. For the past few years, I've repeatedly declined invitations from journalists to comment on Emma specifically, most notably on the Witch Trials of JK Rowling. Ironically, I told the producers that I didn't want her to be hounded as the result of anything I said.

The television presenter in the attached clip highlights Emma's 'all witches' speech, and in truth, that was a turning point for me, but it had a postscript that hurt far more than the speech itself. Emma asked someone to pass on a handwritten note from her to me, which contained the single sentence 'I'm so sorry for what you're going through' (she has my phone number). This was back when the death, rape and torture threats against me were at their peak, at a time when my personal security measures had had to be tightened considerably and I was constantly worried for my family's safety. Emma had just publicly poured more petrol on the flames, yet thought a one line expression of concern from her would reassure me of her fundamental sympathy and kindness.

Like other people who've never experienced adult life uncushioned by wealth and fame, Emma has so little experience of real life she's ignorant of how ignorant she is. She'll never need a homeless shelter. She's never going to be placed on a mixed sex public hospital ward. I'd be astounded if she's been in a high street changing room since childhood. Her 'public bathroom' is single occupancy and comes with a security man standing guard outside the door. Has she had to strip off in a newly mixed-sex changing room at a council-run swimming pool? Is she ever likely to need a state-run rape crisis centre that refuses to guarantee an all-female service? To find herself sharing a prison cell with a male rapist who's identified into the women's prison?

I wasn't a multimillionaire at fourteen. I lived in poverty while writing the book that made Emma famous. I therefore understand from my own life experience what the trashing of women's rights in which Emma has so enthusiastically participated means to women and girls without her privileges.

The greatest irony here is that, had Emma not decided in her most recent interview to declare that she loves and treasures me - a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was - I might never have been this honest.

Adults can't expect to cosy up to an activist movement that regularly calls for a friend's assassination, then assert their right to the former friend's love, as though the friend was in fact their mother. Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it.”

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SerafinasGoose · 29/09/2025 18:29

TimeForATerf · 29/09/2025 17:41

Wow, this is simply delicious, I almost squealed reading it.

Burn Watson, burn 🔥

😂

ALL the witches, she smugly proclaims - excluding, no doubt, the gender critical ones.

Well, this witch says she can kick rocks.

Hankunamatata · 29/09/2025 18:29

Perfect reaping from jk

I don't hate trans people. I dont want anyone with a penis sharing my space when im vulnerable such as toilets, changing rooms etc

Nagpuss · 29/09/2025 18:30

OfDragonsDeep · 29/09/2025 14:38

I just read the BBC article on this, it’s awful

And there’s a typo in it. The BBC spelling “declarations” without an “i” … it has just become shoddy clickbait; poor journalistic standards. Badly done, BBC.

Tandora · 29/09/2025 18:32

KnottyAuty · 29/09/2025 18:28

She has never experienced what many trans people have been experiencing

Can you explain what you’re referring to please?

Because I’m pretty sure there’s no trans person who has attracted such hate & vitriol as JKR…

Extraordinary that you believe this. You know that there are many many trans people who are actually raped and murdered for being trans.

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:32

I understand everything JK is saying and agree with her. But is it really necessary to publicly eviscerate someone? Isn’t this exactly what JK is accusing Emma of doing to her? Haven’t we all made mistake in our lives, big and small that deserve forgiveness?

Llamasarellovely · 29/09/2025 18:32

buffyajp · 29/09/2025 18:10

I disagree. I’ve watched it several times and to me it is crystal clear that she mouths bar one.

I am hearing impaired and lip read. I cant read it as anything other than "bar one".
I've seen suggestions of "by the way" but (a) her lips don't say that and (b) why would she only mouth that?
Plus, the smirk.
She knew exactly what she was doing, given the audience.

Tandora · 29/09/2025 18:33

SerafinasGoose · 29/09/2025 18:29

😂

ALL the witches, she smugly proclaims - excluding, no doubt, the gender critical ones.

Well, this witch says she can kick rocks.

Celebrating someone saying "burn Watson burn". I think your true colours are showing in all their vibrant and profound hypocrisy. .

ThatCyanCat · 29/09/2025 18:33

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:32

I understand everything JK is saying and agree with her. But is it really necessary to publicly eviscerate someone? Isn’t this exactly what JK is accusing Emma of doing to her? Haven’t we all made mistake in our lives, big and small that deserve forgiveness?

So many people who agree with what JKR says and yet think she shouldn't say it.

ThatCyanCat · 29/09/2025 18:36

Tandora · 29/09/2025 18:33

Celebrating someone saying "burn Watson burn". I think your true colours are showing in all their vibrant and profound hypocrisy. .

It was clearly rhetorical and metaphorical as a reference to "all the witches" and also "burn" as a well known slang term for a verbal cutdown (see also "roast").

I can see why you're confused because when the thugs on your side talk about burning, hanging, shooting and stabbing women, they mean it literally. But that doesn't matter, obviously.

BBQCF · 29/09/2025 18:37

Tandora · 29/09/2025 18:33

Celebrating someone saying "burn Watson burn". I think your true colours are showing in all their vibrant and profound hypocrisy. .

I would like to think that this isn't a literal wish for the immediate immolation of Emma Watson - more burn like "sick burn" - something someone says to someone when they've been shown up.

If - in the highly unlikely scenario - the PP did want her to literally burn, I'm 100% sure that not a single person on here would actually advocate that. Words are words, violence is violence.

But I think you knew that.

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:38

ThatCyanCat · 29/09/2025 18:33

So many people who agree with what JKR says and yet think she shouldn't say it.

So you believe all truths should be spoken no matter the harm caused?

RominaDina · 29/09/2025 18:39

ThatCyanCat · 29/09/2025 18:33

So many people who agree with what JKR says and yet think she shouldn't say it.

As pp have said; women are told not to speak up and speak out, even when our rights are being eroded. Why should JK be quiet or #bekind? No.

MrsLizzieDarcy · 29/09/2025 18:40

I read that on X this morning and nearly clapped out loud. What a perfect response - I don't honestly know how she's stayed silent so long.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 29/09/2025 18:40

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:32

I understand everything JK is saying and agree with her. But is it really necessary to publicly eviscerate someone? Isn’t this exactly what JK is accusing Emma of doing to her? Haven’t we all made mistake in our lives, big and small that deserve forgiveness?

Why is it only JKR that’s not allowed to stick up for herself? It’s always JKR who gets criticism for her responses, never what she’s responding to.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/09/2025 18:41

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:38

So you believe all truths should be spoken no matter the harm caused?

Why do you think JKR shouldn't be allowed to respond to EW's latest comments? What has she said that's harmful - and to who?

viques · 29/09/2025 18:43

@Tandora Well they are people who identify as trans , therefore they are trans identifying people . I refuse to use the words transwoman or transman as they are dishonest. And I used people rather than Trans Identifying Men / Trans Identifying Women because people is a plural word that can refer both to women and to men. And it was quicker.

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:44

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/09/2025 18:41

Why do you think JKR shouldn't be allowed to respond to EW's latest comments? What has she said that's harmful - and to who?

I think she should respond but I’m not sure she needed to humiliate her to this degree.. I feel she is behaving in the same way that Emma behaved towards her. If you can’t see how this would harm Emma, I can’t help you.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 29/09/2025 18:44

Outstanding response from JK.
Patience is a virtue.

ladymalfoy45 · 29/09/2025 18:45

@SerafinasGoose ' kick rocks'
Love it!

Tess592 · 29/09/2025 18:47

HerNeighbourTotoro · 29/09/2025 18:03

While I find her response interesting, it is also interesting how she too, is very privileged and managed to gaslight so many people on this thread.

She has never experienced what many trans people have been experiencing, and is extremely privileged- like Emma she has her own bathroom that is also presumably single occupancy, as she denies right to dignity to many trans people out there.
It's like- is it really the race to the bottom who was poorer? And whoever is the poorest is the only person that can be right? Is she that envious Emma didnt have the same upbringing as her, does this make her so jaded so many years later still, even if she is rolling in cash now? JKR was never homeless herself and I cant imagine she often frequents changing rooms in high street shops, so why even bring this up in a crappy way to discredit someone else?

JK has never said that she doesn't want trans people to have single occupancy toilets.

She has said she doesn't want biological men in women's toilets.

Trans people are very welcome to campaign for third spaces for themselves, no one is against that at all. It's a real shame they weren't campaigning for that from the start and then all these issues may never have arisen.

RominaDina · 29/09/2025 18:48

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:44

I think she should respond but I’m not sure she needed to humiliate her to this degree.. I feel she is behaving in the same way that Emma behaved towards her. If you can’t see how this would harm Emma, I can’t help you.

Did you read the response? It was measured and clear.
No humiliation was involved. At all. It was adult to adult.

EvolvedAlready · 29/09/2025 18:48

JKR is spot on.
However, she’s just fueling more hate both sides which is just not needed. Saying nothing can be quite loud too.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 29/09/2025 18:48

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:44

I think she should respond but I’m not sure she needed to humiliate her to this degree.. I feel she is behaving in the same way that Emma behaved towards her. If you can’t see how this would harm Emma, I can’t help you.

Lol.
You've presumably not read her words or looked at EW's repeated comments about JKR? If you've no insight or empathy into how encouraging the rabid trans mob to attack JKR is dangerous to her and her family, then I'm not sure who can help you?

(edited to add context)

RominaDina · 29/09/2025 18:48

EvolvedAlready · 29/09/2025 18:48

JKR is spot on.
However, she’s just fueling more hate both sides which is just not needed. Saying nothing can be quite loud too.

No. Saying nothing can be weak and passive. She's not the one who's fueling hate. That's other people.

nicepotoftea · 29/09/2025 18:49

Teachermum81 · 29/09/2025 18:32

I understand everything JK is saying and agree with her. But is it really necessary to publicly eviscerate someone? Isn’t this exactly what JK is accusing Emma of doing to her? Haven’t we all made mistake in our lives, big and small that deserve forgiveness?

Watson chose to raise the issue on a podcast knowing that it would grab media attention.

As Rowling has pointed out, Watson has her phone number.

I don't think she has eviscerated her - just clearly explained her point of view.

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