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The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in

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Boiledbeetle · 13/09/2025 20:45

Previous thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5401672-the-autumn-bluestocking-mist-mellow-fruitfulness-and-hot-chocolate

Settles down in the comfy chair by the fire.

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Bannedontherun · 21/09/2025 21:37

I was being hounded by TRAs so I changed my name and arrived here as Karen’s best mate

Taztoy · 21/09/2025 21:46

I’m feeling rather hounded I have to say.

ah well. Better me than some other poor bugger.

JanesLittleGirl · 21/09/2025 22:16

@Taztoy I have seen the horrible and inconsiderate kicking that you have received on another thread. My heart goes out to you. I hope that you can find some little comfort in the Bluestocking. Just relax in a friendly environment until you can cope with the arsehole induced stress.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/09/2025 23:31

Yes. It’s what the Bluestocking is for - a place for women who for whatever reason, however trivial or serious, want the company of women. No ifs, buts, or whataboutery.

MarieDeGournay · 22/09/2025 00:04

Popping in to say goodnight to all my fellow-Stockingers, but especially to Taztoy tonight - wishing you a quiet night and a restoring sleep, Taz.🌛

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 00:09

You know what. surprisingly.

Actually. I’m fine. I clearly understand my position. I’ve thought it through. I’ve no doubt in my logic.

I’m not being rude (I don’t think) but I’m standing firm and saying no.

And it’ll take a better one than any of the people trying to goad me to succeed.

They've underestimated me if they think I’m giving in. Or doing anything other than keeping to the clear points I’ve got in my head.

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 00:09

But thank you all.

MyrtleLion · 22/09/2025 00:15

Sorry I missed it or I'd have come and supported you, Taztoy.

The library is lovely! I think I'll sit in here tomorrow with my knitting and my leg up.

I'll post today's squares tomorrow as the light will be better.

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 00:17

I’m doing a crochet jacket for the dog 🤣🤣🤣

DeanElderberry · 22/09/2025 07:16

I remembered last night that I always get extra tired and in need of sleep around the equinox as my body adapts to the night being longer than the day or vice versa. I was worried that I was coming down with something I was so blitzed. Should be back into harmony with the world in a few days.

Much chillier last night and I was glad of my hot water bottle, despite the awful warnings elsethread.

Britinme · 22/09/2025 10:42

I also missed it. So sorry for the hard time you were having @Taztoy .

MyrtleLion · 22/09/2025 12:00

DeanElderberry · 22/09/2025 07:16

I remembered last night that I always get extra tired and in need of sleep around the equinox as my body adapts to the night being longer than the day or vice versa. I was worried that I was coming down with something I was so blitzed. Should be back into harmony with the world in a few days.

Much chillier last night and I was glad of my hot water bottle, despite the awful warnings elsethread.

Ah yes, centuries of perfectly good advice on heating a cold bed with hot water brushed aside because they might explode and burn scald you. And lo, beware if your hot water bottle is more than two years old.

It's the puritanical "knowing best" that gets me. We must follow the edicts of the anonymous poster, rather than a kindly, "for those who use HWBs, be aware of potential harm".

Here ends today's rant about well, stuff. As you were.

MyrtleLion · 22/09/2025 15:04

A blue heart for the Bluestocking. It's meant to be duplicate stitch where you sew the pattern onto a plain square but I did intarsia then added some stitches to make it more heart-like.

And a wrap3, where you create a looser tension by knitting two yarn overs and a knit stitch three times in the previous row, then drop the yarn overs and wrap the three knit stitches together. It came out much better than I thought it would.

The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
MarieDeGournay · 22/09/2025 15:21

That's lovely, Myrtle, not only are your examples lovely to look at, but very educational about the skill of knitting - which really is extraordinary when you think that they all started out as a ball of wool!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 22/09/2025 15:50

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The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
ifIwerenotanandroid · 22/09/2025 15:53

Also...

The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
lcakethereforeIam · 22/09/2025 17:04

As the weather is nice, one of those lovely late summer/early autumn days, I've been for a walk by the river and through the oak woods on the lower slopes of Peak Woo. Some of the pygmy hogs came with me, they wanted to snuffle for acorns and fungi. Some of the leaves from the weeping willow have already turned and fallen in to the river. There's an eddy in the lee of one of the willows that leans right out across the current. It's a good spot to tie up a boat, dangle your feet, have a picnic or even swim in the sheltered pool that's formed. It was a little cool for that but the fallen willow leaves have been made into a golden gyre, spinning and dancing. The water level is higher after the rain we had and I'm sure I saw a salmon leap. I definitely saw a kingfisher, a blue blur, flashing upstream. The oak leaves are also turning but clinging on, for the most part. No deep drifts of leaves to kick through yet. It made it easier for the pigs to find the acorns, although they told me they enjoyed rootling almost as much as finding a tasty snack. We returned via the goat paddock. The goats had recently eaten an old copy of the Guinness Book of Records. It seems to have inspired them. They were trying to beat their previous best goat pyramid record of 27. I passed Balrog discussing with some of the capybara if they had enough wood for the fires and if it was too early to light the fires in the bedrooms. The gerbils have unpacked some more blankets for the library, Pedant's corner and anywhere else where a bit of coziness might be required.

Butternut squash soup with a bit of spice, crusty bread with butter and cheese, please Bar Gerbil, and my usual pot of tea. Lovely.

Magpiecomplex · 22/09/2025 17:44

Thank you Cake, I feel mentally refreshed after reading about your expedition. I might take the hot chocolate bowser for a stroll outside.

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 17:47

I’ve been and had my scan this afternoon. Results in a few days.

so again we wait lol. I feel like the hospital’s best customer right now.

FuzzyPuffling · 22/09/2025 18:00

We had coffee here this morning.

The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
The Bluestocking - the one where the nights start to draw in
Magpiecomplex · 22/09/2025 18:01

Would you care to join me in the garden @Taztoy? I'm even prepared to share the hot chocolate.

(Apologies if I have mis-speciesed you)

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Taztoy · 22/09/2025 18:10

That looks so peaceful. I would love to sit down, drink hot chocolate round a campfire and talk with you all. It would be good for the soul.

FuzzyPuffling · 22/09/2025 18:18

Taztoy, are you a Tasmanian Devil in that picture?

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 18:22

I am in real life @FuzzyPuffling

chaos on a plate, that’s me 🤣🤣🤣

FuzzyPuffling · 22/09/2025 18:27

Taztoy · 22/09/2025 18:22

I am in real life @FuzzyPuffling

chaos on a plate, that’s me 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣

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