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LondonLady1980 · 12/09/2025 20:11

baggle · 12/09/2025 17:14

One of the bullet casings had "Notices, bulges, OwO what's this?" written on it which is apparently some slogan that "furries" use. So trans-adjacent at least.

Can someone explain this to me please? What are 'furries'?

And what does ""Notices, bulges, OwO what's this?" even mean?

TempestTost · 12/09/2025 20:12

EmeraldShamrock000 · 12/09/2025 19:46

I agree, I didn't read it as patronising because it has more than a grain of truth.
There are bigger issues troubling black/brown women today, bigger than a man in a skirt.
Racism is off the scale, women are vulnerable facing angry men.

I mean - this is a matter of disagreement. There are black women, and black men, including in the US, who don't think systemic racism is a big issue. And some of them think the biggest thing pushing racism now is the kind of racial rhetoric the left is producing, That it is itself directly racist but also is pushing a resurgence of more traditional racism.

So I don't really think some kind of announcement that it's obviously true that GI is secondary for black women is really justified.

That's what makes it unpleasant and paternalistic, grouping all black women together as if they think the same way.

Signalbox · 12/09/2025 20:18

LondonLady1980 · 12/09/2025 20:11

Can someone explain this to me please? What are 'furries'?

And what does ""Notices, bulges, OwO what's this?" even mean?

I asked chatgpt what this meant and this was the answer…

The phrase “Notices, bulges, OwO what's this?” is a meme-style sentence that comes from internet culture, particularly from furry fandom, anime roleplay, and NSFW (Not Safe For Work) parody circles. It's often used ironically or humorously to mock or exaggerate a certain kind of cringey or overly suggestive roleplay.
Here's a breakdown of the components:

  • “Notices” – This mimics a stage direction or action in roleplay, like "notices something".
  • “bulges” – Implies the speaker has noticed a physical, often sexual, feature bulging (you can guess what that usually implies).
  • “OwO” – A cute or surprised emoticon with wide eyes and a small mouth, often used in furry or anime communities. It's associated with excitement, curiosity, or flirtation.
  • “what’s this?” – Feigns innocent curiosity, adding to the comedic or mocking effect.

Full meaning:
Put together, the phrase parodies someone noticing a character's arousal and reacting with exaggerated cuteness or faux innocence. It's usually not meant to be taken seriously — people use it as a joke, meme, or cringe reference.
Usage:

  • Ironically: To mock awkward online flirting or cringey roleplay.
  • In memes: To exaggerate over-the-top reactions.
  • Satirically: To poke fun at specific internet subcultures.

Let me know if you want examples or where it first got popular.

GoldThumb · 12/09/2025 20:19

nomas · 12/09/2025 20:02

As opposed to the posters complaining that people haven’t denounced anonymous social media accounts enough?

More lies.

I didn’t ask you to denounce anything.

I told you repeatedly I was fucking appalled by the sheer number of everyday people celebrating their bloodlust. How pervasive it was.

Your enlightened response was:

‘I hardly think the TMZ crew in the US, one US analyst and one university student represent 'pervasiveness among everyday people.'

And then kept banging on about getting me to post links to these random peoples accounts, which I refused to.

LondonLady1980 · 12/09/2025 20:21

Signalbox · 12/09/2025 20:18

I asked chatgpt what this meant and this was the answer…

The phrase “Notices, bulges, OwO what's this?” is a meme-style sentence that comes from internet culture, particularly from furry fandom, anime roleplay, and NSFW (Not Safe For Work) parody circles. It's often used ironically or humorously to mock or exaggerate a certain kind of cringey or overly suggestive roleplay.
Here's a breakdown of the components:

  • “Notices” – This mimics a stage direction or action in roleplay, like "notices something".
  • “bulges” – Implies the speaker has noticed a physical, often sexual, feature bulging (you can guess what that usually implies).
  • “OwO” – A cute or surprised emoticon with wide eyes and a small mouth, often used in furry or anime communities. It's associated with excitement, curiosity, or flirtation.
  • “what’s this?” – Feigns innocent curiosity, adding to the comedic or mocking effect.

Full meaning:
Put together, the phrase parodies someone noticing a character's arousal and reacting with exaggerated cuteness or faux innocence. It's usually not meant to be taken seriously — people use it as a joke, meme, or cringe reference.
Usage:

  • Ironically: To mock awkward online flirting or cringey roleplay.
  • In memes: To exaggerate over-the-top reactions.
  • Satirically: To poke fun at specific internet subcultures.

Let me know if you want examples or where it first got popular.

Edited

Thank you for taking the time to explain this - but how does it relate to wanting Charlie dead? I just don't understand the link between that explanation and why it would be on a bullet? I don't understand how it's anti-fascist?

GoldThumb · 12/09/2025 20:22

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 20:10

There was a TikTok with similar rhetoric from someone else too.

Yeah, I saw there were a couple more, this is the only one I’ve seen a the screen shot of though.

The authorities apparently reiterating he acted alone 🤷‍♀️

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 20:24

It’s not that phrase that’s associated with antifa any more than there existing a correlation between that community and antifa types. They’re all fairly meme-y. Bella Ciao is an Italian antifascist resistance song but I think it’s fairly popular on social media. The arrows are apparently a command from a game called Hell Divers.

Signalbox · 12/09/2025 20:30

LondonLady1980 · 12/09/2025 20:21

Thank you for taking the time to explain this - but how does it relate to wanting Charlie dead? I just don't understand the link between that explanation and why it would be on a bullet? I don't understand how it's anti-fascist?

Furry is just another internet subculture. I don't know too much about it but I suspect you won't find too many republican Furries. A bit like you won't find many (if any) republican non-binaries.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 12/09/2025 20:36

EmeraldShamrock000 · 12/09/2025 19:57

How is responding to a post lecturing someone?
I didn't say the single sex space wasn't an important.

‘There are bigger issues troubling black/brown women today, bigger than a man in a skirt.’
Is this you? I’ll save you some time, it is you. It’s absolutely mind blowing that you can’t see how patronising that is. Have you bothered to read ANY of @ThatBlackCat posts?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 12/09/2025 20:38

TempestTost · 12/09/2025 20:12

I mean - this is a matter of disagreement. There are black women, and black men, including in the US, who don't think systemic racism is a big issue. And some of them think the biggest thing pushing racism now is the kind of racial rhetoric the left is producing, That it is itself directly racist but also is pushing a resurgence of more traditional racism.

So I don't really think some kind of announcement that it's obviously true that GI is secondary for black women is really justified.

That's what makes it unpleasant and paternalistic, grouping all black women together as if they think the same way.

What’s more unpleasant is other posters telling black women what they should be bothered about.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 12/09/2025 20:41

I inadvertently saw Charlie Kirk being shot when scrolling comments on X two nights ago. I thought the clip would be the same one that was shown on CNN so was unprepared for what I saw. I thought it was obvious that the injury would be fatal.

Whatever I think of his politics or views ( some of which appear to be taken out if context when you look beyond quick sound bytes but most of which I disagree with) seeing some people rush to make TikToks to revel in this death makes me sick to the stomach. I never watch violent movies or TV shows so seeing this has upset me. The #bekind and #nodebate crowd appears to have more Han JRs fair share of hypocrites and psychopaths.

OneAmberFinch · 12/09/2025 20:41

OwO what's this is just one of those extremely-online meme catchphrases. It annoys me a little that this has been taking up space in my brain for years, haha. It's as much mocking furries as being a "furry catchphrase". I would assume they thought this was funny / part of ironic edgelord humour.

Furries have overlap with trans culture; I doubt there are many "Republican" furries (too normie) but there are right-wing furries, especially libertarian furries. There are quite a few flavours. I wish I knew less about furries. Don't look up fur cubs.

Signalbox · 12/09/2025 20:49

OneAmberFinch · 12/09/2025 20:41

OwO what's this is just one of those extremely-online meme catchphrases. It annoys me a little that this has been taking up space in my brain for years, haha. It's as much mocking furries as being a "furry catchphrase". I would assume they thought this was funny / part of ironic edgelord humour.

Furries have overlap with trans culture; I doubt there are many "Republican" furries (too normie) but there are right-wing furries, especially libertarian furries. There are quite a few flavours. I wish I knew less about furries. Don't look up fur cubs.

Ha ha, I'm desperate not to fall down the furry rabbit hole. I worked with a young man who told me that he was at uni with a furry. He had been admonished by management for congratulating the furry on having a brilliant halloween costume. He was told that he needed to respect their identity. From what he said it all sounded remarkably like the trans nonsense.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 20:51

It is, and there’s a huge overlap as you’ll see if you read Twitter/Bluesky bios of online young people.

GallantKumquat · 12/09/2025 21:16

The Left's propensity for street violence and broader intellectual justification of violence under the guise of class warfare is well known. (Of course that propensity exists on the right too.) Since the collapse of the New Left in the late 60s, the left - center left and more radical left - were successful in expelling that violent faction from their political movements. The reaction against the New Left's excesses was so pronounced that in America it acquired the name of 'hippy punching' - a reflexive condemnation of anything that had even a whiff of radicalism. It was a hard earned piece of institutional wisdom. In the past few years we've seen the last living repositories of that wisdom cycle out of the left's leadership roles, both in and out of government and the result IMO has been a marked rise in the tolerance of violent, vicious, extreme, rhetoric on the left.

All this is to say that it's an old but resurgent phenomena. I, like other's have mentioned, am appalled by on line left spaces, no one who frequents them can deny the rise post 2020. I'd point out that this is not diatribe against the left as a broad necessary ideological orientation, as the right, as noted has its own problem with violence, but with a different dynamic. It's a profound misfortune that at this moment when we need a sane and sober left, we're seeing this spreading dysfunction. It's one of the reasons, for all his faults, I'm a strong supporter of Starmer as I think he sees this clearly.

PollyNomial · 12/09/2025 21:24

GallantKumquat · 12/09/2025 21:16

The Left's propensity for street violence and broader intellectual justification of violence under the guise of class warfare is well known. (Of course that propensity exists on the right too.) Since the collapse of the New Left in the late 60s, the left - center left and more radical left - were successful in expelling that violent faction from their political movements. The reaction against the New Left's excesses was so pronounced that in America it acquired the name of 'hippy punching' - a reflexive condemnation of anything that had even a whiff of radicalism. It was a hard earned piece of institutional wisdom. In the past few years we've seen the last living repositories of that wisdom cycle out of the left's leadership roles, both in and out of government and the result IMO has been a marked rise in the tolerance of violent, vicious, extreme, rhetoric on the left.

All this is to say that it's an old but resurgent phenomena. I, like other's have mentioned, am appalled by on line left spaces, no one who frequents them can deny the rise post 2020. I'd point out that this is not diatribe against the left as a broad necessary ideological orientation, as the right, as noted has its own problem with violence, but with a different dynamic. It's a profound misfortune that at this moment when we need a sane and sober left, we're seeing this spreading dysfunction. It's one of the reasons, for all his faults, I'm a strong supporter of Starmer as I think he sees this clearly.

You should know the alleged gunman was a Trump supporter who thought that Charlie Kirk wasn't extreme enough if his socials haven't been hacked. The left seems to have had nothing to do with this terrible murder.

BeeSourianteAgain · 12/09/2025 21:26

Apologies, I previously stated that the murderer was an anti-fascist - he is actually a groyper i.e. alt-right and radicalised on sites like KF and 4C. So more in line with 'gender critical' ideology.

Obviously murder is wrong, but so is aligning yourself with the far right, as many 'gender critical' activists are having a pikachu moment about.

So far NO apologies and just a single correction by the Wall Street Journal.

Sadly I can't even post some of the utter vileness I have seen from anti-trans types in the last two days as I'm sure I'd get immediately banned from here, but there's a whole load of people who really need to grow up (and get off extremist sites as they're rotting their brains).

Talkinpeace · 12/09/2025 21:29

All trans identifying people are male or female.

Male trans identifying people have no place in female spaces, sports, clubs, competitions or workplaces.

Female trans identifying people should leave men alone and not intimidate those they pretend not to be.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 21:30

PollyNomial · 12/09/2025 21:24

You should know the alleged gunman was a Trump supporter who thought that Charlie Kirk wasn't extreme enough if his socials haven't been hacked. The left seems to have had nothing to do with this terrible murder.

You’re very gullible, aren’t you?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 21:31

People are attempting to spread disinformation on this thread, it’s quite predictable.

Talkinpeace · 12/09/2025 21:32

@Ereshkigalangcleg
Everything I've read is that the shooter was a redneck gamer
I am not convinced that trans / women's rights were even in his thought process

GallantKumquat · 12/09/2025 21:33

PollyNomial · 12/09/2025 21:24

You should know the alleged gunman was a Trump supporter who thought that Charlie Kirk wasn't extreme enough if his socials haven't been hacked. The left seems to have had nothing to do with this terrible murder.

My response wasn't directed at the gunman, of whom as I mentioned earlier on the thread, it's to early to know what his motivations were. It was directed at the violent, vicious, extreme rhetoric of left-oriented, on-line sites in response to the assassination, and the observation that it didn't, even a few short years ago, used to be that way.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 21:34

Why are you addressing that to me, I didn’t say they were? The Trump T shirt picture is a fake though.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2025 21:35

GallantKumquat · 12/09/2025 21:33

My response wasn't directed at the gunman, of whom as I mentioned earlier on the thread, it's to early to know what his motivations were. It was directed at the violent, vicious, extreme rhetoric of left-oriented, on-line sites in response to the assassination, and the observation that it didn't, even a few short years ago, used to be that way.

This, exactly. But of course some people won’t want to address that.

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