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TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:47

OneAmberFinch · 11/09/2025 18:41

Same.

I think I'm very worried about how the existential-threat rhetoric combined with the casual "haha Luigi our hero" emboldens really crazy people.

Someone in the UK could have the same thing happen with a knife. The gun control angle interests me less than imagining how this could happen here. I go to a lot of events with GC feminists, free speech advocates, etc from a range of different views. Including ones which have had protests outside them. I can extremely easily see how that could escalate, I can visualise the rooms.

Yes, this reminds me so much of the Luigi murder.

Jia Tolentino has an excellent New Yorker piece on disturbing responses to it.

www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.newyorker.com/news/the-lede/what-the-murder-of-the-unitedhealthcare-ceo-brian-thompson-means-to-america&ved=2ahUKEwjzw4D3odGPAxVhSEEAHeL7IAcQFnoECBwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw2AT3gKd2DWs95ebtPUsHLr

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 18:47

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:44

I don't think it's respectful, kind or measured to compare being actively gay to being an alcoholic or drug addict

Or to call women on the Pill automatically 'crazy and bitter.'

Or to say that women over 30 are understandably unattractive to men (even tho he married a 32yo!)

Or to say that the stoning to death penalty fir gay sex in Leviticus is an example of 'God's perfect law for sexual matters.'

Or to say it was wrong to pass the civil rights act.

Or spread inflammatory rhetoric about the great replacement theory.

Or to say black women lack the ability to think clearly.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:47

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 18:47

Or to say it was wrong to pass the civil rights act.

Or spread inflammatory rhetoric about the great replacement theory.

Or to say black women lack the ability to think clearly.

Do you have a source for number 3?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 18:49

OneAmberFinch · 11/09/2025 18:41

Same.

I think I'm very worried about how the existential-threat rhetoric combined with the casual "haha Luigi our hero" emboldens really crazy people.

Someone in the UK could have the same thing happen with a knife. The gun control angle interests me less than imagining how this could happen here. I go to a lot of events with GC feminists, free speech advocates, etc from a range of different views. Including ones which have had protests outside them. I can extremely easily see how that could escalate, I can visualise the rooms.

Yes, exactly this.

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 18:50

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:47

Do you have a source for number 3?

You’re fine with the first two then? 🤣

Link for the 3rd https://x.com/queenie4rmnola/status/1965960315587416268

https://x.com/queenie4rmnola/status/1965960315587416268

Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 11/09/2025 18:51

TheUnusuallyQuerulentMxLauraBrown · 11/09/2025 18:25

And would those policies on abortion, gun crime and immigration have been enacted even if Charlie Kirk had never existed at all? You are massively overestimating how much sway a single media personality has over country/court system/government administration. As if Trump would change his mind on something because CK disagreed with him! Even Elon couldn’t influence Trump much (and Elon has the sort of wealth that makes Trump cream his poorly fitting suit),

And Joe Rogan isn’t really a ‘Trump supporter’, is he? He’s a podcast host who has guests from all over the political spectrum and he officially endorsed Bernie Sanders.

Yes, the policies would have existed, but their escalation—and the ability to push them through - would not have been possible without the rise of political extremism. Without influencers like Charlie Kirk normalising extreme, selfish, misogynistic, and racist views to appeal to young men, there is no way Trump could have been elected on such an openly heinous campaign pitch.

Kirk vocally framed positions like opposing universal healthcare, defending abortion bans that force 10-year-old rape victims to give birth, and dismissing the deaths of women compelled to carry nonviable pregnancies as worthy sacrifices for a greater America. This kind of rhetoric shifted the boundaries of what was acceptable in mainstream politics and gave young white men a way to push back against feminism and racial equality, and to justify their prejudices.

Actually, Joe Rogan also endorsed Trump in this election (though he is not an extremist in the same way Kirk was): https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp9z2p3vr48o

File image of Joe Rogan

Joe Rogan gives backing to Donald Trump in US election

The podcaster's backing could prove influential with young men - a demographic Trump has worked hard to court.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp9z2p3vr48o

Tiswa · 11/09/2025 18:52

He was I think a man who said increasingly controversial things for the headlines and became more and more detached

there was a character on a tv show recently who supposedly ran a very right wing radio show when he was nothing of the sort he just wanted the fame and the listeners

and I see that a bit here constantly spreading misinformation and fanning the flames - tapping into the worldwide general unhappiness at life at the moment

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 18:52

Yes, they’re calling for him to be next on Bluesky too @Butchyrestingface

Rosscameasdoody · 11/09/2025 18:53

RayonSunrise · 11/09/2025 18:43

That really is shocking. I didn’t think my opinion of the American culture war could get much lower.

Except that that’s isn’t what he said. He advocated for the perpetrator to be bailed out so that he could be asked questions. It was in reference to the conspiracy theories circulating about the attack.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:53

MalagaNights · 11/09/2025 15:55

No one should feel the need to preface the condemning of his murder with 'I disagreed with him on most things but...'

It doesn't matter whether you agreed with him or not, no one should be murdered for their opinions. Ever. It's horrific.

Most of his opinions were pretty mainstream conservative views that religious Americans might hold. It doesn't matter if you are not a conservative American or not, his murder for holding opinions and discussing them is shocking disturbing and evil.

It doesn't need qualifying with a personal distancing from the victim.

It's really pissing me off. Condemn the grotesque evil without the little statement of self protection.

No one should be murdered for expressing an opinion.

Can I ask you a general question, leaving CK aside.

Is it then mainstream among conservative religious Americans to think that...

. A 10yo rape victim should not be allowed an abortion

.being actively gay is like being an alcoholic or drug addict

.the Leviticus law saying men should be stoned to death for having sex with men is 'God's perfect law for sexual matters'

.women on birth control are automatically 'crazy and bitter'

.men should be the leader in marriage or it's 'sexual anarchy'

.women over 30 are understandably past their prime so ofc men don't want them (tho his wife was 32 when they married!

.women shouldn't bother w college unless to get a Mrs degree (ie. To go to get a husband only) Tho his wife married him long after college

If those opinions are mainstream among conservative religious Americans, all I can say is thank God I am British.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 18:53

Trump was elected because the left worldwide have lost the fucking plot. That’s why people were easy to influence into voting for him.

BeanQuisine · 11/09/2025 18:54

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 18:44

As I said. The inhumanity is that people felt the need to come and downplay a young man’s brutal and shocking murder to get their digs in, when they were perfectly able to scroll on by or just say that murder is bad whoever it is. And it certainly isn’t just you, you’re just an example, and not the worst on MN certainly. Anyway, not getting into any further argument about it, but people like you aren’t helping things, and you clearly don’t feel any personal sense of responsibility for adding to the febrile atmosphere.

The inhumanity comes from overwrought conservatives like you, who think they can dehumanise more rational people, merely because we're not weeping about the death of a far-right political extremist who was an opponent of human rights and staunch defender of "the right to bear arms", come what may.

But I think you know that.

Rosscameasdoody · 11/09/2025 18:55

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:47

Do you have a source for number 3?

https://www.instagram.com/shiftingyourparadigm/reel/DOdRJRtgD1I/

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/shiftingyourparadigm/reel/DOdRJRtgD1I/

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:55

BeanQuisine · 11/09/2025 18:54

The inhumanity comes from overwrought conservatives like you, who think they can dehumanise more rational people, merely because we're not weeping about the death of a far-right political extremist who was an opponent of human rights and staunch defender of "the right to bear arms", come what may.

But I think you know that.

For goodness sake, I loathed Kirk when he was alive. But can you imagine to unbearable pain his wife and toddlers are in rn? They Say him brutally murdered before their eyes. 😢

TheUnusuallyQuerulentMxLauraBrown · 11/09/2025 18:56

BeanQuisine · 11/09/2025 18:54

The inhumanity comes from overwrought conservatives like you, who think they can dehumanise more rational people, merely because we're not weeping about the death of a far-right political extremist who was an opponent of human rights and staunch defender of "the right to bear arms", come what may.

But I think you know that.

Eresh isn’t ‘a conservative’ you daft sausage!

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:57

He seems to mean specific black women, not in general.

Idiotic to say that Michelle Obama is stupid.

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 18:57

This wasn’t respectful or kind of him either

Charlie Kirk shot during a debate about trans people
FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 18:59

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:57

He seems to mean specific black women, not in general.

Idiotic to say that Michelle Obama is stupid.

He seems to mean specific black women, not in general.

🤦‍♀️

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:59

Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 11/09/2025 18:51

Yes, the policies would have existed, but their escalation—and the ability to push them through - would not have been possible without the rise of political extremism. Without influencers like Charlie Kirk normalising extreme, selfish, misogynistic, and racist views to appeal to young men, there is no way Trump could have been elected on such an openly heinous campaign pitch.

Kirk vocally framed positions like opposing universal healthcare, defending abortion bans that force 10-year-old rape victims to give birth, and dismissing the deaths of women compelled to carry nonviable pregnancies as worthy sacrifices for a greater America. This kind of rhetoric shifted the boundaries of what was acceptable in mainstream politics and gave young white men a way to push back against feminism and racial equality, and to justify their prejudices.

Actually, Joe Rogan also endorsed Trump in this election (though he is not an extremist in the same way Kirk was): https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp9z2p3vr48o

He said the deaths of women carrying nonviable pregnancies were worthy sacrifices for a greater America?

Source?

If true, that's vile.

He seems to have started off fairly moderate, and then got more and more influenced by Christian Nationalism. With time, he might have become more moderate again.

Butchyrestingface · 11/09/2025 19:00

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 18:52

Yes, they’re calling for him to be next on Bluesky too @Butchyrestingface

Who? Sad

I was referring to Alexandria Ocasio Cortez (female).

BeanQuisine · 11/09/2025 19:02

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:55

For goodness sake, I loathed Kirk when he was alive. But can you imagine to unbearable pain his wife and toddlers are in rn? They Say him brutally murdered before their eyes. 😢

Yes, a local tragedy, but not of my doing, and not people I personally know, and I'm certainly not obliged to join in the mourning.

The wider context that might concern me, as a member of the global public, was that of US political extremism, of which Kirk was very much a part, and in that context his murder was not surprising.

And although US political extremism has global ramifications, there's nothing of any consequence I can do about it, so I'm not intending to lose any sleep.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 19:02

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 18:57

He seems to mean specific black women, not in general.

Idiotic to say that Michelle Obama is stupid.

Weird to call Ketanji Brown Jackson & Sheila Jackson Lee stupid as well.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 19:04

brip · 11/09/2025 16:01

Aha, that makes a LOT of sense.

TheJoyOfWriting · 11/09/2025 19:05

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Is there are trans-military connection? Interesting if so..

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