"You miss the point about gender stereotypes, it seems.
Yes, lots of women behave in accordance with gender stereotypes. And many more are expected so to do. (That's what "stereotype" means.) But some (many) of these stereotypes are deleterious to women. I might want my granddaughter to be a doctor, not a nurse, for instance, for her benefit and that of wider society.
Or I might be pleased if a child, asked to draw a scientist, drew a woman in a dress (yes, another stereotype, I know ...) rather than a man in a white coat.
OK, you get the point? - Some gendered behaviours, expectations, etc., may be bad for women. Attempts to reinforce such stereotypical behaviours and expectations, then, as connected with womanhood, is a particular aspect of a form of sexism: such attempts are anti-women.
However, it's precisely this you advocate in your posts about trans-identified men being considered womanly because of their attempts to copy behaviours associated with women."
You are confused. I'm not prescribing behaviours. I'm describing them. And what's more as much as you disavow stereotypes you're most likely living one & also categorising sex based on them…unknowingly. Our reptilian brains work at an unconscious level so quickly based on archetypical associations when it comes to sex you don't even know you are doing it.
Whilst I take your point that some gendered behaviours are socialised rather than organic, the overwhelming incidence of sexed coded behaviours point to organic & this only makes sense as personality traits are influenced by genes & hormones in utero.
"Can you see how such behaviour - as well as your advocacy - is, indeed, basically and fundamentally sexist in its treatment of gender stereotypes? - Think about it, anyway."
Can you see how your denial of biological reality as uncomfortable as it is & advocacy is, indeed, basically & fundamentally ignorant in its treatment of facts?Think about, it anyway.