when anyone posts an opposing view, they’re either met with “the lads have arrived” or “the handmaidens have arrived”
I've never actually seen those phrases used, although I can admit that just because I haven't seen it, doesn't mean it hasn't happened.
People do come to the conclusion that some posters here who say they are women are actually men. What's the problem with that?
Yes the word handmaiden is used by some people as a descriptor for those posters they believe they are women in thrall to the men's rights aspect of this ideology. It might be rude but, tough. A previous poster covered this much better than I did already.
or “drive by roasting has arrived”.
That would be "drive by scolding", because of the misogyny shown by the poster and the link to the scold's bridle which was used to shut disagreeable women up.
By changing the word to roasting instead you have removed the link to the misogyny, which is what we are objecting to by using the phrase "drive by scolding".
IMO you have done this on purpose in order to legitimise your claim that we somehow have the power to have perfectly reasonable posts that provide a different viewpoint, or are somehow simply "contentious", and don't break the MN guidelines removed.
You also give the incorrect impression that we somehow desire these posts to be removed. As I said earlier, we really love it when those posts aren't removed, we like people to be able to see them, read them, and come to their own conclusions. Not everyone who reads these threads, posts on them, there are a lot of people lurking -Hello lurkers! it's always lovely to have you, I used to be a lurker too!
It is the opposite of welcome to opposing views
"It is the opposite of welcome to opposing views" is very different to having posts deleted for opposing views, or "contentious" views.
I'll repeat myself just in case you missed it, the culture here is not to report posts, we want them to be seen. We do not have the power to have posts deleted. Any posts that are deleted are breaking MN Guidelines.
We might not always "welcome" some of the posts, but that is usually because of 1) misogyny 2) misinformation 3) distraction. For example a few threads ago during the ongoing, at the time live tribunal.
We've gone from FWR removes posts with opposing views, to it's the opposite of welcome to opposing views, which is a bit of an obvious shift of the goalposts.