Why are you putting words in my mouth?
I am not interested in policing anyone's identities.
As I have already said, many times before, the countries which score highest for women's equality and wellbeing are not policing identities either.
They are demonstrating, year after year, that they stay at the top of the tables for women, long after introducing policies of gender self ID.
You can bet your bottom dollar that they are not myopically obsessed like you, but are getting on with the real business of improving women's lives.