Wow - gish gallop!
In response to that BMC reference: already dealt with here: www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5333913-cass-report-biased-and-unreliable
In response to everything else:
My "ideology", such as it is, is that people with female bodies face material social and physical consequences because of our different physical capabilties to male, our higher reproductive burden, and because our society is structured economically, politically and culturally around certain sexist assumptions about female capabilities, female social roles and male sexual responses, and that is it reasonable and moral to expect society to recognise this, to act to eradicate through education and understanding those risks and disadvantages that it can, and to put measures in place to mitigate what it can't, so women are not disadvataged relative to men in living lives of agency and making best use of their abilities to live lives they consider worthwhile. Yer bog standard basic feninism really.
I don't care if people adopt the stereotypical clothes, interests, presentations, mannerism, whatever of the opposite sex. In fact as a gender critical feminist I think it's great to see men clearly demonstrating how stereotypically "woman's" stuff is entirely accessible by men, and vice versa.
I care about "trans" people (other than caring about them in general as human beings) only to the degree that the genderist ideology many subscribe to asserts that female experience, needs, language, voices and indeed feminism itself must be remade to accomodate the beleif that certain people with all the advantages of being male/men can be treated as interchangable with female people in all things because by virtual of some undefiniable quality of "woman in the head". That all the reasons women need their own support, space, opportunities and protection because of how people react to our bodies just melt away when it comes to these specific men. That womanhood is not simply a matter of the body in which one is born, but is in fact a mental difference just as all those sexist men who kept us out of power and work and society and respect because our female brains weren't deisgned for such things always claimed.
Gender ideolofy is degrading, belittling and insulting to the real world lives and challenges that women face every day just for being female and I will never be bullied into saying it is ok.
Newsflash: sex exists. How you personally feel about your sex does not materially change the fact of it. How you personally feel about your sex does not change how women's sex affects our lives in ways yours does not. None of the gish gallop "points" you make to try and pull words over eyes change that. You are just trying to move the goalposts and hope no one notices it.
So while you are throwing a whole load of words out there to imply people, and specifcally me, are trying to stop you being "who you are" because of your body, the reality is that all I, and I would suggest almost everyone else who disagrees with you, actually wants is that you cease your attempts to undefine and delegitimise the social, legal and political existence of women as a sex class, to appropriate the social, physical, legal and political rights, opportunities and protections of female people, and to overwrite the reality, the history and the needs of the half of the population that turn up every day of their lives physically female and deal with what that means, for better or for worse, in nothing more than service of your own self image.