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Cisgender lesbian forcibly removed from toilets by male security after being wrongly accused of being a man

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Christinapple · 07/05/2025 15:51

This isn't the first time this has happened is it? I expect IMHO there will be more cases like this happening given the current obsession with trans people and how masculine or feminine people look.

https://gomag.com/article/hotel-guard-barges-into-womens-restroom-accuses-lesbian-guest-of-being-a-man/

https://www.thepinknews.com/2025/05/07/liberty-hotel-boston-bathroom-lesbian-trans/

https://www.msn.com/en-nz/news/other/same-sex-couple-demands-answers-after-hotel-security-threw-one-out-of-bathroom-thinking-she-was-a-man/ar-AA1Eh00e

"A woman and her girlfriend were thrown out of a luxurious five-star hotel after a security guard allegedly accused her of being a man using a female bathroom.
Ansley Baker and her partner, Liz Victor, were at the Liberty Hotel in Boston, Massachusetts, attending a Kentucky Derby party on Saturday.

The couple was using the women’s restroom in the foyer when they heard a bang on the stall doors, they told CBS News Boston.
Baker said she was in one of the stalls as Victor waited around the corner near the sinks. The hotel says that security was alerted by several women that the couple was sharing a single stall. Baker and Victor deny being in the same stall.
The male security guard allegedly began urging Baker, who was born a woman and identifies as a woman, to get out of the bathroom and accused her of being a man
“All of a sudden there was banging on the door,” Baker told the local news station. “I pulled my shorts up. I hadn't even tied them. One of the security guards was there telling me to get out of the bathroom, that I was a man in the women's bathroom. I said, ‘I'm a woman.’”"

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sanluca · 08/05/2025 08:02

suggestionsplease1 · 08/05/2025 00:48

In fact you could just put the whole issue into AI and it concludes the trans inclusive interpretation of evidence is the most robust explanation 😀
...

How do gender critical feminists explain why the countries that are highest ranked in the world for women's equality and well being also have policies of gender self id

ChatGPT said:
Gender-critical feminists typically argue that the presence of gender self-ID policies in countries with high levels of women's equality and well-being is not evidence that those policies cause or support gender equality. Instead, they tend to explain this phenomenon in several ways:

  1. Pre-existing High Standards of Women's Rights
They argue that countries like Sweden, Norway, or New Zealand had already achieved strong protections and high standards for women’s rights before introducing gender self-ID policies. From this view, gender self-ID is riding on the coattails of established women's equality, not contributing to it.
  1. Policy Adoption Due to Broader Progressive Trends
Some gender-critical feminists view gender self-ID laws as part of a general trend toward social liberalism in these countries. They argue that while these nations adopt progressive policies across many domains, not all such policies necessarily benefit women—and that gender self-ID might be a case where progressive intent doesn't align with women's interests.
  1. Lack of Time for Consequences to Appear
Another explanation is temporal: gender-critical feminists may claim that the negative consequences of self-ID policies (e.g. on single-sex spaces or data collection) have not yet fully materialized, been measured, or received public scrutiny in these countries.
  1. Silencing or Institutional Capture
They sometimes argue that dissenting views—particularly those skeptical of self-ID—are suppressed in these countries, leading to a lack of public debate or institutional resistance. This is sometimes referred to as "institutional capture" by gender ideology, where governments or organizations adopt policies without fully understanding or debating their implications.
  1. Women's Equality Measures Don't Capture All Impacts
Finally, gender-critical feminists often say that equality indices (like the UN's Gender Equality Index or World Economic Forum rankings) may not account for the specific areas where self-ID policies might harm women—for instance, in prisons, sports, or data accuracy—so those harms are not reflected in the rankings. Would you like a comparison of how trans-inclusive and gender-critical perspectives interpret these same facts? 4o You said: Yes

ChatGPT said:
Great. Here’s a side-by-side comparison of how trans-inclusive feminists and gender-critical feminists interpret the fact that many of the world's top-ranked countries for women's equality also have gender self-ID laws:
PerspectiveInterpretation of Gender Self-ID in High-Equality Countries
Trans-Inclusive Feminists

1. Gender equality and trans rights go hand-in-hand
These countries recognize that advancing the rights of one marginalized group (trans people) does not inherently harm another (women). The coexistence of gender equality and self-ID laws is a sign of inclusive progress.
2. Progressive societies are more open to all rights
Societies that support gender equality are often also supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, including the right to gender self-determination. Self-ID is seen as a natural extension of human rights.
3. No evidence of harm
They argue that there's no credible data showing that self-ID policies erode women's rights or safety. The fact that high-ranking countries have adopted self-ID suggests it's compatible with strong protections for women.
4. Women's rights are not zero-sum
Including trans women in women’s spaces and legal definitions is viewed as solidarity, not a threat. Equality for trans people is part of broader feminist goals.

| Gender-Critical Feminists | |
| 1. Correlation ≠ causation | Just because self-ID laws exist in gender-equal countries doesn’t mean they cause or support women’s equality. These policies were introduced after equality was largely achieved. |
| 2. Progressive overreach or "policy creep" | They may see self-ID laws as a result of uncritical adoption of progressive ideals, where inclusivity is prioritized even at the cost of women's sex-based rights. |
| 3. Negative effects not yet visible | These feminists argue that the consequences of self-ID (e.g., in prisons, sports, healthcare data) are subtle or delayed, and that these policies may erode gains for women over time. |
| 4. Women's concerns being ignored or suppressed | They often claim that women’s objections are dismissed as bigotry or transphobia, leading to a chilling effect on debate, even in liberal democracies. |
| 5. Equality indices are too broad or blind to sex-based impacts | Rankings may not capture the nuanced harms self-ID might introduce—like loss of single-sex protections, distorted data, or shifts in language that affect service delivery. |
In short:
Trans-inclusive feminists see gender self-ID as part of a broader, rights-based approach to equality.
Gender-critical feminists see it as potentially undermining hard-won sex-based protections, even in otherwise progressive societies.
Would you like specific examples of countries and how these debates have played out in their legal or political systems?
4o
You said:
If gender self ID policies are so harmful for women, why have the countries that have adopted these policies not dropped down the international comparator tables for women's equality and wellbeing?

ChatGPT said:
This is a key question that challenges gender-critical claims, and different perspectives explain it in fundamentally different ways. Here's how the debate usually breaks down:
🟣 Trans-Inclusive Response:
Self-ID hasn’t harmed women’s equality, which is why scores remain high.
Empirical evidence doesn’t show harm:
No measurable decline in women’s wellbeing, safety, or access to services has followed the adoption of gender self-ID in countries like Ireland, Norway, or Argentina.
Well-designed self-ID systems coexist with women’s rights:
These countries often have robust mechanisms for protecting women’s access to healthcare, employment, education, and safety, alongside gender identity laws.
Equality indices are comprehensive:
Global rankings (e.g., by the World Economic Forum, UN, or OECD) consider a broad range of indicators—economic participation, health, education, political empowerment—none of which show widespread negative impact from gender self-ID.
Discrimination protections already exist:
Laws ensuring women's rights (e.g., against domestic violence or workplace discrimination) are still intact and enforced, meaning self-ID hasn’t weakened the legal frameworks women rely on.
🔵 Gender-Critical Response:
International indices don’t reflect the full picture—or the harms are subtle and long-term.
Equality measures don’t track sex-specific harms:
Rankings rarely account for sex-disaggregated data on sensitive issues like male-bodied people in women’s prisons, the loss of single-sex services, or women’s sports—areas gender-critical feminists see as key.
Cultural silencing suppresses debate and reporting:
Critics argue that many women are afraid to speak out due to social or professional consequences, so problems may go underreported or dismissed.
Harm takes time to show up in data:
Some effects—like the erosion of sex-based language in health data or skewed rape statistics due to legal male-female recording—are gradual and don't immediately affect large-scale metrics.
Policy inertia and elite ideology:
Gender-critical feminists often argue that international institutions and governments adopt policies for ideological or reputational reasons without examining grassroots consequences.
Self-ID is not the only factor in equality rankings:
A country might still score highly because of strong healthcare, maternity policies, or political representation—factors unaffected (or only marginally affected) by gender ID laws.
In Summary:
Trans-inclusive views see the stability in rankings as evidence that self-ID causes no meaningful harm to women.
Gender-critical views claim that the indices don’t measure the right things, or that any harms are too recent, indirect, or politically suppressed to show up.
Would you like a breakdown of how one specific country’s data compares before and after adopting self-ID laws?
4o
You said:
Weighing everything up, do you think the trans inclusive or gender critical perspective offers the best interpretation of the information?

ChatGPT said:
That’s a thoughtful and important question. The strongest interpretation depends on what kind of evidence one prioritizes and how one defines “harm.” But based strictly on the available empirical evidence and real-world outcomes, the trans-inclusive perspective currently offers the more robust and evidence-aligned interpretation. Here’s why:
Why the Trans-Inclusive Perspective Holds Up Better Empirically:
No measurable decline in women’s equality metrics:
Countries that have adopted gender self-ID laws (e.g., Ireland, Norway, Argentina, New Zealand) continue to score highly—or even improve—on international measures of women’s health, education, safety, and political/economic participation. If self-ID had broad, systemic negative impacts on women, we’d expect to see some slippage, but it hasn’t materialized.
Lack of evidence for widespread harm in key domains:
Fears of self-ID policies leading to increased assaults in women’s spaces, for instance, have not been borne out by data. Reviews (e.g., in the UK, Ireland, Canada) have not found links between trans inclusion and harm to cisgender women in public spaces.
Legal protections remain in place:
Countries with self-ID laws typically retain exemptions allowing for sex-based protections when needed (e.g., in prisons or certain shelters), and the existence of these mechanisms weakens the gender-critical claim that women’s rights are being dismantled wholesale.
Cohesion with broader human rights frameworks:
Trans-inclusive policies align with broader commitments to human rights and bodily autonomy, which are principles also underpinning modern feminist legal frameworks.
⚠️ Where Gender-Critical Concerns Deserve Attention:
That said, the gender-critical perspective raises legitimate points that are worth engaging with seriously, especially in these areas:
Single-sex spaces and services: There are real debates over how to balance rights in contexts like shelters, sports, and prisons, particularly where safety or fairness is at stake.
Data integrity: The blending of sex and gender in official records can lead to problems in crime statistics, healthcare research, and planning. This is a solvable technical issue, but it's a fair concern.
Freedom of speech and debate: The climate around gender discussions can be hostile. Ensuring respectful, open dialogue without fear of social or professional retribution is crucial for democratic decision-making.
🔍 Bottom Line:
While gender-critical arguments raise some important, cautionary issues, they often rely on hypothetical harms, selective anecdotes, or claims that aren’t borne out in aggregate data. In contrast, the trans-inclusive position is better supported by broad, real-world evidence—especially in countries where gender self-ID has been implemented for years with no observable harm to women’s equality.
Would you like to explore how one specific case (like Ireland or Argentina) illustrates these outcomes in more detail?
4o

Countries such as the Netherlands and Germany have replaced their definition of sex with gender so no, women in those countries do not have excemptions. No, women in those countries do not have legal protections based on sex. No, women do not have the right to single sex sports, changing rooms, prisons or anything at all. No, when organisations stand up for women the transwoman takes them to court and the court says women should be talked to and explained that this person is now a woman and women should just accept it. It is crap and unfair and the government in both countries ignore it. Yes, I know of real life examples where women have just quit sports or left or gave up because of the accusations of bigot and transphobe.

So that throws ChatGPT opinion out of the window

nutmeg7 · 08/05/2025 08:08

suggestionsplease1 · 08/05/2025 00:48

In fact you could just put the whole issue into AI and it concludes the trans inclusive interpretation of evidence is the most robust explanation 😀
...

How do gender critical feminists explain why the countries that are highest ranked in the world for women's equality and well being also have policies of gender self id

ChatGPT said:
Gender-critical feminists typically argue that the presence of gender self-ID policies in countries with high levels of women's equality and well-being is not evidence that those policies cause or support gender equality. Instead, they tend to explain this phenomenon in several ways:

  1. Pre-existing High Standards of Women's Rights
They argue that countries like Sweden, Norway, or New Zealand had already achieved strong protections and high standards for women’s rights before introducing gender self-ID policies. From this view, gender self-ID is riding on the coattails of established women's equality, not contributing to it.
  1. Policy Adoption Due to Broader Progressive Trends
Some gender-critical feminists view gender self-ID laws as part of a general trend toward social liberalism in these countries. They argue that while these nations adopt progressive policies across many domains, not all such policies necessarily benefit women—and that gender self-ID might be a case where progressive intent doesn't align with women's interests.
  1. Lack of Time for Consequences to Appear
Another explanation is temporal: gender-critical feminists may claim that the negative consequences of self-ID policies (e.g. on single-sex spaces or data collection) have not yet fully materialized, been measured, or received public scrutiny in these countries.
  1. Silencing or Institutional Capture
They sometimes argue that dissenting views—particularly those skeptical of self-ID—are suppressed in these countries, leading to a lack of public debate or institutional resistance. This is sometimes referred to as "institutional capture" by gender ideology, where governments or organizations adopt policies without fully understanding or debating their implications.
  1. Women's Equality Measures Don't Capture All Impacts
Finally, gender-critical feminists often say that equality indices (like the UN's Gender Equality Index or World Economic Forum rankings) may not account for the specific areas where self-ID policies might harm women—for instance, in prisons, sports, or data accuracy—so those harms are not reflected in the rankings. Would you like a comparison of how trans-inclusive and gender-critical perspectives interpret these same facts? 4o You said: Yes

ChatGPT said:
Great. Here’s a side-by-side comparison of how trans-inclusive feminists and gender-critical feminists interpret the fact that many of the world's top-ranked countries for women's equality also have gender self-ID laws:
PerspectiveInterpretation of Gender Self-ID in High-Equality Countries
Trans-Inclusive Feminists

1. Gender equality and trans rights go hand-in-hand
These countries recognize that advancing the rights of one marginalized group (trans people) does not inherently harm another (women). The coexistence of gender equality and self-ID laws is a sign of inclusive progress.
2. Progressive societies are more open to all rights
Societies that support gender equality are often also supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, including the right to gender self-determination. Self-ID is seen as a natural extension of human rights.
3. No evidence of harm
They argue that there's no credible data showing that self-ID policies erode women's rights or safety. The fact that high-ranking countries have adopted self-ID suggests it's compatible with strong protections for women.
4. Women's rights are not zero-sum
Including trans women in women’s spaces and legal definitions is viewed as solidarity, not a threat. Equality for trans people is part of broader feminist goals.

| Gender-Critical Feminists | |
| 1. Correlation ≠ causation | Just because self-ID laws exist in gender-equal countries doesn’t mean they cause or support women’s equality. These policies were introduced after equality was largely achieved. |
| 2. Progressive overreach or "policy creep" | They may see self-ID laws as a result of uncritical adoption of progressive ideals, where inclusivity is prioritized even at the cost of women's sex-based rights. |
| 3. Negative effects not yet visible | These feminists argue that the consequences of self-ID (e.g., in prisons, sports, healthcare data) are subtle or delayed, and that these policies may erode gains for women over time. |
| 4. Women's concerns being ignored or suppressed | They often claim that women’s objections are dismissed as bigotry or transphobia, leading to a chilling effect on debate, even in liberal democracies. |
| 5. Equality indices are too broad or blind to sex-based impacts | Rankings may not capture the nuanced harms self-ID might introduce—like loss of single-sex protections, distorted data, or shifts in language that affect service delivery. |
In short:
Trans-inclusive feminists see gender self-ID as part of a broader, rights-based approach to equality.
Gender-critical feminists see it as potentially undermining hard-won sex-based protections, even in otherwise progressive societies.
Would you like specific examples of countries and how these debates have played out in their legal or political systems?
4o
You said:
If gender self ID policies are so harmful for women, why have the countries that have adopted these policies not dropped down the international comparator tables for women's equality and wellbeing?

ChatGPT said:
This is a key question that challenges gender-critical claims, and different perspectives explain it in fundamentally different ways. Here's how the debate usually breaks down:
🟣 Trans-Inclusive Response:
Self-ID hasn’t harmed women’s equality, which is why scores remain high.
Empirical evidence doesn’t show harm:
No measurable decline in women’s wellbeing, safety, or access to services has followed the adoption of gender self-ID in countries like Ireland, Norway, or Argentina.
Well-designed self-ID systems coexist with women’s rights:
These countries often have robust mechanisms for protecting women’s access to healthcare, employment, education, and safety, alongside gender identity laws.
Equality indices are comprehensive:
Global rankings (e.g., by the World Economic Forum, UN, or OECD) consider a broad range of indicators—economic participation, health, education, political empowerment—none of which show widespread negative impact from gender self-ID.
Discrimination protections already exist:
Laws ensuring women's rights (e.g., against domestic violence or workplace discrimination) are still intact and enforced, meaning self-ID hasn’t weakened the legal frameworks women rely on.
🔵 Gender-Critical Response:
International indices don’t reflect the full picture—or the harms are subtle and long-term.
Equality measures don’t track sex-specific harms:
Rankings rarely account for sex-disaggregated data on sensitive issues like male-bodied people in women’s prisons, the loss of single-sex services, or women’s sports—areas gender-critical feminists see as key.
Cultural silencing suppresses debate and reporting:
Critics argue that many women are afraid to speak out due to social or professional consequences, so problems may go underreported or dismissed.
Harm takes time to show up in data:
Some effects—like the erosion of sex-based language in health data or skewed rape statistics due to legal male-female recording—are gradual and don't immediately affect large-scale metrics.
Policy inertia and elite ideology:
Gender-critical feminists often argue that international institutions and governments adopt policies for ideological or reputational reasons without examining grassroots consequences.
Self-ID is not the only factor in equality rankings:
A country might still score highly because of strong healthcare, maternity policies, or political representation—factors unaffected (or only marginally affected) by gender ID laws.
In Summary:
Trans-inclusive views see the stability in rankings as evidence that self-ID causes no meaningful harm to women.
Gender-critical views claim that the indices don’t measure the right things, or that any harms are too recent, indirect, or politically suppressed to show up.
Would you like a breakdown of how one specific country’s data compares before and after adopting self-ID laws?
4o
You said:
Weighing everything up, do you think the trans inclusive or gender critical perspective offers the best interpretation of the information?

ChatGPT said:
That’s a thoughtful and important question. The strongest interpretation depends on what kind of evidence one prioritizes and how one defines “harm.” But based strictly on the available empirical evidence and real-world outcomes, the trans-inclusive perspective currently offers the more robust and evidence-aligned interpretation. Here’s why:
Why the Trans-Inclusive Perspective Holds Up Better Empirically:
No measurable decline in women’s equality metrics:
Countries that have adopted gender self-ID laws (e.g., Ireland, Norway, Argentina, New Zealand) continue to score highly—or even improve—on international measures of women’s health, education, safety, and political/economic participation. If self-ID had broad, systemic negative impacts on women, we’d expect to see some slippage, but it hasn’t materialized.
Lack of evidence for widespread harm in key domains:
Fears of self-ID policies leading to increased assaults in women’s spaces, for instance, have not been borne out by data. Reviews (e.g., in the UK, Ireland, Canada) have not found links between trans inclusion and harm to cisgender women in public spaces.
Legal protections remain in place:
Countries with self-ID laws typically retain exemptions allowing for sex-based protections when needed (e.g., in prisons or certain shelters), and the existence of these mechanisms weakens the gender-critical claim that women’s rights are being dismantled wholesale.
Cohesion with broader human rights frameworks:
Trans-inclusive policies align with broader commitments to human rights and bodily autonomy, which are principles also underpinning modern feminist legal frameworks.
⚠️ Where Gender-Critical Concerns Deserve Attention:
That said, the gender-critical perspective raises legitimate points that are worth engaging with seriously, especially in these areas:
Single-sex spaces and services: There are real debates over how to balance rights in contexts like shelters, sports, and prisons, particularly where safety or fairness is at stake.
Data integrity: The blending of sex and gender in official records can lead to problems in crime statistics, healthcare research, and planning. This is a solvable technical issue, but it's a fair concern.
Freedom of speech and debate: The climate around gender discussions can be hostile. Ensuring respectful, open dialogue without fear of social or professional retribution is crucial for democratic decision-making.
🔍 Bottom Line:
While gender-critical arguments raise some important, cautionary issues, they often rely on hypothetical harms, selective anecdotes, or claims that aren’t borne out in aggregate data. In contrast, the trans-inclusive position is better supported by broad, real-world evidence—especially in countries where gender self-ID has been implemented for years with no observable harm to women’s equality.
Would you like to explore how one specific case (like Ireland or Argentina) illustrates these outcomes in more detail?
4o

Now I know you are scientifically illiterate.

Do you think this is how research studies are done? 😂 Oh dear.

suggestionsplease1 · 08/05/2025 08:09

nutmeg7 · 08/05/2025 07:56

You seem to be mistaking correlation with causation.

I would be interested to know how long these countries have good maternity policies, free childcare, well funded healthcare, women’s refuges etc all the things that make equality for women possible.

And then how long have they had self -ID?

And is self ID not just a recent product of a liberal society? ie it does not have any causative role in making society a good place to be female.

And how long before men self IDing into female spaces, awards, single sex groups starts to impact on women’s wellbeing?

And how is women’s wellbeing being measured in these countries? Life expectancy? Earning potential? Education? Are they asking women in sport, women in prison, women losing female facilities, women losing the right to female only groups how they actually feel?

Trying to imply causation between self ID and women’s wellbeing is bollocks science.

"You seem to be mistaking correlation with causation"

Incorrect. I have never asserted a causal relationship. I have simply pointed out that having a policy of gender self-ID appears to cause no barriers to those countries at the very top of the tables for women internationally. The countries doing best for women are also the countries doing best for transpeople.

You can examine the measures that the Women, Peace and Security Index and the Global Gender Gap Report use to rank countries' performance for women. That is available on their reports.

As I said before, they are internationally respected studies in the area of women's wellbeing and parity with men, cited by governments, women's rights groups and national health organisations worldwide.

TheKeatingFive · 08/05/2025 08:19

suggestionsplease1 · 08/05/2025 08:09

"You seem to be mistaking correlation with causation"

Incorrect. I have never asserted a causal relationship. I have simply pointed out that having a policy of gender self-ID appears to cause no barriers to those countries at the very top of the tables for women internationally. The countries doing best for women are also the countries doing best for transpeople.

You can examine the measures that the Women, Peace and Security Index and the Global Gender Gap Report use to rank countries' performance for women. That is available on their reports.

As I said before, they are internationally respected studies in the area of women's wellbeing and parity with men, cited by governments, women's rights groups and national health organisations worldwide.

There's much that isn't being captured in those studies however.

I'm in Ireland. No one, except for one brave journalist is talking about the impact of self ID'd men in womens prisons.

https://x.com/paddyjogorman/status/1861774932503339112?s=46&t=OKyRO4eweTteo5FEt_J1MQ

Equally no one is talking about the women who are self excluding from sport due to men getting spots in their teams or being in their changing rooms.

These things are barely mentioned in MSM, let alone the impacts being properly evaluated.

I guess it's easy to conclude there are 'no barriers' to women when you refuse to even acknowledge the one's right in front of you.

https://x.com/paddyjogorman/status/1861774932503339112?s=46&t=OKyRO4eweTteo5FEt_J1MQ

sanluca · 08/05/2025 08:21

So I did the same as suggestion but asked a slightly different question:

What is the impact of replacing sex with gender identity in countries such as Germany and the Netherlands on women rights?

ChatGPT said:

The replacement of sex with gender identity in laws, policies, and public records—such as in Germany and the Netherlands—has had significant and controversial impacts on women's rights. These impacts are complex and vary depending on the context, but here are the major areas of concern and debate:

  1. Single-Sex Spaces and Services

Issue: Replacing sex with gender identity can mean that access to spaces (e.g., women’s shelters, prisons, bathrooms, or sports) is determined by self-identified gender rather than biological sex.
Impact on Women: Critics, including some feminist groups, argue this can compromise women's privacy, safety, and fairness, especially in contexts like:
Domestic violence shelters where survivors may feel unsafe or retraumatized by the presence of male-bodied individuals.
Prisons, where transferring male offenders who identify as women into women’s facilities has raised safety concerns.
Sports, where physical advantages of male puberty may affect fairness in female competitions.

  1. Data Collection and Policy Making

Issue: Legal and statistical categories increasingly reflect gender identity rather than biological sex.
Impact on Women:
It becomes harder to collect accurate sex-disaggregated data on issues like the gender pay gap, domestic violence, healthcare outcomes, or educational attainment.
This may undermine the ability to track and address sex-based inequality, especially where biological differences are relevant.

  1. Legal Protections and Definitions

Issue: Anti-discrimination and equality laws often shift language from "sex" to "gender" or "gender identity."
Impact on Women:
Legal protections specifically based on female sex may be diluted if "woman" is no longer defined by biology.
This may affect women-only quotas, scholarships, or initiatives designed to counter structural sexism.

  1. Freedom of Speech and Advocacy

Issue: Critics of gender-identity policies—particularly those who argue for maintaining sex-based rights—may face censorship, professional sanctions, or social backlash.
Impact on Women:
Feminists, especially so-called gender-critical feminists, in both Germany and the Netherlands have reported difficulties in advocating for sex-based rights without being labeled as transphobic.
This can chill open debate and diminish the visibility of women’s perspectives in public discourse.

  1. Policy Implementation in Germany and the Netherlands

Germany: The 2024 Self-Determination Act allows people to change their legal gender annually via self-declaration. Critics argue it lacks safeguards, especially regarding access to women-only spaces.
Netherlands: The country has also removed many medical or surgical requirements for gender change, and is considering further steps to embed gender identity in law. Some feminist groups have raised alarms about the implications for women’s sex-based rights.

Supportive Perspectives

Proponents of these reforms argue that they enhance dignity, autonomy, and legal recognition for transgender people and that inclusion in women’s spaces does not inherently harm women.
They claim that cases of abuse are rare and that society can uphold both trans rights and women's rights simultaneously through careful policy design.

Summary:
Replacing sex with gender identity in law and policy in countries like Germany and the Netherlands has advanced trans rights, but it has also led to tensions with established sex-based rights for women, particularly concerning safety, privacy, data integrity, and fairness. The debate is ongoing, with both legal and social implications continuing to evolve.
Would you like a deeper dive into how specific women’s organizations in these countries have responded?

You said:

How is abuse being recorded if proponents can claim that it is rare and what constitues rare?

ChatGPT said:

You've hit on a crucial and contested point in the debate: how abuse is recorded and defined directly affects whether it is considered "rare"—and this has major implications for public policy.

  1. How Abuse Is Recorded (or Not Recorded)

Lack of sex-disaggregated data: When laws or institutions record incidents based on gender identity rather than biological sex, it becomes difficult or impossible to know the biological sex of the person involved in a crime or abuse case.
Example: If a male-born person who identifies as a woman assaults a female inmate in a women’s prison, and the system logs them as a "woman," the assault may not be visible in the data as male-on-female violence.
Institutional reluctance to report: Shelters, prisons, or sports organizations may avoid reporting conflicts or incidents for fear of legal consequences or public backlash, especially if they relate to trans inclusion.
Suppressed or reframed complaints: Women may avoid filing complaints due to fear of being labeled transphobic, or their concerns may be dismissed as discrimination.

  1. What Constitutes “Rare”?

No clear threshold exists for what is considered "rare." It’s a subjective term often used rhetorically to imply that concerns are not statistically significant.
Proponents typically base claims on:
Low official numbers of reported incidents.
Studies with limited data or narrow definitions of abuse.
Critics argue that even a small number of incidents can have outsized effects in contexts where safety and privacy are critical—like rape crisis centers or prisons.
Example: A handful of sexual assaults in women’s prisons by male-bodied inmates is not "rare" in ethical or legal terms when the consequence is grave and the risk was foreseeable.

  1. Challenges in Oversight

Independent monitoring is rare: Few jurisdictions have independent bodies tracking the specific impact of gender self-ID laws on women.
No consensus on definitions: Terms like "abuse," "harm," and "incidents" are often undefined or inconsistently applied across studies and official reports.
Gatekeeping of evidence: When women's groups try to track cases, they may lack access to institutional data and must rely on individual testimony or media investigations, which are easily dismissed as anecdotal.
Summary

Proponents of gender identity-based policies often claim abuse is rare, but that claim rests on weak or incomplete data, due in large part to how incidents are recorded (or not), the political sensitivity of the topic, and the lack of systemic tracking mechanisms. Critics argue that even low-frequency abuse is unacceptable when it results from policies that remove sex-based protections.

Merrymouse · 08/05/2025 08:28

The ‘look how happy these counties are!’ argument is very ‘But Britain built the railways in India! How dare people talk about their rights!’.

EdithStourton · 08/05/2025 08:35

dylexicdementor11 · 07/05/2025 18:33

I’m not interested in blaming anyone. I’m interested in protecting people from harm.

If my area of concern (obstetric violence and poor maternal health outcomes) received half as much attention from all of the warriors on this and so many other threads, the media etcetera, I’m sure we could actually start to improve the life chances of women and girls. But no, we are stuck in a nonsensical debate about WCs. If you care about women’s health and futures start advocating for reproductive justice.

I've only just noticed this comment:
But no, we are stuck in a nonsensical debate about WCs. If you care about women’s health and futures start advocating for reproductive justice.

All I can do is repeat what I have already said on this thread:
...this whole bloody farrago has been drawing women away from other things we'd like to be campaigning for - because defining what a woman is is critically important to any other feminist campaigning.
Which is another reason why transactivists desperate to get in women's spaces massively piss me off.

EdithStourton · 08/05/2025 08:43

@suggestionsplease1 Incorrect. I have never asserted a causal relationship. I have simply pointed out that having a policy of gender self-ID appears to cause no barriers to those countries at the very top of the tables for women internationally. The countries doing best for women are also the countries doing best for transpeople.
That is most probably because those countries are open, liberal democracies, which encourage individualism and personal autonomy, not because TW in women's spaces have no negative impacts on women.

The pressure on young women to 'beee kind' is huge. I dropped DD off for her first term at uni a few years ago, and the 'helper' students were all wearing name badges. All the ones I noticed who had their pronouns on display were... young women, who were unmistakably female. Emily, love, you don't need 'she/her', any more than Tom over there needs 'he/him'. You have boobs, wide hips, a delicate jawline and are 5'2". He has broad shoulders, an Adam's apple, a day's stubble and is 6'1".

But there is Emily, wasting her time writing 'she/her' on her name tag and chatting to her friends about it and thinking about this nonsense and quite probably sharing stuff on social media and giving away her rights to female-only spaces, while Tom just gets on with whatever he was doing anyway. Somehow, gender ideology is Emily's problem in a way that it isn't Tom's.

CassOle · 08/05/2025 09:05

I see that Suggesions is scraping the barrel again.

Sigh.

Zita60 · 08/05/2025 09:25

Treeper22 · 07/05/2025 16:12

I am occasionally stopped at the doors of a supermarket because the security alarm goes off. The security guard stops me, checks my reciept, acknowledges it is a mistake and we both move on with our day.

If the security guard is aggressive I would complain about his conduct.

I didn't and wouldn't demand that supermarkets get rid of all their anti-theft mechanisms because of an occasional glitch in the system as I recognise that preventing theft benefits all of us over and above my personal inconvenience.

Exactly.

Helleofabore · 08/05/2025 09:47

I see we are again being told to believe some world economic forum and the like superficial overview (rubbish in / rubbish out) on women’s safety etc is somehow relevant to self ID.

It is a never ending plea for relevance and an endless cycle where the person making the declaration cannot see past their ideology to see the flaws in their claims.

CompleteGinasaur · 08/05/2025 09:54

ScathingAngelAgrona · 08/05/2025 05:33

ChatGP!?

Credibility, which was extremely low before has now entered a new depth.

And Prick News. Oh well, that's obviously sound, reliably evidenced journalism. 😂

maltravers · 08/05/2025 09:55

I assume the security guard thought they were having sex in the cubicle. I don’t see why the other users of the loo have to put up with that.

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2025 09:57

Thank you everyone who had more patience than I had to respond. I saw a ChatGPT generated answer with ChatGPT generated graphics showing absolutely no pertinent data, with an admission that men could self select into it and a denial that it was claiming correlation equalled causation even though it clearly was. So I thought "fuck that, these people have wasted enough of my time tonight".

CompleteGinasaur · 08/05/2025 10:02

maltravers · 08/05/2025 09:55

I assume the security guard thought they were having sex in the cubicle. I don’t see why the other users of the loo have to put up with that.

Except that they weren't actually in the cubicle t the same time; the report to the security guard was deliberately wrong and malicious. So what we actually have is not misplaced transphobia but actual lesbophobia, from both the complainants and the security guard. I await the apology from @Christinapple which is obviously coming any time now...

Helleofabore · 08/05/2025 10:27

Just a reminder of what 'indexes' feed into the overall scores for that WPS Index

years of education
whether a woman gets access to bank accounts
employment
access to a mobile phone
parliamentary representation (and if I remember correctly, this also includes whether there is a queen as a head of state).

then they scale the whether women are legal discriminated against to reduce their opportunities
access to justice
maternal mortality
and whether more males are recorded as born vs girls.

then comes intimate partner violence
community safety
political violence targeting women
proximity to conflict zones

There is significant danger in looking at such an index and declaring that there is relevance to self identification. There is a reason for most of that Top 10 being high and it has to do with their female heads of state, including having a queen.

As has been long pointed out with these indexes every time they are posted by this one single poster, the information is also not reliable because it is widely reported that countries in that top 10 have significant domestic violence and rape cases that women simply don't bother reporting. However, they are well published. New Zealand and Norway come to mind.

It is absurd that these indexes keep being posted.

WithSilverBells · 08/05/2025 10:46

nutmeg7 · 08/05/2025 08:08

Now I know you are scientifically illiterate.

Do you think this is how research studies are done? 😂 Oh dear.

I agree. If we are going to allow random scientific opinions then I submit:

Women's equality and well being would be even better in those countries if they dumped the policies of gender self id

Disprove that theory

Edit for clarity

Merrymouse · 08/05/2025 10:49

This seems reminiscent of the studies that linked particular diets to longetivity, so identifying ‘blue zones’ - until it was suggested that they might just be identifying pension fraud.

SinnerBoy · 08/05/2025 10:52

suggestionsplease1 · Yesterday 22:12

Not doing your homework for you.

You remind me of 14 year old me, complaining about the poor mark I got for a poem. I told my English teacher scathingly that it wasn't MY fault she didn't understand it.

I suspect strongly that my maths teacher would have been less indulgent, had I pronounced:

Women are much better off in Ireland than Afghanistan, therefore, Self ID is the dog's bollocks.

... with no workings.

Helleofabore · 08/05/2025 10:55

WithSilverBells · 08/05/2025 10:46

I agree. If we are going to allow random scientific opinions then I submit:

Women's equality and well being would be even better in those countries if they dumped the policies of gender self id

Disprove that theory

Edit for clarity

Edited

Yes. But it seems we are now having ChatGPT generated posts rather than proper interrogation of the data being used.

Just looking at what is feeding into the indexes, all it takes is a few male people being recorded as female parliamentarians, and women not being able to take their discrimination to court because males with a particular gender identities have been given their opportunity and you can see that self ID will have an artificial impact on these indexes.

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2025 10:58

Pissing myself at someone who literally pulls their arguments out of ChatGPT's bottom accusing other people of not doing their homework...

ScrollingLeaves · 08/05/2025 10:59

NotmeMother · 07/05/2025 15:56

Breaking News; a women who likes to look manly is asked to leave a women's toilet on another continent! Gasp!

Quite.

WithSilverBells · 08/05/2025 11:01

Helleofabore · 08/05/2025 10:55

Yes. But it seems we are now having ChatGPT generated posts rather than proper interrogation of the data being used.

Just looking at what is feeding into the indexes, all it takes is a few male people being recorded as female parliamentarians, and women not being able to take their discrimination to court because males with a particular gender identities have been given their opportunity and you can see that self ID will have an artificial impact on these indexes.

Just looking at what is feeding into the indexes, all it takes is a few male people being recorded as female parliamentarians, and women not being able to take their discrimination to court because males with a particular gender identities have been given their opportunity and you can see that self ID will have an artificial impact on these indexes.

A feature, not a bug

Merrymouse · 08/05/2025 11:28

Have seen an interview with the woman and she is no more manly than an average woman with short hair wearing trousers and no make up.

It should be noted that many women over the age of 60 have short hair, wear trousers and don’t wear make up, but this demographic is strangely invisible. Nobody mistakes them for men.

I have no idea what was actually going on, but open homophobia and sexism do seem to be more acceptable in America.

Apriltowers · 08/05/2025 13:19

@suggestionsplease1 Have you ever heard the saying "there are lies, darn lies and statistics"? It basically just means you can't trust statistics. In these "progressive " countries I imagine there's some other variable like maybe they're so captured at all levels that women know the government don't GAF about them, and that means they know nothing will be done if they report violence and so they don't bother. Could be that or something else, I don't know but it's clearly bullshit.