Oh wow, first Banned and now Cake ('Elan' - love it!) saying nice things about my posts elsewhere - the real me behind the username is genuinely pleased and grateful, and it's a lovely start to the day to feel validated like that, thank you
xx
The anonymity of MN has been very liberating for me - it's not that I have any specific need to be anonymous - I know some women fear reprisals at work or in their family - not me - I've just never liked being 'out there' on the internet, I've never joined any social media platforms etc.
I'm not good a arguing my point in real life, so it's great to have the time to think and reflect and check words and facts and figures before actually posting something.
Best of all though is being able to think of or read about something silly/witty/obscure/unlikely/fun/cute/outrageous/revealing/incredible/
and thinking
'I must share that with the Bluestockingers, they'll love it!'
which is something I don't have in real life - some people might get some of my references or jokes, but I'm more likely to get an eye-roll. Often an affectionate eye-roll, but nonetheless..
Whereas there is an eager audience for everything and anything, no matter how obscure or silly, in the Bluestocking and I love that💙