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frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:35

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:33

from a quick look at the tribunal decision I don’t think that’s point was raised

It was, Mermaids didn't like the LGB alliance focusing on souly LGB.

The judge pointed out if the ability to separate wasn't there Mermaids also couldn't exist, being only T focused.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:36

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:32

So that a no then for descriptions from you.

And
Bamb the conversation is shut down...

I’m sorry if it seemed an unhelpful answer, but I think asking me to define masculinity and femininity is a bit silly, I think we all have a reasonably good idea of what those terms refer to.

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:37

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:36

I’m sorry if it seemed an unhelpful answer, but I think asking me to define masculinity and femininity is a bit silly, I think we all have a reasonably good idea of what those terms refer to.

Then it's an easy thing for you to answer.

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:37

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:35

It was, Mermaids didn't like the LGB alliance focusing on souly LGB.

The judge pointed out if the ability to separate wasn't there Mermaids also couldn't exist, being only T focused.

Yep

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:38

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:35

It was, Mermaids didn't like the LGB alliance focusing on souly LGB.

The judge pointed out if the ability to separate wasn't there Mermaids also couldn't exist, being only T focused.

We are specifically talking about what is permitted under the EA. I can’t see any reference to that Act in the tribunal decision

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:39

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:33

from a quick look at the tribunal decision I don’t think that’s point was raised

It was raised. I believe this has been answered in court.

If it was contradictory to any act, the charity commission would have said that LGB alliance had to be LGBT alliance.

Merrymouse · 27/04/2025 11:39

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 10:41

I’m using gender identity in a wide sense which includes gender presentation. You can’t deny that there are a higher proportion of lesbians and gay men than straight people who don’t conform to traditional gender norms?

The concept of gender non-conforming presentation and behaviour is completely asymmetrical for men and women though.

Being same sex attracted is intrinsically gender non conforming, but opposite sex attracted trans women are not an insignificant group. (Don't know if there has very been analysis of the split between homosexual and heterosexual trans women - might be difficult if the definitions aren't clearly defined)

It is clear that some people believe they have a gender identity, just as some people believe they have an immortal soul. However, it's still a subjective concept.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:39

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:37

Then it's an easy thing for you to answer.

Just because we all have a sense of what terms mean doesn’t mean it’s easy to explain it to someone as if they didn’t know. It would take me a while to explain ‘justice’ or “love”, doesn’t mean they don’t exist

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/04/2025 11:40

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:29

Hasn’t separately LGB from the other letters already been tested in the charity commission ?

It has, but not in the wake of the Supreme Court judgment.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:41

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:39

It was raised. I believe this has been answered in court.

If it was contradictory to any act, the charity commission would have said that LGB alliance had to be LGBT alliance.

Edited

Please point me to the relevant paragraph of the decision

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/04/2025 11:41

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:39

Just because we all have a sense of what terms mean doesn’t mean it’s easy to explain it to someone as if they didn’t know. It would take me a while to explain ‘justice’ or “love”, doesn’t mean they don’t exist

But masculinity and femininity mean different things to different people and in different cultures and eras.

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:41

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:39

Just because we all have a sense of what terms mean doesn’t mean it’s easy to explain it to someone as if they didn’t know. It would take me a while to explain ‘justice’ or “love”, doesn’t mean they don’t exist

Then how will this be defined in any kind of meaningful way in law.

🤷 You can't even explain it right now.

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:41

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/04/2025 11:40

It has, but not in the wake of the Supreme Court judgment.

Yes….. but the Supreme Court judgement didn’t change the existing law

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 11:42

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:41

Please point me to the relevant paragraph of the decision

Not today.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/04/2025 11:42

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:39

Just because we all have a sense of what terms mean doesn’t mean it’s easy to explain it to someone as if they didn’t know. It would take me a while to explain ‘justice’ or “love”, doesn’t mean they don’t exist

It's amazing what suddenly becomes "oh so complicated" when it's discussing women retaining rights, keeping men out of women's spaces and safeguarding children.
Fortunately the SC has spoken. Unfortunately the rest of us will be subject to the ramblings of adults who suddenly have major problems with definitions that society has always understood.

It's tedious.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:42

Merrymouse · 27/04/2025 11:39

The concept of gender non-conforming presentation and behaviour is completely asymmetrical for men and women though.

Being same sex attracted is intrinsically gender non conforming, but opposite sex attracted trans women are not an insignificant group. (Don't know if there has very been analysis of the split between homosexual and heterosexual trans women - might be difficult if the definitions aren't clearly defined)

It is clear that some people believe they have a gender identity, just as some people believe they have an immortal soul. However, it's still a subjective concept.

this all makes sense. I don’t personally believe in a gender identity akin to an immortal soul

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 27/04/2025 11:42

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:36

I’m sorry if it seemed an unhelpful answer, but I think asking me to define masculinity and femininity is a bit silly, I think we all have a reasonably good idea of what those terms refer to.

So in your view, masculinity and femininity are gender identities? And that's it?

In my view, like many feminists, masculinity and femininity represent harmful "gendered" sex-role stereotypes where one (masculinity) is dominant over the other (femininity). We don't choose them, they are forced upon us, and they are the means by which women continue to be oppressed in society.

See, it's not hard to define your terms.

ArabellaScott · 27/04/2025 11:43

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:36

I’m sorry if it seemed an unhelpful answer, but I think asking me to define masculinity and femininity is a bit silly, I think we all have a reasonably good idea of what those terms refer to.

If you're positing these words or ideas as categories then I'd like to hear your definition of them. I dont know which I fit in, until you do.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:44

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:41

Then how will this be defined in any kind of meaningful way in law.

🤷 You can't even explain it right now.

we seem to have gone off on a tangent. We weren’t talking about defining gender in law, we were discussing why LGBT associations exist

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/04/2025 11:45

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:23

It depends what you mean by “a gender identity”. I think for most people feelings about being a man or a woman, and feelings about how masculine or feminine they are, play an important role in their identity

Ah, but this doesn't mean a great deal if everyone is using these terms to mean different things.

Being a woman is an important part of my identity but it is sex based, not gender based. I can't think of a single way in which womanhood forms a part of my identity which isn't directly related to my female biology. As such, I don't feel that I have a gender identity and although I accept that others do, I don't really understand what one is.

I have no idea what trans women are identifying with but I am crystal clear about the fact that we don't share any kind of identity.

I'm extremely wary of any attempt to say that we all have a gender identity because this leads us back down the path of women and trans women being considered a coherent grouping, which in my view it isn't.

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:45

ArabellaScott · 27/04/2025 11:43

If you're positing these words or ideas as categories then I'd like to hear your definition of them. I dont know which I fit in, until you do.

We were talking about the concepts of masculinity and femininity, they aren’t categories that you fit into or not?

Needspaceforlego · 27/04/2025 11:45

NotAtMyAge · 27/04/2025 11:23

Being over 70 I have to renew my driving licence every 3 years and have just done so. There is no mention of M/F anywhere on my new licence, so the only thing that could be of any use for a GRC would be proof of using a new name, which anyone can do at any time without legal formalities in the UK.

Well that explains that.
I've just sent mine of to change details.

Zero point in having M/F on an official document if its a piece of fiction.

ArabellaScott · 27/04/2025 11:46

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:39

Just because we all have a sense of what terms mean doesn’t mean it’s easy to explain it to someone as if they didn’t know. It would take me a while to explain ‘justice’ or “love”, doesn’t mean they don’t exist

It's not that I don't know. It's that they are totally subjective and arbitrary and changeable terms. We cannot base legislation on such vague concepts. We have to be able to describe things in terms that have stable and understood meanings.

frenchnoodle · 27/04/2025 11:46

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:45

We were talking about the concepts of masculinity and femininity, they aren’t categories that you fit into or not?

Surely that depends what they are?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/04/2025 11:46

Namechangeforobviousreasons100 · 27/04/2025 11:45

We were talking about the concepts of masculinity and femininity, they aren’t categories that you fit into or not?

Well trans people seem to think they are?

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