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Reddit - TIMs and Periods

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afuckinggoat · 03/04/2025 21:13

Stumbled across this thread on Reddit. A load of TIMs sharing their experiences of having a period.

www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/twwZf1AH3c

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Datun · 06/04/2025 11:29

MassiveWordSalad · 06/04/2025 11:23

From the MOMA link, a description of Sputniko’s “menstruation machine”. My underlining. Why suggest that children may wish to use such a thing?

From the curators: With Menstruation Machine, Sputniko! explores the relationship between identity, biology, and choice, while also probing the meaning of gender-specific rituals. The accompanying video is about Takashi, a young man who wants to understand on many levels, including the physiological, what it feels like to be a girl. Takashi builds the Menstruation Machine and wears it out on the town with a girlfriend, strutting around a shopping mall and occasionally doubling over in pain. The metal device, which looks like a chastity belt and is equipped with a blood-dispensing system and electrodes that stimulate the lower abdomen, replicates the pain and bleeding of the average five-day menstruation period. It is designed to be worn by men, children, postmenopausal women, or whoever else wants to experience menstruation. Thus an internal, private process is transformed into a wearable and manipulable design, a public display of pain and identity. Since the 1960s, advances in hormone-based contraception have, by suppressing ovulation, challenged the biological necessity of monthly periods. Sputniko! notes that the Menstruation Machine may be particularly desirable in a future in which menstruation in fact becomes obsolete.

Ahh yes, and when they cure the common cold, someone will invent a machine that gives you a raging temperature, rivers of snot, and a hacking cough.

Some people will do anything to make a buck

MassiveWordSalad · 06/04/2025 11:30

Furthermore, periods have never been expressed by women as a ‘public display of pain and identity’. We’re supposed to hide them, be ashamed of them, be banished to menstrual huts, be unable to take part in religious rituals because we are ‘unclean’. God forbid you take time off work with period problems, or leak anywhere. Some of us have lives limited by horrendous bleeding and accompanying pain, but never talk about it in front of a man because it’s ‘disgusting’.

TheOtherRaven · 06/04/2025 14:09
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And then you have young women told by men doctors with a patted hand that no, their painful and crippling periods couldn't be medically stopped because women needed to have them for 'psychological health reasons'.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/04/2025 21:27

TheOtherRaven · 06/04/2025 14:09

And then you have young women told by men doctors with a patted hand that no, their painful and crippling periods couldn't be medically stopped because women needed to have them for 'psychological health reasons'.

I'm not a fan of the Pill because of the quadrupled stroke risk, but I'm glad that the medical profession has moved on enough from this idea that women neeeeeed to menstruate to consider tri-cycling a reasonable way to take the Pill.

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:13

www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/LXQIeFFKaF

Another day, another load of mental ill men making a mockery of our biological reality.

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TwoLoonsAndASprout · 07/04/2025 20:15

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:13

www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/LXQIeFFKaF

Another day, another load of mental ill men making a mockery of our biological reality.

Can you summarise (in MN-friendly terms?) - it’s saying the link is “Mature Content,” only to be viewed in the Reddit app…

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:27

They've all got period cramps apparently.

Reddit - TIMs and Periods
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SionnachRuadh · 07/04/2025 20:27

I don't like to be nasty to deluded redditors, so I'm just going to say...

...have you heard about syrup of figs?

Squiggletime · 07/04/2025 20:35

When I was reading through it yesterday someone had put the thought of having period pains etc was “exciting” That literally shows how little they know

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 07/04/2025 20:39

Squiggletime · 07/04/2025 20:35

When I was reading through it yesterday someone had put the thought of having period pains etc was “exciting” That literally shows how little they know

Hmm. More like it shows it’s a fetish.

JKRismyPatronus · 07/04/2025 20:49

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:27

They've all got period cramps apparently.

The placebo effect can make some people believe anything.

Helleofabore · 07/04/2025 21:05

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:27

They've all got period cramps apparently.

Gosh, eh? Near luna month.

Wouldn’t be all the ‘period comfort’ food they could be eating due to either the expectation of a ‘period’ or because their endocrinologist has ‘cycled’ their hormones meaning they don’t have a flat cycle of Estrogen.

So is it the accumulation of the endocrinologist’s cycle? Or the comfort eating? Or otherwise nothing because they are on a flat dose of estrogen.

It is like they dig the hole deeper with each answer they try.

Datun · 07/04/2025 21:14

"Irregardless"

is that an American thing?

user9637 · 08/04/2025 09:17

Omg if that modibodi page doesn’t peak people I don’t know what does!

user9637 · 08/04/2025 09:18

Yeah i wear period pants “to feel comfortable”. Nothing to do with the flood pouring out between my legs

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 08/04/2025 09:19

user9637 · 08/04/2025 09:18

Yeah i wear period pants “to feel comfortable”. Nothing to do with the flood pouring out between my legs

Ah, but do you also feel “affirmed” in your womanliness when you wear them? That’s important, apparently.

Hoardasurass · 08/04/2025 09:22

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:27

They've all got period cramps apparently.

Someone should explain psychosomatic conditions to these delusional men

Hoardasurass · 08/04/2025 09:26

Datun · 07/04/2025 21:14

"Irregardless"

is that an American thing?

Nope its a lack of basic education thing it goes hand in hand with conversating instead of conversing

OnyourbarksGSG · 08/04/2025 10:59

Airwaterfire · 03/04/2025 23:36

I’ve said this before, but they really need to revise their GCSE biology of the reproductive system.

There are at least six hormones controlling the menstrual cycle, including FSH, LMH, and so on. It’s progesterone that causes the onset of the actual period - a drop in progesterone triggers the onset of the period itself. Period cramps are believed to be caused by the action of prostaglandins in the uterine muscle. Progesterone inhibits prostaglandin production, so when progesterone drops sharply as the period starts, prostaglandin production in the uterine muscle rises as the womb lining starts to shed.

Oestrogen is also at its lowest point in the cycle during that stage - almost nonexistent. It starts to rise again as the period finishes.

So if you’re taking a consistent dose of oestrogen across the month, not only are you not creating a menstrual cycle, but you’re definitely not replicating a period - which is when oestrogen and progesterone are at their lowest points, pretty much absent! The very opposite point to taking oestrogen!

None of these trans people ever seem to notice this. These are well established scientific facts. 😆 Yet all this easily available knowledge doesn’t stop the delusion, or stop daft sites on the internet from claiming that trans women get periods. I even used to get deleted on MN when I pointed this out because it upset the TRAs, despite it being in any human biology textbook (or they could have just popped over to the TTC forum and learned all about charting! 😄)

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Totally derailing this but I’ve LITERALLY just had a convo with my DRs for clarification as I’ve recently swapped hrt. I was on the patches (sequi) with one type of patch ( oestrogen) every 3-4 days for 14 days and then another type (prog) to bring about the withdrawal bleed. The day I started my bleed was the day I was told to restart a new pack for the next cycle.

I’ve just seen the gp as I was told to put the oestrogen gel sachet on one a day for 14 days and then to start prog ( 2 balls every night for 15 days). But I got my withdrawal bleed at day 10 which seemed very soon and so I asked for clarification on whether I should start oestrogen on the day of the bleed or do the full 15 days on prog. She then told me that I should be taking oestrogen EVERY DAY with the additional prog on top starting day 14 for fifteen days and I’m so fucking confused right now.

honestly, hrt seems like a giant unknown within our medical system and women, the ones that actually need this can’t get reliable treatment and that is what medics should be focusing on.

user9637 · 08/04/2025 13:45

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 08/04/2025 09:19

Ah, but do you also feel “affirmed” in your womanliness when you wear them? That’s important, apparently.

No but maybe I’ll wear them if i ever get uncontrollable crying fits or (more likely) abdominal cramps? apparently they help with that too

honestly TWs should sue for false advertising

TheOtherRaven · 08/04/2025 15:50

Tomorrow: join the jollies as an online group plays 'we've got rheumatoid arthritis'. Oooh that lovely imaginary pain. Gosh it's exciting. 🙄 Next Friday, the thrills of toothache.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 08/04/2025 16:04

afuckinggoat · 07/04/2025 20:27

They've all got period cramps apparently.

Absolutely nuts 🥜

user9637 · 08/04/2025 16:47

TheOtherRaven · 08/04/2025 15:50

Tomorrow: join the jollies as an online group plays 'we've got rheumatoid arthritis'. Oooh that lovely imaginary pain. Gosh it's exciting. 🙄 Next Friday, the thrills of toothache.

Not exciting, a TURN ON

MagpiePi · 08/04/2025 17:27

I never used to get cramps, have crying fits or want to eat chocolate. I did have to use sanpro about once a month and there was some quite spectacular bloody flooding during perimenopause, but I’m not sure now whether I actually had any periods.

TicklishLemur · 08/04/2025 17:55

It is very clearly a sexual fetish for them.