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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sandie Peggie facing internal misconduct hearing this week!

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NotAtMyAge · 16/02/2025 23:26

Utterly mind-blowing to read that NHS Fife is pressing ahead with a disciplinary hearing this Friday against Sandie Peggie, despite the Employment Tribunal not having completed its work. Sandie isn't taking this lying down and has started separate legal proceedings according to The Telegraph, which also includes the stunned reaction of Michael Foran to the news in its report.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/ea111fbd4a9af5a6

Archive version: https://archive.ph/lsriA

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AutumnCrow2 · 19/02/2025 14:16

RaspberryScrubs · 19/02/2025 13:04

Hello there.

Can you imagine I am a total thicko and explain to me what is a transwoman and how a person becomes one, please .

I like this question very much.

'How do I become a transwoman?'

anyolddinosaur · 19/02/2025 14:19

Another reminder that it is half term. Attention seeking children are sometimes best ignored.

DeanElderberry · 19/02/2025 14:21

And asking what does SP think a man might do?

SP is a nurse with 30 years experience including A&E, all those Friday evenings when the aggressive drunks and the rape victims come in for care, all those battered women who come in time after time to get bruises and fractures treated, all those stories she heard from victims about the sex abusers, including entitled males in the hospital she works in, how they started small with voyeurism and exhibitionism and frottage and escalated. She knows all about it, her working life was spent in the middle of it. She doesn't need to 'think', she knows.

Women have a right not to be forced to strip in front of men in search of a power kick. Or worse.

Sortumn · 19/02/2025 14:23

What did this man do?

He told us himself - He wanted this woman to change in front of him so much that he made notes on his phone when she didn't.

MyrtleLion · 19/02/2025 14:29

Sortumn · 19/02/2025 14:23

What did this man do?

He told us himself - He wanted this woman to change in front of him so much that he made notes on his phone when she didn't.

And it's likely he'd have offered her a tampon as she was bleeding heavily. Which would make me wan tto put bleach in my ears and eyeballs.

Greyskybluesky · 19/02/2025 14:44

MyrtleLion · 19/02/2025 14:29

And it's likely he'd have offered her a tampon as she was bleeding heavily. Which would make me wan tto put bleach in my ears and eyeballs.

I'm going to disagree because that didn't happen. I think his actual behaviour in that situation really marks him out as a man. If a woman asked another woman for some privacy because she needed to deal with period-related stuff, any woman would have said "yes, right, okay, fine" and perhaps "do you need anything" and then immediately given her the privacy.
The fact that he didn't is just another indication that he's a man, he doesn't think like women think, he has zero experience of that situation.

(To be clear, there are other reasons why he's a man! I'm just singling out his male behaviour here)

AnSolas · 19/02/2025 15:00

Begaydocrime94 · 19/02/2025 13:17

So she works in the medical profession where it’s the norm for male doctors to examine women or carry out uncomfortable or intimate medical procedures- with an option of a chaperone but undeniably it’s common in medicine for men to examine women. But she felt unsafe or whatever around a fellow medical professional because… what? She had her period? What did she think the doctor was going to do???

Definitely doesn’t sound like she just hates trans people :/ why not just own it and admit you just hate trans people rather than jumping through hoops by being like oh well technically she is a man blah blah. aggressively calling your colleague, a fellow medical professional who has probably dealt with a lot worse than a heavy period, a man is anti social behaviour. That’s why they’re pursuing this case against her.

Do you understand what permission is?

Do you understand the legal consequences in the UK if a person sticks body parts or objects inside or on another person without permission?

Do you understand that the fellow medical professional needed permission from Sandie to be in a room while she undressed?

Do you understand that the fellow medical professional needed permission from Sandie to enter a room she is in and begin to undress?

Do you understand that even if Sandie worked as a stripper in a strip club that the exact same rules would apply?

The Doctor has clearly proved in open court that he is an unsafe fellow medical professional

• He has proven that he will lie under oath about his clinical ability (or at least one hopes it was a lie not that the hopsital allowed a medical professional with a low standard of being able to differentite between female and male humans work in an A&E department)
• He has said under oath that he would examine women or carry out uncomfortable or intimate medical procedures without any permission to do so.
• He has said under oath that he would expect that fellow medical professional would facilitate the unlawful conduct of examining women or carry out uncomfortable or intimate medical procedures without any permission to do so.

Or are you suggesting that NHS Fife would also as a organisation facilitate assaults including sexual assaults on women who attend their hospitals?

lcakethereforeIam · 19/02/2025 15:07

If there's no threat in a changing room why did Upton even need to use the women's. Or to take it to it's conclusion why even have separate changing rooms? Or changing rooms at all?

SidewaysOtter · 19/02/2025 15:12

Repeatedly calling someone a man who identifies as a woman is clapped behaviour

WTF is “clapped behaviour” when it’s at home?

Greyskybluesky · 19/02/2025 15:13

SidewaysOtter · 19/02/2025 15:12

Repeatedly calling someone a man who identifies as a woman is clapped behaviour

WTF is “clapped behaviour” when it’s at home?

I'd clap that behaviour!

DeanElderberry · 19/02/2025 15:15

“clapped behaviour” truthful behavior worthy of applause would be my guess.

Hild0 · 19/02/2025 15:27

Begaydocrime94 · 19/02/2025 13:38

can anybody actually answer what the nurse thought the doctor was supposedly going to do though? Again this is a medical professional who probably has a thorough understanding of menstruation…

or let’s just look or rationally, she just hates trans people and saw it as an opportunity to harass the doctor?

its all confirmation bias, in some people’s minds all trans women are sickos sex attackers etc so this doctor MUST be one and the nurse MUST be a gender critical warrior as opposed to plain old bully. Repeatedly calling someone a man who identifies as a woman is clapped behaviour, it’s weird and if you think it’s not then it paves the way for open hatred and violence to trans women.

willing to bet majority of people in this corner of the internet are married to men too, but let me guess yours is one of the good ones. But all trans women are bad.
logicccc

I don't feel that this is being asked in good faith, but anyway...
Women generally don't want to deal with menstruation, or with underwear/clothing blood-stained by menstruation, in the presence of a man - any man, their husband, the most saintly man in the world, etc.
Most decent men would understand this.
It isn't necessarily about what they are going to 'do'. It's that women are allowed to have boundaries. Back to you to explain why women aren't allowed to have any boundaries...

DeanElderberry · 19/02/2025 15:34

Yes, a theoretical 'understanding of menstruation' is going to be limited to a knowledge of the function (and I wonder could Upton even have had that and not known what 'female' means, maybe that module happened during Covid and he missed it). No knowledge at all of the experience.

Just as asking 'what [Sandie Peggie] thought the doctor was supposedly going to do' is taking naivety too far.

As I pointed out upthread, 30 years working in a busy hospital has shown her, even more than most women, exactly what entitled men hostile to women 'do'.

NotAtMyAge · 19/02/2025 15:35

H112 · 19/02/2025 12:38

I love how obvious it is that none of you work in healthcare. The nurse is disgusting for misgendering her. It's out job to keep up to date on medical issues and she is clearly ignorant to it so I wouldn't want her touching any patient of mine.

The nurse is brave and sensible for correctly sexing him. The judge gave permission for his sex to be openly discussed in the tribunal hearing, because it's central to the whole case. I think you'll find that Stonewall's influence is rapidly waning as far as the ordinary man and woman in the street are concerned. Certainly public attitudes are turning against the overreach of trans activist demands, according to the latest YouGov poll in the subject, published a week ago.

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425

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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 19/02/2025 15:38

Begaydocrime94 · 19/02/2025 13:17

So she works in the medical profession where it’s the norm for male doctors to examine women or carry out uncomfortable or intimate medical procedures- with an option of a chaperone but undeniably it’s common in medicine for men to examine women. But she felt unsafe or whatever around a fellow medical professional because… what? She had her period? What did she think the doctor was going to do???

Definitely doesn’t sound like she just hates trans people :/ why not just own it and admit you just hate trans people rather than jumping through hoops by being like oh well technically she is a man blah blah. aggressively calling your colleague, a fellow medical professional who has probably dealt with a lot worse than a heavy period, a man is anti social behaviour. That’s why they’re pursuing this case against her.

‘Technically she is a man’ and ‘calling your colleague a man is anti social behaviour’ so calling a man a man is antisocial?? What sort of garbled sentence is that, it’s not only factually incorrect, it’s ludicrous. People can’t change sex, no one is born in the wrong body, this man’s insistence that he’s now a woman doesn’t have to be verified or accepted by anyone else. If as a qualified medical professional he can’t even accurately define his own sex then how is he supposed to treat the general public?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/02/2025 15:39

WTF is “clapped behaviour” when it’s at home?

I've come across this poster before, and they appear to speak mainly in 2022 Twitter-speak.

MissyB1 · 19/02/2025 15:43

I find it truly worrying that a Doctor believes he has changed his sex, he surely knows this is scientifically impossible?!

The fact is that he knows damn well he is male, but wants to insist that everyone else goes along with his pretence, no matter what it might cost them.

Hild0 · 19/02/2025 15:44

Then there's the no small matter of the fetishisation of menstruation by trans identified males, which would make me even less inclined to deal with anything period related around them.

SidewaysOtter · 19/02/2025 15:44

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/02/2025 15:39

WTF is “clapped behaviour” when it’s at home?

I've come across this poster before, and they appear to speak mainly in 2022 Twitter-speak.

You just can't tell it's half term at the moment, can you? Is Reddit down or sommat?

MyrtleLion · 19/02/2025 15:49

Greyskybluesky · 19/02/2025 14:44

I'm going to disagree because that didn't happen. I think his actual behaviour in that situation really marks him out as a man. If a woman asked another woman for some privacy because she needed to deal with period-related stuff, any woman would have said "yes, right, okay, fine" and perhaps "do you need anything" and then immediately given her the privacy.
The fact that he didn't is just another indication that he's a man, he doesn't think like women think, he has zero experience of that situation.

(To be clear, there are other reasons why he's a man! I'm just singling out his male behaviour here)

I know it didn't happen. I'm quoting the fetishist men who say they are women, who dream of the day they are asked for a tampon because it makes them a real woman.

https://x.com/judgejules75/status/1519693366405050376?s=61

NotAtMyAge · 19/02/2025 15:52

Begaydocrime94 · 19/02/2025 13:38

can anybody actually answer what the nurse thought the doctor was supposedly going to do though? Again this is a medical professional who probably has a thorough understanding of menstruation…

or let’s just look or rationally, she just hates trans people and saw it as an opportunity to harass the doctor?

its all confirmation bias, in some people’s minds all trans women are sickos sex attackers etc so this doctor MUST be one and the nurse MUST be a gender critical warrior as opposed to plain old bully. Repeatedly calling someone a man who identifies as a woman is clapped behaviour, it’s weird and if you think it’s not then it paves the way for open hatred and violence to trans women.

willing to bet majority of people in this corner of the internet are married to men too, but let me guess yours is one of the good ones. But all trans women are bad.
logicccc

Single-sex spaces became the norm for three reasons of which safety is only one. The other two are privacy and dignity. Even if Upton or any other man is totally harmless and trustworthy, his presence in a place where women undress and are vulnerable offends against their privacy and dignity. As far as I know, the only person who spoke in that tribunal hearing about feeling unsafe is Upton and that's because Sandie justifiably would not accept that he is a woman just because he claims to be one.

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pikantna · 19/02/2025 15:57

This male doctor actually thinks he can call himself a biological female because he is biological and identities as a woman. The man neither understands biology nor the way the English language works, I wouldn't trust him to dress himself, let alone have any confidence that he understands menstruation 😂

For all the huffing and puffing, this is a case of someone wishing to have punished a menstruating woman who did not wish to undress in front of them. That is the behaviour of a sicko.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 19/02/2025 16:03

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/02/2025 13:55

I get the point you're making but I disagree with the idea that any male person has more right than any other male person to be in women's spaces.

The beginning and end of the conversation should be that no male person (other than small boys being cared for by their mother) has any right to be in women's spaces whatsoever, for any reason.

It doesn't matter now nice, nasty, big, small, straight, gay, masculine, feminine, vulnerable or oppressed they are. They're not our problem.

Sorry you misunderstood slightly my husband has a dsd which does mean in his case it isn't a simple xy male, he does at least have 2 x chromosomes unlike the good doctor.

Needspaceforlego · 19/02/2025 17:01

@BaronessEllarawrosaurus But to be male he must also have a y does he not?

A bit like the runner Caster Semsenter. Very little female about him. Why the IOC allowed him and others who I can't remember compete in female running is beyond me. They should have done chromosome testing. The man has fathered children regardless of his birth cert saying female.

Chersfrozenface · 19/02/2025 17:11

To be factual we know that Semenya's wife, Violet Raseboya, has two children and that at least one was conceived by artificial insemination.

We know that Semenya has internal testes as Semenya has said so.

It is a fact that some men with 5-ARD, which is the DSD Semenya has, can father children through assisted reproduction.

We do not know for absolutely certain that Semenya fathered Violet Raseboya's children.