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Public opinion turning against transgender ideology yougov poll

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Lovelyview · 11/02/2025 13:19

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425

'a new YouGov study, the fourth in a series reaching back to 2018, shows an increased scepticism towards transgender rights across the board – and particularly in the two and a half years since our previous wave of this study.
Notable in this most recent study – conducted in mid-December – is the growing resistance on transgender rights among those groups that are typically more permissive on the issue, like women and young people.
In fact, the only question on which women now take the permissive view on transgender rights is saying that people should be able to change their gender socially, although at 55% this still represents an eight point drop since the 2022 survey.'

Well worth a read and hopefully a sign of the direction of travel with this issue.

Where does the British public stand on transgender rights in 2024/25? | YouGov

Scepticism towards transgender rights has grown across the board since 2022

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425

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Kucinghitam · 05/06/2025 06:13

If a PP is willing to lie about "intersex" that makes me think that they're willing to lie about anything in order to promote their idea of a greater good: pious fraud.

Helleofabore · 05/06/2025 06:21

OneQuirkyOrca · 05/06/2025 02:16

My sincere apologies for any offence I have caused due an auto correct issue with the following:

Whilst sex is normally described as natal sex i.e. dictated by your genitals (even this is not binary because you can have a condition known as intersex where the genital anatomy is confused - medics put an X down for the child’s sexiness this case)

The final section should read: medics put a X down for the child’s sex in this case.

Are doctors putting ‘x’ for an infants sex for birth certificates in the UK ? Or are the medics referred to not doctors and that ‘x’ is used to donate further testing needed?

Considering the accuracy of non invasive testing that can give some pretty clear indications quickly and the fact that so much is known about differences in sex development these days, I would be surprised if it was doctors noting this for official birth records.

Igneococcus · 05/06/2025 06:23

OneQuirkyOrca · 05/06/2025 01:22

Trans binary is the set of trans people that contain trans women and trans men.

Trans is the umbrella term that refers to both trans non-binary, trans women and trans men.

Transgender is sometimes used as the umbrella term as well as trans but sometimes as the set containing trans women and trans men.

Just to make it more confusing trans non-binary is an umbrella term containing:
Bigender (pronounced Bye-gender): Mainly used by youngsters who tend to present as gender neutral or sometimes a mix such as having a beard and wearing a dress. The people will prefer to use the pronouns they and their.

Gender Fluid: Mainly the older generation and will present sometimes as one sex and at other times the opposite sex. Generally they will prefer the pronouns associated with their presentation.

Agender: these people have no perception of their own gender.

Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again.

These are the main categories of trans non-binary but there are loads of further subcategories that I am not going to attempt to describe.

Did at no point of compiling this list the thought "this is all a load of navel-gazing bollocks" enter your mind?
I mean, I can tell you seem to take this all quite seriously but all of this is only meaningful if you believe in gender and that it is important, and then you throw in "intersex" which has nothing to do with trans or gender and tells me you haven't followed the discussions that are happening outside your group of like-minded navel-gazers at all.

Kucinghitam · 05/06/2025 06:29

Also, it doesn't really matter how many pages of AI-assisted word salad are produced to earnestly explain the special and complex internal feelings of some special people.

Where we have single-sex spaces such as sports, refuges, prisons, rape crisis centres, changing rooms, etc, this is because society has understood that these spaces are single-sex for reasons of privacy, dignity and safety.

We do not segregate such spaces on the basis of people's declared special internal feelings.

PermanentTemporary · 05/06/2025 06:47

'even this is not binary because you can have a condition known as intersex where the genital anatomy is confused - medics put an X down for the child’s sex in this case)'

Quote edited to remove the autocorrect.

Given that none of this sentence is remotely accurate, I'm disinclined to think any of the rest reflects reality either.

The poll remains interesting. Opinions can swing very fast though. All of a sudden post-SC ruling, being trans is moving out of corporate respectability back into more of an alternative space again. A lot of young people will find that a lot more comfortable.

In terms of better lives, I would say that every person i know who has transitioned (and its quite a few given that i know a lot of upper middle class female teenagers/young adults) has in terms of society's typical rules a significantly worse life, but that they are all personally more comfortable in their new lives. Which argues as always that the constraints of social rules hit hard and make a lot of people unhappy.

Helleofabore · 05/06/2025 06:50

JellySaurus · 05/06/2025 06:06

The only surgery that the NHS will carry out for those that is GRS (sex change in old money) for trans women and a mastectomy and GRS for a trans man. A vaginoplasty (surgery for trans women) is a single step surgery but the rarely performed GRS for trans men is a 3 step procedure.

These surgeries do not solve any physical medical problem, they are elective cosmetic surgeries.
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Facial surgery is only available via private medicine. *

Private medicine should be held to different ethical standards than publicly funded medicine?

The length of hormone treatment tends to be a lifelong thing but depends on the individual. The reason for this is to maintain bone density.

Lifelong HRT with GNRH agonists and the hormones of the opposite sex does not maintain bone density. Quite the opposite: it causes osteoporosis. Oestrogen suppression causes osteoporosis in women. Testosterone suppression causes osteoporosis in men.

I ask again, why is physically harming people the treatment for their mental health conditions (gender dysphoria or gender dysmorphia)?

These surgeries are elective. They are a form of extreme body modification to bring a person’s body closer to how that person wants their body to look.

Based on that individual’s philosophical belief about their identity at that specific time. It is quite right to point out that these body modifications are based on a philosophical belief that does not reflect the material reality, however sincerely held.

Lovelyview · 05/06/2025 07:18

BlueJeansAndMoonbeams · 05/06/2025 01:51

Mumsnet will not accept that the majority of trans people are committed and genuine and therefore taking hormones and having surgeries! Instead they tend to think they're all dirty perverts lurking in toilets and changing rooms with the sole intent of molesting or at the very least perving on the opposite sex. I expect they think the same of trans men, I mean they must also be wanting to leer at men by those standards.

That's simply not true. Gender critical people believe that sex is an important factor in how we arrange society - especially in the area where women need privacy and safety away from men. Feelings about 'gender identity ' which are a set of stereotypes about what it means to be a man or a woman are trite and positively damaging to many in society and lead to gender ideology -:which is a belief that to deal with discomfort about one's sex - which can't actually be changed - people should go to great lengths to pretend that conforming to sex stereotypes of the opposite sex will improve their mental health. This is an ideology for which there is little evidence of benefit and much evidence of harm. And of course, the people most affected by this grim ideology are the teenagers - young, quirky, creative, possibly sutistic, uncomfortable with their bodies and possibly distressed about developing same sex attraction. Many have also been subjected to unwanted sexual attention and sexual abuse. They need counselling and to go through puberty not puberty blockers and hormones. This ideology has caused so much harm and that's why I am doing everything I can to get it out of our society.

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TheKeatingFive · 05/06/2025 07:38

BlueJeansAndMoonbeams · 05/06/2025 01:51

Mumsnet will not accept that the majority of trans people are committed and genuine and therefore taking hormones and having surgeries! Instead they tend to think they're all dirty perverts lurking in toilets and changing rooms with the sole intent of molesting or at the very least perving on the opposite sex. I expect they think the same of trans men, I mean they must also be wanting to leer at men by those standards.

They don't accept it because it simply isn't true.

The vast majority of 'transwomen' have zero in the way of medical treatment.

Not that it really matters. No one can change sex, that's just basic facts. So no, they shouldn't have access to single sex facilities that don't belong to them.

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 07:49

OneQuirkyOrca · 04/06/2025 16:25

The answer to your question is:
Trans women i.e. male to female: hormones greater than 90% which will give most a breast according to their genetics (i.e. close to their mother’s breast size). Hormones in most cases will cause sterility within 12 months. GRS (or in old speech a sex change) around 30%. In other countries orchidectomy is common but in the UK it seems to be only done when the trans women cannot have GRS for medical grounds. GRS process includes an orchidectomy.

Trans men i.e. female to male: hormones greater than 90% which will cause facial hair and their voice to break. Top surgery (mastectomy and nipple reduction) greater than 70%. Hysterectomies are common. GRS is very low around 2% (probably the one you had heard)

Notice we went from this immediately to:

I am saying that 90% of trans women and trans men are OR WILL TAKE hormones. (my emphasis)

So suddenly we move from stating this is something that has happened to an intention. Which again begs the question how have you come up with these figures?

ArtificialFlower · 05/06/2025 08:00

Also, I’d love to see the citation for men who take hormones grow breasts about the size of their mothers’. I thought most men who take oestrogen grow small moobs (that are not breasts), which is why so many of them end up unhappy and seeking implants.

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 08:16

even this is not binary because you can have a condition known as intersex where the genital anatomy is confused - medics put an X down for the child’s sex this case (typo corrected)

For any lurkers new to this. If a newborn’s genital anatomy is ‘confused’ the child will have additional testing in the form of scans and genetic testing (genome, not just karyotype) and this will quickly establish the baby’s sex (male or female) and congenital reproductive disorder/disorder of sexual development. These disorders have been clearly established and are easily identified with modern health care. The baby’s sex (male or female) is then recorded on their birth certificate the same way as for other babies.

Disorders of sexual development (which Trans activists refer to by the antiquated and, for most, offensive term ‘intersex’) make the news when male athletes have been recorded as female at birth in countries with limited obstetric care and misogynistic attitudes to women being ‘incomplete men’ so babies without a developed penis ‘must be’ girls. It is well known that athletic scouts seek out these men as their birth certificates have enabled them to access female sports despite their clear male advantage. In most cases, like Caster Semenya, these men have been aware of their true sex since puberty if not before.

Shedmistress · 05/06/2025 08:22

OneQuirkyOrca · 05/06/2025 01:22

Trans binary is the set of trans people that contain trans women and trans men.

Trans is the umbrella term that refers to both trans non-binary, trans women and trans men.

Transgender is sometimes used as the umbrella term as well as trans but sometimes as the set containing trans women and trans men.

Just to make it more confusing trans non-binary is an umbrella term containing:
Bigender (pronounced Bye-gender): Mainly used by youngsters who tend to present as gender neutral or sometimes a mix such as having a beard and wearing a dress. The people will prefer to use the pronouns they and their.

Gender Fluid: Mainly the older generation and will present sometimes as one sex and at other times the opposite sex. Generally they will prefer the pronouns associated with their presentation.

Agender: these people have no perception of their own gender.

Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again.

These are the main categories of trans non-binary but there are loads of further subcategories that I am not going to attempt to describe.

I just read this and read read it and just for fun, read it again. What happened to make people believe such utter tripe?

All men, all women and some clothes. It's the dressing up box that even the kids are bored with.

Remember everyone, these people get funding from your hard earned taxes.

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 08:25

Shedmistress · 05/06/2025 08:22

I just read this and read read it and just for fun, read it again. What happened to make people believe such utter tripe?

All men, all women and some clothes. It's the dressing up box that even the kids are bored with.

Remember everyone, these people get funding from your hard earned taxes.

It is such regressive sexist drivel isn’t it?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 05/06/2025 08:31

OneQuirkyOrca · 05/06/2025 01:22

Trans binary is the set of trans people that contain trans women and trans men.

Trans is the umbrella term that refers to both trans non-binary, trans women and trans men.

Transgender is sometimes used as the umbrella term as well as trans but sometimes as the set containing trans women and trans men.

Just to make it more confusing trans non-binary is an umbrella term containing:
Bigender (pronounced Bye-gender): Mainly used by youngsters who tend to present as gender neutral or sometimes a mix such as having a beard and wearing a dress. The people will prefer to use the pronouns they and their.

Gender Fluid: Mainly the older generation and will present sometimes as one sex and at other times the opposite sex. Generally they will prefer the pronouns associated with their presentation.

Agender: these people have no perception of their own gender.

Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again.

These are the main categories of trans non-binary but there are loads of further subcategories that I am not going to attempt to describe.

OK.

And why the fuck should any of the rest of us care or pay any attention to this nonsense?

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 08:34

Lurkers should also be aware that there are numerous trans activists on TikTok and other sites who identify as ‘intersex’ but are nothing of the sort. They often make up impossible DSD conditions or claim incredibly rare DSD that have only ever been described once. These claims often drift between conditions, or they claim they were diagnosed by methods that would be impossible for that condition (eg a rare genetic condition identified during a claimed ten minute chat with a GP).

Helleofabore · 05/06/2025 08:36

ArtificialFlower · 05/06/2025 08:00

Also, I’d love to see the citation for men who take hormones grow breasts about the size of their mothers’. I thought most men who take oestrogen grow small moobs (that are not breasts), which is why so many of them end up unhappy and seeking implants.

And is this a male trait? Because of three sisters only one of us grew breasts that came close to my mother’s size.

TheKeatingFive · 05/06/2025 08:41

I read somewhere that 'bottom surgery' is quite far down the list of surgeries that 'transwomen' opt for when they do go for surgery.

First is boob jobs. Second is facial feminisation surgery. Then 'bottom' surgery.

Tell me again that this isn't about male fetishes 🙄

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 08:42

Helleofabore · 11/02/2025 13:41

https://ygo-assets-websites-editorial-emea.yougov.net/documents/YouGov-Transgenderstudy2024.pdf

This is a very interesting result.

I can only assume that Labour had access to this as it specifically asks about how to get a GRC.

On page 8

Currently transgender people who wish to change their legal gender on official documents (e.g. birth certificate) have to apply for a Gender Recognition
Certificate.

This requires someone to have a diagnosis of gender dysphoria from one doctor and approval from a second doctor, provide evidence they have lived in their new gender for at least two years, and make a declaration they intend to live in their new gender for the rest of their life. The application is then approved or rejected by a panel of legal and medical professionals.

In principle, do you think it should or should not be made easier for transgender people to change their legal gender?
Should be made easier (2022) 26% 19% (2024)
Should not be made easier 50% 63%
Don't know 25% 18%

Do you think a person should or should not have to obtain the approval of one or more doctors to change their legal gender?
Should have to obtain approval from one or more doctors (2022) 60% 70% (2024)
Should not have to obtain approval from one or more doctors approval 17% 13%
Don't know 24% 18%

And do you think a person should or should not have to provide evidence they lived in their new gender for at least two years before they able to change their legal gender? (2022) 59% 66% (2024)
Should have to show they have lived in their new gender for two years (2022) 59% 66% (2024)
Should not have to show they have lived in their new gender for two years (2022) 15% 12% (2024)
Don't know (2022) 26% 22% (2024)

It has been suggested that the current process be changed so that the approval of a second doctor is not required for a Gender Recognition Certificate. Do you
think the process should or should not be changed so that only the diagnosis from one doctor is

Should be changed so that only the diagnosis from one doctor is require 19% (2024)
Should continue to require that another doctor give their approval 63% (2024)
Don't know 18% (2024)

It has also been suggested that a person's application for a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC) should no longer require approval by a panel of legal and medical professionals, but rather should be automatically granted if they meet all of the other requirements. Do you think the process should or should be changed so that approval by a legal and medical panel is no longer required?

Should be changed to automatically grant a GRC if all other requirements are met 22% (2024)
Should continue to require approval by a panel of legal and medical professionals 57% (2024)
Don't know 21% (2024)

Edited

I would struggle to answer these questions as they don’t allow for the response ‘GRC should be abolished’

Firealarm1414 · 05/06/2025 08:43

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 05/06/2025 08:31

OK.

And why the fuck should any of the rest of us care or pay any attention to this nonsense?

This is the best bit

"Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again."

What a load of shite. These idiots spend so much time in their echo chambers and not enough time in the actual world that they dont realise no one gives a shit about this absolute nonsense.

TheKeatingFive · 05/06/2025 08:46

Firealarm1414 · 05/06/2025 08:43

This is the best bit

"Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again."

What a load of shite. These idiots spend so much time in their echo chambers and not enough time in the actual world that they dont realise no one gives a shit about this absolute nonsense.

Totally agree that this is utter nonsense.

The problem being that this is not just random shit talking on social media. It's what's being taught in 'gender studies' departments in universities. And people assume that what's being taught in universities has validity. This is bit people struggle to come to terms with.

myplace · 05/06/2025 08:49

I’m really surprised Orca is working with so many trans people in their 60s, given the terrible life expectancy of untreated trans people.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 05/06/2025 08:52

Firealarm1414 · 05/06/2025 08:43

This is the best bit

"Flux: these people will change their gender. This is a rare condition. A typical scenario is that these people will go to bed feeling that they are male and wake up feeling female and then in a few days it changes again."

What a load of shite. These idiots spend so much time in their echo chambers and not enough time in the actual world that they dont realise no one gives a shit about this absolute nonsense.

I mean, surely these people should be completely unproblematic.

They can just change their gender to match their sex every time they need to access a single sex space or compete in sports. There shouldn't be any pronoun issues either. People can just use whatever pronouns they want because they should correspond to one of this person's identities. If they're OK being referred to as "he" during the morning coffee break, surely they can't be offended by being referred to as "he" during the afternoon meeting.

Firealarm1414 · 05/06/2025 08:52

Regarding the poll, this is what happens when you make fetishistic and/or misogynistic/angry/violent/creepy men the face of your movement. And also what happens when people can see that vulnerable young people are being harmed by this.

Prior to that happening, most people didnt have a problem with transsexual (as they were known then) people, because they weren't being total knobs and demanding to be treated exactly like a woman, or else.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 05/06/2025 08:53

TheKeatingFive · 05/06/2025 08:46

Totally agree that this is utter nonsense.

The problem being that this is not just random shit talking on social media. It's what's being taught in 'gender studies' departments in universities. And people assume that what's being taught in universities has validity. This is bit people struggle to come to terms with.

Gender studies departments really need to be abolished.

Dwimmer · 05/06/2025 08:54

Helleofabore · 12/02/2025 10:33

I think this is very apparent in the figures.

And it is also showing that the old tropish claim ‘just wait until the younger generation takes over’ is false. Because as time progresses and more exposure to the harms and just to what it all means the less people who have not got the deep personal investment support it.

I suspect that by the time the younger generation are in their 40s, this will have been a medical scandal and that those in positions of power will be facing the challenges of dealing with the repercussions to those who have had these treatments.

”If a person is not a liberal when he is twenty, he has no heart; if he is not a conservative when he is forty, he has no head”

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