I'm still upset about DH. They had him in there for 4 hours before they gave him a scan.
When the senior doc came on duty, he began to ask when DH had gone to bed "We're trying to establish when the stroke happened..."
"It was 7.30 this morning..."
"Are you sure?"
"Yes! He was up and about. Came back to bed for a morning cuppa and then it happened. Look - there's the time on my phone!"
Next thing, they were rushing him to get his scan. The young doctor had thought it was "only a TIA" because DH could speak sensibly. When he came in, he couldn't move his left arm at all (and couldn't sit up or walk) but some movement came back after about an hour, though he still couldn't manage the "Touch your nose" test - he aimed, but kept missing.
When the results came back, the senior doc phoned the stroke consultant. She told him it was his call as to whether they risked the clotbuster. They went with giving him an aspirin.
DH was sent to the Acute Stroke Ward when he fell out of bed because he was left on his own - he'd forgotten he couldn't walk and needed the toilet.
In the stroke ward, DH acquired a UTI through not getting enough water. He was accused of not cooperating by refusing to eat. He wasn't refusing. The stroke hit him fairly centrally. He had one arm that wouldn't work and one that shook.
Oh yes - he was also diabetic. When - at my insistence - they got in one of the the diabetic nurses, she told them that his sugar levels were far too high. (Apparently, this is common in stroke victims. The stuff in the stroke ward were berating me that they didn't want to get the blame if DH didn't eat enough and had a hypo.)
When he was finally admitted to rehab a fortnight later, the staff at Cameron Hospital looked at me in an accusatory manner and asked why he was black down one side.
Cameron was very good. After being there for more than 3 months, DH learned to walk again. However, when they first saw DH, they seemed to think that he was a victim of DV.