Conservatives in the US are extremely concerned about the effects gender ideology has had on kids. Why wouldn't they be?
As far as this idea that they want to return women to "conservative gender roles." You mean like Trump's Chief of Staff, or Vance's wife? Or women like Condoleeza Rice, or even Megan Kelley, or all the other conservative women in business and politics, are all trying to get women just back to traditional gender roles?
What exactly do you think counts as a conservative gender role? Because it seems to be voting, having opinions, writing, having jobs in all kinds of sectors, and being leaders in politics.