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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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Plastictrees · 21/01/2025 18:30

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 17:59

And who else are you expecting to change much?

Which politicians?

I’m not ‘expecting’ anything, so you can stop with your repetitive questions.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 21/01/2025 18:31

Trump is a reality check for all those who thought they could deny reality.

OuterSpaceCadet · 21/01/2025 18:32

RanchRat · 21/01/2025 17:53

GC ideology is now so right wing that you support pussy grabbing Trump and nazi saluting Musk. Shame.

Genderism

So very very left wing with its focus on individual identity; rejection of socialist class analysis; and mission to line the pockets of the pharmaceutical industry.

A neo religion which champions the thoughts of post modernist academics whilst dismissing the concerns of the people whose material reality is actually affected by their luxury beliefs.

It's tough here on Mumsnet isn't it? Women are actually allowed to discuss shit and form their own opinions! So much easier to misogynist IRL or on other online platforms.

Gunnersforthecup · 21/01/2025 18:33

HardenYourHeart · 21/01/2025 17:27

I didn't say they don't care about kids.

I am saying they don't object to transgenderism out of a concern for kids and women. They do object to it, because they want strict gender roles based on sex.

I think that is too black and white. There is a spectrum of opinion on this. There are progressive conservatives like Daniel Finkelstein, who is very sympathetic in many ways to trans rights. I think liberal conservatives would be very minded to let people live their lives sexually as they want to, if it doesn't impinge on other people's rights. And there is a spectrum of opinion on the left as well.

HardenYourHeart · 21/01/2025 18:37

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 21/01/2025 18:26

This is a very poor argument.

As indeed are all arguments that basically go something like 'don't look at the evidence in front of you, at someone's actions, believe what I'm telling you about their well hidden secret inner motivations'.

We've all had enough of that - we'll make up our own minds.

That's rich, coming from someone who walks around with a blindfold on and refused to look at what these conservatives have already done and what they are outright saying they will do. Each day brings evidence of their past actions and their agenda and you refuse to see it, while accusing me of ignoring the evidence.

ShredHead · 21/01/2025 18:38

@MrsOvertonsWindow I'm hoping it's just enraged howling. I'm sure the new government will be expecting and prepared for any litigation.

I might try to find the programme when I am home

If I feel strong enough!

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 18:39

I’m not ‘expecting’ anything, so you can stop with your repetitive questions.

What's with the aggro?

It's just a question. You clearly don't want Trump to do this and state you want to move forward. So is there anyone you think will do it

Clearly not given your response. That's the problem for women and waiting

There's no one else ready to change the situation and waiting doesn't help does it?

Katbum · 21/01/2025 18:42

‘Two genders’ is not the same as two sexes, and in fact is a really worrying statement because it suggests that concepts of sex are secondary to understandings of gender performance which will compel women into traditionally feminine roles and erode our rights. The reversal of Roe vs Wade tells you everything you need to know about what this president put in place during his last administration and how far women’s rights were anywhere in those concerns. Remember Brett Kavanaugh‘s crocodile tears? There’s no way this is a progressive order, from which women will be protected. Don’t be ridiculous, these people do not care about women.

LifesTooShortForYourNonsense · 21/01/2025 18:45

I find this absolutely sickening. Just a helpless feeling that it opens the door to persecution, bullying and suicides. It’s controlling, it’s backward, it smacks of creationism, book banning and hate. I’ve a helpless feeling that it’s just the start of playing out conspiracy theory driven agenda and with the media tied in as well it might be unstoppable. Happy Tuesday everyone!

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 21/01/2025 18:45

‘Two genders’ is not the same as two sexes

Good job the EO is clear on this then

Datun · 21/01/2025 18:45

It's funny how we told that all these conservatives don't really want to kick gender ideology out of schools and their kids' lives, it's something else, it's due to a much more nefarious agenda.

But when KJK was over in the states talking to all these conservative people who want to kick gender ideology out of schools and their kids' lives, that was also wrong and due to her much more nefarious agenda.

But what's really weird is everybody knows it's a completely bat shit ideology, and almost everyone wants to kick it out of schools and their kids' lives.

No one wants it, but if you say so, there's something wrong with you.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 21/01/2025 18:47

ShredHead · 21/01/2025 18:38

@MrsOvertonsWindow I'm hoping it's just enraged howling. I'm sure the new government will be expecting and prepared for any litigation.

I might try to find the programme when I am home

If I feel strong enough!

Yes. It'll be interesting to see how this pans out given the extent of harm that's happening to young people - especially young women - in the US. But the men running the organisations / health services etc have been given uncritical power for many years and removing them will be a challenge.
Which is why it's so refreshing to see Trump address the issue of the harm to children and the young so openly. We're so used to having to tip toe around apologetically as we try to insist on children's safety. Long overdue for that to change.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/01/2025 18:47

SmudgeButt · 21/01/2025 18:29

He's not doing this because he respects women or that he believes in feminism. He's doing it because he hates trans people.

Probably thinks they want to touch him or something ridiculous.

I doubt he cares one way or the other about trans people. He cares about winning.

He's doing it because he said he would, and he said he would because it meant he could score easy points against the Democrats and because it's what his support base want and they will laud and celebrate him for it.

The man you see saying these things and caring about them is not Trump himself, it's the persona he created to appeal to the voters who started to support him and has evolved over time in response to their priorities and the message they want to hear. He is just doing this because it is what his character would do. And that's more terrifying than if he actually cared and believed this stuff because there is no limit, no moral framework that can come from inside, he will just keep on fulfilling the demand.

I'm not entirely sure there even is a real Trump in there as a fully formed personality, just a screaming aching black hole of pain and shame driving him to cling to anyone who shows him approval and to attack pitilessly anyone who shows him less than total respect.

ArabellaScott · 21/01/2025 18:49

Not RTFT, so apologies if this was answered already, but the EO was written by May Mailman.

https://x.com/womenreadwomen/status/1881715930629370209

More on her:

https://www.iwf.org/people/may-mailman-2/

She represented the sorority who tried to have the man removed from their house:

https://x.com/womenreadwomen/status/1881715930629370209

x.com

https://x.com/womenreadwomen/status/1881715930629370209

Justwrong68 · 21/01/2025 18:52

Haroldwilson · 21/01/2025 12:51

Would you say the same if he abolished gay marriage, brought in gay military bans, banned IVF, etc etc? They're of a piece with this.

You can think what you like about trans issues, a fascist leader making policy to appease right wingers rather than provide for the rights and freedoms of individuals is a bad thing.

It's pandering to the evangelical right and I guarantee you won't like all their views, even if you like this one.

This is the most ridiculous and patronising thing I've read today. And I've been on X!

Plastictrees · 21/01/2025 18:55

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 18:39

I’m not ‘expecting’ anything, so you can stop with your repetitive questions.

What's with the aggro?

It's just a question. You clearly don't want Trump to do this and state you want to move forward. So is there anyone you think will do it

Clearly not given your response. That's the problem for women and waiting

There's no one else ready to change the situation and waiting doesn't help does it?

It doesn’t help having a racist, misogynistic troglodyte pseudo champion the cause either - that is my point, so find someone else to attempt to argue with.

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 21/01/2025 18:56

Mrsbloggz · 21/01/2025 13:09

Mr trump isn't doing this because he cares about people or cares about women's rights.
He's doing it because it's something that his base cares about and he knows it's a way to manipulate and control them, to work things to his advantage.
Mr trump cares only about amassing power and wealth for himself.

But isn't that's what a politician should be doing - what the people who voted for him want?

EasternStandard · 21/01/2025 18:58

so find someone else to attempt to argue with.

It's not even an 'argument' it was a question. Well until you upped the ante for whatever reason.

You've said what you have about Trump but since no one can answer a simple question on who else then yeh it's a problem.

Bringmeahigherlove · 21/01/2025 19:00

Pluvia · 21/01/2025 18:20

We know that, but he's given women who do care about women's rights what they've been asking for for several years. So we'll take that with a thank-you and play him: we'll use him for what we can get out of him and we'll lead the opposition when he doesn't. You don't get anywhere by not being involved. You shake hands with people you'd really rather not touch and then you take them for everything useful you can get out of them.

Fair one. I see your point.

JanesLittleGirl · 21/01/2025 19:02

cassandre · 21/01/2025 16:04

You're assuming I'm ignorant about 'gender critical' feminism. I'm not. I've read widely and I disagree with gender critical feminism. However, MN isn't the place to hash out different points of view on this topic, as the feminist threads are mostly an echo chamber.

Which version of Gender Critical Feminism do you disagree with?

Is it the TRA version that can be found on Wikipedia:

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender-critical_feminism?

Or is it actual Gender Critical Feminism:

hollylawford-smith.org/what-is-gender-critical-feminism-and-why-is-everyone-so-mad-about-it/?

Katbum · 21/01/2025 19:04

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 21/01/2025 18:45

‘Two genders’ is not the same as two sexes

Good job the EO is clear on this then

I’ve read the order. It’s about gender ideology, not sex based rights.

Grammarnut · 21/01/2025 19:07

HardenYourHeart · 21/01/2025 16:36

His TikTok ban was also an executive order, which was defeated in court. Do I need to spell out my arguments chapter and verse? Or are you being deliberately obtuse?

Also, you're wrong about abortion. This could be arranged at a federal level. However, so far, neither Democrats nor Republicans are interested in doing that. Furthermore, abortion is a fundamental right of women.

I don't agree that abortion is a fundamental right of women. Access to necessary abortion is possibly a right. Access to abortion for medical reasons (not including ectopic pregnancy which is not an abortion but a surgical procedure) is a right.
Apart from that, yes abortion could be (as it was) a right at Federal level. And go on spell out what you mean because you are positing a raft of ideas which are not associated with either the TikTok ban or the removal of gender ideology from being funded and supported at a Federal level.
To spell it out, gender ideology has nothing to do with LGB rights at all being completely different and not grounded in anything other than unprovable feelings in someone's head (which can change every day, apparently, depending on whether the wind is in the west or not...)

Toseland · 21/01/2025 19:11

SmudgeButt · 21/01/2025 18:29

He's not doing this because he respects women or that he believes in feminism. He's doing it because he hates trans people.

Probably thinks they want to touch him or something ridiculous.

He's not doing this because he "hates trans people".
He's doing this because if left to continue, queer theory and trans will destroy society as we knew it just a few years ago. There would be no families, no inventions, no eccentricity, no pioneers - just boring conformity to 1950s stereotypes, medicalisation, surgery and sterility.
Trans = conforming to shit we left way back.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 21/01/2025 19:12

Katbum · 21/01/2025 19:04

I’ve read the order. It’s about gender ideology, not sex based rights.

This doesn’t deal with sex based rights?

“Sec. 2. Policy and Definitions. It is the policy of the United States to recognize two sexes, male and female. These sexes are not changeable and are grounded in fundamental and incontrovertible reality. Under my direction, the Executive Branch will enforce all sex-protective laws to promote this reality, and the following definitions shall govern all Executive interpretation of and application of Federal law and administration policy:
(a) “Sex” shall refer to an individual’s immutable biological classification as either male or female. “Sex” is not a synonym for and does not include the concept of “gender identity.”
(b) “Women” or “woman” and “girls” or “girl” shall mean adult and juvenile human females, respectively.
(c) “Men” or “man” and “boys” or “boy” shall mean adult and juvenile human males, respectively.
(d) “Female” means a person belonging, at conception, to the sex that produces the large reproductive cell.
(e) “Male” means a person belonging, at conception, to the sex that produces the small reproductive cell.
(f) “Gender ideology” replaces the biological category of sex with an ever-shifting concept of self-assessed gender identity, permitting the false claim that males can identify as and thus become women and vice versa, and requiring all institutions of society to regard this false claim as true. Gender ideology includes the idea that there is a vast spectrum of genders that are disconnected from one’s sex. Gender ideology is internally inconsistent, in that it diminishes sex as an identifiable or useful category but nevertheless maintains that it is possible for a person to be born in the wrong sexed body.
(g) “Gender identity” reflects a fully internal and subjective sense of self, disconnected from biological reality and sex and existing on an infinite continuum, that does not provide a meaningful basis for identification and cannot be recognized as a replacement for sex.”

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