You are making your own answers up on your preconcieved ideas of what the women in here think.
You know most of us just don't want men in women's spaces? However those men think of themselves? No more no less.
I don't want transpeople not to exist,
I don't think they should be subject to discrimination at work, in housing, access to healthcare etc etc based on their trans status.
Most of us probably have a relative, friend or neighbour who is trans that we get along absolutely fine with. And very few of us are actually transphobic.
Most of us, like me, just don't think it's right that some men can access women's spaces, quotas, prisons etc just because of a feeling in their head that they claim makes them a woman.
My fear of a transman raping me is non existent.
My fear of a transwoman raping me is identical to my fear of a man raping me. Do you know why that is? Because they are men. Not because they are trans.
Transmen and transwomen fiddle with kids at roughly the same percentages as those men and women who don't think they are in the wrong body.
The preoccupation about a small minority is not 'because trans' but because transwomen are men hustling in on things that they have no right to. For example: They want to use the loo? they can use a unisex one or the men's but I'd like them, because they are men, to stay the fuck out the womens.