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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The latest fallouts in GC world

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Pluvia · 11/12/2024 11:06

My terfing energy has been focussed elsewhere in recent months and I haven't been here or on TwiX or social media much. Now I've taken responsibility for tweeting/ comms on behalf of a small but potentially significant LGB group and I discover that there seems to be something going on — another schism — in GC world. Jane Clare Jones's name seems to be coming up a lot. Something seems to have gone on but I can't work out what.

If it was my own account I'd just ignore, but the followers of this account are bringing it up and seem to expect an opinion to be expressed or a side to be taken. Also I'm seeing a lot about 'ultras' and 'lites', which is new to me. Can anyone enlighten me? I need to tread carefully.

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CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 00:05

Datun · 12/12/2024 23:51

The last person who alleged that KJK has any connection to the nazis has just been sued for defamation to the tune of $300,000

I did not say she had any connection to the Nazis. I said some of the extreme right wing have attended ger events, which is completely true.
I note the implied threat to me though. So much for free speech.
STFU as you are poor, or KJK will sue you.

Datun · 13/12/2024 00:10

CandyMaker · 13/12/2024 00:05

I did not say she had any connection to the Nazis. I said some of the extreme right wing have attended ger events, which is completely true.
I note the implied threat to me though. So much for free speech.
STFU as you are poor, or KJK will sue you.

lol. Smearing women who are protecting their privacy and safeguarding children by pretending they are paid for by the far right, associate with a the far right, have a far right agenda doesn't work anymore.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/12/2024 00:16

I said some of the extreme right wing have attended ger events, which is completely true.

All sorts of women and a few men have spoken at the events. They are free to everyone to attend, open mic events. That's the beauty of them. Ordinary women can speak at them, they don't have to have their questions picked arbitrarily or pre submitted.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 00:56

JessaWoo · 12/12/2024 23:31

So how does this "not right-wing" stuff fit with KJK's Trumpism?

And her funding from right-wing groups?

I'm not suggesting either way is right or wrong, but to say KJK isn't right-wing is incorrect.

She's a single issue campaigner and he vowed to safeguard children from the harms of gender ideology. So of course she supports that.

He's probably the fastest route to stopping experimenting on children.

OhBuggerandArse · 13/12/2024 01:22

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 00:56

She's a single issue campaigner and he vowed to safeguard children from the harms of gender ideology. So of course she supports that.

He's probably the fastest route to stopping experimenting on children.

That is the clarity people can't stand. And they blame KJK for her single-mindedness, rather than acknowledge that if the Left, in their craven credulousness, hadn't left this gaping hole for the Trumps of this world to occupy there would be no reason to align 'not experimenting on children' with 'dodgy right-wing populism'.

Twotribesgonna · 13/12/2024 05:07

AlisonDonut · 11/12/2024 16:13

Ok potted history time.

KJK was due to do a Women's place event in 2018 and KJK at the time was getting her you tube channel up and running and in one video said and I'm paraphrasing, that little girls shouldn't have to wear burkhas.

Because apparently it is racist to say that little girls should not have to wear burkhas. Even though her point was about men and their inability to control themselves not about it being a 'girl's right to wear her burkha'. She also tweeted about this.

WPUK disinvited her and from then on in, it was a campaign against her.

https://womansplaceuk.org/2022/06/22/womans-place-and-posie-parker/

Then back in the day, before KJK was doing tours regularly, she was due to go to the USA to meet up with parents of children who had fallen for gender ideology.

The first issue was that the hosts of the meetups were Hands Across the Aisle and the Heritage Foundation who are against abortion and obviously that is a black mark against her. She also had the audacity to ask Sarah McWotsit in Washington not to use the women's bathrooms.

A couple of other things occurred, during that time. One a far right person came and had a photo taken with KJK and KJK also said nice things about Tommy Robinson and his supposed outing of the Grooming Gangs.

Jean Hatchet was due to go on this trip and pulled out.

So by this point, whilst she was in the USA, the 'feminists' went all out to distance themselves from her.

But they didn't just let her get on with it, they smeared her time and again and got very worked up about her.

They were unhappy that she didn't vet the women coming to her events to speak and that the women were basically, any woman at all. They sidelined themselves as the academics who were the ones with the ologies and as such, felt that they were the ones that should be having the last say on the matter.

JCJ put herself front and centre and in 2020 started the Radical Notion. A publication that was apparently about feminisim. I am listed in the first edition as an original supporter. I never read a fucking word of it, it was all far too bloody up its own arse.

Anyway. The row raged for years with the Academics versus the Randoms. The self appointed mouthpieces versus women who just turned up in the flesh to speak to a microphone and get broadcast across the globe.

Then finally the Journos decided to wade in. But of course they were bound by IPSO regulations. Well, they say they were bound by them but its their choice to join in IPSO. Then the Podcast Bros all came on board and started ripping off pretty much every woman's work in this field.

In 2023 JCJ published a free download called Gender Critical Disputes which very firmly cast KJK as a baddie.

I can't remember if it was before or after but KJK basically called out these self appointed feminists for allowing Gender Identity Ideology to come into universities on their watch.

JCJ ever so often would just issue a 124 tweet thread about how someone they cannot name was a baddie, and put the cat amongst the pigeons every time the discussion settled down.

In Nov 2023 Genspect published a tweet with an AGP in a dress at their conference and it kicked off again, with those saying 'Genspect really shouldn't be profiling an AGP' and others saying they can't put dress codes onto people. Then they had promoted his book, and some said that he hadn't even paid for a ticket but had been invited. It was all very messy.

Earlier this year for whatever reason, Janice Turner decided that interviewing Debbie Hayton, and positioning him as the reasonable Trans Woman and stating that he 'respected women' literally blew people's minds. Those of us that have been following this know he wrote the guidelines to allow men and boys into female spaces in schools in the UK could not believe what the fuck was happening in front of our eyes.

Because people went 'WHAT THE FUCK', Janice called those people that were agog 'ultras' because we wouldn't repsect Debbie Haytons' Pronouns. Many people fell out as they decided which tribe they wanted to stick with. The 'no way' crowd or the 'Hayton is a reasonable trans woman' one. It still rages on.

Then Brianna Wu started doing the same and again, every time a TRa turns into a 'reasonable trans person' and goes on all the Podcast Bro interviews it turns into another round of the same old shit.

Then Michael Foran decided that legally, getting rid of the GRA would put the UK at odds with European Law and because he said so, if you don't agree with him, you are automatically a baddie and an Ultra.

Then the self appointed goodies get all upset every time someone joins up and does something they haven't approved of, and even though many of these are men and nothing to do with women, feminists get blamed for their behaviour and it all kicks off again.

Also, the self appointed purists want to speak to the government in secret and not have gobshites like KJK saying 'No' all over the shop.

Every week another new 'Some of the GC are mental' starts and we have to point out that being GC is just being a normal run of the mill person and it doesn't make you pure and obeyant and can you just all fuck off with this fucking shit please.

There are a million other issues along the way, this is just my observations. Every day another 5 weird things happen so I've missed hundreds.

This version of events by @AlisonDonut is completely wrong. I’ll try another:
Lots of people working in this issue in 2018 had started to realise that kjk was a megalomaniac who would only countenance her way. She is in it for the glory and slags off everyone who even slightly disagrees with her. WPUK disagreed with her and so did loads of other Gc feminists- Kathleen Stock called her a liability. These Gc feminists believed that feminism and left wing politics were just as important as fighting trans ideology.
Others agreed with kjk on principal because they weren’t particularly left wing or feminist.
the key point is that most people agreed with kjk back then but her rancid behaviour since then has meant that only the extremists have stuck by her.
From then on kjk amassed an army of online hooligans who tried to destroy anyone who didn’t show 100% support for everything kjk did. They police everyone else’s words in a manner that is identical to TRAs. They ruin people’s lives. They have been obnoxious to people like jcj because they think she’s too clever and too wordy.

Janice turner is an example. Turner thought the main point about Debbie Hayton was the book, that a transwoman was not happy with self id, that medical transition can destroy lives. Turner got piled on by KJK’s army . As usual kjk incited all the fights . As happens with everyone who objects to speech policing, Turner was told many times that her work in this field was pointless because she used she/her pronouns. Turner objected to this. She was told the only way to operate was to focus on Repealing the GRA and using he/him pronouns. All other work is pointless because it doesn’t follow the kjk model.

the “ultras “ found each other and started to form a cohesive group. The ultras believe that they are making a difference by policing everyone’s speech on twitter. They don’t do any work and they are the ultimate keyboard warriors.

kjk then ran a terrible political campaign which was mostly focused on slagging every Gc person and group off. She received a minuscule number of votes and embarrassed herself. Since then she is seething, as she clearly blamed everyone else for her bad results. She sacked all her stewards.
The ultras have become kjk zealots.
meanwhile jcj appears to have been destroyed by the online attacks and cannot let it go. She is focused on the principals while kjk is focused on beating other GCs. It’s all horrible and divisive and kjk should stop slagging everyone else off. JCJ should probably leave Twitter

Datun · 13/12/2024 05:34

Blimey.

LoobiJee · 13/12/2024 06:32

Datun · 13/12/2024 05:34

Blimey.

Indeed.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/12/2024 06:46

TLDR: Alison is correct

illinivich · 13/12/2024 07:44

kjk amassed an army of online hooligans

I remember the advert well.

"Are you a secret trump supporter who want to inflict destruction on the soc fems gang? Follow me in my rancid ways and keep shouting 'hes a man' to the man who makes school children call him she".

UrsulasHerbBag · 13/12/2024 08:13

There you go OP. The argument in 2 nutshells. My best advice to you would be steer your group through it as best you can.

I absolutely agree that some of the Twix behaviour focussed on JCJ has been bloody awful, it seemed to ramp up around the KJK US tour which was terrifying. JCJ and a few “soc fems” chose to attack KJK for having “proud boys” as security which wasn’t verified instead of expressing concern and solidarity for the women risking serious harm for speaking. The “Ultra Ultras” took exception to this and a massive Hatchett was shoved in the schism.

Around this time the “Normo’s” were pretty shocked because they felt that they had to pick camps and they just wanted to support women and feel part of a wonderful all encompassing women’s movement. It became polarised and the whole left and right wing element (that had only previously been used by TRA) became a stick to beat the “Normo’s” with and very liberal lefty women were suddenly being called horror of horrors RIGHT WING. You may have noticed on here that people were having to start posts stating their left wing credentials. Then we were told that KJK and her cavorting was actually stopping the “Soc fems” from being invited to join secret labour meetings to influence policy. Which I always thought was a load of old toilet (at this point the fabulous labour women couldn’t even get a stall at the lab conference). Which was around the time of Turners article and everyone got a nice shiny new label to further drive the wedge in.

JCJ has a great voice and she has been treated shittily and she has responded shittily too. KJK is a formidable single issue campaigner and she has done and said things that at best can be described as problematic and at worst bloody insane.

Good luck!

AlisonDonut · 13/12/2024 08:30

JCJ has a great voice and she has been treated shittily and she has responded shittily too

I was supportive [if not bored but hey ho] up until the issue of the free version of the Radical Notion and I'd say it was more than a shitty response! It must have taken months of planning and £££ of expense for a personal vendetta.

This was published, for free, just weeks before KJK faced down mobs in Australia and NZ. Just to stick the knife in a little further.

It really is quite astonishing.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/12/2024 08:52

Such a lot of effort going into trying to stop people who advocate Repeal. Why? I'm not sure we even saw Stonewall and co going to such lengths.

I'd like to know, if the GRA and PC of GR had never been put into law, would those trying to smear advocates for Repeal, be lobbying to put them into law? If not why not? And what's the difference?

2Rebecca · 13/12/2024 09:35

I agree that women having to declare their politics and only those with left of centre views being deemed acceptable is one of the ridiculous things of the self ID/ gender identity changing debate. It's trying to force us in to a purity spiral with only those on the left deemed pure but the terms left and right are increasingly meaningless these days and are often more about tribal identity, identity politics and how open people think our borders should be than policies about large v small state and levels of taxation.
We're half the population, it's unsurprising that we share a range of political views and looking at history the "extreme left" regimes (Stalin, Mao) have done as much harm to the people they pretended to represent as the extreme right. I think anyone who thinks their political view is correct and other views are "wrong" shouldn't be anywhere near power

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/12/2024 09:44

They have been obnoxious to people like jcj because they think she’s too clever and too wordy.

Pure gold.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 13/12/2024 09:47

UrsulasHerbBag · 13/12/2024 08:13

There you go OP. The argument in 2 nutshells. My best advice to you would be steer your group through it as best you can.

I absolutely agree that some of the Twix behaviour focussed on JCJ has been bloody awful, it seemed to ramp up around the KJK US tour which was terrifying. JCJ and a few “soc fems” chose to attack KJK for having “proud boys” as security which wasn’t verified instead of expressing concern and solidarity for the women risking serious harm for speaking. The “Ultra Ultras” took exception to this and a massive Hatchett was shoved in the schism.

Around this time the “Normo’s” were pretty shocked because they felt that they had to pick camps and they just wanted to support women and feel part of a wonderful all encompassing women’s movement. It became polarised and the whole left and right wing element (that had only previously been used by TRA) became a stick to beat the “Normo’s” with and very liberal lefty women were suddenly being called horror of horrors RIGHT WING. You may have noticed on here that people were having to start posts stating their left wing credentials. Then we were told that KJK and her cavorting was actually stopping the “Soc fems” from being invited to join secret labour meetings to influence policy. Which I always thought was a load of old toilet (at this point the fabulous labour women couldn’t even get a stall at the lab conference). Which was around the time of Turners article and everyone got a nice shiny new label to further drive the wedge in.

JCJ has a great voice and she has been treated shittily and she has responded shittily too. KJK is a formidable single issue campaigner and she has done and said things that at best can be described as problematic and at worst bloody insane.

Good luck!

JCJ did actually make me laugh when she was Tweeting about it, at the time.

She said 'Posie and the Proud Boys' would be a 'bitchin' band name'.

fromorbit · 13/12/2024 09:49

The leading suffragettes and suffragists all had huge rows. In the end all of it didn't matter. Despite slagging each other off they still got the vote while many women just sat it out.

Tough women have opinions and argue with other women with opinions. They can do that and WIN at the same time.

In twenty years time someone will write a thesis about how British women managed to win back their rights despite being outnumbered, having less money and still having huge internal rows.

Floisme · 13/12/2024 09:52

I don't understand what's going on with the fighting about campaigning to repeal the GRA.

Cards on table, I wouldn't choose to campaign for repeal myself because I can't see it happening in my lifetime and certainly not while the current government is in power. But what I can envisage this government doing is implementing some form of backdoor self ID so I'd rather put what energy and time I have into fighting that. It's a pragmatic approach.

But I wouldn't dream of trying to stop anyone who does want to campaign for Repeal, and in any case, those who do are helping to push the Overton window so wins all round as far as I'm concerned. I'm a bit flummoxed as to why there's so much bad feeling about it.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 10:02

It's really offensive to normal women to treat us as idiots.

Only one of the women named above -KJK - has given normal women a chance to speak. The others have never done so. More, they have dismissed our fear and our hurt that OUR CHILDREN are being harmed in schools through coercive abusive behaviour such as compelled speech which is anti safeguarding and at a minimum psychologically damaging.

It's so offensive they don't want to talk to women whose daughters have been harmed if they're conservative.

A lot of them seem to not particularly care about children being harmed as far as I can see. They're more concerned with purity politics and their egos.

And I bet you all right now, once this insanity is finally recognized as the child harming bollocks it is, KJK will be the one who swans off into her nice life with her family or pivots to do something else entirely (marketing perhaps). She recognized that Trump being elected would be a fast track to ending the bollocks, and so it has proved. She's the one acting to end it all sooner and putting herself at physical risk and giving any woman a voice, even the ones she doesn't like or doesn't agree with. Actions always speak louder than words.

illinivich · 13/12/2024 10:11

The more people do, the more they risk doing the wrong things.

I think janice turners feb interview with hayton from a feminist and safeguarding stance was appalling. After reading it, i doubted her understanding of the fundamental problem. But after writing hundreds of articles covering all manner of issues i can see that shes going to have to stand on toes, even mine.

Similarly KJK is actively growing awareness. She has hundreds of hours of interviews and youtube videos. We can all find something we disagree with, or people who agree with her who we wouldnt want near policy writing.

JCJ isnt doing anything. Shes writing the same thing over and over again to the same small audience. Shes never going to set a foot wrong because she doesnt want to appeal to anyone outside her established group.

Having said all that. I think the reason the ultra thing is still a thing is because the men involved. Janice called women ultras, women put it in their twitter names, and it would all have been forgotten in a few weeks. Its the men that have been using it for podcast views, to deflect criticism of their behaviour and their party politics. They are the ones who have kept it going.

Lovelyview · 13/12/2024 10:21

I honestly think it stems from how sensitive left wing people are about being branded 'far right'. No-one ever seems to define what 'Far Right' means and while there's a lot to be concerned about with Donald Trump I'm pretty sure we're not looking at an American Reich being put in place. Come back to me in four year's time and we'll see on that one. So left wing people can't bear to be associated with Trump style right-wingers whereas right-wingers will associate with pretty much anyone to get something they want to happen done. As being gender critical is a facet of left wing feminism then you get these terrible schisms. I think they're unavoidable. I'd describe myself as a centre left pragmatist and don't give two hoots if my husband thinks I'm a secret Tory.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/12/2024 10:24

If the GRA and repealed and the PC of GR goes, then what's left for those whose livelihoods depend on its existence?

And what are the gains for women and children? Plenty. Parents just want it gone so we can keep our kids safe and spend time on something else.

It's obvious why some want to keep this tension going. But the safety of women and children are not a price worth paying.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/12/2024 10:29

I'd describe myself as a centre left pragmatist and don't give two hoots if my husband thinks I'm a secret Tory.

Yes, me too. Although I'd say my DP is further to the right of me.

Datun · 13/12/2024 10:50

Floisme · 13/12/2024 09:52

I don't understand what's going on with the fighting about campaigning to repeal the GRA.

Cards on table, I wouldn't choose to campaign for repeal myself because I can't see it happening in my lifetime and certainly not while the current government is in power. But what I can envisage this government doing is implementing some form of backdoor self ID so I'd rather put what energy and time I have into fighting that. It's a pragmatic approach.

But I wouldn't dream of trying to stop anyone who does want to campaign for Repeal, and in any case, those who do are helping to push the Overton window so wins all round as far as I'm concerned. I'm a bit flummoxed as to why there's so much bad feeling about it.

I'm a bit flummoxed as to why there's so much bad feeling about it.

Same. But I've never quite understood why KJK provokes such long lasting animosity in people.

Personally, I would've thought if someone doesn't like her, they can just ignore her. Likewise if they don't like women campaigning to repeal the GRA, they can just ignore it. It's not going to do any harm.

But I absolutely do think there is room for thinking the impossible, partly because that is exactly how the Overton window gets moved. And many people benefit from the Overton window being moved, who wouldn't have helped move it. (Or wouldn't have approved of the methods).

But also, as I said before, any publicity about the GRA is good publicity. It's a rubbish, sexist, unbelievably bad law.

It absolutely should be front and centre. Talked about, wondered over, fully understood, and people should know exactly how and why it was implemented.

Alongside everything else, of course.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 13/12/2024 10:50

JCJ isnt doing anything. Shes writing the same thing over and over again to the same small audience. Shes never going to set a foot wrong because she doesnt want to appeal to anyone outside her established group. So true.

It is notable that many prominent women e.g. Helen Joyce, have supported KJK at LWS events, condemned violence against her, and have remained more neutral. To some extent it's a storm in a teacup driven by a few women who just have very extreme personal animosity to KJK. Plus those whose egos can't cope when normal women highlight safeguarding concerns. It's a true sign that you don't understand safeguarding if you take discussion of it as a personal attack. With Hayton he used to be a teacher and wrote trans guidelines for schools it's not an academic debate - were his pupils compelled to deny reality and use wrong sex pronouns? Was his validation put above their safeguarding?

I think some of the hatred of KJK is her unashamed love of being a mother and having previously been a SAHM, which unfortunately some women who call themselves feminist look down upon (and also label as right wing). And she instinctively understands the risks to children of GI and tends to prioritise that, it was thinking of the impact on her daughter that got her into this fight.

A lot of the solutions that protect professional women whilst important don't help children in schools.

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