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This is why so many women voted Trump

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BabyLlamaZen · 07/11/2024 22:13

I’m not saying it’s right, I’m not saying it’s worth the horrors of the Trump administration (and what other women’s rights will be abolished). However, I can also empathise. Books like this are everywhere in baby sections of bookshops in USA. My american friend is naturally more conservative than myself although hated Trump and didn’t vote for him previously (she abstained and then she went Biden although she says she seriously regrets) and this time she voted Trump. She said this stuff is now everywhere and it’s constant. She also showed me a baby’s ABC book which included B for bisexual (and literally then described it as people who are sexually attracted to either gender). For babies.

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lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 16:51

Thanks i've also just shared this on another thread. The link with this to twitter with Reines talking is very interesting.

Datun · 08/11/2024 17:08

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/11/2024 16:46

I just mentioned on another thread that Democrat strategist Phillip Reine has come out and said that the Democrats have been taken hostage by the far Left; that most Democrats have common sense and they want to stop illegal migration and that they don't want males competing in girl's sports.

It's funny how sport is such a tipping point for so many people. It's the rank unfairness being forced onto a concept that relies on fairness.

You'd have to be bloody weird, or a frothing misogynist to agree with men in women's sport. In which case, the entire ideology just implodes.

IwantToRetire · 08/11/2024 17:09

Haven't read this thread, but on another thread I pointed out that it shows that the vote by white women for Trump has dropped this time.

The biggest increase in women's votes for Trump was those from the Hispanic/Latino community. But nothing like the increase in votes from men from that community.

Trump overall didn't get an increase in votes, compared to 2020.

The problem was the huge drop in the Democrate vote ie in the last election Biden got over 80 million (more than either Clinton or Obama who both got just over 65 million) And Harris got 68 million.

One thing is clear that the media both in predictions and after rarely get it right.

Birdscratch · 08/11/2024 17:09

The book you’ve shown pictures of is called Being you : A First Conversation About Gender. It’s specifically about gender identity. It’s not a general children’s book that’s trying to shoehorn gender into things. It’s part of a series where each book addresses a different topic. They also look at body image, race, consent and love. No one is making your friend buy it and, as an American, she’ll understand that free speech means that anyone can publish a book of their ideas (including some things that would be banned as offensive in the U.K.)

However your friend chooses to justify her vote, women will die because of it and she’s helped to put a misogynist into the White House.

nauticant · 08/11/2024 17:10

Reines added that the party just hasn’t been communicating its position on “common sense” policies effectively.

He's deflecting here though. The party continues to be committed to gender ideology and the communication during the electoral race was either keeping quiet about this or covering it up with disinformation to suggest otherwise.

But I don't know what the Democrats can do when so many of them, and especially those at senior levels, are indoctrinated and react extremely badly, if not aggressively, to others trying to explain their own "heretical" views.

HumptySaucer · 08/11/2024 17:10

BabyLlamaZen · 08/11/2024 16:46

I know. I can’t remember what the other letters were. Q was definitely queer. It was nuts.

Q … I thought was “questioning”

TiredEyesSoreHeart · 08/11/2024 17:23

Q was always originally Questioning (ie questioning/not sure on sexuality).

Until the straights who wanted a label to get attention changed it to 'Que*r' (pardon the homophobic slur, but that is what they call it now).

BonfireLady · 08/11/2024 17:26

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 08/11/2024 14:20

Names and pronouns interest me a lot - my son is demanding that I use his new "feminine" name (I find that very difficult indeed but am prepared to use it in some circumstances) and she/her when talking about him. I refuse to change my pronouns that I use to refer to him, for various reasons.

Firstly, they are my pronouns, not his (or "hers"). They are my words with which I try to communicate my thoughts. I strongly object to controlled speech, especially when it comes with a threat, the threat of estrangement if I refuse to have my language coerced.

Secondly, the cognitive dissonance of calling my son "she" is enormous and very painful. It is unthinkable for me to deny that I have a son. I have loved my son since the moment of his birth. He is not my daughter. And trying to communicate while constantly policing my pronouns ends up with me being incoherent. and distressed.

Thirdly, I don't think it's in his best interests to feed his muddled thinking about sex and gender. He can wear a dress if he wants - he's adult and able to make such decisions. But he seems to be mixed up about the implications of liking stereotypically "feminine" things. Feeling more in line with "feminine" values does not make him any less of a man; finding some of the societal expectations placed on men uncomfortable does not make him a woman. And he is naive about the impact of cross sex hormones; he appears to think that feminising his body will make him more comfortable with his gentle nature, and also that any doctor prescribing oestrogen will be completely clear about any side effects. If he uses cross-sex hormones and that doesn't sort out his confusion over his "gender", what's next? Breast implants? Castration and penile inversion to produce a non-functioning mockery of a vagina, with complete loss of fertility and normal sexual function? Lifelong self-inflicted medical problems.

Fourthly, I am not prepared to deliberately and repeatedly lie in order to make other people, especially my son, comfortable.

When it comes down to it, the language we use matters. It reinforces or questions the assumptions of people who hear it. I believe my duty to my son is to be honest with him, in as gentle a way as I can. Activists tell him that I am being hateful and unloving. I can only hope that at some point he remembers that his family, while imperfect, have always loved him and done our best for him. In the meantime, we are estranged and saddened, because society has told us we must accept nonsense as reality and be kind at the expense of truth.

💐💐💐

I have read your story on multiple threads and I'm so glad you're still sharing it in ways that will resonate with people. I have a huge admiration for your strength.

Not everyone on MN is a parent but many are. Of those that aren't, many have siblings or other loved ones who they care about - therefore many people will understand the humanity within your story: the love that you have for your son and the impossible position that you're when trying to maintain your relationship with him.

I hope to never experience this pain myself but I live in fear of doing so. It's the fear that drives me on to support my daughter both directly (less so now, because she seems to be moving away from gender identity thoughts ATM) and indirectly (e.g. using her safeguarding statement to explain to the adults that support her about the conflation of gender identity belief and autism-related puberty distress).

But the influences that pull vulnerable children like my daughter, and vulnerable adults like your son, are everywhere. Lessening the impact of these influences is a priority for parents who want to prevent or mitigate the potential damage that this can do to their children. And no, that doesn't make parents like you and me transphobic.

There are so many reasons why people will vote for Trump. His unequivocal statements that "gender affirming care" should/will not be available to minors is one such reason.

Lovelyview · 08/11/2024 17:30

DianeBrewster · 08/11/2024 13:19

The closest thing I've seen to it - historically - is the "Glass delusion"

Its fascinating
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_delusion

https://allthatsinteresting.com/skoptsy

The Skoptsy were a Russian Christian cult that cut off their sex organs to get closer to God. It's fascinating how cults repeat through the ages.

nauticant · 08/11/2024 17:32

Oddly enough the Stoptsy died out. Historians are still scratching their heads over the cause of this.

coribells · 08/11/2024 17:41

I believe this to be true . My sons Latino friend in America said his mother had voted for Trump for this reason

BonfireLady · 08/11/2024 17:58

Kate8889 · 08/11/2024 11:50

They changed their names and pronouns, I didn't ask questions about hormones/surgery as I thought that would be invasive.

Hopefully you're seeing the nuances within the discussions on MN? It's not an echo chamber or a place of bigotry and hate when it comes to this subject. Many/most posters recognise the humanity and distress that gender questioning children and young adults feel - and that they deserve access to evidence-based care.

It's great that you said above that you'll read the Cass Report. It's a good place to start. However, perhaps an even better place to start would be Hannah Barnes' book Time to Think.

In her book, she interviews children who have gone on to regret their decisions and also those who are happy. It's a great scene-setter for the Cass Report and for an understanding of why the NHS is now going to do a review of adult gender care services.

It's also useful IMO to look at the diagram below. There is a world of difference between a distressed child/young adult and an autogynophile. Unfortunately though, there is a fine line between the two where heterosexual adolescent boys are drawn towards seeing themselves as sexually attractive females e.g. via gaming communities and avatars. However, for the most part they are victims not perpetrators. This blog from an autogynophile may also be of interest in unpicking that side of things:

https://archive.is/2pQIq

This is why so many women voted Trump
BonfireLady · 08/11/2024 18:07

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:00

Several years ago, we saw this transgender issue as a major way to break ground and win over swing voters, and even some soft Democrats,” Terry Schilling, a conservative strategist, told The Daily Wire this week. Schilling said he showed Trump “voter impact research” demonstrating that the trans issue “shifted tens of thousands of votes in Arizona” as well as 72,000 votes in Wisconsin in 2022. “We wanted to make sure that he knew that this is a winning issue,” Schilling added.

Looks like he listened

The Trump campaign spent roughly $215 million on political ads targeting Harris’s transgender stance.

fucking hell. That's a lot of money.

Boom.

This is massive.

Wake up Keir.

This is why a convicted felon, with dubious morals and a revoluting approach to women, has just been elected president.

Fair play to him for listening. I have a reluctant respect for him regarding this.

Hopefully he'll also listen to the people that tell him not to push the big shiny nuclear button, or not to cosy up to world leaders who want to invade countries next to them.

Helleofabore · 08/11/2024 18:13

Kate8889 · 08/11/2024 11:10

I mean, political promises are a lie, churches are a lie, Santa Claus is a lie, but those are accepted in society as ok.

Political promises - why should anyone accept these?

Religion - and do the general population have to act like they also believe the concepts of any religion? And does a typical member of public have to then also use the language of the religion? Does someone have to call any religious figures by their religious title? No? This is not a relevant comparator?

Santa Claus - this is a fictional character. No person who understands this is a fictional character believes this person is real. This is another totally irrelevant comparison.

I am not sure what point is that you are trying to make. None of what you have suggested is relevant to allowing a child to believe they are something that they are materially and objectively not.

And not one of those suggestions are protected from being questioned by any one in society. And valid questions are not considered hate and children still should not be told that they are hated by people who have understood that these treatments have not been shown to improve the life of children.

WarriorN · 08/11/2024 18:16

Well, this is interesting

https://x.com/rileygainess_/status/1854873412063133796?s=46&t=A2fpFNgDRyXF2d6ye97wEA

“Two House democrats have come forward & said they oppose men competing in women's sports.

Both voted in favor of legislation that requires it. One even cosponsored the legislation.

Expect a big shift from democrats of the gender ideology insanity."

This is why so many women voted Trump
nocoolnamesleft · 08/11/2024 18:22

Christinapple · 08/11/2024 13:47

"the gay transed away"

What the hell does that mean??

Anyway I happen to remember when Hilary lost to Trump- feminist communities were straight up outraged and upset. But now trans people are for some reason at the top of British feminism's agenda Trump is now the good guy?

It means gay children being convinced that they must be trans because of the homophobia and rigid gender stereotypes, and being pushed down a pathway to harmful and even mutilating and sterilising procedures.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 08/11/2024 18:25

A Harris administration would have doubled down on this evil nonsense. If he’s got the House and the Senate he can give this stuff the boot or severely restrict it.

TempestTost · 08/11/2024 18:26

RedToothBrush · 08/11/2024 16:31

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e8z53qyd5o

At least one thing was taken for granted before voting day - women across the US were going to turn out for Kamala Harris.

Just as months of relentless polling showed Harris in a virtual tie with Donald Trump, many of those same surveys told the story of a yawning gender gap.

It was a strategy Harris’s team was betting on, hoping that an over-performance among women could make up for losses elsewhere.

It didn’t happen.

AND

Abortion did matter to women, it just didn’t matter enough, said Evan Ross Smith, a pollster and campaign consultant.

“Voters - particularly the women - who feel strongest about abortion are already voting for Democrats,” he said. But Democrats were unable to raise the importance of abortion for women who didn’t yet see it as a pressing issue.

“The abortion argument did not penetrate at all with non-college educated women, did not move them an inch. And they lost ground with Latinos,” Mr Smith said.

If a significant number of latinos are anti-abortion catholics and abortion was on the ticket for a lot of states, then that would have encouraged them to turn out AGAINST Harris rather than for her. This would mean her strategy to focus on abortion rights possibly actually backfired on her.

Strategically Harris's campaign was fatally flawed in a lot of ways.

I also think there is another group of poor and wc women who have often had or considered having abortions, but have felt it as something oppressive rather than liberating.

I have heard a few people discuss their own experiences from a place of having had an abortion for mainly economic reasons, but they are actually not pro-choice to any great extent.

But I haven't really seen this group discussed. I am not sure whether anyone has much idea how many people this might be.

There really does seem to be a very different attitude to abortion depending on social class, reflecting different attitudes to becoming a parent. There is a big gap in the age of a first pregnancy by social class.

And from what I am seeing, the analysis coming out now is that the biggest patterns in voting for this election was around class. High income earners voted for Harris, lower income earners, across race divides, have moved towards Harris.

Mirabai · 08/11/2024 18:40

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 16:37

And 51% of the population is female, and it affects all of them if you lose the ability to define what a woman is or what female means, in a way that doesn't exclude male people. Add in men that have daughters, wives, sisters, mothers, and realise and care about their rights, and you have a lot of people who are affected by something that is being brought in to appease this tiny proportion of the population.

If I can't define woman, I can't define women's rights. And if I can't define women's rights I can't define discrimination against women, in law or in court. Just one example. You could say "oh that just means sex-based rights" - well, activists have come for that one too and claim that transpeople have actually changed sex as well as gender.

I think this election has established that a lot of US women don’t give a fuck about women’s rights. Be that Midwest Christian or Latino Catholic.

If I do not have control over my own body and I can’t opt out of having a child I can’t cope with, what pronoun I’m called pales in comparison.

fromorbit · 08/11/2024 18:47

JKR as always is speaking for a lot of people. Her latest:

I wrote the words below in April, about the UK left, and I'm retweeting them today for the benefit of some of the numbskulls in my mentions.

Women like me, and there are a lot of us, aren't and never have been far-right. We simply want the left to wake the hell up, because we're watching it do its utmost to alienate people it used to represent.

I'm not saying Trump's win was down to the gender stuff - I'm not an American voter, so can't judge. In any case, the Labour Party won the last UK election and they've embraced gender identity ideology whole-heartedly (although they won against a Tory government so enfeebled and unpopular it would have been miraculous if they hadn't, and their popularity since gaining office has plummeted.)

What I do know is that millions of women in the UK and across the developed world are extremely angry about men in women's sport, men in women's jails and the erosion of single-sex spaces. Parents are angry at being demonised because they don't want their troubled kids to undergo irreversible medical treatments of extremely questionable benefit. People are sick to the back teeth of being bullied and threatened for refusing to embrace an elitist, academia-generated ideology that's having severe real world consequences. Large swathes of the left continue to be threatening and abusive to anybody who resists their attempts to impose ideological language or bully them out of wrongthink. Leftist activists jeer and sneer at erstwhile female allies for the crime of believing biological sex is real and matters. And leftist leaders still appear more interested in sucking up to gender activists than - to take a topical example in the UK - female nurses whose crime is not wanting to undress in front of a fully intact male. So to those screaming 'bigot' and 'fascist' at me, you should know two things.

Firstly, I'm completely indifferent to your disapproval, as I'd have thought you'd have realised by now. Secondly, and far more importantly, the only thing more harmful to your cause than your pseudo-religious belief in gender identities is your astounding, self-righteous arrogance.

EasternStandard · 08/11/2024 18:51

Mirabai · 08/11/2024 18:40

I think this election has established that a lot of US women don’t give a fuck about women’s rights. Be that Midwest Christian or Latino Catholic.

If I do not have control over my own body and I can’t opt out of having a child I can’t cope with, what pronoun I’m called pales in comparison.

There were some state votes on abortion, how did they go?

Many did pass I think

Appalonia · 08/11/2024 18:57

This is a long thread on Twitter with different commentators giving their opinions on why Trump won. Worth a read ( I'm not going to comment as I think it involved a lot of factors, but some of these pp have v interesting takes on what happened and why )

twitter.com/RachaelWongAus/status/1854755936801636405?s=19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/11/2024 18:57

I think this election has established that a lot of US women don’t give a fuck about women’s rights. Be that Midwest Christian or Latino Catholic.

Playing devil's advocate, I think that's a skewed and unhelpful way of looking at it. If you believe human life begins at conception, you're not necessarily going to see it as a "women's right" to have an abortion, however much it affects some women.

It is a women's right. I believe it's important that women can choose to have an abortion. It's not the only women's right. That you think it is the be all and end all of women's rights is your opinion. I think it's clear from the numbers of women who have voted in this election that many of them disagree.

Chersfrozenface · 08/11/2024 19:25

EasternStandard · 08/11/2024 18:51

There were some state votes on abortion, how did they go?

Many did pass I think

There were ballots on abortion rights in 10 states - and the measures passed in 7 of them.

Including Arizona, Missouri, Nevada and Montana, which Trump won.

Danja2010 · 08/11/2024 19:28

NotBadConsidering · 08/11/2024 02:17

From 2022, so likely thousands more in the following years to date:

A total of 17,683 patients, ages 6 through 17, with a prior gender dysphoria diagnosis initiated either puberty blockers or hormones or both during the five-year period. Of these, 4,780 patients had initiated puberty blockers and 14,726 patients had initiated hormone treatment.

https://www.reuters.com/investigates/special-report/usa-transyouth-data/

Confirmation that children are getting surgery:

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2820437

Thousands of children across the US in total.

Sport:

https://www.shewon.org

This is a non-exhaustive list of women who should have won but lost to a male. Of course, this only factors in the winners, and doesn’t factor in those who were displaced from the podium, or a final, or just had their final position displaced. It doesn’t factor in how many women might have had to share changing rooms with these males. It also doesn’t factor in the more mediocre males who might not have won a competition but still disadvantaged women for the same reasons. This is, as I said, thousands of women.

This is a very small number in the contrast to the population of 346,087,740 . So hardly shocking .

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