You'd love my rant[s] over on Craicnet about this, Bannedontherun!
After millennia of celebrating Halloween/Samhain as the Celtic New year+harvest+otherworld festival, it suddenly morphed into this hideous Americanised ghoulfest of zombies and bats and bloody severed limbs and spiders. All made out of plastic, of course. And 'wicked' witches? when did that piece of misogyny become respectable again?
We used to dress up and go from house to house asking 'Any apples or nuts for the party?' - no threat of a 'trick' if we didn't get a 'treat' - and then there'd be an evening of fun and games, fortune-telling, apple-bobbing, barm brack, trying to break open the coconut which was only ever on sale in Ireland in October - great fun!
Later there'd be ghost stories for the adults and older kids, but it was 99% a fun party for the kids, not a severed limb or tombstone in sight.
I always open the door to the little kids around here, although I have to grit my teeth when they chirp 'Trick or treat!' - this is Ireland, not the US of A, kids😠
I give them sweets and money, because I want them to enjoy Halloween, but everybody gets a polished apple as well, for old time's sake