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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Trump is the only hope for the world. I hope Americans can see this."

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crimplepop · 11/09/2024 16:36

KJK going off on one again. Can you see it yet?

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CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 13:45

Here's a definition of "purity spiral" from Wikipedia:

A purity spiral is a theory which argues for the existence of a form of groupthink in which it becomes more beneficial to hold certain views than to not hold them, and more extreme views are rewarded while expressing doubt, nuance, or moderation is punished (a process sometimes called "moral outbidding").[1] It is argued that this feedback loop leads to members competing to demonstrate the zealotry or purity of their views.[2][3]
A purity spiral is argued to occur when a community's primary focus becomes implementing a single value that has no upper limit, and where that value does not have an agreed interpretation.[4]

I don't think you could argue based on that, that those of us who are criticising KJK for endorsing a woman hater for POTUS are "purity spiralling"

  1. we are in the minority in "the community" here and are definitely not getting rewarded for zealotry/expressing extreme views.
  2. we are not focusing on a single issue with no upper limit, that doesn't have a clear interpretation.
  3. I'd argue there has been quite a lot of nuance in the debate we are having; it's been wide ranging and touched on lots of topics.

Interested to see what aspects you think are "purity spiralling".

Groupthink - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Groupthink

CyclingSam · 16/09/2024 14:11

Fortunately I have no real sunk costs in this thread. It's just interesting watching certain people at work. Seen it all before.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 14:13

CyclingSam · 16/09/2024 14:11

Fortunately I have no real sunk costs in this thread. It's just interesting watching certain people at work. Seen it all before.

OK, so you just dropped "purity spiral" in for entertainment I guess.

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 16/09/2024 14:22

MessinaBloom · 16/09/2024 02:17

Okay. I think KJK is in the payment of Republicans. You can't see this tweet and think otherwise. It refers to a face-off a few years ago between an Indian elder and a 16 year old called Nick Sandmann.

"This photo was pivotal in sorting the truth seekers from the weak minded masked brained sheep."

x.com/theposieparker/status/1835436666846150697?s=61&t=3wYru9P_J0h74BXKFXAfmw

Why does this tweet mean she's in payment of Republicans?

Grammarnut · 16/09/2024 14:41

NotBadConsidering · 16/09/2024 11:24

they only align on this ONE issue in terms of women's rights/safety/welfare etc

Well you can see the logic, can’t you? If it enshrined in law, at any meaningful level, that a man can be a woman and cannot be excluded from any women’s place or service, then every single women’s right or service ceases to exist. They become services for women and men who say they’re women.

So what do you do? Support for the people who might make this happen and try and persuade them not to? Or support for the people who definitely won’t allow this to happen? Even if you don’t agree with the tactic, it clearly has some logic behind it.

It’s not dissimilar to how everyone in the UK with an interest or knowledge on this topic is now holding their breath waiting to see what Starmer will do.

Edit, cross post. Yes, it’s a tactic that has pros and cons.

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I chose not to vote for Starmer. I voted for no-one though I went to vote. Women's rights is a potent issue and the rights we have won are under threat.

AlisonDonut · 16/09/2024 15:20

MessinaBloom · 16/09/2024 13:23

What about "sterilising, mutilating, and indoctrinating an entire generation of children"?

A timely question.

This dropped today.

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 15:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/09/2024 12:21

This is what I just can't get.
On what planet is a proven sex offender, who says he wants to be a dictator, who is misogynist, who wants to remove womens rights to health are, who enjoys projecting the "strong man" patriarchal image, "the lesser of two evils"?

There's no point asking me Cassie, because I don't think that. I'm saying that some other women do, because rightly or wrongly they are single issue voters on combating gender identity ideology.

Based on qualitative feedback (so not as strong as a wide-ranging poll) the people who are single issue voters on gender aren't in lockstep to vote Trump, rather they can't in their hearts vote for Harris/Walz (more are upset with Walz due to Minnesota being a trans sanctuary) so they won't vote at all or will write in Beyoncé or maybe their dog. Depending on where they live, it's a throwaway vote OR it gives Trump's side the advantage.

Unless you're deeply on the Maga side, non-Harris voters don't believe Trump "will save the world" ffs. KJK is as hyperbolic as he is!

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 16:12

Aren't some of you feminists annoyed that we US women can't work easily with you UK women in shared feminist goals when many think we're stupid to be against Trump? Back to what I said earlier, I wanted KJK to be a populist leader who could unite English-speaking women around the world for women's rights, but she has utterly failed in that. Doesn't it irk you to see how she failed not just your US feminist sisters, but didn't help Australia or New Zealand either? They too are struggling to get left wing support for women's rights. Look at what Sal Grover has been through? We won't win if we can't get the left wing to support us! How is that not blatantly obvious? We have been saying over and over that KJK is a liability but heads in the sand "she doesn't speak for us" but you won't condemn her either! You'd rather be loyal over a fucking cliff!

CyclingSam · 16/09/2024 16:16

Grammarnut · 16/09/2024 14:41

I chose not to vote for Starmer. I voted for no-one though I went to vote. Women's rights is a potent issue and the rights we have won are under threat.

I was lucky to be able to vote for Julia Long. Have joked elsewhere that in the States the party that comes closest for me is The Prohibition Party: pro-choice, non-interventionist foreign policy, anti death penalty, opposition to pornography, and other things I'm on board with. Am willing to overlook their stand on temperance.

AlisonDonut · 16/09/2024 16:29

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 16:12

Aren't some of you feminists annoyed that we US women can't work easily with you UK women in shared feminist goals when many think we're stupid to be against Trump? Back to what I said earlier, I wanted KJK to be a populist leader who could unite English-speaking women around the world for women's rights, but she has utterly failed in that. Doesn't it irk you to see how she failed not just your US feminist sisters, but didn't help Australia or New Zealand either? They too are struggling to get left wing support for women's rights. Look at what Sal Grover has been through? We won't win if we can't get the left wing to support us! How is that not blatantly obvious? We have been saying over and over that KJK is a liability but heads in the sand "she doesn't speak for us" but you won't condemn her either! You'd rather be loyal over a fucking cliff!

Jesus Christ.

We don't think you are stupid. We think you can make up your own minds and have your own opinions.

Just like KJK can.

Perhaps if you all stopped posting thread after thread after thread after thread after thread she wouldn't hold so much of your headspace.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 16:43

AlisonDonut · 16/09/2024 16:29

Jesus Christ.

We don't think you are stupid. We think you can make up your own minds and have your own opinions.

Just like KJK can.

Perhaps if you all stopped posting thread after thread after thread after thread after thread she wouldn't hold so much of your headspace.

Oh for goodness sake alison
People can post what they like. There are repetitive threads on here all the time.
If you don't like it don't post on them but there is no need at all to be so rude to someone.

Floisme · 16/09/2024 16:53

I wouldn't vote for Trump (and I didn't vote Conservative either) but I've come to the conclusion that it's delusional to believe the left are ever going to support us.

Is there any country or state with a left of centre government that's come down on the side of women and children on this issue? If you know of one please post and I'll be all ears. But basically I think we're on our own, vipers, and the sooner we realise it the better.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 16:54

💔
That poor woman. And her poor family. So completely unnecessary.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 16:58

"The left" are not a hive mind.

Lots of posters on here were worried Labour wouldn't implement the findings of the Cass review - but they have.

A better question might be "Is there any country or state with a left of centre government that's come down on the side of women and children on this issue?" And a follow up of "and are they better for women and children as a whole than the UK government?"

I've never believed this is a left v right issue, seeing the reaction to KJK endorsing a sex offender only does more to make me think that even more strongly.

Very glad so many UK voters saw through the divisive approach in July and have my fingers firmly crossed the Americans do the same in November.

Floisme · 16/09/2024 17:04

Your regular polite reminder that I'm not interested in engaging with you @CassieMaddox

EasternStandard · 16/09/2024 17:06

I think you'd have to be firmly wedded to mn and mostly pro Labour posts to think the current gov is well received.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 17:11

Floisme · 16/09/2024 17:04

Your regular polite reminder that I'm not interested in engaging with you @CassieMaddox

Your regular polite reminder that I can reply where I like on a public forum flo. Feel free to scroll past

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 17:12

I see some signs of hope. Some key senators either didn't allow the Equality Bill to come to a vote, ignore trans issues entirely and/or only use 'women' when speaking on women's issues and some show up to women's sporting events and talk about 'females' in sports. It's not endorsement, it's not condemnation, but in TRAlalaland if you're not the biggest cheerleader, you can't be an ally and it's intriguing to watch big Dem names be silent on this issue and risk 'allyship'. Especially Klobuchar who is from the same state as Walz. Unless I missed it, when I tracked senators during Pride, a larger chunk of them showed up and only promoted lesbians and/or gay men. I won't even name them because I fear that TRAs will see it and consider it a rebellion!

Kara Dansky goes further behind the scenes of Democrat territory and talks about it in her newsletter, and while she doesn't think we're even close to be done fighting gender identity, she sees a pullback from the intensity of support we saw from 2018-2022.

Also, I am VERY VERY grateful for the tide turning in the UK...the Cass Report and Starmer's health secretary, Wes Streeting who promised to support its findings. It's Labor, after all, which is far to the left of majority of our Democrats!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/09/2024 17:13

I was lucky to be able to vote for Julia Long.

Very jealous!

EasternStandard · 16/09/2024 17:14

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 17:12

I see some signs of hope. Some key senators either didn't allow the Equality Bill to come to a vote, ignore trans issues entirely and/or only use 'women' when speaking on women's issues and some show up to women's sporting events and talk about 'females' in sports. It's not endorsement, it's not condemnation, but in TRAlalaland if you're not the biggest cheerleader, you can't be an ally and it's intriguing to watch big Dem names be silent on this issue and risk 'allyship'. Especially Klobuchar who is from the same state as Walz. Unless I missed it, when I tracked senators during Pride, a larger chunk of them showed up and only promoted lesbians and/or gay men. I won't even name them because I fear that TRAs will see it and consider it a rebellion!

Kara Dansky goes further behind the scenes of Democrat territory and talks about it in her newsletter, and while she doesn't think we're even close to be done fighting gender identity, she sees a pullback from the intensity of support we saw from 2018-2022.

Also, I am VERY VERY grateful for the tide turning in the UK...the Cass Report and Starmer's health secretary, Wes Streeting who promised to support its findings. It's Labor, after all, which is far to the left of majority of our Democrats!

That turning tide is down to women who have spoken up. Including those on here or not Labour supporters

Women who some spend time castigating

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 17:17

EasternStandard · 16/09/2024 17:06

I think you'd have to be firmly wedded to mn and mostly pro Labour posts to think the current gov is well received.

I think most people think it's too early to tell.

In any case though it's a good example of the kind of question people ask that can't be answered.

Is there any country or state with a left of centre government that's come down on the side of women and children on this issue?

No. As far as I'm aware there are no countries full stop that have "come down on the side of women and girls on this issue". Countries that are more restrictive on trans rights also seem to be more restrictive on women's rights as far as I know.

If someone can give an example of any country that's supportive of women and girls on this issue and all the others, then I'm happy to hear about them.

Meanwhile the constant refrain of "the left" is getting dull and increasingly irrelevant now we have 5 years at least of "the left" to look forward to.

Plus the Conservatives frontrunner (Jenrick) is basically not committing to single sex spaces, yet again showing this isn't a left v right issue.

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/voters-worry-about-more-than-single-sex-spaces-robert-jenrick-says-dtr6qd087

Voters worry about more than single-sex spaces, Robert Jenrick says

Leaked recording shows Tory leadership hopeful told young Conservatives he doesn’t want the party just going down ‘a rabbit hole of culture wars’

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/voters-worry-about-more-than-single-sex-spaces-robert-jenrick-says-dtr6qd087

Delphinium20 · 16/09/2024 17:18

EasternStandard · 16/09/2024 17:14

That turning tide is down to women who have spoken up. Including those on here or not Labour supporters

Women who some spend time castigating

And then some of the same women who then turn and castigate US women who vote against Trump. Can't you see that? It's fucking insulting. You speak up for women in UK, we benefit across the pond, and then when we don't vote the way you THINK we should vote (name one time I jumped on any UK woman for how she voted in her own election), it's 'castigating'. No. It's not. We keep saying if you want to help us, stop telling us Trump is our man. He's not. We know better.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/09/2024 17:18

Based on qualitative feedback (so not as strong as a wide-ranging poll) the people who are single issue voters on gender aren't in lockstep to vote Trump, rather they can't in their hearts vote for Harris/Walz (more are upset with Walz due to Minnesota being a trans sanctuary) so they won't vote at all or will write in Beyoncé or maybe their dog. Depending on where they live, it's a throwaway vote OR it gives Trump's side the advantage.

Unless you're deeply on the Maga side, non-Harris voters don't believe Trump "will save the world" ffs. KJK is as hyperbolic as he is!

Why have you implied that I was talking about Trump saving the world? I don't believe that and you don't have to believe it to vote for him. I also don't think KJK thinks it either, she's making a provocative statement because she thinks it's the lesser of two evils, which is the kind of single issue focus I'm talking about. Not all these people are democrats, are they? Not all people who might vote democrat are completely wedded to them.

CassieMaddox · 16/09/2024 17:19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/09/2024 17:18

Based on qualitative feedback (so not as strong as a wide-ranging poll) the people who are single issue voters on gender aren't in lockstep to vote Trump, rather they can't in their hearts vote for Harris/Walz (more are upset with Walz due to Minnesota being a trans sanctuary) so they won't vote at all or will write in Beyoncé or maybe their dog. Depending on where they live, it's a throwaway vote OR it gives Trump's side the advantage.

Unless you're deeply on the Maga side, non-Harris voters don't believe Trump "will save the world" ffs. KJK is as hyperbolic as he is!

Why have you implied that I was talking about Trump saving the world? I don't believe that and you don't have to believe it to vote for him. I also don't think KJK thinks it either, she's making a provocative statement because she thinks it's the lesser of two evils, which is the kind of single issue focus I'm talking about. Not all these people are democrats, are they? Not all people who might vote democrat are completely wedded to them.

It's the topic of the thread eresh. KJK tweeted it. delphinium wasn't aiming that at you Confused

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