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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Help me present evidence to my son

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AlbertaWildRose · 02/08/2024 00:17

My DS is 18 and heavy into the TWAW belief. He thinks JK Rowling is a despicable human being for her position and thinks that women should have no problem with all of this, and it's all just "scare-mongering" to say otherwise. Whenever I try to talk to him about this I end up getting too emotional to be rational. I really want to present him with evidence that this movement is not good for women - please help direct me to some good resources. Thank you.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/08/2024 18:45

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 18:28

I've reread this and it still doesn't make any sense.

The Holocaust was, in fact, all about trans people, actually.

MoveToParis · 02/08/2024 18:45

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:36

Did you know gender studies is a university discipline? Go figure. Evidence? Go look. I won’t personally tell you because I know you won’t respect the doctors and professors around the world making their research public.

You people like Hilary Cass?

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:46

Beachcomber · 02/08/2024 18:41

Gosh.

I don't usually engage with this kind of thing.

But I am going to say something serious in response to your post.

Suicide and suicide ideation are contagious.

This constant telling young vulnerable people that they are part of a cohort that has very high rates of suicide is dangerous. It not evidence based and it is highly irresponsible.

Please stop doing it.

Your hatred and its resulting despair is responsible

blood on your hands not mine

MWNA · 02/08/2024 18:46

MoveToParis · 02/08/2024 02:45

I would show contemptuous anger.
“What an embarrassment you are, pretending you think a man can be a woman on his own say so. No one believes it- not even you. All you’re doing is showing yourself up as an idiot to your friends, and relatives.”
”It’s so sad that you have to be reminded, but women are allowed to say No to men, even if those men feel sad or angry, and even if you feel anger at women saying no. The answer is No, so get back in your box, and STFU.”
”How dare you presume to lecture me with this complete nonsense. You educate yourself and don’t raise this topic again unless it’s to give the groveling apology you don’t yet realize you owe me.”

Fuck but I love this.

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 18:47

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 17:22

I haven’t had a post deleted

Oh dear. This one didn't stand the test of time. 😥

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:48

MoveToParis · 02/08/2024 18:45

You people like Hilary Cass?

Cass had no background in psychiatry or anything relevant to the study and only invited echo chamber people and groups to give evidence no trans or even the BMA lol 😂

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:49

Beachcomber · 02/08/2024 18:44

Ah. I'm glad that post was deleted.

I don't care about the pesonal attack it contained but I do think we need to be very careful with the subject of suicide.

You accused me personally of endangering young life whereas in reality it’s your sort and deliberately so

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:51

MWNA · 02/08/2024 18:46

Fuck but I love this.

I missed that part of the thread

its getting a bit toxic

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/08/2024 18:52

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:48

Cass had no background in psychiatry or anything relevant to the study and only invited echo chamber people and groups to give evidence no trans or even the BMA lol 😂

She did, however, engage with 9 gender identity clinics asking for data about their patients' long term outcomes, and 8 of them refused to answer.

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:52

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 18:47

Oh dear. This one didn't stand the test of time. 😥

Which one? Where I mirrored a comment accusing me of promoting suicide?

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:53

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:45

It really is pcos you were just being insulting

Yes, because I can see you. Obviously.

This is clearly some kind of shit stirring game to you. Come in. Derail a thread. Accuse anyone who challenges anything you say of being a bigot. Well done. It's always a pleasure when TRAs reveal the paucity of their arguments.

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:54

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:53

Yes, because I can see you. Obviously.

This is clearly some kind of shit stirring game to you. Come in. Derail a thread. Accuse anyone who challenges anything you say of being a bigot. Well done. It's always a pleasure when TRAs reveal the paucity of their arguments.

Well that’s bs

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:56

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:54

Well that’s bs

Sure. TBH I think your only hope now is if MN deletes all your posts

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 02/08/2024 18:57

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:53

Yes, because I can see you. Obviously.

This is clearly some kind of shit stirring game to you. Come in. Derail a thread. Accuse anyone who challenges anything you say of being a bigot. Well done. It's always a pleasure when TRAs reveal the paucity of their arguments.

Love a wee game of TRA bingo when I’m bored. Yet to get a coherent reasonable argument yet. It’s always the same writing style too, sans full stops…

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:57

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:56

Sure. TBH I think your only hope now is if MN deletes all your posts

You are the anti TRA I just have been responding to hate from your pals

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:59

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:57

You are the anti TRA I just have been responding to hate from your pals

Stop, stop. Your argument is already dead

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 19:00

BackToLurk · 02/08/2024 18:59

Stop, stop. Your argument is already dead

I never had an argument other than tolerance which is in short supply on here

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 19:01

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 18:52

Which one? Where I mirrored a comment accusing me of promoting suicide?

No, silly. The one where you said you hadn't had a post deleted. Just before you had several posts deleted.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 02/08/2024 19:04

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 19:00

I never had an argument other than tolerance which is in short supply on here

No one has to tolerate an ideology that’s potentially harmful to women and girls. All the evidence as to why many people find this potentially harmful has been laid out very clearly. You just retort with ‘bigot’! That really is your only argument and you’re not going to get far, or taken seriously, with something as amateur as that. It’s just so boring now.

AlbertaWildRose · 02/08/2024 19:07

This thread has really descended into chaos, but I want to thank those of you who have given me rational suggestions of how I can discuss this with my son. It is obviously a very divisive issue and I hope that as he matures he will come to understand the other side of it.

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DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 19:08

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 19:01

No, silly. The one where you said you hadn't had a post deleted. Just before you had several posts deleted.

Ahhh. Yes sorry about that. People can abuse on here so long as you have a sideways dig and don’t say anyone is a bigot despite their narrow minded posts which are deeply offensive.
I was using shorthand because I didn’t have the time or the crayons to explain.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/08/2024 19:09

Nothingeverything · 02/08/2024 19:01

No, silly. The one where you said you hadn't had a post deleted. Just before you had several posts deleted.

She actually said it after she had had several posts deleted.

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 19:10

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 02/08/2024 19:04

No one has to tolerate an ideology that’s potentially harmful to women and girls. All the evidence as to why many people find this potentially harmful has been laid out very clearly. You just retort with ‘bigot’! That really is your only argument and you’re not going to get far, or taken seriously, with something as amateur as that. It’s just so boring now.

Fair enough. It’s my lack of patience or hope I can reason with them.

I also don’t think a gender truth is an ideology.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/08/2024 19:11

DianaAntoniaJasmine · 02/08/2024 19:00

I never had an argument other than tolerance which is in short supply on here

Trans activists are some of the most intolerant people around!

It's not enough that they are allowed to believe trans women are women. They think we should be punished for not sharing their beliefs.

They're the closest thing the UK has to an oppressive religion which persecutes nonbelievers.

Alucard55 · 02/08/2024 19:11

AlbertaWildRose · 02/08/2024 19:07

This thread has really descended into chaos, but I want to thank those of you who have given me rational suggestions of how I can discuss this with my son. It is obviously a very divisive issue and I hope that as he matures he will come to understand the other side of it.

Good luck 😊