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Wtf Meghan Murphy

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CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 13:42

A feminist I used to really admire, deciding pussy grabbing, porn loving, convicted felon Trump and his misogynistic, fickle, anti abortion, running mate Vance are the best choice for American women.

https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

Feminists/'feminist' men keep insisting to me that @JDVance1 is a misogynist who wants to 'take away women's rights' yet Trump/Vance are the only choice if we wish to restore women's sex-based rights in America (never mind the fact that Vance is anti-p*rn). I am not a fan of letting the government have any say over what women do with their bodies, but 'abortion rights' have for decades been used as a pawn in political games, and women keep letting themselves be played.

Voting Democrat solely because they'll let you have an abortion while they allow all the rest of our sex-based rights to be destroyed seems unwise to me. Women need to take their bodily autonomy into their own hands imo — this means we need to learn about and educate other women about their bodies and reproductive system, so we aren't relying on the government to dole out hormonal birth control (which is HORRIBLE for us) and dictate our reproductive choices. It's far from an ideal situation, but I resent being told I must vote for a party that can't even define the word 'woman' because they'll allow women to have abortions. That gives me the icks and should give you the icks as well.

I don't believe we should be handing over our power to governments, and the more we understand about our own bodies, the power of food/herbal medicine, the less we need to rely on the state or the medical establishment to allow us bodily autonomy and pretend to be invested in our health and wellbeing.

I do think we should fight against anyone/any laws that tell us what we may or may not do with our bodies, but the Democrats are not the party of body sovereignty either, so I'm not sure why women give them that credit.

I'm not sure what's going on with her but this is a huge shock. Very glad I'm not in the States right now.

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https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

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ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 22/07/2024 18:29

AlisonDonut · 22/07/2024 18:06

Nobody can hold a UK lens over any of this, this is a uniquely USA issue.

The issue of abortion is not the same as here, mainly due to the all or nothing approach - the pro abortion activists are pro up to birth, which is obviously completely different to the UK abortion law.

The vote is about looking at the policies and adding up which make a difference to you. That's the point of democracy.

Are we to now have thread after thread of 'women who Cassie/Adam doesn't agree with' with stupid Confused faces making out as if their words are 'weird'?

This is a perfectly reasonable decision. Trump is simply the least worst option. This is completely different to the best option. If you don't understand that, maybe discussing USA politics isn't in your wheelhouse.

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Well said Alison

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 18:41

AlisonDonut · 22/07/2024 18:06

Nobody can hold a UK lens over any of this, this is a uniquely USA issue.

The issue of abortion is not the same as here, mainly due to the all or nothing approach - the pro abortion activists are pro up to birth, which is obviously completely different to the UK abortion law.

The vote is about looking at the policies and adding up which make a difference to you. That's the point of democracy.

Are we to now have thread after thread of 'women who Cassie/Adam doesn't agree with' with stupid Confused faces making out as if their words are 'weird'?

This is a perfectly reasonable decision. Trump is simply the least worst option. This is completely different to the best option. If you don't understand that, maybe discussing USA politics isn't in your wheelhouse.

he’s the least worst option in your opinion, not for all. that’s the point isn’t it?

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 18:42

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/07/2024 18:28

Women's right to abortion was lost under a Democrat president. No democrat president, whether Biden or a predecessor, cared to protect abortion.

Under a supreme Court that trump/GOP stuffed full of anti-abortion judges.

It really is something to make put this was a Biden thing, just cos you hate "the left".

This was a trump thing. The man is horrific.

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lcakethereforeIam · 22/07/2024 18:42

Roe/wade was always a jam tomorrow issue that the Democrats used to get women to vote for them. They had decades to build a less ramshackle protection. They didn't. Republicans are gonna republican, what happened was inevitable in the face of Democrat inaction.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 18:44

Well, at least the "no one on here supports Trump" myth has now been debunked 😂

I hope American voters turn out to be as sensible as British voters and don't get sucked into this polarised nonsense

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Omlettes · 22/07/2024 18:49

Theretheretherethere · 22/07/2024 17:54

I agree, this is what Kellie-Jay Keen says as well and like her I'd rather give up abortion rights now and win the war against the gender borg and then when that is done fight to regain the right to abortion.

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Insane.
You would do that to over a hundred million women and remove access to contraception, also emboldening other countries?
And you believe Trump wont be delighted to be sucked up to by gender activists?
Nor stick it to women even further after losing his rape case?

And the impact on society all those kids born to rape incest or just unwanted? A vicious cycle of harm. And young pregnant girls ?

The horror for women enforced to bear children, especially her rapists children or single mothers with no income, the complete devastation of their careers and lack of independance from abusive men.

Utter unconsidered madness.
You would send us straight to the Handmaids Tale without any thought whatsoever.
Meanwhile Court cases are taking place across the US, turning the tide one by one. Follow Kara Dansky for genuine information, she is cautiously optimistic.

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 18:51

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 18:42

Under a supreme Court that trump/GOP stuffed full of anti-abortion judges.

It really is something to make put this was a Biden thing, just cos you hate "the left".

This was a trump thing. The man is horrific.

Ill informed madness, they would take womens rights back to the Victorian era just because of ignorance.
Terrifying.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 18:52

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 18:49

Insane.
You would do that to over a hundred million women and remove access to contraception, also emboldening other countries?
And you believe Trump wont be delighted to be sucked up to by gender activists?
Nor stick it to women even further after losing his rape case?

And the impact on society all those kids born to rape incest or just unwanted? A vicious cycle of harm. And young pregnant girls ?

The horror for women enforced to bear children, especially her rapists children or single mothers with no income, the complete devastation of their careers and lack of independance from abusive men.

Utter unconsidered madness.
You would send us straight to the Handmaids Tale without any thought whatsoever.
Meanwhile Court cases are taking place across the US, turning the tide one by one. Follow Kara Dansky for genuine information, she is cautiously optimistic.

yet people like this accuse others of being handmaidens?? and yet they’re the ones trying to make it a thing??

access to abortion is healthcare. no one should have to carry a pregnancy they do not want, that is dangerous or any other reason. taking away that right only causes millions of women direct harm. between that and lack of contraception.

im doubting the PP is even a woman because i would hope no woman is willing to give up the right of BODY AUTONOMY just to try and bring it back? do they realise how impossible that would be for women in the US?

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 18:53

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 18:51

Ill informed madness, they would take womens rights back to the Victorian era just because of ignorance.
Terrifying.

my assumption is it doesn’t affect them so they’re happy to forgo those rights cos whatever.

that has got to be one of the most dangerous things i’ve read on mumsnet.

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OldCrone · 22/07/2024 18:57

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 17:44

Sorry?
Bizarre thing to say, you dont know me in the slightest, nor do I run a podcast for you to judge eitherway.
"Reasonable Person'...
She is not that bright hence her unthought out and profoundly offensive position on abortion and Trump.

Some feminist.
Why on earth would women trade away their most fundamental rights, that impact every aspect of their lives especially when Trump is so incredibly unstable and changes position on the point of a pin.

If she thinks he wont fold like a pack of cards as soon as someone like Dylan Mulvaney sucks up to him, then she has not paid attention to his character in the slightest.
And remember Trump is vowing vengance, after losing his rape case do you think he will give a rats arse about women?

Far better to turn the Dems, and they will turn slowly but surely as legal cases continue to be won in the US.

Do you have any more information about the legal cases in the US? I know there are some in progress, but I'm not aware of anything which has already been won.

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 22/07/2024 19:15

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TinselAngel · 22/07/2024 19:16

My absence from all these threads where Cassie criticises women she considers to be the wrong sort of feminist should not be taken for agreement, just for the record. Life is too short.

GrumpyPanda · 22/07/2024 19:20

lcakethereforeIam · 22/07/2024 14:09

I feel for women in the US. What flavour of shit sandwich do you want? I can kind of see her point. Banning/restricting abortions is something that is more likely to inspire a pushback leading to a turn around. GI becoming even more embedded will be much harder to unpick.

Doesn't make a difference if there won't be a democratic choice in the future because the Repugs have built up counter-majoritarian institutions to an extent to ensure perpetual minority rule. That's been the McConnell/Trump agenda for years, and the Heritage crowd and the reactionary activist SCOTUS majority look dead set on building on it.

GrumpyPanda · 22/07/2024 19:24

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 14:20

Not enough to get them into power.

And I'm not shocked by "many women", I'm shocked by this particular feminist who always covered a good range of feminist topics in the past. There is quite a lot of that I think is extremely blinkered and harmful to women. Not just the Trump/Vance piece, also the anti abortion/contraception and "big pharma" vibes.

Very weird.

Completely agree. Herbal medicine my arse. I've been on Twitter quite a bit lately, and if you follow US GC accounts it's shocking not just the amount of out and out misogynist MAGA trolls but also genuine posters ranting about the Dems and advocating the anti-vaxx nutjob RFK as an alternative. Which obviously comes down to voting for Trump should you happen to be in a swing state.

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 19:25

@Alwaystired94 This particular madness initiated with KJK.
I've seen KJK discussing it with MM on her podcast back in 2022 I think.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 19:31

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KJK isn’t a feminist FYI.

Cassie is GC and advocates for single sex spaces but she just doesn’t agree with people like KJK and their hatred of trans people outside of single sex spaces.

some nuance is needed.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/07/2024 19:34

WhereYouLeftIt · 22/07/2024 17:35

I think this is exactly where Murphy is coming from. US women are in a lose-lose situation right now. Do you vote Republican and lose abortion rights? Or do you vote Democrat and lose everything else?

However - I was under the impression that the right to decide rolled back from Federal to State level. Many states have already banned abortion, some have written it into state laws and protected it. I'm inclined to think that Trump being elected won't make any difference - if the state wanted to outlaw it they already have. If they haven't yet, I don't see them doing it now. If that is the case - IF - then voting Democrat throws away all rights and voting Republican is unlikely to lose further abortion rights and you might get men and boys out of sports, changing rooms etc.

I think I'd hold my nose and vote Trump.

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I see a future where the United States increasingly becomes the Dis-United States - and where people locate/re-locate to states that match their predominant value system.

GrumpyPanda · 22/07/2024 19:35

Moontoboon · 22/07/2024 14:34

For goodness sake, American feminists ( not that MM is) face a similar dilemma to many of us faced in the UK faced in our recent election, but turned up to 11. Two parties who are both shit for women, but on different issues and different ways.

I don’t see what it achieves to attack or criticize a woman thinking through this horrible state of affairs and deciding which of shit and shit they think is less shit. Reserve your blame for the people who created the shit, not those faced with the voting for the shit..

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Not the same situation at all. While the Tories may have been shit on so many levels they've never been a threat to democracy itself. And unfortunately that's what is at stake in America right now - not as a matter of hyperbole, but as a matter of fact.

NoWordForFluffy · 22/07/2024 19:37

GrumpyPanda · 22/07/2024 19:35

Not the same situation at all. While the Tories may have been shit on so many levels they've never been a threat to democracy itself. And unfortunately that's what is at stake in America right now - not as a matter of hyperbole, but as a matter of fact.

I dunno. Proroguing parliament was pretty undemocratic!

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/07/2024 19:38

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 17:36

Hmmm. I don't think its as simple as two competing priorities.
She's turned into a single issue activist, up to her of course. There would be nothing that could induce me to vote for a misogynist criminal sex abuser however, before you even get onto the damage a Trump president would do to women globally.

I really can not understand her logic at all.

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Plenty of people voted for Bill Clinton; who was by all accounts a serial womaniser, who then went on to deny his activities -smearing said women in the process. We live in an age where the private lives of politcians are public knowledege - and manipulated ruthlessly by their enemies.

Shortshriftandlethal · 22/07/2024 19:39

GrumpyPanda · 22/07/2024 19:35

Not the same situation at all. While the Tories may have been shit on so many levels they've never been a threat to democracy itself. And unfortunately that's what is at stake in America right now - not as a matter of hyperbole, but as a matter of fact.

Can you explain why you think democracy itself is at stake? Do you think that the results of any election will be manipulated?

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 19:42

Grammarnut · 22/07/2024 17:37

Meghan Murphy (Feminist Current, based in Canada, strong advocate for women's sex-segregated spaces, sports etc. Canada is TWAW Central at the moment - I think only NZ is worse - and Vancouver council removed funding from Vancouver Rape Crisis Centre because they refused to employ a TiM as a counsellor some years back, it's also where a Women's Library was trashed by TRAs and eventually had to shut down). Murphy has a point here. Biden reversed Trump's removal of trans rights from Title IX, allowing gender to trump (sorry!) sex including in what the US calls 'public bathrooms'. The Democrats have fully drunk the Kool-Aid, and are with the Lia Thomas's and the TRA allies.
Glad I don't have to vote for either, but Trump's platform looks fairly similar to Democrat platforms in the 90s, according to Spiked! online - which I find curious. At the very least he is not going to extend TWAW, but the Democrats most likely will. (Abortion is a state matter, not Federal.)

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I have heard many reports that Canada is on the turn, and its very likely Trudeau will head the way of Nicola Sturgeon.
The next election is October next year.

Fingers crossed he is kicked out and the next government will deal with it.

As an amusing aside re Trudeau, do you remember all the scandals around his parents?
It always amazed me they voted him in because the Trudeau family scandals was Canadas claim to fame for many years. He was an anomly among leaders at the time seen as a superficial playboy and a security risk.
The DM mentions a few of them here.
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13623909/justin-trudeau-mick-jagger-mother-margaret-rolling-stones-canada.html

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/07/2024 19:49

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 18:42

Under a supreme Court that trump/GOP stuffed full of anti-abortion judges.

It really is something to make put this was a Biden thing, just cos you hate "the left".

This was a trump thing. The man is horrific.

I mean - really? In stating the fact (obviously a very uncomfortable one for you) that abortion rights were lost under a Democrat president in any way insinuate that I 'hate the left'? Not that the Democrat party resembles what we in the UK understand to be the left. Or did you quote the wrong person? I sometimes think certain posters have a whole argument inside their own heads which bears no relation to what others actually say. But it is definitely worth pointing out that the Democrats, in all the years they were in power, never bothered to protect women's rights to safe abortion access.

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Yet despite that, on this topic she is right, not just in America but the impact globally.It will embolden other countries.
Better to turn the situation by court cases under the Dems, and thats happening slowly and surely.
If anyone thinks Trump can be trusted or wont wreck vengeance on womens rights hasnt been observing him or his character.
He has been bested by two women in court, he hates us.