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JKR calls Labour's Bluff - Offering Meeting leadership only on her terms

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fromorbit · 24/06/2024 20:44

JKR is playing at a different level. After Starmer and Reeves offered to meet with her she gave them her conditions.

I'll be happy to meet after NoXYinXXprisons, Lesbian Labour, Womens Rights Network, WomansPlaceUK and Alliance LGB have been given in person meetings with the Labour leadership. I'd also like to know whether Angela Rayner still considers the last two organisations hate groups.

They are trapped either they now have to meet with gay and women's groups and listen to them something they are desperate not to do. It is not impossible then that Reeves at least can be made to see some sense. Even talking with these groups and JKR will also make TRAs go ballistic and many will leave the party. Chances are that Labour will promise a bunch of stuff to JKR which If Labour still follow gender nonsense after that they can be fully held to account for. If they promise single sex spaces are safe then every time that is breached Labour's credibility will be on the line

Or if they refuse to meet with the groups they prove EVERYTHING JKR said in her essay was right.

The media are now hyping the meeting further locking Labour in

BRING IT ON
Keir Starmer insists he WILL meet with JK Rowling to thrash out trans and gender rights & ‘respects’ her views
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/28714134/keir-starmer-jk-rowling-trans/

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/article/2024/jun/24/labour-gender-transition-recognition-process-trans.

a woman in a blue dress stands in front of a sign that says rift

Keir insists he WILL meet with JK Rowling to thrash out trans and gender rights

KEIR Starmer has tonight insisted he will meet with JK Rowling to thrash out trans and gender rights – saying he “respects her views”. The Labour leader dropped the bombshell …

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/28714134/keir-starmer-jk-rowling-trans

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DrMcCleodsBloatedCorpus · 27/06/2024 18:39

AGlinnerOfHope · 27/06/2024 18:29

I know, a list of nice ladies, followed by what he’d do for childcare. Grrr.

O thing nice about it, but that’s what he was aiming for.

Some of my best friends are women. My daughters are women!

Child care and be kind decent women to look up to. What more do women need? Just wait till they come for your bank accounts and your shoes. That'll teach you to go about expecting rights.

UpThePankhurst · 27/06/2024 18:46

Those involved with childcare are apparently livid and keen to tell him where he can shove his plans of what he would do 'for' it.

Whatthechicken · 27/06/2024 21:52

AGlinnerOfHope · 27/06/2024 14:06

And, it's so annoying that the equality act means services can be single sex only if they want to be- but only if they want/can put up with hassle from trans identifying people who want to use the wrong spaces.

Women should have spaces available to them. We shouldn't have to rely on services choosing to offer them.

I work with Virago Women's Workshop in Leeds, they are a CIC, they receive no external funding, we are entirely volunteer driven. If 'Legal Women' comes to pass under Labour (which I no doubt think it will because of the GRC plans with no plans to update the EA to make it clear), we will be no more. We do not accept men into our space, that is the whole point of Virago - a space for women (and I will not quantify the word 'women' any further, because we shouldn't need to).

Waitwhat23 · 27/06/2024 22:05

UpThePankhurst · 27/06/2024 18:46

Those involved with childcare are apparently livid and keen to tell him where he can shove his plans of what he would do 'for' it.

If it's anything like the unmitigated disaster of the 1140 in Scotland which has brought the sector to it's knees, with chronic underfunding and with staff morale at an all time low, then it's going to be shit

Mycatsmudge · 27/06/2024 22:09

UpThePankhurst · 27/06/2024 17:42

Yes. The listing of his pet 'good girls' who all think and do as he says, like he thinks good women should, is not at all the optics he thinks it is.

His treatment of Rosie Duffield is far more illuminating. And he is stupid enough to think that voters won't notice.

A healthy party would have a range of views, AND a range of women with different views, all of whom were welcome in the party because diversity would actually be important to them. Not a case of 'women are welcome in the party so long as they revolve entirely around keeping men happy and not wanting anything inconvenient of their own' .

Yes ‘his pet 'good girls' have sacrifice the rights of other women so they can be in power. They will not be the ones who will suffer from the loss of single sex spaces and eroding of our hard won rights. I wish all women voters realise just how important this issue is without legally protected rights women will be relegated to second class citizens

Waitwhat23 · 27/06/2024 22:11

AGlinnerOfHope · 27/06/2024 14:06

And, it's so annoying that the equality act means services can be single sex only if they want to be- but only if they want/can put up with hassle from trans identifying people who want to use the wrong spaces.

Women should have spaces available to them. We shouldn't have to rely on services choosing to offer them.

Further complicated when funding, from Government in particular, is only available to those services which are 'inclusive' (I.e. those which do not offer single sex services) such is happening with rape crisis services in Scotland.

MaidOfAle · 27/06/2024 23:46

BezMills · 27/06/2024 11:03

yes, it's really interesting how often male-vs-female anatomy comes up and is important in sports, in matters not strictly related to athletic performance.

Saddles on bicycles is another one.

The whole of bicycle geometry has to be tweaked to cope with sex differences. Handlebar width, wheelbase, the lot.

duc748 · 28/06/2024 00:26

MaidOfAle · 27/06/2024 23:46

The whole of bicycle geometry has to be tweaked to cope with sex differences. Handlebar width, wheelbase, the lot.

Presumably that's been done, though? At least at elite level. Pro cycling teams surely have plenty of dosh to sort that. Whether that filters down to the bikes you buy in Halfords, I dunno. I suppose it's much the same with footballer's boots.

UtopiaPlanitia · 28/06/2024 02:32

Found a short video from Sex Matters that addresses a frequently asked question here and on Twitter - why do politicians always pivot to talking about trans rights when asked about women's rights...

Why can't politicians talk about women's rights?

Ask about women, or single-sex services, and you may get the answer “I support trans rights”...Why can't we talk about women's rights?Find out why the questi...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4nPVuERHHc

Mycatsmudge · 28/06/2024 06:08

Having watched Keir Starmer’s uncomfortable squirming as he tries to answer the question ‘what is a woman?’ I have come to the following conclusions:

  1. He really believes a man can biologically become a woman
  2. He is beholden to the far left in Labour for whom this is part of the ideology
  3. He has skin in the game and may have a child who is trans and whom he is colluding an untruth with All of the above does make him unsuitable to develop national policies in this area
TeamKenwood · 28/06/2024 07:01

Justin Webb was roasting Carla Denyer
(Green) on the Cass review this morning. She said some recommendations were good but had concerns about others. Also did the ‘we must treat everyone with respect’ thing that they all revert to when asked about gender.

The Today programme has mentioned gender issues every day this week. I’m guessing that’ll end on 5th July!

Maddiescassox · 28/06/2024 07:35

TeamKenwood · 28/06/2024 07:01

Justin Webb was roasting Carla Denyer
(Green) on the Cass review this morning. She said some recommendations were good but had concerns about others. Also did the ‘we must treat everyone with respect’ thing that they all revert to when asked about gender.

The Today programme has mentioned gender issues every day this week. I’m guessing that’ll end on 5th July!

We must treat everyone with respect? Does Carla think that includes the ciswomen/cervix owners etc? Must they be respected whilst simultaneously having their words and rights removed. If the greens can square that circle solving the climate crisis should be a doddle!

ArabellaScott · 28/06/2024 07:36

Maddiescassox · 28/06/2024 07:35

We must treat everyone with respect? Does Carla think that includes the ciswomen/cervix owners etc? Must they be respected whilst simultaneously having their words and rights removed. If the greens can square that circle solving the climate crisis should be a doddle!

Is that why the Greens have just done another purge of women who aren't acceptably compliant?

TeamKenwood · 28/06/2024 07:43

The thing about calling for respectful debate is it implies that those of us who’ve been talking about gender ideology for almost a decade now have been acting in an unacceptable manner.

It’s a sneaky both sides dig.

Maddiescassox · 28/06/2024 07:44

ArabellaScott · 28/06/2024 07:36

Is that why the Greens have just done another purge of women who aren't acceptably compliant?

Yes! That's exactly the kind of "respect" I was talking about!

Boudiccaofsteel · 28/06/2024 09:00

How can Labour or the Lib Dem's/SNP etc hope to improve public services when, in a very short space of time, public bodies are going to face a huge raft of litigation from those affected. There are potential employment discrimination actions against NHS and government employers such as the changing room nurses, negligence actions against schools, universities etc by girls raped or assaulted in mixed sex school toilets or injured in school sports. Women raped or sexually assaulted in prison .All of this harm is reasonably foreseeable. There is no point increasin public spending if huge sums are going to be paid out for litigation . Not just the huge damages awards for damages sterilised children needing a lifetime of care but the costs of litigation, the loss of staff and management time to litigation. This is bigger than Thalidomide, bigger than infected blood as it does not just involve product liability or clinical negligence claims but employers' liability, liability for the care of prisoners and discrimination as well

Why can't the journalists ask the questions of starmer .. how will you pay the legal bill out of public money for all this ?

UpThePankhurst · 28/06/2024 09:39

TeamKenwood · 28/06/2024 07:01

Justin Webb was roasting Carla Denyer
(Green) on the Cass review this morning. She said some recommendations were good but had concerns about others. Also did the ‘we must treat everyone with respect’ thing that they all revert to when asked about gender.

The Today programme has mentioned gender issues every day this week. I’m guessing that’ll end on 5th July!

What respect? What exactly are they tucking inside that ruddy buzz word?

Are people in balaclavas screaming at women being respectful?
Is the social media sewage about raping and killing women who want their own sex class, words, language, beliefs and spaces being respectful?

Or do they mean that women, speaking on this subject, should be deferential and submissive to the wishes of any male claiming a TQ+ identity?

Is 'respect' (submission, subserviance, deference, co operation with coercive control') something a male commands from women purely due to his TQ+ claimed label?

How 'respectful' is it to require women to accept their language, beliefs and ability to voice the impact upon them of these males to be strictly limited to what the male perceives as acceptable?

How 'respectful' is it to continually be demonstrating that a born male is a much more important and prioritised human over one born female? While lying that binary sex isn't a thing and no one knows what it is?

DrMcCleodsBloatedCorpus · 28/06/2024 09:44

UpThePankhurst · 28/06/2024 09:39

What respect? What exactly are they tucking inside that ruddy buzz word?

Are people in balaclavas screaming at women being respectful?
Is the social media sewage about raping and killing women who want their own sex class, words, language, beliefs and spaces being respectful?

Or do they mean that women, speaking on this subject, should be deferential and submissive to the wishes of any male claiming a TQ+ identity?

Is 'respect' (submission, subserviance, deference, co operation with coercive control') something a male commands from women purely due to his TQ+ claimed label?

How 'respectful' is it to require women to accept their language, beliefs and ability to voice the impact upon them of these males to be strictly limited to what the male perceives as acceptable?

How 'respectful' is it to continually be demonstrating that a born male is a much more important and prioritised human over one born female? While lying that binary sex isn't a thing and no one knows what it is?

All good points, but TrAnS aRe thE MOSTY MoST MaRgInAliZZZZed!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:57

Relevant current thread by Jane who has just asked KS about women on 5 Live

I'm m asking kier a question about women's rights on 5 live how to phrase it? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/feminism/5107115-im-m-asking-kier-a-question-about-womens-rights-on-5-live-how-to-phrase-it

Valdor · 28/06/2024 10:01

a 30m interview between Starmer and JKR is what we need to be honest, not those other (valid, worthwhile) groups - because JKR will get the clicks and attention and she'd clean up

UpThePankhurst · 28/06/2024 10:04

All good points, but TrAnS aRe thE MOSTY MoST MaRgInAliZZZZed!

Yes. I want someone like Starmer to explain to me, is pity respect then?

Do I owe a man my submission and unconditional enablement the minute he says some magic words?

Because that really won't be happening.

DameMaud · 28/06/2024 10:43

I'm wondering what it would be like for someone to go a bit lateral on this, and ask KS or other politicians:
"Can you explain the reason why this debate only seems to concern women's and trans rights being in conflict? Why do you think it would be that men aren't expressing any concerns about impacts on them or threats to their rights?"

BezMills · 28/06/2024 10:55

I think part of the answer there, is based in the asymmetry of power between men and women. Men know that if a female comes into their space they can just tell her to jog on or if they have to, shove her out by force, and that she is not a physical threat at all. It's not a thing they worry about.

Men do deserve dignity, privacy provided by single-sex spaces just as much as women, it's just that they aren't worried at all that women will take that away. It's not remotely going to happen.

DameMaud · 28/06/2024 10:59

Yes. That's why it would be a good question to ask I think.
I know a turning point for my DH is when I simply asked him to explain to me his understanding of why we have sex segregated spaces in the first place.
I think sometimes, asking questions that lead people to conclusions themselves can be helpful

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 11:07

BezMills · 28/06/2024 10:55

I think part of the answer there, is based in the asymmetry of power between men and women. Men know that if a female comes into their space they can just tell her to jog on or if they have to, shove her out by force, and that she is not a physical threat at all. It's not a thing they worry about.

Men do deserve dignity, privacy provided by single-sex spaces just as much as women, it's just that they aren't worried at all that women will take that away. It's not remotely going to happen.

Completely agree.