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Are you voting in the next general election purely on the transgender issue?

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TeacherAnonymous123 · 30/04/2024 12:54

Just as the title says really! Is that your only thought about who you'll vote for, or will you look at wider policies? Been getting lots of information through my letter box recently, and none mention it.

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Teddleshon · 01/05/2024 09:18

@Medschoolmum it’s simply the most important issue to me.

PhDinaseive · 01/05/2024 09:21

I'm only voting on one issue, womens Rights. If a politician can't speak the truth about sex, then they are a liar or a coward or been paid off.
So I'm voting Tory, I've spoken to my prospective conservative councillors and PCC and they both know that a woman is an adult human female and support single sex provision.
plus they attend local events and listen to the locals.
im voting Tory .

unintended101 · 01/05/2024 09:23

Yes, and I want them to know it.

BonfireLady · 01/05/2024 09:23

Runor · 01/05/2024 09:14

Probably. I think the Tories have done a much better job here than equivalent left-wing administrations eg Australia & Canada. In some states, if your child claims a trans identity you are legally bound to support that, including financing operations and drugs regimes. If you refuse to affirm, your child can be removed. I don’t trust that Labour (Lib dems/greens) wouldn’t go down this route, and my children are more important to me than anything else.

if Labour were to change direction on this, and do so in a way I could trust, then they would absolutely get my vote.

This echoes my sentiments.

Were it not for this issue, I would vote Lib Dems as normal (as I still prefer their policies over all). However, it's my own Tory MP that I'm voting for now, as well as the wider party, as per my comment above. I've found it a very strange experience to have a respect for an individual in public office whose overall politics don't align with my own.

EasternStandard · 01/05/2024 09:25

unintended101 · 01/05/2024 09:23

Yes, and I want them to know it.

Good idea, best way to influence

Abeona · 01/05/2024 09:25

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/05/2024 09:15

Traditional WC communities have had it to the back teeth of Tories. They're really feeling the impacts of the cuts, but more importantly the impact of their lies. Everyone in the country is feeling the impact of their lies.

Thats why the Tories are losing votes left (to Labour), right (to Reform) and centre (to the Lib dems).

How do you explain Labour in Wales? 25 unbroken years in government to improve things, but hospitals and education (both devolved to the Welsh government) going down the pan, industry disappearing, third and fourth generations in some areas who have never worked. And yet because of the tribal nature of Welsh politics most Labour voters will go on voting Labour.

I'm a member of the Labour Party and living in Wales but I'm appalled at the quality of Welsh Senedd politicians and the petty-minded small-nation style of thinking and debate. Every time things get worse they blame Westminster — and because they can blame Westminster, they don't have to take responsibility for their own failure.

Vaccances · 01/05/2024 09:27

RebelliousCow · 01/05/2024 08:51

As I suggested above, if Scotland turns away from the SNP and back to Labour the chances are Labour will win the next election. It will be difficult to achieve without Scotland.

Should Labour win there is going to a very big list of expectations and demands on every front: the NHS; fuel and food prices; inadequate public transport throughout the country; striking doctors, nurses and railway staff; depleted local council budgets; a mental health crisis; issues with illegal immigration and asylum seekers; relationships with the EU; war on the borders of Europe, in the Middle East; other pressing global issues.......as well as the ongoing issues around Gender ideology in our schools, in our institutions and workplaces.

It will be interesting to see what their manifesto priorities are.

Some good points.

Who has given us these issues? (obv not the war in Ukraine, Tory support for Ukraine has been one of the few good things the Govt has done)

The Tories have presided over them including messing up relations with the EU.

Polling shows Labour don't need the scottish vote, though to be representative, it would be better to have more Scottish Labour.

RebelliousCow · 01/05/2024 09:29

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/05/2024 09:15

Traditional WC communities have had it to the back teeth of Tories. They're really feeling the impacts of the cuts, but more importantly the impact of their lies. Everyone in the country is feeling the impact of their lies.

Thats why the Tories are losing votes left (to Labour), right (to Reform) and centre (to the Lib dems).

I live in one such City; and what I see is that many are actually turning to parties such. as 'Reform UK' or else to Socialist parties much more 'purist' than Labour. They see Labour as having sold out completely.

What I also noticed during lockdown was that a big contingency of what would normally have been working class Labour voters were being politicised by their opposition to lockdown and compulsory vaccinations etc. I still see these groups every week campaigning in my local park. They also want nothing to do with gender ideology. Some are removing their children from mainstream schooling too.

Also because we live in a Labour city there are few illusions left about the competency of the local Labour run council. It has been so bad that the government has had to come in and operate over-sight for the last three years.

So, everything is not as black and white as straightforward as is often made out. Demographics and patterns are shifting in unpredicatble ways - motivated by different types of issue.

Vaccances · 01/05/2024 09:34

Abeona · 01/05/2024 09:25

How do you explain Labour in Wales? 25 unbroken years in government to improve things, but hospitals and education (both devolved to the Welsh government) going down the pan, industry disappearing, third and fourth generations in some areas who have never worked. And yet because of the tribal nature of Welsh politics most Labour voters will go on voting Labour.

I'm a member of the Labour Party and living in Wales but I'm appalled at the quality of Welsh Senedd politicians and the petty-minded small-nation style of thinking and debate. Every time things get worse they blame Westminster — and because they can blame Westminster, they don't have to take responsibility for their own failure.

A member of Welsh Labour but slagging them off?

Health maybe devolved but funding isn't, Wales like any part of the UK is very much affected by decisions made in Westminster.

e.g the numbers of teachers and medics able to train, migration, borders, central govt funding of councils, overall taxation, they only get a certain amount and from what i ve read (and my sister who lives there) the NHS is equal to the mess that is in England.

Wales isn't a separate country & the welsh electorate are obviously happy or are you saying they are a bunch of idiots?

RebelliousCow · 01/05/2024 09:34

Vaccances · 01/05/2024 09:27

Some good points.

Who has given us these issues? (obv not the war in Ukraine, Tory support for Ukraine has been one of the few good things the Govt has done)

The Tories have presided over them including messing up relations with the EU.

Polling shows Labour don't need the scottish vote, though to be representative, it would be better to have more Scottish Labour.

The situation in the EU is not all rosy by any stretch of the imagination. Germany is actually in its own crisis - having been the bellwether for social stability for a long time. What seems to be happening is that each individual nation state is retreating much more into its own internal issues and the characteristics which define each country are coming more to the fore.

Immigration and asylum is a major issue right across Europe, as is the cost of living. Germany has issues with a series of unstable coalitions which have come about because of PR -and Angela Merkel tied her country to closely to dependence on Russia for oil and gas. Farmers are in revolt in many countries over issues around climate targets and so on.

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/05/2024 09:42

Abeona · 01/05/2024 09:25

How do you explain Labour in Wales? 25 unbroken years in government to improve things, but hospitals and education (both devolved to the Welsh government) going down the pan, industry disappearing, third and fourth generations in some areas who have never worked. And yet because of the tribal nature of Welsh politics most Labour voters will go on voting Labour.

I'm a member of the Labour Party and living in Wales but I'm appalled at the quality of Welsh Senedd politicians and the petty-minded small-nation style of thinking and debate. Every time things get worse they blame Westminster — and because they can blame Westminster, they don't have to take responsibility for their own failure.

The Tories wrecked the economy of the whole UK including the devolved nations.

User135644 · 01/05/2024 09:47

It's got to be Tory hasn't it.

User135644 · 01/05/2024 09:51

Polishedshoesalways · 01/05/2024 05:34

Mass civil war and the real rise of the dreaded far right is now virtually guaranteed if Labour get in, will that be good for the women and children in the U.K.?

If Labour get in, I have information from impeccable sources that tell me they fully intend to immediately reverse brexit. Without a referendum. Can you just imagine what is going to happen then?

Starmer could not care less about you or me, it seems he most definitely has an agenda he has agreed to deliver and he is happily going to throw us under the bus, and the peace and stability of our country to get there. He literally has his fingers in his ears.

Starmer conned the Labour membership with his 6 pledges to get the leadership, which he immediately reversed when he became leader and basically did the opposite.

He's capable of anything.

TheFairyCaravan · 01/05/2024 09:52

No.

I care about what the Tories are doing to the poor, sick, old, vulnerable and disabled. No one, least of all the disabled, should be given vouchers instead of money. I care that none of us will be able to be seen in a hospital very soon. There’s no point having rights for children when so many of them are living oon poverty and we won’t have enough teachers to give them an education. And don’t get me started on the Rwanda bill.

The Tories got us into this mess and now have their backs against the wall. They don’t care about women, they’re just trying to win votes.

Womblingmerrily · 01/05/2024 09:54

I'm finding it difficult to decide. I think I will look at the candidates available in my area and their voting records if applicable.

I think gender ideology is a much bigger issue than people think it is. I think as well as it being damaging to women's rights, it is also anti-scientific and promotes belief/lived experience as being of equal worth to scientific proof. I think this is very worrying - I do not want to live in a country where belief is supreme.

In addition to this I think it shows the rising power of corporates (in this case pharmaceuticals/cosmetic surgery industry) to lobby weak political parties to make themselves money.

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 09:55

Fukuraptor · 01/05/2024 03:42

It's not just a little issue though is it?

It's the freedom to say 2+2=4

It's wanting politicians we can trust to have the courage to go against the zeitgeist and to at least listen to the minority report of whistle blowers.

Who are grounded in reality and in touch with enough ordinary people that when faced with the Westminster/Media/Academic bubble thinking, they have an internal or external functional bullshit detector. And the political skill and courage to act upon it.

You cannot silo off this issue into a side bar for folk who are only interested in it.

Trust doesn't work like that.

Fundamentally politicians from all parties (in differing ratios) have shown themselves to be liars, bullies, cowards and idiots over this. That's not something we can unsee.

It effects everything else they claim to believe, every policy promise they make. Also, the older I get the more I have observed that governments are rarely defined by what they WANT to do when they get power, but by how they respond to world events that happen WHiLE they are in power (9/11, Iraq, Global Financial Collapse, okay, Cameron created his own - Brexit, COVID). So what you need is leadership you can trust to make the right calls when the pressure is on, on issues they didn't pick. What do you do when whistleblowers are telling you there is a huge medical scandal going on, or that the post office is bullying it's postmasters through the legal system, etc? Are you going make the right call?

Jocko Willink (ex navy seal) was asked if he was in leadership in the us military and some situation came up like China attacking Taiwan, what would be the most important thing he would do? He said, to keep an open mind. Because as soon as you start thinking you know how it's going to go, what the enemy will do etc, you close down your ability to think flexibly, to see what's really happening, to take advantage of opportunities and see dangers.

A whole bunch of politicians didn't keep an open mind. They decided/maybe not even consciously that supporting TRA demands was the Right thing to do, and ignored all the voices explaining the negative consequences. You can't cut off or dismiss information like that as beneath your notice, it'll bite your arse.

Since Cass, I am slightly more hopeful that Labour won't be a complete disaster on this issue but I'm still concerned and would like more reassurance.

I'll be checking what my local candidates say/have said. I don't think. I can vote for an individual if they profess to believe TWAW.

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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Well said

Myalternate · 01/05/2024 09:56

Why not just discuss the reasons to vote for a particular party in a reasonable way rather than haranguing posters in such an aggressive and critical manner?

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:02

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 01/05/2024 05:26

My choices, as a US Citizen (I’m a Brit living in the US) are Biden or Trump.

And as mad as I am with Biden and the Title 9 debacle, not to mention the lovely Dylan M visiting the White House, I cannot, cannot vote for Trump.

But Biden will be receiving a strongly worded memo from me.

If you vote for him then you give him your approval and validate what he’s doing, I don’t think that your strongly worded memo will do anything at all if you would still give him your vote, because that’s all he cares about. It’s the same with Labour, the Lib Dem’s and the Greens here, all they care about is your vote and if you give it to them, even though you hate what their doing then it actually tells them that you will still vote for them no matter what they do. What you tolerate is what you will get, simple as, they will have no incentive to change, why would they?

Desecratedcoconut · 01/05/2024 10:02

Because it seems that engineering shame as a mechanism to frogmarch women into conformity is incredibly satisfying to some particular posters.

Vaccances · 01/05/2024 10:05

RebelliousCow · 01/05/2024 09:34

The situation in the EU is not all rosy by any stretch of the imagination. Germany is actually in its own crisis - having been the bellwether for social stability for a long time. What seems to be happening is that each individual nation state is retreating much more into its own internal issues and the characteristics which define each country are coming more to the fore.

Immigration and asylum is a major issue right across Europe, as is the cost of living. Germany has issues with a series of unstable coalitions which have come about because of PR -and Angela Merkel tied her country to closely to dependence on Russia for oil and gas. Farmers are in revolt in many countries over issues around climate targets and so on.

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Sorry but what has that got anything to do with the UK's relations with the EU?

Equivalence on qualifications/crime/trade/education all have been very badly handled by the Tories.

On the EU specifically, whilst they ve certainly got their own problems, they are dwarfed by the ones here in the UK, most of europe, esp Germany, start far ahead of the UK.

e.g Healthcare and in particular cancer rates and dental care, the UK has some of the most expensive and inaccessible healthcare anywhere in Europe.
I am, at this very moment, looking at going abroad for affordable dental treatment, many countries in EU have highly regulated and skilled private dental care, offering treatment at around half that in the UK.

EasternStandard · 01/05/2024 10:06

Desecratedcoconut · 01/05/2024 10:02

Because it seems that engineering shame as a mechanism to frogmarch women into conformity is incredibly satisfying to some particular posters.

The scold by on FWR

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:10

Vaccances · 01/05/2024 08:49

The Tories have around a 40 seat majority, so could change the GRA before the next election but have no plans to do so.
14 years? how long would it have to be before you'd actually blame the party in Govt???

Why haven't the Tories amended the GRA ?

They could change the rules around GRC's, instead they slashed the fees to £5 only and opened more clinics, its self ID by the back door, just 2 years living as a women and bingo! you ve got your GRC, 96% acceptance rate, the other 4% fail on admin issues.

Scotland will have the chance to vote out the SNP soon, who aren't the Labour party.

The Labour Party in Scotland have just voted down a motion by Labour Women to protect sex based rights. This is the first time Labour have voted down a motion like this, tells me everything I need to know about this shower of feckin gobshites 🤬

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:15

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:10

The Labour Party in Scotland have just voted down a motion by Labour Women to protect sex based rights. This is the first time Labour have voted down a motion like this, tells me everything I need to know about this shower of feckin gobshites 🤬

Oh and your argument doesn’t pass the reality test. The Tories in England commissioned the Cass report, have withdrawn puberty blockers, have insisted on single sex provision in health care and prisons, outlawed women being erased in official communications and guidelines and have insisted that the police stop recording non crime hate incidents. Better late than never I say.

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:23

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:15

Oh and your argument doesn’t pass the reality test. The Tories in England commissioned the Cass report, have withdrawn puberty blockers, have insisted on single sex provision in health care and prisons, outlawed women being erased in official communications and guidelines and have insisted that the police stop recording non crime hate incidents. Better late than never I say.

This was meant for @Vaccances

FlakyPoet · 01/05/2024 10:26

Dineasair · 01/05/2024 10:15

Oh and your argument doesn’t pass the reality test. The Tories in England commissioned the Cass report, have withdrawn puberty blockers, have insisted on single sex provision in health care and prisons, outlawed women being erased in official communications and guidelines and have insisted that the police stop recording non crime hate incidents. Better late than never I say.

Not to mention the intervention at the 11th hour to stop the Scottish govt bringing in self id.